The 3 Best Dildos for Lesbians for Delights Without the D
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| Tantus Charmer | Lovehoney Satisfy Me |
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How was the dildo for lesbians tested?
You might be asking yourself, how do we at Bedbible rate our toys, has one person tested over 500 toys? No, of course not, but have we at Bedbible reviewed over 500 toys? The answer is Yes! When we do our research, we dig deep, and we spend a lot of time and it’s not just the author of this review involved, there are multiple people.
First, this review has been set up by experts in the sex toy market, there are many many many reviews done by these experts. Then Bedbible has got their own sex toy testers, and they are not afraid to spill the T. They will give their honest opinion about the products, and explain why it’s good or bad.
But we don’t want our review to be based on one single person’s experience, so we do some more research, we read external reviews on other websites. We compare them with others and we compare them with our testers’ experiences. Then finally, more than 50 hours later, we summarize all of this, and finally, it ends up in this review.
To find the best lesbian dildo for lesbians, one who matches your preferences, or even one that fits both you and your partner, you can ask yourself these questions below:
- What size on the dildo do you want? Which length is the optimal and which girth are you looking for? If you want a long dildo, maybe you should even consider buying a double dildo. Some have more girth, some have less. If you look into Tantus Chamber (reviewed further down), you will soon see that it doesn´t have to be mega girthy for it to feel filling.
- What kind of stimulation are you looking for? Some dildos you can do temperature play with, some have extra ridges, and if you want g-spot stimulation you should look for a bulbous tip.
- Which material do you prefer? Always prioritize body-safe materials, that would be non-porous materials that are free from chemicals such as phthalates, such as 100% silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel.
- How do you want to use it? Do you want to use it in a harness, then you should consider one with a suction cup or flared base. Or, if you prefer masturbating in the shower, then you need a waterproof one, yeah, the list goes on…
- What’s your budget? You will soon realize that there is a wide price range when it comes to dildos for lesbians, you can find those for less than 20 dollars and those for over 100…
So, when you know your answer to all these questions then you will know exactly what you are looking for. It’s just to find that one dildo that ticks all the boxes, but please be open-minded, some dildos will surprise you.
If you are new to sex toys, don’t worry, these questions might seem overwhelming, but we’ve got your back. In our tests we always write about the best dildo for beginners, one that is easy to use and not too pricy.
FAQ
What is a dildo for lesbians?
This question could be answered differently depending on who you´re asking, but it is pretty much like any other dildo, but there might be some features that people prefer over others. Some might think that it should not be a penis replica, that it instead should be made with a more discrete look. It could be other colours, other textures and so on. Another feature that´s good for a dildo for lesbians is the possibility to use it as a strap-on, and which means it needs a flared base to fit in an O-ring. Also, this does not apply to all, but some want it to be a double-ended dildo, so two people can use it at the same time.
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The 3 Best dildo for lesbians in Test
Tantus Charmer
This is a dildo for lesbians that´s perfect for inexperienced and experienced users and perfect for g-spotting. Of course, you can always use it for p-spotting, in other words, this is a dildo for everyone and we even want to say the best lesbian dildo!
It´s made out of a firm material, Tantus own ultra-premium silicone, always high quality with toys from that brand. It´s got a classic dildo shape but with some unique ridges. The ridges create a filling sensation as no other toy does and provide variety as you thrust.
Tantus Charmer works both for vaginal and anal use and is also great to use in a harness thanks to the flared base, just remember it needs to be attached to an O-ring (1,25-inch diameter). Or why not stick it to a flat surface and give it a solo-ride.
The Tantus Charmer was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Would like to use it in a harnessEnjoy colourful dildosLike dildos with a flexible core Want a non-penis shaped design Want a dildo that fills you up without having a big girth
Like dildos with flat surfaceWant a dildo that´s easy to thrustLooking for a dildo with hard core | Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 6,5 inches |
| Width | 1,2 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
Unique design with ridgesPossible to use for anal playNice texture Firm enough to use in a strapon Triggers muscular contraction, the same feeling as when having an orgasm 
Not good for quick thrust motions Can be difficult for beginners to use analyOnly available in one colourFor those who like the sensational feeling of being filled this is the perfect dildo. It´s a great dildo for lesbians thanks to its multiple ways to use it. You can use it anally, vaginally and in a harness. The flared base makes it easy to attach to an O-ring (1,25-inch diameter) and even its flexible, it´s a good strapon dildo for lesbians.
Normally when the “filled feeling” occurs it´s because of a dildo with a big girth, but not this time. This time it´s a normal-sized dildo with ridges, ridges that provides you with a unique penetrating sensation. Although the flexible core together with the ridges can be a bit inconvenient for fast thrusting movements. The ridges are also nice for rubbing against your genital parts, especially on the clitoris.
In fact, no matter if you know the feeling already or have never felt the feeling of orgasm this dildo for lesbians is a great way to trigger that feeling due to the ridges. It all begins with a slightly wider head and then the ridges go up and down, which means it will the muscles will contract. The body will react in the same way as an orgasm.
It´s got a bigger pointy tip which means it makes the perfect job for stimulating the g-spot, and even the p-spot (only people with prostate have a p-spot) is possible to stimulate.
