5 Best Sexual Card Games
Who doesn’t love a good card game? When I found out you can mix card games with a bit of sexual fun, it was a win-win! Whether you need some inspiration, demonstrations or direction, you will be able to find your perfect deck in this roundup, I’m sure of it!
Test Winner | Budget Friendly | Best for Beginners | Best Bondage | Best set |
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Lovehoney Talk Dirty Cards | Lovehoney Confessions Game | Tracey Cox Sex Position Card | Lovehoney Bondage Game | Je Joue Gift Set |
$9Shop Now | $9Shop Now | Shop Now | $10$20 Shop Now | $83Shop Now |
Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons |
How We Test sexual card games
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To find the very best sexual card games, our testers tried and reviewed 83 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre sexual card games didn’t make the list!
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Test Winner Lovehoney Oh! Talk Dirty Playing Cards
- 2 jokers that you can personalise
- 3 different game ideas to try out
- Lower the card number, the less spicy the content
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Can also be used for other card games
- ✅ Comes with a whole range of phrases to try
- ✅ Perfect for those who aren't sure what to say
Cons
- ❌ I found a couple of typos
- ❌ Some prompts can be a bit repetitive
Why I Chose It
As a huge lover of the weekly games night, you can imagine how much my tail was wagging when I discovered that it was going to get a whole lot more exciting. The Lovehoney Oh! Talk Dirty Playing Cards are an excellent way of spicing up your bedtime antics between you and a partner. I love how versatile these cards are and how they can be used by anyone – from the lower number cards having less spicy suggestions, which are perfect for beginners – compared to the higher number cards which have spicer prompts for the more brave and daring partners.
This pack allows provides prompts and suggestions to help draw out the anxiety that comes with asking ‘awkward’ questions to you partner. Card games with prompts are some of my favourite ways to learn more about someone else! Our tester Rachel gave a glowing review, as her partner struggles with finding inspiration on what to say sometimes – “They’re literally a ready-made pack of everything I’d like him to say!” Stage fright in the bedroom is something I think we have all experienced once, so when this helping hand reaches out, I would strongly advise grabbing hold!
With 52 different suggestions given, as well as the opportunity for 2 personalised cards (the jokers) to make up your own questions, this pack does not hold back on providing ideas. I would advise holding of writing on the joker cards until you have gathered some inspiration after using the pack first.
Budget Friendly Lovehoney Oh! Confessions Card Game
- 52 different questions cards
- 1 for each week of the year
- ‘Would you rather?’ style questions
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Good range of questions
- ✅ Great for starting kinky conversations
- ✅ Fun way to get to know your partner
Cons
- ❌ Too tame for kinkier couples
- ❌ Forfeits aren't very exciting
- ❌ Only exciting to answer once
Why I Chose It
I would say I have always been one to own up when I was holding in a secret, but on the other hand, I like to keep my cards close to my chest. I knew all my dirty little secrets were going to going to be laid on the table when I saw this Lovehoney Oh! Confessions Card Game, and if I am honest, I am not mad about it… If I can speak for us all, telling out partners out fantasies and secrets can be challenging, and even asking what we want to ask sometimes is even harder, that’s why I love this deck so much.
With 52 different cards asking would you rather questions or pick a choice, you can choose a new card for every week of the year, or use them all in one session! For the most daring couples, this isn’t the most risky pack, so if you are looking for very raunchy would you rather questions, then I wouldn’t suggest these. But for beginners or people that find it hard to ask their partner questions, it is a great ice-breaker or way add more spice into the relationship. With some spicy forfeit questions if you don’t answer the would you rather questions, this pack is a great idea for a stay at home date night.
Our tester Is, is someone who is “in a relationship where sex is a common topic of conversation”, and found the cards slightly tame, or suggested ideas of things that they regularly talk about. Despite this, she says that she would “recommend them to partners who want to start having more open sexual conversations but aren’t sure how to start.” If this sounds like you, then I would recommend adding these to your Lovehoney basket!
