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Knowing how to use a vibrator on your wife is an exciting way to add a spark to your intimate life. Just like shaking things up and having sex in new places, trying new positions or even role playing, learning how to use a vibrator on her can take sex to an entirely new level.

Okay, it doesn’t have to be a wife, for those of you who are single, knowing how to use a vibrator of your girlfriend is an awesome skill to have too.

So, if you are looking for tips on how to use a vibrator on her, you’ve landed in the right spot.; as I am going to show you the right spots – internally and externally – to stimulate her with a vibrator. Plus, with the help of Be-Be and Grey, I will share photos of positions you can use to rock her world with a vibrator all night long.

But first, there is something important to keep in mind….

You’re All She Wants; Vibrators Are the Icing on the Cake

If she’s the one asking for a vibrator, don’t take it personally! She’s not asking for a new sex toy because you’re not enough. On the contrary, you are all she wants and vibrators are simply the icing on the cake. So, if you’re worried that you’re not satisfying your wife or girlfriend, stop. The lady in your life just wants to make a good thing even better.

How Using a Vibrator on Your Wife Enhances Sex

There are many ways using a vibrator on her enhances sex. Sure, you have seriously, mad skills but can you vibrate? Can you stimulate her clitoris with pulsating bliss while making love to her? Or can you manage double penetration on your own?

The answer is yes to all of the above if you add a vibrator to your time between the sheets. And, depending on the type of vibrator you choose, you can bring her to screaming, squirming orgasms in so many different ways.

Types of Vibrators to Use on Her

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Screaming O Tri-It Vibe

There are several types of vibrators that you can use on her depending on the type of stimulation you’d like to give her. Each and every one of them can create an exciting, yet intimate evening while giving her the best you have to offer with a little twist of wow. Here is a list of vibrators and how you can use them on your wife of girlfriend.

Click here to read my product guide for this article. You’ll find suggestions and photos of each type of vibrator listed above.

How to Use a Vibrator on Her

Now that you know the basic why’s of how to use a vibrator on her and the right tools for the job, it’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty and show you exactly how it’s done. Our models, Be-Be and Grey, will show how to use a vibrator on a woman and the best positions to maximize her pleasure as well as your own.

But first, let’s take a close-up and intimate look at her vagina. That way, you’ll know how to use a vibrator on her clitoris and other, sensitive, erogenous zones that surround that sweet spot.

How to Use a Vibrator on Her Clitoris and Vagina

When using a vibrator on your wife or girlfriend, hitting the right spots is crucial for her to have maximum enjoyment without getting numb. They key to giving her an incredible clitoral orgasm is to be gentle and not to use too high of a speed. Follow her verbal and physical cues or ask her which spot feels the best.

Furthermore, when using a vibrator for penetration, it’s very much like using your penis but you get to see her excitement without worrying about finishing before her. However, remember to use plenty of lubricant and start slow, watching and listening for her cues and don’t push too hard as you might hurt her.

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How to Use a Vibrator on Her

Use a bullet vibrator, clitoral stimulator or other vibrator against her clitoris. Some women like more pressure, some like less. In addition, she may enjoy direct stimulation or just above the clitoris (the clitoral hood) or just below the clitoris. Just be cautious around the urethral opening with any type of stimulation of penetration as it can cause irritation, soreness and painful cystitis.

How to Use a Vibrator on a Woman for Massage

Knowing how to use a vibrator on her for massage is important in that it relaxes her and is the perfect foreplay before bringing her to the big-o manually. Start by using a nice massage oil then run a vibrator over each of her most sensitive spots. Just think about the spots that you stroke or kiss that make her moan and apply different amounts of pressure.

The Best Positions for Using a Vibrator on Your Wife

Now, Be-Be and Grey are going to show you how to use a vibrator on her and the best positions for watching her squirm, giving her oral sex while using a vibrator and penetrating her while using a vibrator on her clitoris.

How to Use a Vibrator on Her Missionary Style

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How to use a vibrator on her missionary style

Using a vibrator on her in the missionary position allows you to watch her body and her expressions as you rub her clitoris or penetrate her vagina or anus. Plus, this position gives you full access to her breasts and sensitive nipples so you can send her over-the-top with the trifecta of sexual stimulation.

How to Use a Vibrator on Your Girlfriend Doggy Style

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How to use a vibrator on your wife in the doggy-style position
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Using a vibrator on her in the doggy-style position

Using a vibrator on her in the doggy-style position gives you the most thrilling views. Plus, you can stimulate her clitoris, penetrate her vagina or her anus. In addition, this position makes it easy for her to rock back against the vibrator, a cue to you that she wants more.

How to Use a Vibrator on Her During Oral Sex

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How to use a vibrator on a woman during oral sex

The vast majority of we ladies’ love receiving oral sex. And if you’re good at it, you can make yourself the king or oral gratification by penetrating her with a vibrator while using your cunninglingus skills.

How to Use a Vibrator on a Woman During Intercourse

The best way to use a vibrator or your wife is by stimulating her clitoris while you are inside her. Not only do you get the thrill of having intercourse, you will be stimulating her in two ways which very-well could lead to explosive, mutual orgasms. Plus, these positions bring you physically closer for that sensual, skin-to-skin contact.

Doggy Style with a Twist

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How to use a vibrator on your wife during sex

Slip it to her doggy-style while reaching around and holding a vibrator against her clitoris. To change things up and give her deeper penetration, have her lay with her chest on the pillow and bottom in the air.

Spectacular Spooning

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How to use a vibrator on a woman during sex

Spooning is the one way to get super close to your girl while making love. But, by holding a vibrator against her clitoris while spooning, you may both hot the big-o at the same time.

Missionary Buzz

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How to use a vibrator on your girlfriend during sex

This position isn’t as easy to pull off, but if you can do it, this is the best position for hitting her g-spot while using a vibrator to make her clitoris tingle.

The Electric Cowgirl

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How to use a vibrator on her during sex

Using a vibrator on her clitoris in the cowgirl position is easy to do! Plus, as she grinds on you, she will put more pressure against the vibrator. And the best part is that you have a free hand to squeeze her rear and breasts.

Be Creative When Using a Vibrator on Her

Learning how to use a vibrator on a woman is just the first step to really spicing up your relationship in the bedroom. It will not only allow you to learn her body better, it will give you a whole new way of getting her off. So, start with whatever vibrator you’re comfortable with (click here to see my product guide). Then, get creative with positions and places where you have your alone time.

From there, sex will be more thrilling, more intimate and the orgasms will be like nothing you’ve experienced before.

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