The 8 Best Couples’ Strap-Ons, Whoever You’re Into

    Gail Hooper
    by Gail Hooper
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    best couples strap on in test
    We’re looking at 8 of the best strap-ons for couples. These products were chosen to give you a good variety of versatile straps ons that cover a range of styles and budgets.  
    • The couples’ strap ons were researched in-depth and we focused on finding good quality, great design, ease of use, and price.
    • It’s really important to find a harness that suits your needs and doesn’t distract from play. Also bear in mind how you want to use it as you’ll need to consider the sizes of the dildos if you buy a harness set.
    • We found that many of the couples’ strap ons were suitable for all genders, making them a truly versatile product.
    Most of the his and hers strap on kits listed are suitable for both vaginal and anal play.

    The Testing Process

    Here at Bedbible, we use a few different methods to collect research for our reviews. Our preferred method is hands-on testing! Unfortunately, it’s not always possible to personally test toys but if we’ve had the opportunity to do so then you can read about it by clicking the “Read full review” link. Aside from the hands-on approach, we also use available manufacturer information and customer feedback to analyze products. Utilizing information and opinions from multiple sources allows us to remain impartial, observing both the positives and the negatives of each toy without showing bias toward any particular item. The end result? A comprehensive, accurate, and all-inclusive collection of information designed to help you find the perfect product (all right in the palm of your hand!).

    The Testing Process

    Types of Strap Ons for Couples

    When you and your partner start looking for a strap on, it might be a bit overwhelming. After all, there are dozens of options! To help you decide which type(s) you should be looking for, please refer to this quick overview of each type below.

     

    • Beginner – Moderately sized and simple to use, these starter strap ons often come as complete kits & are designed to make your pegging journey get off on the right foot.
    • Large – For more experienced couples, large strap on toys offer a super-sized penetrative experience that’s rare to encounter with natural genitalia.
    • VibratingVibrating strap ons combine traditional strap ons with vibrations, often designed to provide pleasure to both partners simultaneously.
    • Strapless – Designed specifically to pleasure both partners at the same time, a strapless strap penetrates one partner while being held in place inside the vagina of the other.
    • Hollow – Unlike regular strap ons which are designed specifically for female users, a hollow strap on can be used by penis owners as well. These strap ons can be used with or without an erection, making them perfect for men who struggle with ED.
    • Double Penetration – Available for both male and female users, double penetration strap on toys allow you to penetrate your partner’s vagina and anus at the same time for twice the fun!

    FAQ

    What Is The Best Couples' Strap-On For Me?
    That depends on what you are looking for. Take a look at our section here on 'What You Need to Know About Strap-Ons' and you'll find some questions to consider.
    What Are Strap-Ons For Couples Made From?
    The materials do vary. Many are made from nylon as it's a durable and washable material. Some have velvet fronts for added comfort. Others are elasticated. If you buy a harness with a dildo then the dildo may be made of silicone or PVC.
    Can I Buy A Separate Harness For My Dildos?
    Yes, you can! It's also possible to buy separate harnesses and brief harnesses for your favourite dildos. Make sure that they can accommodate the width of your dildo before you buy. Have a look at 'Our Strap-On Harness Top Picks' for our favourites.
    Where Can I Buy A Couples' Strap-On From?
    There are a lot of places where you can buy a couples' strap-on from. Take a look through our round-up review and you'll find links to online shops that we like and trust.
    Why couples should try strap on sex?
    Just like “traditional” sex, strap on sex offers a way for two people to bond. However, the most appealing part of strap on sex is often role reversal, with the male partner being on the receiving end and the female partner doing the “pegging”. In addition to this aspect, pegging also allows the male partner to enjoy prostate stimulation.

    What Is A Couples' Strap-On?

