The 8 Best Couples’ Strap-Ons, Whoever You’re Into
- The couples’ strap ons were researched in-depth and we focused on finding good quality, great design, ease of use, and price.
- It’s really important to find a harness that suits your needs and doesn’t distract from play. Also bear in mind how you want to use it as you’ll need to consider the sizes of the dildos if you buy a harness set.
- We found that many of the couples’ strap ons were suitable for all genders, making them a truly versatile product.
The Testing Process
Here at Bedbible, we use a few different methods to collect research for our reviews. Our preferred method is hands-on testing! Unfortunately, it’s not always possible to personally test toys but if we’ve had the opportunity to do so then you can read about it by clicking the “Read full review” link. Aside from the hands-on approach, we also use available manufacturer information and customer feedback to analyze products. Utilizing information and opinions from multiple sources allows us to remain impartial, observing both the positives and the negatives of each toy without showing bias toward any particular item. The end result? A comprehensive, accurate, and all-inclusive collection of information designed to help you find the perfect product (all right in the palm of your hand!).
Types of Strap Ons for Couples
When you and your partner start looking for a strap on, it might be a bit overwhelming. After all, there are dozens of options! To help you decide which type(s) you should be looking for, please refer to this quick overview of each type below.
- Beginner – Moderately sized and simple to use, these starter strap ons often come as complete kits & are designed to make your pegging journey get off on the right foot.
- Large – For more experienced couples, large strap on toys offer a super-sized penetrative experience that’s rare to encounter with natural genitalia.
- Vibrating – Vibrating strap ons combine traditional strap ons with vibrations, often designed to provide pleasure to both partners simultaneously.
- Strapless – Designed specifically to pleasure both partners at the same time, a strapless strap penetrates one partner while being held in place inside the vagina of the other.
- Hollow – Unlike regular strap ons which are designed specifically for female users, a hollow strap on can be used by penis owners as well. These strap ons can be used with or without an erection, making them perfect for men who struggle with ED.
- Double Penetration – Available for both male and female users, double penetration strap on toys allow you to penetrate your partner’s vagina and anus at the same time for twice the fun!
FAQ
What Is A Couples' Strap-On?
A couple’s strap-on is a dildo that can be worn by one person and used to penetrate another. They are held in place by using a suitable O-ring harness or harness briefs. Some strap-ons are strapless, these are held in place by one partner's kegel muscles. They can also be supported by using a harness. Couples' strap ons can be used by all genders for vaginal or anal penetrative play. In addition to single-dildo straps, there are also DP strap ons available. Depending on the design, double penetration is achieved using either two dildos or a dildo and the wearer’s penis.
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The 8 Best couples strap ons in Test
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit
The Tracey Cox Supersex strap-on pegging kit is a complete set that’s ideal to start off your pegging journey. It’s a 4 piece set that consists of one durable, adjustable harness, one bullet vibrator with 7 functions, two dildos – one smooth, one textured and a bonus 3 different sized O-rings. The harness is fully washable, fits sizes from 6-28. The smooth, petite dildo has a suction cup base and measures 4.5-inches of insertable length and 0.87-inches in diameter. The larger, tapered textured dildo has a 6-inch insertable length and a 1.5-inch diameter. They’re both beautifully curved to hit your p-spot and are made of silicone. The bullet vibrator has 7 different vibration functions and can fit into the base of the larger dildo for some exquisite vibration fun. It can also fit into a special pocket on the harness so that your partner can have some great stimulation of their own.
The Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit felt to the reviewer.
