The 7 Best His and Hers Strap-ons for Pegging and Beyond

Alex Harvey
by Alex Harvey
best his and hers strap-on in test
Looking for a strap-on that suits any gender? We’ve got it! A unisex strap-on is designed with comfort in mind, as the strap-on is compatible with every body. Whether you and your partner want to take turns wearing one or if you’re thinking of getting matching strap-ons, we’ve rounded up the 7 best his and hers strap-ons out there, so that you can get to pegging and pleasing faster!
Test WinnerCheapestBeginnerIntermediateVibratingHollowDouble Penetration
Tracey Cox Pegging Kit
Phallic Strap-On Set
Beginner's Strap-On Kit
Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit
Lovehoney Perfect Partner
Doc Johnson
Menage A Trois
Tracey Cox Pegging KitPhallic Strap-On SetBeginner's Strap-On KitTantus Intermediate Strap-On KitLovehoney Perfect PartnerDoc JohnsonMenage A Trois
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Our Review and Rating Procedure

As a company, we know how important it is to feel comfortable and satisfied when choosing (and using!) a sex toy, which is why our team of testers and reviewers conduct extensive research on each toy that gains a spot in our reviews; we pride ourselves on providing un-biased and informative content which is researched and written by non-experts and experts alike!

As a company, we’ve tested over 300+ products which is why we feel confident that our readers can trust us as their #1 source for sex toy information; the process of testing the best his and hers strap-ons took 25.5 hours of testing, research, reviewing and lots more!

Our readers trust our rating process as it is based on a number of important factors such as, quality, design, price, ease of use, pros and cons, durability, customer reviews, and the shop itself- we’ve tested enough products to know what makes a sex toy truly buzz!

Our goal is to create the most diverse team of testers and reviewers, so that our readers can read a review written by someone just like them!

Our Review and Rating Procedure

Different types of strap-ons

  • Hollow strap ons can be used for ED or as an extender, or you can insert a bullet vibrator into the hollow center
  • Vibrating strap-ons have a motor in the shaft or at the base or both for double pleasure. Vibrating strap-ons can have multiple patterns or vibrations to choose from.
  • Strapless strap-ons are worn in the vagina of the penetrating partner and are available with or without vibration. Strapless strap-on have the benefit of pleasing both parties
  • Double penetration strap ons have a double shaft for DP fantasies

How to choose a his and hers strap-on

  • Material — Where possible, opt for non-porous, non-toxic materials, such as silicone, ABS plastic, glass, or metal, and try to avoid porous materials, such as TPE, jelly, and PVC.
  • Dildo size — Beginners should start with small strap-ons and large strap-ons may be more suitable for experienced players
  • Dildo shape — Dildo’s come in a wide range of shapes to it’s important to pick the one that suits your needs. Some popular styles include realistic, tapered for easy insertion, bulbed head for more intense stimulation, and curved for P/G-spot stimulation.
  • Harness size — it is important to use a harness that fits you perfectly as comfort and safety are a priority.
  • Vibrations — Do you and your partner like vibrations, and if so, what kind? Do you need a lot of power or do love having different patterns to explore?

What is a unisex strap-on?

  • suitable for all genders
  • not anatomy specific
  • great for changing power play
  • pleasure for both parties

Read on for our top picks of the best his and hers strap-ons, on the market today!

