The 3 Best Dildos for Lesbians for Delights Without the D
We know it´s hard to find a good dildo for lesbians, especially in this normative society where most products are marketed for heterosexual use (not created). But luckily this is changing, and the products that are being developed now have all types of sexualities in mind and there is quite a lot to choose from. In this test, you will find the top-rated dildos for lesbians, what´s their best features and what there is to improve, how to use them, and how to take care of them.
Test Winner4.6  | Cheapest4.6 | 4.7 |
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| Tantus Charmer | Lovehoney Satisfy Me | nJoy Pure Wand |
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Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons |
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How was the dildo for lesbians tested?
You might be asking yourself, how do we at Bedbible rate our toys, has one person tested over 500 toys? No, of course not, but have we at Bedbible reviewed over 500 toys? The answer is Yes! When we do our research, we dig deep, and we spend a lot of time and it’s not just the author of this review involved, there are multiple people.
First, this review has been set up by experts in the sex toy market, there are many many many reviews done by these experts. Then Bedbible has got their own sex toy testers, and they are not afraid to spill the T. They will give their honest opinion about the products, and explain why it’s good or bad.
But we don’t want our review to be based on one single person’s experience, so we do some more research, we read external reviews on other websites. We compare them with others and we compare them with our testers’ experiences. Then finally, more than 50 hours later, we summarize all of this, and finally, it ends up in this review.
To find the best lesbian dildo for lesbians, one who matches your preferences, or even one that fits both you and your partner, you can ask yourself these questions below:
- What size on the dildo do you want? Which length is the optimal and which girth are you looking for? If you want a long dildo, maybe you should even consider buying a double dildo. Some have more girth, some have less. If you look into Tantus Chamber (reviewed further down), you will soon see that it doesn´t have to be mega girthy for it to feel filling.
- What kind of stimulation are you looking for? Some dildos you can do temperature play with, some have extra ridges, and if you want g-spot stimulation you should look for a bulbous tip.
- Which material do you prefer? Always prioritize body-safe materials, that would be non-porous materials that are free from chemicals such as phthalates, such as 100% silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel.
- How do you want to use it? Do you want to use it in a harness, then you should consider one with a suction cup or flared base. Or, if you prefer masturbating in the shower, then you need a waterproof one, yeah, the list goes on…
- What’s your budget? You will soon realize that there is a wide price range when it comes to dildos for lesbians, you can find those for less than 20 dollars and those for over 100…
So, when you know your answer to all these questions then you will know exactly what you are looking for. It’s just to find that one dildo that ticks all the boxes, but please be open-minded, some dildos will surprise you.
If you are new to sex toys, don’t worry, these questions might seem overwhelming, but we’ve got your back. In our tests we always write about the best dildo for beginners, one that is easy to use and not too pricy.
Reviews of the 3 best dildo for lesbians
Test Winner Tantus Charmer
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5.0
User Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 39 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo for lesbians.
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Tantus Charmer if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This is a dildo for lesbians that´s perfect for inexperienced and experienced users and perfect for g-spotting. Of course, you can always use it for p-spotting, in other words, this is a dildo for everyone and we even want to say the best lesbian dildo!
It´s made out of a firm material, Tantus own ultra-premium silicone, always high quality with toys from that brand. It´s got a classic dildo shape but with some unique ridges. The ridges create a filling sensation as no other toy does and provide variety as you thrust.
Tantus Charmer works both for vaginal and anal use and is also great to use in a harness thanks to the flared base, just remember it needs to be attached to an O-ring (1,25-inch diameter). Or why not stick it to a flat surface and give it a solo-ride.
Pros
- ✅ Unique design with ridges
- ✅ Possible to use for anal play
- ✅ Nice texture
- ✅ Firm enough to use in a strapon
- ✅ Triggers muscular contraction, the same feeling as when having an orgasm
Cons
- ❌ Not good for quick thrust motions
- ❌ Can be difficult for beginners to use analy
- ❌ Only available in one colour
Verdict
For those who like the sensational feeling of being filled this is the perfect dildo. It´s a great dildo for lesbians thanks to its multiple ways to use it. You can use it anally, vaginally and in a harness. The flared base makes it easy to attach to an O-ring (1,25-inch diameter) and even its flexible, it´s a good strapon dildo for lesbians.
Normally when the “filled feeling” occurs it´s because of a dildo with a big girth, but not this time. This time it´s a normal-sized dildo with ridges, ridges that provides you with a unique penetrating sensation. Although the flexible core together with the ridges can be a bit inconvenient for fast thrusting movements. The ridges are also nice for rubbing against your genital parts, especially on the clitoris.
In fact, no matter if you know the feeling already or have never felt the feeling of orgasm this dildo for lesbians is a great way to trigger that feeling due to the ridges. It all begins with a slightly wider head and then the ridges go up and down, which means it will the muscles will contract. The body will react in the same way as an orgasm.
It´s got a bigger pointy tip which means it makes the perfect job for stimulating the g-spot, and even the p-spot (only people with prostate have a p-spot) is possible to stimulate.
Buy, if you...
