6 Best Gay Male Sex Toys, Penis & Anal Alike
I’ve consulted with our Bedbible Tester Team to find the best gay male sex toys out there. I’ve picked out a bunch of different types of sex toys, from large anal toys to ass masturbators, so there should be something for everyone in this review. I’ve gone over the main pros and cons of each item, and included some insights from our testers’ in-depth reviews so you know exactly what you’re getting!
Best Prostate Massager | Best Anal Masturbator | Best Cock Ring | Best Vibrating Plug | Best Inflatable Toy | Best Sex doll |
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SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it | Fleshlight Ice Butt | Oxballs Tri-Sport | Lovense Hush 2 Large | b-Vibe Expand Plug | Tantaly Channing |
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How We Test gay male sex toys
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- The most affordable option – The Oxballs Tri-Sport Cock Ring and Ball Sling is the cheapest option in this review.
- The best for couples – The Oxballs Tri-Sport Cock Ring and Ball Sling is great for enhancing and maintaining erections during sex, and the Lovense Hush 2 Large offers app control features that are always fun to use with a partner.
- The best option for anal stretching – The b-Vibe Expand Plug is is great for anal stretching because of the somewhat customizable girth.
Popular Types of Gay Male Sex Toys
- Prostate Massagers – Designed to be inserted up the anus and provide targeted stimulation to the prostate (resulting in a unique p-spot orgasm if all goes well!).
- Masturbators/Strokers – Most know these “Fleshlights”. While masturbators are generally sold with vaginal orifices, there are plenty of anus or neutral orificed ones!
- Anal Beads – These beads provide stimulation during insertion and removal. Many people enjoy pulling them out at the point of orgasm.
- Cock Rings – Perfect for guys struggling with ED and men who just want a harder erection alike. These affordable, effective devices are super helpful to maintain erections.
- Anal Training Kits – An anal training kit generally consists of a collection of butt plugs or dialators. Typically in different sizes and shapes to work your way up to larger items.
Best Prostate Massager SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it Prostate Massager
- Large silicone prostate massager
- Wearable design with a curved T-bar base
- Soft and squishy
- Diameter of 2.25 inches at its widest point.
Pros
- ✅ 100% platinum-cured silicone
- ✅ Intense sensations and pressure on the prostate
- ✅ Suitable for long-term wear
- ✅ Super easy to clean and sterilize
Cons
- ❌ Even experienced users can find it difficult to insert
Why I Chose It
I picked out the SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it as the best prostate massager in this review because of the intense pressure it puts on the prostate. That’s right, it’s not vibrations or rotations that massage the prostate directly, it’s the sensation of fullness and the unique pressure that stimulates the area. It is definitely not a beginner-friendly shape or size, but it’s a perfect match for those with plenty of experience looking for something a bit extreme to play with.
The unique egg-like shape with the spikey texture on one side felt amazing according to Allen. He already owns a few prostate massagers, and he noted that all work the same way and provide the same kind of stimulation that’s limited to one small area. When he first inserted the Mega Milk’It, he said: “I think my brain short circuited”.
“The Mega Milk’it due to it’s overall size and its concave side with ample ridges felt like someone was simultaneously fisting me while trying to squeeze my prostate”.
Our tester, Allen, was a bit taken aback by the size at first. But because of how soft and squishy the silicone is, it doesn’t feel as intimidating as it looks. However, along with the lack of taper, this does mean it’s difficult to insert at first. Allen did have to experiment with his approach a few times before he had some luck.
“Even though I finally started to get the toy in me, it wasn’t a cake walk and once it was in I felt just about stretched and filled to my limit, but oh my god did it feel good”.
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Best Anal Masturbator Fleshlight Ice Butt Masturbator
- Clear anal Fleshlight
- “Crystal”-sleeve
- Hard outer case and cap for storage
- Internal diameter is 0.4 inches.
Pros
- ✅ Feels very realistic
- ✅ Inner sleeve is super tight and very textured
- ✅ Great for both masturbation and partnered play
- ✅ Clear design adds visual stimulation
Cons
- ❌ The TPE is sticky and needs renewal powder to stay fresh
- ❌ Cleaning and drying takes a long time
Why I Chose It
The best masturbator in a review of the best male gay sex toys had to be an anal fleshlight. Not just any anal fleshlight. I’ve picked one that, in my expert opinion, best replicates the sensation of anal sex. Introducing the Fleshlight Ice Butt!
The Fleshlight Ice Butt is a clear fleshlight that still has realistic design features. The opening looks like an anus and the clear material allows you to see your penis going in and out of the sleeve. Having tried a few clear Fleshlights with my partner, I know how great the added visuals are for partnered play.
As far as the performance goes, our tester, Andrew, describes that “the soft sleeve has a suction feeling that grips your shaft tightly and it is lined with 4 intensity chambers along with dozens of ticklers, teasers, pleasure nubs and ribs”. The “Crystal”-sleeve is pretty impressive, especially with the internal diameter of 0.4 inches. It feels nice and tight, just like the real thing.