Best for Beginners Tracey Cox Supersex Sex Position Card Deck
- Demonstrates heterosexual positions only
- 10 different idea categories
- 50 different cards included
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Clear photos and written instructions
- ✅ 10 different categories to help you find the perfect position
- ✅ Lots of variety in terms of difficulty
Cons
- ❌ Excludes non-heterosexual couples
- ❌ Some of the categories are very specific and might not get used
- ❌ Some positions are just impractical!
Why I Chose It
We’ve all been a beginner somewhere along the line, so when I saw this Tracey Cox Supersex Sex Position Card Deck, I knew I had to recommend it as my ‘Best for Beginners’ pick. With a visual demonstration, using actual people and not just silhouettes, as well as a ‘How’, ‘Why’ and ‘Try’ explanation, this deck is great for those of you who need inspiration on different positions that you might not have tried yet.
Starting off with an explanation of how to perform the movement, as well as the physical picture, is great of understanding a new position. My favourite feature of this pack is the ‘Why’ section of each card. It is a quick way of understanding why you might want to perform that position, or why you might NOT want to!
Flip the cards over and blindly choose a position based on what you want to try or feel! I love this feature, it makes you feel like there are 2 games in 1! Rachel liked the cards, saying “The cards really explain things well, and the large format makes everything easier to see when the card is on the bed next to you.”
It is a shame that this pack only offers suggestions and positions for heterosexual couples, and it would have been nice to have a mix of cards. Most card games I have seen recently have been focussing on heterosexual couples, and it would be nice to be more inclusive.
Best Bondage Lovehoney Hot Knots Bondage Game
- Includes a pack of cards, 2 satin restraints and a blind-fold
- Each card gives a different instruction on a different action to perform
- 52 different cards/idea suggestions
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to play
- ✅ Comes with everything you need to start the game
- ✅ Has a lot of fun and kinky ideas
- ✅ Great introduction to BDSM
Cons
- ❌ Might be too intense for those who are very new to BDSM
- ❌ The restraints aren't super strong
Why I Chose It
Mixing a card games with bondage, the Lovehoney Hot Knots Bondage Game is great for those of you who want to spice up your bedtime routine! Including a blindfold and a set of 2 satin ties, as well as 52 different card suggestions, this set has all you need for some kinky fun! If you think this is some hardcore BDSM play, then think again, as this set is definitely more for those who have never tried BDSM before. With the thin satin restraints you might be disappointed if you are looking for something more intense.
Despite this, our tester Kasia explained that the cards were “slightly spicer than some of the other games I have tried”. With a mix of tame and spicy cards, this game is for those who want to have a bit of growth – starting off in the beginner zone and having room to advance. I also love the suggestion card – suggesting things that you could gather before playing the game, like chocolate spread or honey, in order to make it more exciting! But then again, is Lovehoney just being lazy by not including these items?
These cards are also a great way of introducing more structure and ideas to your BDSM play – try using them for inspiration and instructions, even if you decide to use more intense restraints or BDSM equipment. Just because it doesn’t come with the most intense leather and chains, doesn’t mean you cant swap that part out!
Best set Je Joue The Naughty Gift Set
- Includes satin restraints, a blindfold, a pack of truth or dare cards, a candle and a vibrator
- Rechargeable vibrator – 120 minutes of play time
- Candle ingredients: Soy wax, linalool, alpha-Hexylcinnamaldehyde, linalyl acetate, indole
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Perfect for a sexy gift to yourself or a partner
- ✅ Massage candle feels great
- ✅ Great range of questions/dares for increasing intimacy
- ✅ High quality vibrator with rumbly vibes
- ✅ Beautifully presented
Cons
- ❌ Silk blindfold/restraint is a little basic
- ❌ Ylang-yland scent can get a little overpowering
Why I Chose It
Truth or dare? Well truthfully, I think this might be the most exciting set I have seen! The more the merrier, as in this Je Joue Naughty Gift Set, you don’t only just receive a sexual card game, but a vibrator and a candle too! Playing a game of truth or dare is fun in itself, but when you add in sexual suggestions, the adrenaline starts pumping a little harder. Sorry, did I forget to mention the silk restraints AND the blindfold! Je Joue really thinks you have been good this year…
I love to be spoilt, so when I saw this product treating me to more than I hoped, I got overly excited. As a sex toy expert, you can imagine my excitement when I saw the vibrator! One of decent size too! Pairing the vibrator with the blindfold, as well as the mystery of the truth or dare card that your partner is about to ask you, this is the most luxurious set I have seen in a while.