    A couple’s strap-on is a dildo that can be worn by one person and used to penetrate another. They are held in place by using a suitable O-ring harness or harness briefs. Some strap-ons are strapless, these are held in place by one partner's kegel muscles. They can also be supported by using a harness. Couples' strap ons can be used by all genders for vaginal or anal penetrative play. In addition to single-dildo straps, there are also DP strap ons available. Depending on the design, double penetration is achieved using either two dildos or a dildo and the wearer’s penis.

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    The 8 Best couples strap ons in Test

    1 Test Winner

    Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

    Design: 90
    Ease of Use: 85
    Quality: 90
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The Tracey Cox Supersex strap-on pegging kit is a complete set that’s ideal to start off your pegging journey. It’s a 4 piece set that consists of one durable, adjustable harness, one bullet vibrator with 7 functions, two dildos – one smooth, one textured and a bonus 3 different sized O-rings. The harness is fully washable, fits sizes from 6-28. The smooth, petite dildo has a suction cup base and measures 4.5-inches of insertable length and 0.87-inches in diameter. The larger, tapered textured dildo has a 6-inch insertable length and a 1.5-inch diameter. They’re both beautifully curved to hit your p-spot and are made of silicone. The bullet vibrator has 7 different vibration functions and can fit into the base of the larger dildo for some exquisite vibration fun. It can also fit into a special pocket on the harness so that your partner can have some great stimulation of their own.

    Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit  test
    Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit  features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    Vibrations:
    Sound:

    Power:

    BuzzyRumbly
    You should buy the Tracey Cox Strap-On Pegging Kit if you...
    Want a complete pegging kit
    Love a choice of dildos
    Enjoy adding vibrations
    You should NOT buy the Tracey Cox Strap-On Pegging Kit if you...
    Have your favourite dildos already
    Prefer a strapless strap-on
    Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit  features
    Features
    Vibration modes7 
    Insertable lengthsmall dildo 4.5 inches
    Diametersmall dildo 0.87 inches
    Insertable lengthlarger dildo 6 inches
    Diameterlarger dildo 1.5 inches
    WaterproofSubmersible 
    MaterialsSilicone,  
    RechargeableNo 
    FlexibilityDildos - firm 
    AdjustableYes 
    Harness SizeUp to 65 inches
    Allergies Phthalate-Free 

    Pros

    For beginners and beyond
    Two great, silicone dildos
    Complete harness set

    Cons

    Bullet pocket not in the right place for some
    Straps may need cutting if you are slim
    Conclusion

    This Tracey Cox strap-on pegging kit is perfect for newcomers to pegging, or those with some more experience. The two different sized dildos give you the opportunity to work up to a larger size if you wanted to. They both also have suction cup bases so that you or your partner can have more hands-free fun out of the harness. If you have your own dildos then you can use them in this harness too. Lesbian couples could also have some fun with this harness kit as the dildos can also be used for vaginal and anal play. Some reviewers have found that the harness pocket for the vibrator isn’t in the right place for them, but that doesn’t spoil the fun. Overall, this set has a lot of great features for a really good price.

    2 Cheapest

    Love Rider Double Penetration Strap-On 5.5 Inch Dildo

    Design: 80
    Ease of Use: 80
    Quality: 75
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The Love Rider double penetration strap-on is a 5.5-inch dildo with a diameter of 1.19-inches. It’s made of soft plastic and is held in place by 2 rings. One ring goes around the penis, the other around the balls. It has a gently tapered head for easy insertion and has a textured shaft for more stimulation. This realistic looking dildo is gently curved and is firm, yet flexible.