- Would like to use it in a harness
- Enjoy colourful dildos
- Like dildos with a flexible core
- Want a non-penis shaped design
- Want a dildo that fills you up without having a big girth
Don't buy, if you...
- Like dildos with flat surface
- Want a dildo that´s easy to thrust
- Looking for a dildo with hard core
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Cheapest Lovehoney Satisfy Me
Overall Rating
4.6/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amanda NilsenUser Ratings:
4.7/5.0
Based on 133 user reviews
Rating: Lovehoney Satisfy Me was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo for lesbians.
Rating: Lovehoney Satisfy Me was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovehoney Satisfy Me was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Lovehoney Satisfy Me was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Lovehoney Satisfy Me if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
For the one on a budget looking for a dildo for lesbians, this is it, you don´t have to look more. This is double sided dildo for lesbians, a dildo that can be used from two different ends, which means when you´re tired of it, just turn it around and use the other end.
This dildo comes with one slender slim side and one with a bulbous beginning, for both of the ends it’s hard to avoid the mid-part that also has a bit more girth.
It doesn´t have a flared base and that´s why we don´t recommend using this analy. And that´s also why it doesn´t fit in a harness. But it works fine for solo play and couples play.
Remember to only use lube on one end at a time, otherwise, it can be difficult to hold it when using, the surface becomes too slippery for normal handholding on one end.
Pros
- ✅ Flexible cores
- ✅ Two usable ends
- ✅ Nice colour
- ✅ Smooth high-quality dildo
Cons
- ❌ No flared base
- ❌ Slippery to hold when lubed up
Verdict
For a low price you can get two dildos for lesbians in one, the perfect dildo if you want to share with your partner but prefer different types of dildos.
One end is more of a classic dildo, with slightly noticeable small contours. The other end which seems to be the most popular one has a larger bulbous head and the middle part is also a bulbous bit.
So one end has a bit more girth and the other one is a bit slimmer, and the middle part is also with a bit more girth. It´s a smooth high-quality dildo even if it´s a cheap dildo for lesbians. The colour makes it nice to look at and also nice that it´s not shaped like a penis.
The core is very flexible and makes it great if you want to use it for g-spot stimulation. Although it doesn’t have a flared base, the bulbous side isn´t enough so we do not recommend it for anal use.
Buy, if you...
- Are on a budget
- Like bulbous dildos
- Want to have two dildos in one
- Like a varied surface
- Want a dildo many people can enjoy
Don't buy, if you...
- Want a dildo with vibrations
- Want to choose from different colours
- Looking for a non-flexible core
- Prefer a non-varied siurface
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nJoy Pure Wand
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 309 user reviews
Rating: nJoy Pure Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo for lesbians.
Rating: nJoy Pure Wand was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: nJoy Pure Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: nJoy Pure Wand was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find nJoy Pure Wand ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Njoy Pure Wand is a luxurious dildo for lesbians, it´s expensive but the experience itself is worth it. Njoy Pure Wand is not a classic dildo, not when it comes to materials, not when it comes to shape and not feeling, but what makes it so extraordinary?
First, it´s made from steel and is heavy. The heaviness both adds a nice feeling to your hand when holding it and a nice feeling to your body parts when using it for penetration. It might seem very slim but the big ball has got 1.75 inches in diameter and feels more intense due to the weight — this makes it great for deep massage. This is also why it´s known as the squirting dildo.
The shape is very curved, and it makes it perfect for g-spot stimulation, also because of the two round heads you can use both ends for penetration and it works fine for anal stimulation too. The weight might make your hand a bit more tired than normal, but thanks to the curve it doesn´t take much effort to find the right angle.
Pros
- ✅ Possible to heat and cool
- ✅ Great for both anally and vaginal pleasure
- ✅ You can use all lubes for this
- ✅ Great for internal massage
Cons
- ❌ It´s difficult to get the perfect temperature
- ❌ Some might think it´s to heavy
- ❌ It´s very expensive
Verdict
This dildo for lesbians is a Delight the G-spot, thanks to the curved shaft you will find your g-spot with greater ease. It´s heavier than most dildos and together with the curved shaft, these features make a perfect lesbian dildo for an internal massage.
Deep internal massage requires deep pressure, which the weight of these toys helps to make possible. You can also try internal anal massage with this toy, and for the ones that have a prostate, that will be great for stimulating that too.
When using this we don´t find the classic thrust motion to be the best way, it´s better to use a kind of rocking motion, where you rock the toy back and forth. This movement will make it less heavy for your wrist and easier to use for a longer time.
Steel material heats up as quickly as it can get cold, you can easily warm it up in your hands but you can also hold it under warm water.
Buy, if you...
- Love g-spot stimulation
- Enjoy toys that feels a bit heavy
- Want to stimulat both vaginally and anally
- Want to experiment with temperature play
- Want to explore internal massage
Don't buy, if you...
