6 Best Dildos for Men to Hit the P-Spot

Why I Chose It

I picked out the njoy Pure Wand as the Test Winner in this review because it’s one of THE best dildos out there. Period! It’s a premium quality construction that will last you a lifetime with the proper care and maintenance.

It is definitely a pricey purchase, but another huge pro is that it can be shared with a partner since it works amazing for vaginal use as well. Our tester, Isabelle, used it for g-spot stimulation and it completely changed her view of this kind of pleasure.

It stands out to me as a great dildo for men because of the curved design and the bulbous tips. This shape is ideal for delivering some serious massage to the prostate during penetration. The 360 grade stainless steel both looks and feels great. The unyielding sensation along with the weight makes for a much more intense sensation that with a silicone dildo.

“The weight distribution and curve take all of the hard work out of getting that deep stimulation exactly where you want it, and you only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations.”  

Why I Chose It

Another great dildo for men is the Fun Factory The Boss dildo. Now, I’ve actually had the pleasure of testing this one out myself. While I do not have a prostate, The Boss did a great job at stimulating my g-spot and a-spot.

The silicone is super firm. It’s probably one of the most firm dildos I’ve ever tried. This bodes well for intense internal stimulation. This sensation along with the pronounced tip and the slightly curved shaft makes it great at hitting those sweet spots.

Now, for anal play, The Boss is definitely on the girthier side so I strongly recommend this to experienced users. It’s not incredibly tapered either (compared to most other anal dildos for men) so it definitely requires a lot of patience and lube.

One of my favorite things about The Boss is how strong the suction cup base is. I’m serious! Once stuck to a table or chair dresser, it can easily lift the whole thing up if I don’t release the suction seal beforehand! This kind of base also allows you to use it in a strap-on harness.

My only minor critique about it is that the surface of the silicone is sanded and feels a bit textured in an unnecessary way. This can easily make it look dirty and attract dust and lint. So, it just requires a quick rinse before use.

Why I Chose It

The Gläs Honey Dripper Dildo is my top recommendation for a dildo for men that won’t break the bank but still delivers amazing sensations. In my experience, glass dildos are elite. Similarly to metal dildos, this unyielding and slightly weighted material will massage your prostate in a way that silicone dildos could never.

The Honey Dripper feels every bit as good as it looks. The curved and bulbous tip is large enough for a satisfying massage but tapered enough to ensure an easy insertion. Better yet, this double-ended design allows you to explore two different types of penetration. Our tester, Sarah, used it vaginally and was thoroughly impressed with the pinpoint stimulation. “The curved tip was amazing and I was able to twirl it around inside of me so I could feel it from multiple angles.”

It’s described as an ‘anal slider’ since the smooth shaft is a lot slimmer than the tips on either end. Once the tip is in, the rest of the dildo slides in comfortably. This is what makes it really great for beginners as well as intermediate users. However, since it is so smooth (and gets pretty slippery with lube), Sarah noted that “if you have carpal tunnel, tendinitis, or any serious wrist pains, beware, this may not be for you.”

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Charmer is perfect for beginners due to its unique, slim-line design. Its approachable for newbies but definitely not boring to use. It’s also made of high quality silicone and has a gorgeous metallic sheen.

Our tester, Isabelle, initially bought it for vaginal use but quickly promoted it to her go-to anal dildo. “I find the firm but flexible silicone and the shape are much better suited to anal play, for me at least!” The tapered head and slimmer shaft feels more comfortable for anal use, since it doesn’t put much pressure on the sphincter, but you still get to enjoy the fuller head. “The ridges have the slight feel of anal beads, as the shaft is inserted but not as intense, and they add some subtle stimulation while the toy is inside as well.”

The only downside is that this dildo doesn’t have a suction cup base. That said, the flared base still lets you enjoy it with a strap-on harness.

Why I Chose It

Now, this is a dildo for men that offers a few extra bells and whistles. For all of those who prefer vibrations over manual stimulation of the prostate, the Mantric P-Spot Probe offers incredibly powerful and rumbly vibrations. I like that it has a sturdy handle for a good grip (whether you’re playing solo or with someone special).

The vibrations offer a range of sensations that add excitement to both solo and partnered play. However, if you’re someone who needs precise prostate stimulation, you might find the shape a bit lacking. For our tester Jesse, the shape itself didn’t target the prostate as well as other products do, “but I thoroughly enjoyed the toy none the less, it’s the vibration settings that really make this toy what it is.”

While he wasn’t keen on the LED light indicators in the beginning, “but they really do look good and make a great addition to the toy.” This is also what made it easy to use during partnered play, since whoever is wielding the toy can easily see which vibrations settings their partner is currently enjoying.

Jesse “wouldn’t describe it as a quiet product when on higher settings”, so it might not be the best for those needing discretion. Cleaning the stimulating nubs requires a bit of effort, but it’s a small price to pay for the pleasure it provides.

Overall, if you’re after a visually appealing, versatile prostate vibrator with great vibration options, this is a solid choice. For Jesse, “the device performs well and definitely went beyond expectations with its vibrations.”

Why I Chose It

The Lovehoney Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo is great for those who love a varied sensation with every thrust. It’s the perfect blend of the pleasure you get from anal beads and the intensity provided by metal dildos.

For our tester, Lucy, “being a newbie to a metal dildo the weight of the beaded dildo was slightly daunting but it made for a brilliant experience and the weight added to the sensation and versatility.” 

The lightly curved shape and the firm metal is a great recipe for some intense p-spot pleasure and the largest bead acts as an effective stopper to keep the dildo from going all the way in. That said, if you’re sharing it with a partner for vaginal play, you can insert both ends an play around with the size difference. The temperature responsive steel also makes it great for external stimulation of the nipples, clitoris, or frenulum. As Lucy notes, it’s a super versatile dildo and “there are lots of options to experiment with.”

Since the beads gradually increase in size, Lucy also felt like it gave her “good control over the depth” during insertion. You can take the dildo as far you’re comfortable with and work your way up. In this way, it’s a dildo that will grow with you as your experience level increases.