Want a complete pegging kitLove a choice of dildosEnjoy adding vibrations
Have your favourite dildos alreadyPrefer a strapless strap-on| Vibration modes | 7 |
| Insertable length | small dildo 4.5 inches |
| Diameter | small dildo 0.87 inches |
| Insertable length | larger dildo 6 inches |
| Diameter | larger dildo 1.5 inches |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Materials | Silicone, |
| Rechargeable | No |
| Flexibility | Dildos - firm |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Harness Size | Up to 65 inches |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
For beginners and beyondTwo great, silicone dildosComplete harness set
Bullet pocket not in the right place for someStraps may need cutting if you are slimThis Tracey Cox strap-on pegging kit is perfect for newcomers to pegging, or those with some more experience. The two different sized dildos give you the opportunity to work up to a larger size if you wanted to. They both also have suction cup bases so that you or your partner can have more hands-free fun out of the harness. If you have your own dildos then you can use them in this harness too. Lesbian couples could also have some fun with this harness kit as the dildos can also be used for vaginal and anal play. Some reviewers have found that the harness pocket for the vibrator isn’t in the right place for them, but that doesn’t spoil the fun. Overall, this set has a lot of great features for a really good price.
Love Rider Double Penetration Strap-On 5.5 Inch Dildo
The Love Rider double penetration strap-on is a 5.5-inch dildo with a diameter of 1.19-inches. It’s made of soft plastic and is held in place by 2 rings. One ring goes around the penis, the other around the balls. It has a gently tapered head for easy insertion and has a textured shaft for more stimulation. This realistic looking dildo is gently curved and is firm, yet flexible.
The Love Rider Double Penetration Strap-On 5.5 Inch Dildo was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Are a beginner to double-penetrationPrefer a slim dildoAre on a budgetWant a larger toyDon't like cock ringsHave a larger girth| Length | 6 inches |
| Insertable length | 5.5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.19 inches |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Materials | Soft plastic |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Allergies | Latex-Free , Phthalate-Free |
Slim sizeEasy to useGood priceRings might not fit all May not be large enough for someNot the best qualityThe Love Rider double penetration strap-on is one of those toys that is fabulous if it works for you. Some reviewers have found that the rings are too tight and that the ring that goes around the balls isn’t suitable due to the placement and size. However, many reviewers found that it worked for them and the slim size of the dildo made it ideal for use for beginners to double penetration. Make sure that you add some lube while putting it on as this makes the rings slide on much easier. They also act as cock rings which could be helpful if you sometimes lose your erection or orgasm too quickly. The petite size of the dildo ensures much easier insertion – with lashings of lube of course! So if you want to try a budget-priced toy for twice the pleasure, then this couple’s strap-on for dp is worth a try.
Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit
The Lovehoney Double Up duel penetration strap-on kit is a fabulous couple’s strap-on kit. It contains one pair of briefs with two built-in O-rings (one for the receiver, one for the wearer), two dildos and one waterproof bullet vibrator with 2 vibrations speeds and 5 patterns. It’s a great way to receive some vibrating strap-on fun while giving it. The hot pink dildo is 5-inches of insertable length with a 0.95-inch diameter. The black, mini dildo measures 4-inches in insertable length with a 1.27-inch diameter. The briefs are really easy to set up with the dildos in place and simple to use.
The Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Love giving and receiving penetrationAre a beginner Enjoy a slim dildoWant a bullet vibe for your dildoPrefer larger dildosDon't want to be penetrated while givingWant a harness to accommodate different sizes| Vibration speeds | 2 |
| Vibration patterns | 5 |
| Insertable length | Pink dildo - 5 inches |
| Diameter | Pink dildo - 0.95 inches |
| Insertable length | Black dildo - 4 inches |
| Diameter | Black dildo - 1.27 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Adjustable | No |
| Allergies | Latex-Free , Phthalate-Free |
Dual penetration funSimple to usePerfect for beginnersDildos may be too smallBriefs cannot accommodate a larger dildoBrief sizes come up slightly smallThis Lovehoney Double Up dual penetration strap-on kit is ideal if you want to try pegging or if you and your partner both enjoy receiving penetration at the same time. Both dildos are slim and petite, making them ideal for beginners or those who prefer smaller dildos. The briefs are a fabulous design but seem to be cut smaller to size, so you may need to size up for comfort. As the dildos sit inside and outside the briefs it’s best to put everything in place, including the vibrator if you want to use it, then pull them on. The briefs don’t have different sized O-rings, so they’re not suitable if you want to use larger dildos with them. Make sure that you use lashings of lube if you are using this kit for anal sex to enjoy the exquisite sensations of giving and receiving.
Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo
The Wet for Her Four vibrating double dildo is ideal for lesbian couples who enjoy penetrative sex. This dildo is shaped like fingers and the 5-speed waterproof vibrator sends vibrations all the way through this flexible toy. The smaller, ‘thumb’ end measures 2.5-inches in length x 1.25-inches in diameter. The larger ‘fingers’ end measures 5-inches in length x 1.25-inches in diameter. It’s made of super-silky silicone and is fully waterproof. It’s very easy to change the vibrations settings and also straightforward to remove the bullet vibrator. It’s ideal for both vaginal and anal use. Although this can be used without a harness, for the ultimate in control and stability and to use it with different positions, it can be paired with an O-ring harness or briefs.
The Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Wet for Her Four Vibrating Double Dildo felt to the reviewer.
Want a strapless strap-onPrefer a smaller, slimmer dildoEnjoy vibrationsLove non-realistic dildosPrefer larger dildosLike the stability of a harness| Vibration modes | 5 |
| Insertable length | 'Thumb' - 2.5 inches |
| Diameter | 'Thumb' - 1.25 inches |
| Insertable length | 'Fingers' - 5 inches |
| Diameter | 'Fingers' - 1.25 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
| Adjustable | No |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
Great strap-free intimacyIt's fully waterproofIt's suitable for vaginal or anal playIt's slim sizedIt may not be large enough for someMay need a harness for better stablilityThe Wet for Her Four vibrating double dildo is a versatile dildo that makes close, intimate pleasure more accessible. This dildo is ideal for both lesbian couples who enjoy vaginal and/or anal penetrations and heterosexual couples who enjoy pegging. It’s a smaller, slimmer strapless strap-on so it’s an ideal size for beginners. However, it may take a little getting used to as it won’t be as stable as a dildo in a harness. If this is an issue then it’s possible to use it with a harness or harness briefs with an open O-ring. The bullet vibrator can also be used in other toys or a harness too. It’s a great idea and it allows couples to be physically closer without harness straps getting in the way.
Doc Johnson Be Ready Hollow Strap-On Kit
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Discreet shipping & billingFREE returns on all ordersFREE shipping on orders $50+The Doc Johnson silicone hollow strap-on kit is a 4-piece set that consists of 3 hollow dildos and an elastic and silicone harness. The dildos are of different shapes, sizes and textures, giving you a great variety to play with. The smallest dildo measures 7-inches x 1.75-inches in diameter. The medium dildo is 7.5 x 1.75 inches in diameter, the largest is 8-inches x 2-inches in diameter. The silicone is silky-soft and the set is fully waterproof. The harness itself has a wide elastic waistband that will fit waists from 28-48-inches. The dildos themselves are firm but flexible and stiff enough to be used for pegging or any other penetrative play.
The Doc Johnson Be Ready Hollow Strap-On Kit was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Love penetrative sex with larger dildosWant a selection of hollow dildosPrefer simple harnessesExperience erectile dysfunctionAre a beginnerPrefer slimmer dildosWould like an adjustable, firmer harness| Insertable length | Small - 7 inches |
| Diameter | Small - 1.75 inches |
| Insertable length | Medium - 7.5 inches |
| Diameter | Medium - 1.75 inches |
| Insertable length | Large - 8 inches |
| Diameter | Large - 2 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Flexibility | Firm, but flexible |
| Adjustable | Elasticated |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
3 different sized hollow dildosComfortable and stretchy harnessSuitable for all gendersCan be used for double-penetrationSize makes it more for experienced peopleSmaller sizes may be better for use with flaccid penisDoc Johnson’s Be Ready silicone hollow strap-on kit is a versatile collection that’s suitable for any gender. The hollow dildos allow those who experience erectile dysfunction to experience penetrative sex with their partners. They’re great as penis extenders too. The dildos are also firm enough to be used for penetrative play on their own- both vaginal and anal. They’re ideal for same-sex and heterosexual couples. With a little adjustment, it’s also possible to use the harness and dildos for double penetration as there is a space below where the dildo is seated. As the dildos begin at 7-inches in length and 1.75-inches in diameter, they’re more suited to those experienced in penetrative sex. However you are playing, make sure that you use plenty of lovely slippery lube to fully enjoy the different shapes and textures of these fabulous silicone dildos.