- Are looking for a soft squishy dildo
- Want a bendable dildo
- Like dildos with big girth
Comparison of the 3 best dildo for lesbians
| Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | null |
| Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.6 / 5.0 from 39 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 133 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 309 users |
| Price | Affordable | Affordable | Premium |
| Design | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - |
| Length | 7 inches | 7 inches | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | 6,5 inches | 7 inches | 8 inches |
| Width | 1,2 inches | 1,35 inches | - |
| Materials | Silicone | Silicone | Medical-grade stainless steel |
| Waterproof | Submersible | Submersible | Yes |
| Diameter | - | - | 1,75 inches |
| Weight | - | - | 1,51 lbs |
Show your pride!
Most people that are a part of the queer community own at least one thing with the pride colours on, some have a flag, some have a shirt, and some have got paintings. Yeah, there are a lot of different things to get with the beautiful pride colours, and it´s a great way to show your pride!
Another way to show your pride is through sex toys, and why not then choose a beautiful Lesbian Pride Dild0?
Beauty Lesbian Pride Strap-on Dildo
With a shape of a realistic penis but dressed in beautiful pride colours. It´s got a slightly curved shaft which makes it great for g-spot stimulation and the suction cup makes it possible to use in a harness.
The suction cup is very strong and can be stuck onto any flat surface, so maybe this could and will be used as an interior after all?
It´s also unique in how it´s made, it´s handcrafted so all products are unique.
Enjoy Vibrations Together
Shared joy is double joy, right? So a great way to enjoy this is by using the same sex toy, at the same time. The double dildo is a great way to do it, and of course, when your partner isn´t in the mood you can still enjoy it by yourself. Why not use it for double penetration and maximize the stimulation?
Together Toy Double Ended Rabbit Vibrator
When has face-to-face intercourse in a lesbian couple been easy? Pretty much never, it started with double dildos and now we´re stepping up the pleasurable game and this might be the best lesbian dildo ever. This is probably the best shape for a double dildo for lesbian sex we´ve seen.
The rabbit vibrator is a popular solo play toy and here it´s combined with a double dildo, sounds like heaven right?
You don´t have to take turns, you can during full eye contact explode in orgasms together. This is a lesbian-style dildo with a vibrator for the wearer.
The W-shape is a unique shape for sex toys and the shape makes it possible to stimulate the clitoris at the same time as penetration, a great dildo for lesbians.
This is a great product to explore positions for double dildo lesbians.
Strap-Ons Perfect for Lesbians
It can be difficult to find strapons for lesbians, some are too much a penis look-a-like, some have a too stiff core which can be a bit uncomfortable when used vaginally, and some are just too flexible. Also, a perfect strapon depends on the mode, just like all the other sex toys. There are so many out there and some are definitely better than others so here are three products we recommend for lesbians.
Union Double Dildo
Here is a strapon that stimulates both the “taker” and the “giver”, it´s used without a harness and the left shorter side is placed inside the vagina. It´s a vibrating strapless strap-on dildo for lesbians.
It´s fastened through contractions from the carrier and this will make thrust motions possible in another way. This means it can be used hands-free and the hands are free to touch other nice body parts.
It will take some time to grips with the technology, but it´s worth some patience and a few tries. The shaft is possible to shape to your liking which also helps and makes it easier to use.
It´s got a small ruffle part that stimulates the clitoris for both and you can choose between 5 different speeds on the bullet vibrator. The silicone is premium quality and will be super soft against your skin.
It is available in different sizes, small, medium and large, so here you can get a dildo for lesbian that don´t hurt.
POP Squirting Silicone Dildo
Most of the time when we see an ejaculating dildo it´s shaped like a massive penis, this time, it´s a slender squirting dildo. The slenderness makes it more suitable for lesbian couples and makes the design more ergonomic.
The squirt is released by a small pump, so whenever you are ready to squirt this will be ready too. You will get some fluid to fill the POP Squirting Silicone Dildo with, but you can also fill it with a fluid of your own choice, as long as it´s body-safe.
This is a sex toy perfect for some fantasy play.
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit
When you purchase this you will get a lot out of your money, it´s a great beginner kit and likeable by a lot of different preferences. You will get an adjustable harness, 2 different dildos (one petite and one tapered, textured dildo), one bullet vibrator and 3 o-rings in different sizes,
Both dildos have suction cups, so if you don´t want to use them in the harness, you can stick them to any flat surface and use them hands-free.
The harness is adjustable and therefore, fits up to 65 inches (Suggested US dress size 6-28). Another great thing is that you can wash it in the machine, so it´s very convenient. We all know that the times when the strapon is on can become pretty sweaty.
The bulletvibrator is possible to use with both dildos and you can choose between 7 different speed options.
FAQ
What is a dildo for lesbians?
This question could be answered differently depending on who you´re asking, but it is pretty much like any other dildo, but there might be some features that people prefer over others. Some might think that it should not be a penis replica, that it instead should be made with a more discrete look. It could be other colours, other textures and so on. Another feature that´s good for a dildo for lesbians is the possibility to use it as a strap-on, and which means it needs a flared base to fit in an O-ring. Also, this does not apply to all, but some want it to be a double-ended dildo, so two people can use it at the same time.
Reviewed by:
Isabelle Uren