FAQ

What lube can I use with a his and hers strap-on?
There are a lot of different types of lube out there and your strap-on kit might come with specific instructions on which lube is best to use. The most popular type of lube is water-based lube, however some people prefer to use a gel type lube such as silicone-based lube, for anal play. NEVER use silicone-based lube with a silicone toy as this will degrade and ruin the toy.
Are his and hers strap-ons safe?
Yes! His and hers strap-ons are totally safe, and lots of fun, to use! Always follow any instructions or precautions laid out when using the toy.
Who can use a his and hers strap-on?
Despite the gendered label, anybody can use a his and hers strap-on. His and hers typically refers to unisex. Anybody can wear a strap-on, and anyone can be penetrated by one too. The beauty of strap-ons is that they let anyone have a penis, or a shaft to use as they please. Some strap-ons are specifically designed for 'packing' which is great.
How long can I wear a his and hers strap-on for?
You can wear a strap-on for as long as it is comfortable for you. It is usually recommended that you spend a day or two wearing the strap-on around the house before you start using it, so that you can get used to how it feels with your body.
Where do I buy a his and hers strap-on?
You can buy a strap-on from any of the store links provided in this roundup. Some well-known shops include, Lovehoney, Adam&Eve, SheVibe, TooTimid, Spectrumboutique, The Stockroom, Oxyshop etc.
What is the best material for a his and hers strap-on?
The best material for body-safe use is medical-grade silicone, metal, or glass. This is because they are non-porous do not trap the germs inside of them that other sex toy materials do.
How to make a his and hers strap-on?
We do not recommend making your own sex toys and always recommend that you purchase purpose-made sex toys from a reputable shop. Safety first!
What are the best his and hers strap-on positions?
There are lots of fun positions that you can try with a strap-on. The easiest and most beginner friendly of these positions are doggy style and missionary. These are simple positions that can help you get used to the experience of wearing a strap on.
How do I use a his and hers strap-on with a partner?
There are lots of ways that you can use a strap-on with a partner, but most of them come down to you either penetrating or being penetrated by your partner. Do what feels good to both of you, and remember, it shouldn't hurt. Regardless of gender or body type, anybody can be on the giving or the receiving end of a strap-on.

What Is A His and Hers Strap-On?

A his and hers strap-on, or a unisex strap-on, is a type of dildo that secures into a harness that a person wears; this can create a simulated penis or a shaft to penetrate the other person with. A strap-on can be worn and used by anyone, however you should be sure to check that the strap-on dildo you are using is suitable for the penetration that you engage in; for example, anal play requires a strap-on with a flared base for safety. Some strap-ons are designed or can be used for 'packing' as well as sexual play. There are a few different types of strap-on, such as hollow, strapless, vibrating, and double. His and hers strap-ons are completely safe when used correctly, and they can be a lot of fun to use; it is recommended that beginners to strap-on wear should wear the strap-on and harness around the house before use, in order to get used to the feeling of it. When it comes to materials, the best option is a body-safe, non-porous material such as silicone, metal, or glass; of course, some people prefer softer and more flexible materials such as PVC, TPE, or Jelly, however it should be noted that these materials are porous and not body-safe.

The 7 Best his and hers strap-ons in Test

1 Test Winner

Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit

Design:

Rating: Tracey Cox Pegging Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the his and hers strap-on.

80/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Tracey Cox Pegging Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
Quality:

Rating: Tracey Cox Pegging Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

80/100
Price:

Rating: Tracey Cox Pegging Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Tracey Cox Pegging Kit was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Tracey Cox Pegging Kit.

4.5/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Tracey Cox Pegging Kit was rated 4.7 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.7/5.0

Sources
Rating star4.7/5Lovehoney.com (96)

If you are a beginner looking for their first strap-on kit, the Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit is a great option for you. This kit includes a machine-washable harness, two dildos, and a bullet vibrator for your pleasure.

There are a number of ways that you can use this kit. You can use the dildos by themselves to manually pleasure your partner or you can hook them into the harness. The vibrator can either be inserted into the dildo, or into a special pocket in the harness.

Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit test
Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit features
Recommended for the intermediate user

The Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
The vibrations of the Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and somewhat buzzy
Sound:

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit felt to the reviewer.