Best Cock Ring Oxballs Tri-Sport Cock Ring and Ball Sling
- 3-in-1 cock ring and ball sling
- Made of stretchy TPE
- Fits most penises.
Pros
- ✅ Surprisingly easy to use
- ✅ Very stretchy and durable
- ✅ Enhances and maintains your erection
Cons
- ❌ Can get slippery with lube
- ❌ Surface attracts dust
Why I Chose It
I picked out the Oxballs Tri-Sport Cock Ring because it’s a great quality product. It’s one of the most sturdy yet comfortable cock rings we’ve tested here at Bedbible. Even though it can look a bit complicated to use, our tester, James, “didn’t really have much of an issue and although it might look slightly intimidating in photos, it’s surprisingly easy to use and feels great!”.
Putting in on actually is a “a nice experience because the material of the Oxballs Tri-Sport is incredibly stretchy”. While I would prefer this to be made of non-porous silicone, this kind of stretch is mostly available with TPE products. Since it’s not being used internally, the porous material shouldn’t be a huge problem if cleaned properly between uses.
“The Tri-Sport felt very much like a regular cock ring and I liked how thick the rings were because they provided more pressure over a larger area. Overall, it felt snug and like everything was supported”.
It doesn’t feel too bulky during sex but keep in mind that the thick rings do sacrifice a bit of penis length.
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Best Vibrating Plug Lovense Hush 2 Large
- Large vibrating butt plug
- Tapered tip and neck with a T-bare base
- Diamter of 2.22 inches at widest point
- Connect to the Lovense Remote app for unlimited vibration settings, interactive features, and long-distance play.
Pros
- ✅ High quality construction
- ✅ Sleek and elegant design
- ✅ App-controls really add to the versatility
- ✅ Reliable app connectivity
Cons
- ❌ Too loud for public play
- ❌ Firm material makes it difficult to insert and remove
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Hush 2 Large is a premium quality vibrating butt plug with an impressive size and some impressive features.
I think the size is perfect for very experienced anal adventurers looking for an advanced level butt plug. The size and firmness of the plug is stimulating enough as is. Our tester, James, thought it felt amazing and especially liked how the tapered neck of the plug is made perfectly so “it feels so good when it’s in place”.
In terms of vibrations, the sensations are powerful and super fun to use because of the app controlled settings. James and his partner had a lot of fun playing with these controls but “unfortunately the vibration is just too loud to use in public”, which was one of its main appeals to him originally.
The drawbacks are definitely the firmness. With something so large, the firmness can make it uncomfortable during insertion and removal. Luckily, the Lovense Hush 2 is available in a few different sizes!
Best Inflatable Toy b-Vibe Expand Plug
- Inflatable prostate massager
- Vibrations in the shaft and the base
- Diameter of 1.5 inches at the widest point (not inflated)
- Physical remote control works up to 30 ft away.
Pros
- ✅ Inflates to 3 different set sizes
- ✅ Storage bag included
- ✅ Made of body-safe silicone
Cons
- ❌ Does not inflate to a very large size
- ❌ Vibrations are mostly felt in the base of the toy
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
Of all the inflatable anal toys I have seen in my time as a sex toy reviewer, the b-Vibe Expand Plug is one of the most impressive ones I’ve encountered. It doesn’t offer the largest size ever, but it is without a doubt a high quality item with some wonderful added vibrations.
Most inflatable toys are made of latex, so the b-Vibe Expand Plug starts off by getting some points from being made of non-porous silicone. This makes it super easy to keep clean even though it’s only splashproof.
Allen, our tester, loved this plug. After years of trying to find a plug that would fit perfectly and stay put during use, he found the perfect product. Although, he didn’t find the vibrations to be quite powerful enough and the size wasn’t satisfying: “I love the creativeness, but sadly for a size king like myself, the expanding element doesn’t really feel like much for me”.
Still, I think the features could be a hit for less experienced users. The vibrations are felt in both the shaft and the perineum stimulator, and they’re even controlled by a remote that works form up to 30 ft away! The ergonomic shape is designed to put pressure on the prostate even when it isn’t inflated.
In my humble opinion, this plug is very much worth trying out. Luckily, Allen also shared that “the Expand Plug is still one of the best plugs I’ve used to this day, so I don’t really mind if all the other features aren’t instantly sending me into orgasmic bliss.”
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Best Sex doll Tantaly Channing
- Male sex doll torso
- Super realistic features
- 7 inch dildo
- Tight and textured anal canal.
Pros
- ✅ Overall experience is very realistic
- ✅ Deep and tight anal opening
- ✅ Great for role-play or three-some fantasies
Cons
- ❌ The dildo doesn't maintain erection very well
- ❌ The anus is very tight and difficult to penetrate
- ❌ Heavy and takes up a lot of storage space
Why I Chose It
Last but certainly not least, I wanted to include a male sex doll that can be used for lifelike sex for both tops and bottoms out there!