Sportsheets Menage A Trois Double Strap On
Sportsheets Menage A Trois couple’s strap on is a lightweight harness that comes with its own slim dildo. The dildo is 5.75-inches long x 1.25-inches in diameter. The dildo is held in place with a metal ring that is 1.5-inches in diameter. Beneath the dildo is a larger ring that serves as a penis ring. This is 1.75-inches in diameter. The harness is a thong style and the straps are slim enough not to interfere with your playtime. It’s a simple design that works well and looks amazing.
The Sportsheets Menage A Trois Double Strap On was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Want a harness and dildo for double penetrationWould like to try pegging Prefer a thong style strap-onLike cock ringsPrefer a sturdier harnessWant a larger dildoPrefer a firmer dildo| Insertable length | 5.75 inches |
| Diameter | 1.25 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Flexibility | flexible |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Harness Size | Adjustable up to 60 inch hips inches |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
The harness is simple and lightweightThe dildo is siliconeIt is a thong style harnessStraps are thin and can dig inRings may be uncomfortable for the wearerNo padding on the front of the harness Sportsheets Menage A Trois couple’s strap on is suitable for all genders. The rings on the harness can accommodate either a penis and a dildo or one or two dildos. It’s suitable for double or single penetration and the dildo is suitable for vaginal or anal use. Some reviewers have said that the straps on the harness are thin and can dig into the wearer’s body, the rings may also dig in if the harness is on too tight. This couple’s strap-on harness is a simple design that maximizes body contact while still giving you the control that you need for dp. It’s designed for even penetration and the rings can be changed over too. If you’ve always wanted to try double penetration then this easily adjusted harness could be what you’re looking for.
Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit
The Tantus Bend Over Intermediate strap-on harness kit is designed for those who like to wear a comfortable harness and who want two fantastic dildos to play with. This kit also comes with a single-speed battery operated bullet vibrator. The dildos are from the Tantus ‘Silk’ range. They’re both super soft and silky silicone and are gently curved to press against your g or p spot to perfection. The smaller dildo is 5.5-inches long with a diameter of 1.25-inches. The larger one is 7-inches in length and 1.5-inches in diameter. The harness itself is fully washable and is adjustable from 15-inches up to 60-inches hip size. It has a soft pad at the front for your comfort and it also has a pocket for the bullet vibrator to give the wearer some extra thrills. The harness is a jock-strap style that leaves the wearer nicely exposed for even more stimulation.
The Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.
Want an intermediate pegging/strap-on kitWant different sized dildos to tryWant a versatile harnessNeed beginner-sized dildosPrefer a sexier harnessWant a really good bullet vibe| Insertable length | Smaller - 5.5 inches |
| Diameter | Smaller - 1.25 inches |
| Insertable length | Larger - 7 inches |
| Diameter | Larger - 1.5 inches |
| Materials | Dildos - silicone, harness - velvet and nylon |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Harness Size | 15-60 inches |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
It's a comfortable and solid harnessIt comes with 2 high quality dildosIt's fully adjustable The vibrator doesn't sit comfortably in the pocketIt's not a particularly sexy harnessThe Tantus Bend Over Intermediate couples strap-on harness kit is durable and easy to use. It’s fully washable and ideal for those who want to step up their penetrative play. It’s suitable for lesbian couples who want to enjoy vaginal or anal play or for different-sex couples who’d like to step up their pegging exploration. The dildos are beautifully smooth and when you add some water-based lube will take your sexual exploration to dizzying new heights. They’re also curved for extra pleasure. The vibrator is a nice add-on, but it sounds like it doesn’t add that much to the sensations felt. Overall, it’s a great intermediate kit that’s certainly going to last you well over time.
Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On