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Power:

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Tracey Cox Pegging Kit if you...
You should buyWant a beginner strap-on kit
You should buyWant a strap-on kit that's easy to use
You should buyWant a budget friendly strap-on kit
You should NOT buy the Tracey Cox Pegging Kit if you...
You should NOT buyWant a quiet strap-on kit
You should NOT buyWant a completely hands free kit
Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit features
Features
AllergiesPhthalate-free 
WaterproofSubmersible 
Vibration modes7 Speeds and Patterns 
Insertable length6 inches
Length7 inches
Diameter2 inches
Harness Size65 inches
FlexibilityFirm 
MaterialsSilicone 
Pros
ProsDiscreet packaging
ProsGreat size for beginners
ProsEasy to use
ProsHigh quality dildo
Cons
ConsBullet vibrator is strong and loud
ConsStrap design could be improved
ConsO-Ring on the strap stretches out
ConsVibrator pocket is too high
Conclusion

The Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit is a great choice for beginners who are looking for their first strap-on kit. This is a budget friendly product that gives customers everything they need to explore pegging.

One way that the Tracey Cox pegging kit stands apart from its competitors is that this kit includes a pocket in the harness. The bullet vibe can be placed in this harness which means that both participants can receive sensual pleasure.

That said, the strap design could still be improved and the pocket for the bullet vibe might be a little too high for comfort or satisfaction for some users.

All in all, this is a good overall pegging kit for beginners. This is the best overall kit on this list and is a great purchase for anyone looking to explore pegging.

2 Cheapest

Silicone Phallic Strap-On Set

Design:

Rating: Phallic Strap-On Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the his and hers strap-on.

60/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Phallic Strap-On Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
Quality:

Rating: Phallic Strap-On Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

60/100
Price:

Rating: Phallic Strap-On Set was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other his and hers strap-ons.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Phallic Strap-On Set was rated 3.4 out of 5, which means it is a top tier sex toy rated amongst the best.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Phallic Strap-On Set.

3.4/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Phallic Strap-On Set was rated 4.0 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.0/5.0

Sources
Rating star4/5TooTimid (1)

This realistic strap-on dildo is a great way to bring your sexual fantasies to life. It includes realistic veins and a sculpted head that will massage your insides while you get penetrated by your partner. It is silky smooth and feels just like a real penis.

 

Silicone Phallic Strap-On Set test
Silicone Phallic Strap-On Set features
Recommended for the beginner and intermediate

The Silicone Phallic Strap-On Set was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Phallic Strap-On Set if you...
You should buyWant an inexpensive strap-on kit
You should buyWant a silicone strap-on
You should buyWant a simple and beginner friendly strap-on kit
You should NOT buy the Phallic Strap-On Set if you...
You should NOT buyWant a vibrator
You should NOT buyWant an elaborate strap-on kit
Silicone Phallic Strap-On Set features
Features
Diameter1.25 inches
Height4.38 inches
Insertable length4.25 inches
MaterialsSilicone Dildo with Faux-Leather Harness 
Length4.38 inches
AdjustableAdjustable harness 
Pros
ProsSilicone
ProsSimple and beginner friendly
ProsInexpensive
ProsFaux-leather harness
Cons
ConsNot a vibrator
ConsSmall
ConsCheap
ConsToo simple for experienced users
Conclusion

The Realistic Phallic Strap-On Set is the best quality option for anyone looking for a cheap strap-on kit. The Phallic Strap-On Set stands out from similar products due to the simplicity of its design, and its low price point. The realistic design of the penis is wonderful and is very satisfying.

The Phallic Strap-On Set could be improved by adding a vibration feature.

3 Beginner

Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Kit

Design:

Rating: Beginner's Strap-On Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the his and hers strap-on.

80/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Beginner's Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
Quality:

Rating: Beginner's Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

100/100
Price:

Rating: Beginner's Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Beginner's Strap-On Kit was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Beginner's Strap-On Kit.

4.5/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Beginner's Strap-On Kit was rated 4.7 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.7/5.0

Sources
Rating star4.7/5Lovehoney.com (177)

The Beginner’s Strap-On Harness Kit is perfectly proportioned for your pegging pleasure. The harness is adjustable to fit your body, so you can enjoy all the penetrative pleasure that you desire. This smooth, realistic, silicone dildo is sculpted to easily stimulate your internal pleasure zones.