First things first, the design is incredibly impressive. According to our tester, Vernon, “the toy had a great feel to it. The gelatinous body made it a joy to squeeze and toss around. […] I even slapped the toy on the ass a couple of times. And yes, it was phenomenal”.
Now, where he found some flaws were in the performance. Even though the dildo has beautifully realistic features, it’s not quite erect enough for a realistic penetration experience. Vernon noted that “if there were to be a stronger rod within the penis that still provided flexibility, the toy would be almost perfect”.
While it can be difficult to penetrate Channing’s anus as well, the tightness and texture of the canal will make the effort worthwhile. This sensation combined with the realism of this weighted torso really makes for an amazing experience.
Comparison
Best | Best Prostate Massager | Best Anal Masturbator | Best Cock Ring | Best Vibrating Plug | Best Inflatable Toy | Best Sex doll |
Overall score | - | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.5 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 3.6 / 5.0 |
User rating | - | 4.7 / 5.0 from 115 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 114 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 145 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 17 users |
Price | Cheap | Affordable | Affordable | Premium | Pricey | Pricey |
Design | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 98 / 100 |
Ease of use | 60 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 65 / 100 |
Quality | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 92 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | 100 / 100 | 60 / 100 | - |
Power | - | - | - | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | very rumbly | somewhat rumbly | - |
Length | 5.5 inches | 9.75 inches | 2.25 inches | 6 inches | 5.22 inches | Penis: 7.09 inches |
Insertable length | 5 inches | 8.5 inches | - | 5 inches | 4.13 inches | Anus: 5.91 inches |
Diameter | 2.4 inches | 0.4 inches | Cock/Ball Holes: 1.1-1.3 inches | 2.22 inches | 1.5 inches | - |
Materials | Platinum silicone | Sleeve: Superskin (TPE Blend), Case: ABS Plastic | TPR | Silicone | Silicone | TPE |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Splashproof | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | No | Comes with Case and End Cap | No | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Colors Available | Graphite, Bronze | Clear | Black, Clear, Eggplant, Police Blue, Steel | Black | Black | Fair, Wheat |
Vibration patterns | - | - | - | 7 | 6 | - |
Vibration speeds | - | - | - | 3 | 6 | - |
Rechargeable | - | - | - | Yes | Yes | - |
Battery Life | - | - | - | 600 minutes | 120 minutes | - |
Travel Lock | - | - | - | Yes | Yes | - |
App Controls | - | - | - | Yes | - | - |
Charging Time | - | - | - | - | 60 minutes | - |
Remote Controls | - | - | - | - | Yes | - |
Height | - | - | - | - | - | 21.26 inches |
Will My Sex Toy be Shipped Discreetly?
Of course it will! Discretion is always a priority when buying sex toys.
After all you don’t particularly want your mailman or neighbors knowing what you like to get up to in the bedroom!
So all shops will ship their toys in discreet packaging that will be indescernable from any other average package. In fact we’ve done a few posts that explore this very thing, reviewing the packaging from companies such as TooTimid, SheVibe, Adam&Eve, and Lovehoney.
So don’t fret, your gay sex toy won’t be shipped in a vibrating neon pink flashing box wrapped with feather boas and playing “I Want To Break Free” by Queen! Like Frankie Goes To Hollywood said: Relax!
Materials
It’s important to know what your new “best friend” is made of.
More specifically, is he porous or non-porous? Porous toys have tiny little holes (pores) in them, making it impossible to sterilize them.
They also tend to collect more dirt and debris, which can be irritating without a proper place to store your toys. Non-porous toys, on the other hand, don’t have any pores, allowing them to be both washed and sterilized. This is ideal for internal use toys since it reduces your risk of introducing unwanted bacteria into the mix.
Not to mention, soft plastics, jelly, rubber, PVC and vinyl often contain phthalates that can leach into your body!
- Porous: TPE, TPR, Fanta Flesh, Cyberskin, Superskin, vinyl, PVC, rubber, and jelly (among others!)
- Non-Porous: Silicone, stainless steel, ABS plastic, and glass.
Different Types of Gay Vibrators
There are many different types of vibrators for gay men. However, designs can vary quite a bit, and the type of toy you purchase will have a major effect on your overall enjoyment of the product.
Read through the short list below to learn about the different toy types!
- Cock Rings – These toys are designed to wrap around the penis, restricting blood flow. This causes harder, more impressive erections while also delaying orgasm for increased stamina!
- Butt Plugs – These toys are inserted inside the anus, providing a “full” feeling that can be used to enhance orgasm.
- Prostate Massagers – These toys specifically target the “P Spot”, giving users additional pleasure during sexual activities. Alternatively, these toys can also be used to achieve prostate orgasm!
- Dildos – Designed to look like a penis, these toys work great for solo and partner-based activities. Dildos can also be used for pegging.
- Strokers/Masturbators – These types of toys are designed to enhance masturbation. Designs vary, but they generally use physical movement to provide stimulation.
Reviewed by:
Allen Wiltshire