The 7 Best FtM Sex Toys

Why I Chose It

I’ve picked out the Dame Com as our Test Winner today because it’s a great all-rounder. Wand vibrators are some of the most versatile sex toys out there. They’re great for stimulating any external part of the body regardless of anatomy.

Our tester, Vern, loved the overall quality and feel of the Dame Com at first: “Dame products are silky smooth, likely the best body-safe silicone I’ve ever felt, and easy to use! It’s shaped for accessibility. […] It’s angled to rest closer to your body, it’s like my hands and arms are getting a break! Plus, the vibrations are deep and rumbly without going overboard.”

I think it’s great as a FtM sex toy since it works wonders for any erogenous zones on all kinds of bodies. It’s also a great transitional toy that will keep stimulating you as your body changes. Last but not least, the design itself offers some mild gender affirmation:

“The Dame Com is perfect for my bottom dysphoria and gender euphoria. At times, I wish that I had something more that I could grab, like a penis, rather than my vulva and clitoris. […] When my hand grasps onto its shaft it feels like I’m holding and stroking a penis of my own.”

The packaging as well “is gender-neutral and promotes safe, healthy sex and highlights the Dame Com’s ability to be used by a variety of body types and genitalia”.

Why I Chose It

“I don’t hesitate to claim that the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is my favourite sex toy to date. […] As a trans man, I worried that my clit wouldn’t fit into the chamber due to hormone growth, or that the sensation would be too intense. […] The Curvy 1+ enveloped my clit and fit like a glove, creating a perfect vacuum seal.”

The Runner-Up is another favorite here at Bedbible, a clit sucker from Satisfyer. First of all, the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is a great quality construction, it offers both vibrations and air pulse stimulation, it’s app compatible, has an ergonomic design, and completely waterproof. Having tried out the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ myself, I am very familiar with all the pleasure this little thing has to offer.

That said, I picked out the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ as a great FtM sex toy specifically because of it’s wide suction nozzle. It was also the main advantage for our tester, Nick: “The most cherished attribute I hold is the suitability for trans-masc users. As I mentioned earlier, I have clitoral growth due to hormone treatment, but that didn’t impede on the immense pleasure the toy provides.”

One of my favorite parts of this clit sucker is the app control function. They unlock so many extra settings, interactive features, and allow you to be intimate with someone long-distance. It just offers a lot more versatility compared to your average clit sucker out there!

Why I Chose It

I like to recommend soft and versatile vibrators to complete beginners since they’re so unintimidating and easy to use. The NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi is just that! This vibrator is covered in incredibly soft and squishy silicone. Our tester, Vern, found it “extra cozy and comfortable to hold and use.” 

I like how the design allows for you to enjoy both pinpoint stimulation with the tip as well as broader stimulation with some added texture. This makes it a lot more versatile when using it different body parts and erogenous zones. However, for Vern, “as someone who prefers widespread vibration, my only issue is the Kushi’s motor, where most vibrations are in the tip of and not much is going on in the wider section of the toy.”

There are also a few minor drawbacks about the Kushi. Vern noted that the price was a bit steep for such a small vibrator. The vibrations themselves are also not the most powerful. The small size itself could also prove to be tricky for some. “As a fat person with some issues with wrist mobility, I sometimes had trouble finding the perfect angle to fit the vibrator against my body.” 

That said, the quality of the materials and the construction still shines through. It’s super cute, has a pretty unassuming design, and feels really nice to grind up against!

Why I Chose It

“Honestly, my previous rabbit vibrators never massaged my G-spot as well as Miss Bi did mine! Between its broad extension arm for clitoris/perineum stimulation, its heavenly curve, and the full feeling it gives, I was in paradise! “

Vern, our tester, was already interested in Fun Factory since they “love toys and brands that highlight their gender neutrality and ability to pleasure a wider array of bodies”. The unique design of the Fun Factory Miss Bi is exactly why I’ve included it in this review of FtM sex toys.

The finger loop base design makes it easier to use solo, and less awkward to use with a partner. Combined with the unique dual-arm, dual-motor design, I think this unique option could appeal to a lot of people.

The main appeal to me is definitely the shape and size of the insertable arm. The fact that you get to enjoy targeted g-spot stimulation without the penetration feeling too deep or overwhelming is a huge plus for people who may struggle with the idea of being penetrated.

Why I Chose It

“The Vixen Mr. Right Packer isn’t just adequate at its job, but is an absolute MUST for someone seeking a high-quality piece to stuff into their undies, themselves, or a play partner!”

Our tester, Nick, had a really positive experience with the Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer. The realistic design, especially the detailed textures on the ball sack, was impressive. The soft silicone made it really comfortable for packing, making it feel more like a natural extension of his body. However, its size made it look somewhat conspicuous under clothing, particularly for people who are more petite or short.

I love that this packer doubles as a functional dildo! Of course, it’s not the stiffest thing out there, but it gets the job done. It’s comfortable and enjoyable, though its softness makes it less suitable for more intense play or anal penetration.

The price might seem high, but considering its handmade quality and high-grade materials, I think it’s a reasonable investment for those seeking a high-quality packer. It’s a great option for those who pack regularly and are looking for a durable, realistic option.

Why I Chose It

The Arcwave Ghost is one of the best beginner-friendly strokers that we’ve tested here at Bedbible. It’s basically a TENGA Egg but made with 100% body-safe premium silicone. This means that it’s reusable and easy to clean!

I love that this stroker is soft and stretchy enough to wrap around all penis sizes. Being able to adjust the pressure with you hand as you stroke makes it super accessible to newbies, since it’s basically an elevated hand job.

Our tester, Nicolae, really enjoyed the Arcwave Ghost. Even though it was simple, it definitely was stimulating enough to get the job done and make the experience more enjoyable overall.

My favorite part is definitely the reversible feature that gives you some variety in sensation. For Nicolae, he found “the intense surface with nodules to be more exciting for a quick release, as for the smooth part with grooves for a longer experience.”

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Lapis is one of the best vibrating strapless strapons on the market. It features three powerful motors, and its shape provides rumbly vibrations for both, the wearer and receiver. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tried plenty of strapless strap-ons, but this one is the most high-end and it’s app-controlled, which helps a lot with hands-free play.

According to our tester, Joseph, the Lovense Lapis is a high-quality toy: “The motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.” They also highlighted the powerful and rumbly vibrations saying: “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.”

They enjoyed the size, and the ergonomic design saying “Using it to top was fun, and I did get some gendergood feelings about having a penis with no obvious straps holding it up.” However, as it often happens with strapless strap-ons the toy was slipping out, so I highly recommend using it with a harness. For those looking for a more realistic experience, I suggest using it with harness underwear for a more natural and comfortable fit. On the plus side, our tester actually enjoyed the combination of the Lapis and a harness saying, “Using it with a harness is fantastic, though. It really presses the ribbed bottom of the shaft against you, so you can feel just as much of the vibrations as your partner can.”

In my opinion, the Lovense Lapis is a top-of-the-line strapless strap-on. It’s nice and weighty, with powerful vibrations, and the app-controlled features are a great solution for couples that want full control of their experience.