    Love Rider Double Penetration Strap-On 5.5 Inch Dildo test
    Love Rider Double Penetration Strap-On 5.5 Inch Dildo features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Love Rider Double Penetration if you...
    Are a beginner to double-penetration
    Prefer a slim dildo
    Are on a budget
    You should NOT buy the Love Rider Double Penetration if you...
    Want a larger toy
    Don't like cock rings
    Have a larger girth
    Love Rider Double Penetration Strap-On 5.5 Inch Dildo features
    Features
    Length6 inches
    Insertable length5.5 inches
    Diameter1.19 inches
    WaterproofSubmersible 
    MaterialsSoft plastic 
    FlexibilityFlexible 
    AdjustableYes 
    AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 

    Pros

    Slim size
    Easy to use
    Good price

    Cons

    Rings might not fit all
    May not be large enough for some
    Not the best quality
    Conclusion

    The Love Rider double penetration strap-on is one of those toys that is fabulous if it works for you. Some reviewers have found that the rings are too tight and that the ring that goes around the balls isn’t suitable due to the placement and size. However, many reviewers found that it worked for them and the slim size of the dildo made it ideal for use for beginners to double penetration. Make sure that you add some lube while putting it on as this makes the rings slide on much easier. They also act as cock rings which could be helpful if you sometimes lose your erection or orgasm too quickly. The petite size of the dildo ensures much easier insertion – with lashings of lube of course! So if you want to try a budget-priced toy for twice the pleasure, then this couple’s strap-on for dp is worth a try.

    3 Beginner

    Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit

    Design: 90
    Ease of Use: 90
    Quality: 90
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The Lovehoney Double Up duel penetration strap-on kit is a fabulous couple’s strap-on kit. It contains one pair of briefs with two built-in O-rings (one for the receiver, one for the wearer), two dildos and one waterproof bullet vibrator with 2 vibrations speeds and 5 patterns. It’s a great way to receive some vibrating strap-on fun while giving it. The hot pink dildo is 5-inches of insertable length with a 0.95-inch diameter. The black, mini dildo measures 4-inches in insertable length with a 1.27-inch diameter. The briefs are really easy to set up with the dildos in place and simple to use.

    Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit test
    Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    Vibrations:
    Sound:

    Power:

    BuzzyRumbly
    You should buy the Lovehoney Double Up Strap-On Kit if you...
    Love giving and receiving penetration
    Are a beginner
    Enjoy a slim dildo
    Want a bullet vibe for your dildo
    You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Double Up Strap-On Kit if you...
    Prefer larger dildos
    Don't want to be penetrated while giving
    Want a harness to accommodate different sizes
    Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit features
    Features
    Vibration speeds2 
    Vibration patterns5 
    Insertable lengthPink dildo - 5 inches
    DiameterPink dildo - 0.95 inches
    Insertable lengthBlack dildo - 4 inches
    DiameterBlack dildo - 1.27 inches
    MaterialsSilicone 
    WaterproofSubmersible 
    AdjustableNo 
    AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 

    Pros

    Dual penetration fun
    Simple to use
    Perfect for beginners

    Cons

    Dildos may be too small
    Briefs cannot accommodate a larger dildo
    Brief sizes come up slightly small
    Conclusion

    This Lovehoney Double Up dual penetration strap-on kit is ideal if you want to try pegging or if you and your partner both enjoy receiving penetration at the same time. Both dildos are slim and petite, making them ideal for beginners or those who prefer smaller dildos. The briefs are a fabulous design but seem to be cut smaller to size, so you may need to size up for comfort. As the dildos sit inside and outside the briefs it’s best to put everything in place, including the vibrator if you want to use it, then pull them on. The briefs don’t have different sized O-rings, so they’re not suitable if you want to use larger dildos with them. Make sure that you use lashings of lube if you are using this kit for anal sex to enjoy the exquisite sensations of giving and receiving.

    4 Strapless

    Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo

    Design: 90
    Ease of Use: 90
    Quality: 95
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The Wet for Her Four vibrating double dildo is ideal for lesbian couples who enjoy penetrative sex. This dildo is shaped  like fingers and the 5-speed waterproof vibrator sends vibrations all the way through this flexible toy. The smaller, ‘thumb’ end measures 2.5-inches in length x 1.25-inches in diameter. The larger ‘fingers’ end measures 5-inches in length x 1.25-inches in diameter. It’s made of super-silky silicone and is fully waterproof. It’s very easy to change the vibrations settings and also straightforward to remove the bullet vibrator. It’s ideal for both vaginal and anal use. Although this can be used without a harness, for the ultimate in control and stability and to use it with different positions, it can be paired with an O-ring harness or briefs.

    Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo test
    Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    Vibrations:
    Sound:

    Power:

    BuzzyRumbly
    You should buy the Wet for Her Four if you...
    Want a strapless strap-on
    Prefer a smaller, slimmer dildo
    Enjoy vibrations
    Love non-realistic dildos
    You should NOT buy the Wet for Her Four if you...
    Prefer larger dildos
    Like the stability of a harness
    Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo features
    Features
    Vibration modes5 
    Insertable length'Thumb' - 2.5 inches
    Diameter'Thumb' - 1.25 inches
    Insertable length'Fingers' - 5 inches
    Diameter'Fingers' - 1.25 inches
    MaterialsSilicone 
    WaterproofSubmersible 
    RechargeableYes 
    FlexibilityFlexible 
    AdjustableNo 
    AllergiesPhthalate-Free 

    Pros

    Great strap-free intimacy
    It's fully waterproof
    It's suitable for vaginal or anal play
    It's slim sized

    Cons

    It may not be large enough for some
    May need a harness for better stablility
    Conclusion

    The Wet for Her Four vibrating double dildo is a versatile dildo that makes close, intimate pleasure more accessible. This dildo is ideal for both lesbian couples who enjoy vaginal and/or anal penetrations and heterosexual couples who enjoy pegging. It’s a smaller, slimmer strapless strap-on so it’s an ideal size for beginners. However, it may take a little getting used to as it won’t be as stable as a dildo in a harness. If this is an issue then it’s possible to use it with a harness or harness briefs with an open O-ring. The bullet vibrator can also be used in other toys or a harness too. It’s a great idea and it allows couples to be physically closer without harness straps getting in the way.

    5 Hollow

    Doc Johnson Be Ready Hollow Strap-On Kit

    Design: 95
    Ease of Use: 90
    Quality: 90
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The Doc Johnson silicone hollow strap-on kit is a 4-piece set that consists of 3 hollow dildos and an elastic and silicone harness. The dildos are of different shapes, sizes and textures, giving you a great variety to play with. The smallest dildo measures 7-inches x 1.75-inches in diameter. The medium dildo is 7.5 x 1.75 inches in diameter, the largest is 8-inches x 2-inches in diameter. The silicone is silky-soft and the set is fully waterproof. The harness itself has a wide elastic waistband that will fit waists from 28-48-inches. The dildos themselves are firm but flexible and stiff enough to be used for pegging or any other penetrative play.

    Doc Johnson Be Ready Hollow Strap-On Kit  test
    Doc Johnson Be Ready Hollow Strap-On Kit  features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Doc Johnson Be Ready if you...
    Love penetrative sex with larger dildos
    Want a selection of hollow dildos
    Prefer simple harnesses
    Experience erectile dysfunction
    You should NOT buy the Doc Johnson Be Ready if you...
    Are a beginner
    Prefer slimmer dildos
    Would like an adjustable, firmer harness
    Doc Johnson Be Ready Hollow Strap-On Kit  features
    Features
    Insertable lengthSmall - 7 inches
    DiameterSmall - 1.75 inches
    Insertable lengthMedium - 7.5 inches
    DiameterMedium - 1.75 inches
    Insertable lengthLarge - 8 inches
    DiameterLarge - 2 inches
    MaterialsSilicone 
    WaterproofSubmersible 
    FlexibilityFirm, but flexible 
    AdjustableElasticated 
    AllergiesPhthalate-Free 

    Pros

    3 different sized hollow dildos
    Comfortable and stretchy harness
    Suitable for all genders
    Can be used for double-penetration

    Cons

    Size makes it more for experienced people
    Smaller sizes may be better for use with flaccid penis
    Conclusion