Lovehoney Satisfy Me
For the one on a budget looking for a dildo for lesbians, this is it, you don´t have to look more. This is double sided dildo for lesbians, a dildo that can be used from two different ends, which means when you´re tired of it, just turn it around and use the other end.
This dildo comes with one slender slim side and one with a bulbous beginning, for both of the ends it’s hard to avoid the mid-part that also has a bit more girth.
It doesn´t have a flared base and that´s why we don´t recommend using this analy. And that´s also why it doesn´t fit in a harness. But it works fine for solo play and couples play.
Remember to only use lube on one end at a time, otherwise, it can be difficult to hold it when using, the surface becomes too slippery for normal handholding on one end.
The Lovehoney Satisfy Me was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Are on a budget Like bulbous dildosWant to have two dildos in one Like a varied surface Want a dildo many people can enjoyWant a dildo with vibrations Want to choose from different colours Looking for a non-flexible corePrefer a non-varied siurface | Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 7 inches |
| Width | 1,35 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
Flexible coresTwo usable ends Nice colourSmooth high-quality dildoNo flared baseSlippery to hold when lubed up For a low price you can get two dildos for lesbians in one, the perfect dildo if you want to share with your partner but prefer different types of dildos.
One end is more of a classic dildo, with slightly noticeable small contours. The other end which seems to be the most popular one has a larger bulbous head and the middle part is also a bulbous bit.
So one end has a bit more girth and the other one is a bit slimmer, and the middle part is also with a bit more girth. It´s a smooth high-quality dildo even if it´s a cheap dildo for lesbians. The colour makes it nice to look at and also nice that it´s not shaped like a penis.
The core is very flexible and makes it great if you want to use it for g-spot stimulation. Although it doesn’t have a flared base, the bulbous side isn´t enough so we do not recommend it for anal use.
nJoy Pure Wand
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Discreet shipping & billingInterest free payment planFREE shipping on orders $75+Njoy Pure Wand is a luxurious dildo for lesbians, it´s expensive but the experience itself is worth it. Njoy Pure Wand is not a classic dildo, not when it comes to materials, not when it comes to shape and not feeling, but what makes it so extraordinary?
First, it´s made from steel and is heavy. The heaviness both adds a nice feeling to your hand when holding it and a nice feeling to your body parts when using it for penetration. It might seem very slim but the big ball has got 1.75 inches in diameter and feels more intense due to the weight — this makes it great for deep massage. This is also why it´s known as the squirting dildo.
The shape is very curved, and it makes it perfect for g-spot stimulation, also because of the two round heads you can use both ends for penetration and it works fine for anal stimulation too. The weight might make your hand a bit more tired than normal, but thanks to the curve it doesn´t take much effort to find the right angle.
The nJoy Pure Wand was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Love g-spot stimulationEnjoy toys that feels a bit heavyWant to stimulat both vaginally and anally Want to experiment with temperature playWant to explore internal massageAre looking for a soft squishy dildoWant a bendable dildoLike dildos with big girth| Length | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | 8 inches |
| Diameter | 1,75 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Medical-grade stainless steel |
| Weight | 1,51 lbs |
Possible to heat and coolGreat for both anally and vaginal pleasureYou can use all lubes for thisGreat for internal massageIt´s difficult to get the perfect temperatureSome might think it´s to heavyIt´s very expensiveThis dildo for lesbians is a Delight the G-spot, thanks to the curved shaft you will find your g-spot with greater ease. It´s heavier than most dildos and together with the curved shaft, these features make a perfect lesbian dildo for an internal massage.
Deep internal massage requires deep pressure, which the weight of these toys helps to make possible. You can also try internal anal massage with this toy, and for the ones that have a prostate, that will be great for stimulating that too.
When using this we don´t find the classic thrust motion to be the best way, it´s better to use a kind of rocking motion, where you rock the toy back and forth. This movement will make it less heavy for your wrist and easier to use for a longer time.
Steel material heats up as quickly as it can get cold, you can easily warm it up in your hands but you can also hold it under warm water.
If you want to know more and get a personal review, have a look at this.
Comparison of the 3 best dildo for lesbians
| Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | null |
| Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.6 / 5.0 from 39 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 133 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 309 users |
| Price | Low | Low | High |
| Design | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - |
| Length | 7 inches | 7 inches | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | 6,5 inches | 7 inches | 8 inches |
| Width | 1,2 inches | 1,35 inches | - |
| Materials | Silicone | Silicone | Medical-grade stainless steel |
| Waterproof | Submersible | Submersible | Yes |
| Diameter | - | - | 1,75 inches |
| Weight | - | - | 1,51 lbs |
Show your pride!
Most people that are a part of the queer community own at least one thing with the pride colours on, some have a flag, some have a shirt, and some have got paintings. Yeah, there are a lot of different things to get with the beautiful pride colours, and it´s a great way to show your pride!
Another way to show your pride is through sex toys, and why not then choose a beautiful Lesbian Pride Dild0?