This kit also includes three O-Rings that you can swap out for your pleasure. You can use these to attach nearly any dildo you want to the harness. You can even insert the bullet vibrator into the back of the harness for extra fun.

Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Kit test
Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Kit features
Recommended for the beginner

The Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Beginner's Strap-On Kit if you...
You should buyWant the best strap-on kit for beginners
You should buyWant a silicone strap-on
You should buyWant an adjustable harness
You should NOT buy the Beginner's Strap-On Kit if you...
You should NOT buyWant a flimsy dildo
You should NOT buyWant a harness that is comfortable to wear
Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Kit features
Features
AllergiesLatex-free, phthalate-free 
WaterproofSubmersible 
Insertable length4.5 inches
Length5 inches
Harness Size68 inches
MaterialsSilicone 
FlexibilityFirm 
Pros
ProsBeginner friendly
ProsSilicone
ProsSturdy
ProsEasy to clean
Cons
ConsStraps become uncomfortable after extended use
ConsLimited color choice
ConsSmall dildo
ConsDildos fall off the harness sometimes
Conclusion

The Beginner’s Strap-On Harness Kit by Lovehoney is the best pegging package for beginners. This simple, no frills package gives users everything they need to explore pegging, at a reasonable price.

The Beginner’s Strap-On Harness Kit stands apart from other pegging kits for its budget friendly price point and the simplicity of its design. There is still room for improvement though, particularly in regards to the straps. The straps feel like backpack straps and they can become uncomfortable to wear after awhile.

However, this is still a great purchase for the money, especially for beginners.

4 Intermediate

Tantus Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Kit

Design:

Rating: Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the his and hers strap-on.

100/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
Quality:

Rating: Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

100/100
Price:

Rating: Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

Medium
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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit.

4.5/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit was rated 4.8 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.8/5.0

Sources
Rating star4.8/5Lovehoney.com (31)
Rating star5/5SheVibe (1)
Lovehoney.com
ProsDiscreet shipping and billingPros15% off by email sign-upProsFree shipping on orders over $60
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SheVibe
ProsDiscreet shipping & billing​ProsTheir website ROCKS!ProsFREE shipping on orders $68+
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Spectrumboutique
ProsDiscreet shipping & billingProsShipping rate: $8ProsFREE shipping on orders $99+
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If you’re getting tired of your beginner strap-on kit, it’s time to level up to the Tantus Bend Over harness. This intermediate pegging set features two dildos and O-Rings to help you jump into your fun right away.

This is the right size and shape to hit all of your pleasure spots. The dildos in this kit are made from platinum silicone, the best material available. This kit also includes a special bullet vibrator that can be inserted into a special pocket in the harness for extra fun.

 

Tantus Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Kit test
Tantus Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Kit features
Recommended for the intermediate user

The Tantus Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Kit was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit if you...
You should buyWant an intermediate pegging kit
You should buyWant a comfortable harness
You should buyWant options for dildos
You should NOT buy the Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit if you...
You should NOT buyAre a beginner
Tantus Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Kit features
Features
AllergiesLatex-free, phthalate-free 
WaterproofSplashproof 
Vibration speedsSingle speed 
Width1.5 inches
Length6.5 inches
Insertable length4.5 inches
Harness Size60 inches
MaterialsSilicone 
FlexibilityFlexible 
Pros
ProsSmooth platinum silicone
ProsPerfect prostate stimulation
ProsEasy to clean
ProsFirm
Cons
ConsOnly one O-Ring
ConsBullet vibrator
ConsButtons on harness can pop off if you are not careful
ConsCould be more curved
Conclusion

The Tantus Bend Over harness kit is the perfect pegging kit for intermediate users. This is a little bit more expensive than some of the other pegging kits available on the market, but this is also made a much higher quality and more advanced product.

The Tantus Bend Over stands out from similar products because of the high quality design of the harness. This is a great product to elevate your pleasure to the next level.

One way that the Tantus Bend Over could be improved is by modifying the pocket for the bullet vibrator. This is too high for many users to get pleasure from.