    Doc Johnson’s Be Ready silicone hollow strap-on kit is a versatile collection that’s suitable for any gender. The hollow dildos allow those who experience erectile dysfunction to experience penetrative sex with their partners. They’re great as penis extenders too. The dildos are also firm enough to be used for penetrative play on their own- both vaginal and anal. They’re ideal for same-sex and heterosexual couples. With a little adjustment, it’s also possible to use the harness and dildos for double penetration as there is a space below where the dildo is seated. As the dildos begin at 7-inches in length and 1.75-inches in diameter, they’re more suited to those experienced in penetrative sex. However you are playing, make sure that you use plenty of lovely slippery lube to fully enjoy the different shapes and textures of these fabulous silicone dildos.

    6

    Sportsheets Menage A Trois Double Strap On

    Design: 85
    Ease of Use: 90
    Quality: 85
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    Sportsheets Menage A Trois couple’s strap on is a lightweight harness that comes with its own slim dildo. The dildo is 5.75-inches long x 1.25-inches in diameter. The dildo is held in place with a metal ring that is 1.5-inches in diameter.  Beneath the dildo is a larger ring that serves as a penis ring. This is 1.75-inches in diameter. The harness is a thong style and the straps are slim enough not to interfere with your playtime. It’s a simple design that works well and looks amazing.

    Sportsheets Menage A Trois Double Strap On test
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Sportsheets Menage A Trois if you...
    Want a harness and dildo for double penetration
    Would like to try pegging
    Prefer a thong style strap-on
    Like cock rings
    You should NOT buy the Sportsheets Menage A Trois if you...
    Prefer a sturdier harness
    Want a larger dildo
    Prefer a firmer dildo
    Features
    Insertable length5.75 inches
    Diameter1.25 inches
    MaterialsSilicone 
    WaterproofSubmersible 
    Flexibilityflexible 
    AdjustableYes 
    Harness SizeAdjustable up to 60 inch hips inches
    AllergiesPhthalate-Free 

    Pros

    The harness is simple and lightweight
    The dildo is silicone
    It is a thong style harness

    Cons

    Straps are thin and can dig in
    Rings may be uncomfortable for the wearer
    No padding on the front of the harness
    Conclusion

    Sportsheets Menage A Trois couple’s strap on is suitable for all genders. The rings on the harness can accommodate either a penis and a dildo or one or two dildos. It’s suitable for double or single penetration and the dildo is suitable for vaginal or anal use. Some reviewers have said that the straps on the harness are thin and can dig into the wearer’s body, the rings may also dig in if the harness is on too tight. This couple’s strap-on harness is a simple design that maximizes body contact while still giving you the control that you need for dp. It’s designed for even penetration and the rings can be changed over too. If you’ve always wanted to try double penetration then this easily adjusted harness could be what you’re looking for.

    7

    Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit

    Design: 90
    Ease of Use: 90
    Quality: 95
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The Tantus Bend Over Intermediate strap-on harness kit is designed for those who like to wear a comfortable harness and who want two fantastic dildos to play with. This kit also comes with a single-speed battery operated bullet vibrator. The dildos are from the Tantus ‘Silk’ range. They’re both super soft and silky silicone and are gently curved to press against your g or p spot to perfection. The smaller dildo is 5.5-inches long with a diameter of 1.25-inches. The larger one is 7-inches in length and 1.5-inches in diameter. The harness itself is fully washable and is adjustable from 15-inches up to 60-inches hip size. It has a soft pad at the front for your comfort and it also has a pocket for the bullet vibrator to give the wearer some extra thrills. The harness is a jock-strap style that leaves the wearer nicely exposed for even more stimulation.

    Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit  test
    Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit  features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    Vibrations:
    Sound:

    Power:

    BuzzyRumbly
    You should buy the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate if you...
    Want an intermediate pegging/strap-on kit
    Want different sized dildos to try
    Want a versatile harness
    You should NOT buy the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate if you...
    Need beginner-sized dildos
    Prefer a sexier harness
    Want a really good bullet vibe
    Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit  features
    Features
    Insertable lengthSmaller - 5.5 inches
    DiameterSmaller - 1.25 inches
    Insertable lengthLarger - 7 inches
    DiameterLarger - 1.5 inches
    MaterialsDildos - silicone, harness - velvet and nylon 
    WaterproofSubmersible 
    FlexibilityFlexible 
    AdjustableYes 
    Harness Size15-60  inches
    AllergiesPhthalate-Free 

    Pros

    It's a comfortable and solid harness
    It comes with 2 high quality dildos
    It's fully adjustable

    Cons

    The vibrator doesn't sit comfortably in the pocket
    It's not a particularly sexy harness
    Conclusion

    The Tantus Bend Over Intermediate couples strap-on harness kit is durable and easy to use. It’s fully washable and ideal for those who want to step up their penetrative play. It’s suitable for lesbian couples who want to enjoy vaginal or anal play or for different-sex couples who’d like to step up their pegging exploration. The dildos are beautifully smooth and when you add some water-based lube will take your sexual exploration to dizzying new heights. They’re also curved for extra pleasure. The vibrator is a nice add-on, but it sounds like it doesn’t add that much to the sensations felt. Overall, it’s a great intermediate kit that’s certainly going to last you well over time.

    8

    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On

    Design: 85
    Ease of Use: 85
    Quality: 80
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    Lovehoney’s Perfect Partner vibrating couple’s strap-on has in-built vibrations that have 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns to excite and delight you. The dildo itself measures a good 6-inches of insertable length with a diameter of 1.9-inches. It’s not for beginners. The harness is a wide band of elastic that fits around the wearer’s hips and it has thinner straps that go between your legs and over your butt. They fasten with snaps and are not adjustable. There’s a loop in the waistband to hold to easy to use remote control. The dildo is made of PVC and is textured and curved for even more stimulation.

    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On  test
    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On  features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    Vibrations:
    Sound:

    Power:

    BuzzyRumbly
    You should buy the Lovehoney Perfect Partner Strap-On if you...
    Want a vibrating strap-on dildo
    Enjoy a good-sized dildo
    Already have some penetration experience
    You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Perfect Partner Strap-On if you...
    Are a beginner
    Don't want a wired remote control
    Have larger than 40-inch hips
    Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On  features
    Features
    Vibration speeds3 
    Vibration patterns7 
    Length6.5 inches
    Insertable length6 inches
    Diameter1.9 inches
    MaterialsPVC 
    WaterproofDildo - splashproof, remote - not waterproof 
    FlexibilityFirm, but flexible 
    AdjustableElasticated 
    RechargeableNo 
    Harness Sizeup to 40 inches
    AllergiesPhthalate-Free 

    Pros

    It's a simple to put on and simple to use
    It's a girthy dildo
    The vibrations are felt thoughout it
    The dildo is curved for g and p spot pleasure

    Cons

    The vibrating mechanism can break easily
    It's a non-adjustable harness
    The straps can chafe
    The dildo is PVC
    Conclusion

    Lovehoney Perfect Partner 10 function vibrating strap-on is a great couple’s strap-on for the more experienced players. The dildo is quite girthy and if you’re trying pegging or penetrative play for the first time then you may need to work up to this size. You’ll also need to use quite a bit of lube with it as the material seems to need a lot of it. The harness itself is quite basic and it can’t be used with any other dildo, but it certainly does the job. Some reviewers have commented that the vibrating function has either stopped working, or didn’t work in the first place, so this is something to bear in mind. For the price, it is a great intermediate-sized dildo and harness that’s going to give you a fantastically full-feeling wherever you use it!

    Our Strap-On Harness Top Picks

    If you already own dildos that you love then you might be on the lookout for a harness to accommodate them. Here are 3 of our favourite harnesses.