Beauty Lesbian Pride Strap-on Dildo
With a shape of a realistic penis but dressed in beautiful pride colours. It´s got a slightly curved shaft which makes it great for g-spot stimulation and the suction cup makes it possible to use in a harness.
The suction cup is very strong and can be stuck onto any flat surface, so maybe this could and will be used as an interior after all?
It´s also unique in how it´s made, it´s handcrafted so all products are unique.
Enjoy Vibrations Together
Shared joy is double joy, right? So a great way to enjoy this is by using the same sex toy, at the same time. The double dildo is a great way to do it, and of course, when your partner isn´t in the mood you can still enjoy it by yourself. Why not use it for double penetration and maximize the stimulation?
Together Toy Double Ended Rabbit Vibrator
When has face-to-face intercourse in a lesbian couple been easy? Pretty much never, it started with double dildos and now we´re stepping up the pleasurable game and this might be the best lesbian dildo ever. This is probably the best shape for a double dildo for lesbian sex we´ve seen.
The rabbit vibrator is a popular solo play toy and here it´s combined with a double dildo, sounds like heaven right?
You don´t have to take turns, you can during full eye contact explode in orgasms together. This is a lesbian-style dildo with a vibrator for the wearer.
The W-shape is a unique shape for sex toys and the shape makes it possible to stimulate the clitoris at the same time as penetration, a great dildo for lesbians.
This is a great product to explore positions for double dildo lesbians.
Strap-Ons Perfect for Lesbians
It can be difficult to find strapons for lesbians, some are too much a penis look-a-like, some have a too stiff core which can be a bit uncomfortable when used vaginally, and some are just too flexible. Also, a perfect strapon depends on the mode, just like all the other sex toys. There are so many out there and some are definitely better than others so here are three products we recommend for lesbians.
Union Double Dildo
Here is a strapon that stimulates both the “taker” and the “giver”, it´s used without a harness and the left shorter side is placed inside the vagina. It´s a vibrating strapless strap-on dildo for lesbians.
It´s fastened through contractions from the carrier and this will make thrust motions possible in another way. This means it can be used hands-free and the hands are free to touch other nice body parts.
It will take some time to grips with the technology, but it´s worth some patience and a few tries. The shaft is possible to shape to your liking which also helps and makes it easier to use.
It´s got a small ruffle part that stimulates the clitoris for both and you can choose between 5 different speeds on the bullet vibrator. The silicone is premium quality and will be super soft against your skin.
It is available in different sizes, small, medium and large, so here you can get a dildo for lesbian that don´t hurt.
POP Squirting Silicone Dildo
Most of the time when we see an ejaculating dildo it´s shaped like a massive penis, this time, it´s a slender squirting dildo. The slenderness makes it more suitable for lesbian couples and makes the design more ergonomic.
The squirt is released by a small pump, so whenever you are ready to squirt this will be ready too. You will get some fluid to fill the POP Squirting Silicone Dildo with, but you can also fill it with a fluid of your own choice, as long as it´s body-safe.
This is a sex toy perfect for some fantasy play.
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit
When you purchase this you will get a lot out of your money, it´s a great beginner kit and likeable by a lot of different preferences. You will get an adjustable harness, 2 different dildos (one petite and one tapered, textured dildo), one bullet vibrator and 3 o-rings in different sizes,
Both dildos have suction cups, so if you don´t want to use them in the harness, you can stick them to any flat surface and use them hands-free.
The harness is adjustable and therefore, fits up to 65 inches (Suggested US dress size 6-28). Another great thing is that you can wash it in the machine, so it´s very convenient. We all know that the times when the strapon is on can become pretty sweaty.
The bulletvibrator is possible to use with both dildos and you can choose between 7 different speed options.
How to use a dildo for lesbians
There are different didos for lesbians and therefore, different ways to use them. Some are easier to use and some require both patience and practice. Most of the recommended dildos for lesbians can be used solo and together with a partner. There is one thing to always remember when using sex toys – use lube, and choose one that´s right for the material of your sex toy. For example, if you are using a silicone dildo you should not use a silicone lube, you need to use a water-based lube instead. Always use the opposite.
Use it solo
You can use a dildo for lesbians solo, then you don’´t have to have anyone else in mind, just me, myself and I. If you get a dildo with suction cup you can stick it to any flat surface and ride it, or you can hold it in your hand and penetrate yourself, or just caress your sensitive erogenous zones with it. If you use it for penetration, we recommend you to use it with a vibrator – be prepared for a great orgasm explosion.
Use it as a strapon
If you buy a dildo with a suction cup you can easily use it in a harness and then you´ve got a strap-on. This gives you the option to use it in different positions for lesbians, and penetrate with the thrust motion
Use it with your partner
If you buy a double dildo for lesbians, you can both use it at the same time. This is one of the few positions where you easily can have eye contact. The best position to use a double dildo for lesbians is when you sit face to face and wrap your legs around each other.
How to clean a dildo for lesbians
You should always clean your lesbian dildo before you use it for the first time and after every time you use it. If it´s waterproof you should rinse it under water, soap it in, rinse it off and then let it air-dry. If it´s not waterproof, then you can use a damp cloth and wipe it, also buy some cleaning spray made especially for sex toys.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.