All in all, if you are an intermediate user looking for a new pegging kit, the Tantus Bend Over is your best choice.

5 Vibrating

Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On

Design:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the his and hers strap-on.

80/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
Quality:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

80/100
Price:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other his and hers strap-ons.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Lovehoney Perfect Partner.

4.0/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner was rated 4.3 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.3/5.0

Sources
Rating star4.3/5Lovehoney.com (85)

The Perfect Partner by Lovehoney is going to make all of your sexual fantasies come true. This pegging kit includes a vibrator that comes with three speeds and seven vibrating patterns. This kit includes a thick elastic waistband that goes around the hips of the person wearing the harness.

There is also a second, slimmer set of straps that secure the vibrating dildo in place. There is even a loop in the waistband that keeps the wired remote control close by.

Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On test
Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On features
Recommended for the intermediate user

The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
The vibrations of the Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and somewhat buzzy
Sound:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

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Power:

Rating: Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Lovehoney Perfect Partner if you...
You should buyWant a vibrating strap-on kit
You should buyWant a strap-on kit that is easy to use
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Perfect Partner if you...
You should NOT buyDo not want a vibrating strap-on kit
You should NOT buyWant a hands free remote
You should NOT buyWant a high quality harness
Lovehoney Perfect Partner Vibrating Strap-On features
Features
AllergiesPhthalate-free 
Remote ControlsYes 
WaterproofSplashproof 
Vibration speedsSpeeds and patterns 
Insertable length6 inches
Length6.5 inches
Harness Size40 inches
MaterialsPVC 
FlexibilityFirm 
Pros
ProsNice size and texture
ProsVibrating mechanism works well
ProsComfortable
ProsEasy to use
Cons
ConsThe remote control is not hands free
ConsHarness can't be adjusted
ConsPoor fastening
ConsPorous PVC material
Conclusion

The Perfect Partner is an excellent vibrating strap-on kit for your pegging pleasure. Considering that it is a vibrating toy, the Perfect Partner is listed at an astonishingly low price point. For that reason alone it is worth snagging up if you are even a little bit curious.

The Perfect Partner stands out from other pegging kits because it vibrates. It comes with a wired-in remote control that you can use to control the speeds and patterns. The vibrating features are wonderful, but what’s less wonderful is that you can’t really adjust this harness or change out the dildo for a different one.

The Perfect Partner could be improved by making it more adjustable to fit any type of body. However, this still remains the best choice for anyone looking for a vibrating option to explore pegging pleasure.

6 Hollow

Doc Johnson Silicone Strap-On Kit

Design:

Rating: Doc Johnson was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the his and hers strap-on.

100/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Doc Johnson was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
Quality:

Rating: Doc Johnson was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

100/100
Price:

Rating: Doc Johnson was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

Medium
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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Doc Johnson was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Doc Johnson.

4.0/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Doc Johnson was rated 4.7 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.7/5.0

Sources

This great strap-on kit has three interchangeable hollow dildos that are compatible with its stretchable harness. This is the perfect tool to extend your length and width.

The smallest dildo has seven inches of insertable length, and the maximum girth on this is six inches. The largest dildo in the kit has eight inches of insertable length and seven inches of girth.

The harness and dildo sit flush against your body thanks to the straps and elastic bands on the harness. All of these silicone dildos are firm enough to be used for penetrative play.

Doc Johnson Silicone Strap-On Kit test
Doc Johnson Silicone Strap-On Kit features
Recommended for the intermediate user

The Doc Johnson Silicone Strap-On Kit was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Doc Johnson if you...
You should buyWant hollow, interchangeable dildos
You should buyWant a stretchable harness
You should NOT buy the Doc Johnson if you...
You should NOT buyWant a simple strap-on kit
Doc Johnson Silicone Strap-On Kit features
Features
AllergiesPhthalate-free 
WaterproofSubmersible 
Diameter1.75 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Length8 inches
MaterialsSilicone 
FlexibilityFirm 
Pros
ProsVersatile
ProsQuality design
ProsSilicone
ProsEasy to use
Cons
ConsSmall internal circumference
ConsNot a vibrator
ConsLimited size range
ConsRelatively expensive
Conclusion

The Doc Johnson Silicone Strap-On Kit is one of the best quality strap-on kits available. It is a little bit more expensive than some of its competitor products, but it is made of higher quality material than many of the strap-on dildos available on the market.