    Get Comfy with Your Strap-On

    One of the problems that some couple’s strap-ons have is that they don’t have any padding at the front to stop the base of the dildo from digging in. This can cause discomfort, which is the last thing that you want to feel! Luckily there is now The Bumpher!

    What You Need to Know About Strap-Ons

    There are a lot of different strap-ons available. It’s really important to consider a few basics before choosing what kind of strap on that you’d like. 

    The Basics

    The Basics

    The Basics

    One size does not suit all.

    When you’re choosing a couples’ strap on you need to consider a few things.

    • Is the strap on for you or your partner?
    • What will the strap on be used for? Vaginal play, anal or double penetration?
    • What size dildo do you have or would you like?
    • Are you beginners or more experienced?
    • What is your (or your partners’) hip size?
    • Do you want a harness that can accommodate different sized dildos?
    • Do you want a harness set, or a harness on its own?
    • What is your budget?

    Straps, Strapless or Briefs?

    Straps, Strapless or Briefs?

    Straps, Strapless or Briefs?

    Think about the style of the harness that you’d like.

    • Straps – fully adjustable, may be more complicated to set up.
    • Strapless – Good for getting close to your lover, it may be difficult to control the dildo in different positions.
    • Briefs – super easy to use, you may not like feeling ‘closed-in’.

    You can always use a strapless strap-on dildo with an O-ring harness or briefs for more stability and control.

    Lube

    Lube

    Lube

    It’s really important to use lube when you have a strap-on toy.

    There are specially formulated water-based anal lubricants and there are general water-based lubricants for vaginal use.

    Lube stops delicate skin from becoming sore and tender.

    It also enhances sensations.

    When you choose your strap-on, make sure you choose a lube that’s compatible with your dildo.

    How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On

    From beginner to more experienced, there’s something for everyone. Here are some ideas of how to use your couples strap on for lots of luscious fun!

     How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On

    Before Play

    Before Play
    • Check out your harness!
    • Try it on for size and adjust it to fit with the dildo in.
    • Make sure it’s comfortable and stable.
    • Give it a swirl around!

    Lube It Up!

     How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On

    Remember that lube makes everything better!

    • If you have a silicone dildo then you’ll need to use a water-based lube.
    • If you’re having some pegging or anal play then you can buy thicker water-based lube specifically for anal play.
     How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On
     How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On

    Take It Easy

    Take It Easy

    If you haven’t tried stap-on play before then take it slowly.

    • You don’t want to go in hard and fast as it could hurt your partner.
    • Ease in gently, communicate with your partner and figure out the best moves between you.
    • Choose some easy positions to begin with – gentle doggy style or missionary.

    Enjoy!

     How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On

    Strap-ons are a lot of fun for couples of any gender.

    • You can take it in turns to wear it.
    • Use the dildo out of the harness.
    • Experiment with power-play and role-play.

     

     How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On
     How To Use A Couple’s Strap-On

    Afterwards

    Afterwards

    Afterwards, have a good cuddle and talk about what you did, and didn’t enjoy about your new toy.

    • Talk about what you’d like to try next with it.
    • Remember to clean your strap-on after use so that it’s ready for play next time.

    How To Clean Your Couples' Strap-On

    It's really important to clean your sex toys after you've used them. Bacteria can multiply and potentially cause infections and no one wants that. Luckily couples' strap ons are really easy to clean. Check the washing instructions for your harness. Most can be machine washed, but if it isn't possible to pop it in the washing machine, then hand wash it carefully or clean it with a cloth and gentle soap. If your dildo is waterproof then you can wash it in a bowl of hot water and soap. Make sure that you clean in all of the nooks and crannies and rinse all soap residue off it. Dry with a lint free cloth and store it in its storage bag or box. If your dildo is not waterproof then you can wipe it down with a soapy cloth. Again, make sure that your clean all of the ridges and textured parts. Wipe off all soap and dry it carefully before storing.

    Porous
    materials

    Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

    Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

    Non-propous
    materials

    Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

    Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

    The toys with electrical
    components

    If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

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