The Doc Johnson stands out because the dildos in this strap-on kit are hollow. This means that they can be used as a conventional strap-on, but they can also be used as penis extenders.

The versatility and high-quality design of the Doc Johnson are wonderful. What’s less wonderful is the relatively limited range of choices and sizes that are available. Additionally, these do not vibrate and the package is relatively expensive.

One way that the Doc Johnson could be improved is by adding a vibration feature. They could also make the internal diameter of the dildos wider.

Overall, this is a good kit for intermediate users who already enjoy pegging and want to take this to the next level.

7 Double Penetration

MENAGE A TROIS STRAP-ON KIT

Design:

Rating: Menage A Trois was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the his and hers strap-on.

60/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Menage A Trois was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
Quality:

Rating: Menage A Trois was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

60/100
Price:

Rating: Menage A Trois was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other his and hers strap-ons.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Menage A Trois was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Menage A Trois.

4.0/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Menage A Trois was rated 4.0 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.0/5.0

Sources
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This is a unique strap-on kit that gives people with penises a second one. This makes it the perfect way to explore the fun of double penetration. One simply attaches the flexible dildo above their own real penis and the fun begins.

You can use this kit to penetrate your partner’s anus and vagina at the same time. You can also use the jelly dildo as a clit stimulator. The dildo is realistically designed to please your partner with its texture that includes veins and ridges.

You will feel sexy in this harness that is styled to look like a thong. The dildo also has a suction cup base that allows you to use it for hands-free fun.

MENAGE A TROIS STRAP-ON KIT test
MENAGE A TROIS STRAP-ON KIT features
Recommended for the intermediate user

The MENAGE A TROIS STRAP-ON KIT was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Menage A Trois if you...
You should buyWant a budget-friendly strap-on kit
You should buyWant a built in cock-ring for double penetration pleasure
You should NOT buy the Menage A Trois if you...
You should NOT buyWant a vibrating strap-on kit
MENAGE A TROIS STRAP-ON KIT features
Features
Harness Size60" inches
MaterialsNylon webbing, nickel free metal hardware, silicone dildo, plastic hardware 
Length5.75 inches
Width1.25 inches
Pros
ProsFits well
ProsGreat for double penetration
ProsYou can substitute a sturdier dildo for the one that is included
ProsEnjoyable to use
Cons
ConsDildo is soft
ConsLow quality straps
ConsInstructions unclear
ConsHarness can become uncomfortable
Conclusion

The Menage A Trois is the perfect way to explore the fun of double penetration without bringing a third partner into the mix. This strap-on kit is designed with extra O-Rings to give users a second penis that they can use to pleasure their partner.

The price is pretty low and this is fair. The concept behind the Menage A Trois is wonderful but the execution is less good. The dildo that’s included is small and flimsy. The straps of the harness are uncomfortable and of low quality.

The Menage A Trois stands out from other strap-on kits in that this one is specifically designed to simulate a threesome/double penetration. Most strap-on kits do not focus on this.

Unfortunately, this cool concept is marred by the low quality of the product itself. The Menage A Trois could be vastly improved by replacing the flimsy dildo with a sturdier one, and by improving the quality of the harness itself.

If you want to explore the fun of double penetration but are uncomfortable bringing a third partner into the mix and do not want to break the bank, you should check out the Menage A Trois. This is the perfect option for you.

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Phallic Strap-On Set
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Beginner's Strap-On Kit
Beginner's Strap-On Kit
Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit
Tantus Intermediate Strap-On Kit
Lovehoney Perfect Partner
Lovehoney Perfect Partner
Doc Johnson
Doc Johnson
Menage A Trois