As this is a card game roundup, Is who tested the cards, says that “the truth cards are more centered around emotional intimacy while the dare cards are more geared towards physical intimacy.” The dare cards give you ways to incorporate the blindfold, candle and vibrator, which is great as some other card games that come with accessories, expect you to improvise! If you are willing to splash the cash, and I mean really spend a fair amount of dollars, then I would agree that this set is a great investment! With a large candle and rechargeable vibrator, this set will last you for ages!
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Budget Friendly | Best for Beginners | Best Bondage | Best set |
Overall score | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.4 / 5.0 from 49 users | 3.9 / 5.0 from 67 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 56 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 52 users | 5 / 5.0 from 3 users |
Price | Cheap | Cheap | Affordable | Affordable | Moderate |
Design | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Ease of use | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Quality | 70 / 100 | 65 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | 40 / 100 |
Power | - | - | - | - | 60 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | neither really buzzy nor rumbly |
Materials | 52 Cards | 52 'Would You Rather' Cards | 50 Large Cards | Ties, blindfold: satin | Mimi Vibrator: Silicone |
Waterproof | No | No | No | - | Yes |
Vibration speeds | - | - | - | - | 5 |
Vibration patterns | - | - | - | - | 7 |
Length | - | - | - | - | Mimi Vibrator: 3.5 inches |
Rechargeable | - | - | - | - | Yes |
Battery Life | - | - | - | - | 120 minutes |
Charging Time | - | - | - | - | 120 minutes |
Travel Lock | - | - | - | - | No |
Storage Bag Included | - | - | - | - | No |
Ingredients | - | - | - | - | Candle: Soy wax, linalool, alpha-Hexylcinnamaldehyde, linalyl acetate, indole |
Different Kinds of Sexual Card Games
There are many different kinds to choose from, and in this review, you’ll find the following sex card game categories.
- Communication – Decks of cards that inpire different questiosn that you and ask your partner or be put in the hot seat! This kind is great for understanding and verbalising sexual desires.
- Positions – Pretty self-explanatory, but position cards are great for enhancing creativity and inspiring new challenges!
- Bondage – One of the freaky card games that encourages mild BDSM. Great for learning about bondage, and exploring hidden or new-found kinks.
- The gift set – With the truth or dare card game, this set also comes with a vibrator, a restraint and a blindfold! Oh, don’t forget the candle!
Why Try a Sexual Card Game With Your Partner(s)?
- To understand and learn each other’s boundaries.
- To explore and act out wants and fantasies together.
- To be inspired and motivated for shared intimacy.
Other Sexual Games To Play to Shake Things Up
Writing this, I grew a newfound interest in sexual games for couples. I really like how they encourage intimacy, creativity, and fun. So I continued my research on sexual games for couples, and found these 3 cute and sexy ideas!
Sex!!! Board Game
This is one steamy, sexual board game! With up to 4 players, you can play with another monogamous couple or as a foursome.
The rules are simple, whatever you land on, you do. Without revealing too much, I’d recommend finding spanking tools and maybe even massage candles or oils.
Sexy 6 Foreplay Dice
6 sets of dice that give you ideas on what to do, who to do them on and where to do them! With 6 dice to choose from, you can spice up your adult activities with some creative suggestions. Set the mood, the location and which bdy part is going to be targeted, and enjoy!
Sex Toys to Elevate Your Fun & Games
In this section, I’ve added 4 fun options to elevate quality time. There’s a long-distance sex toy option, and all 4 products could work for gay and queer couples.
If you’re interested in products suitable for transgender people, check out these 11 transgender sex toys.
Gaia Eco Bullet Vibrator By Blush
At Bedbible, we’ve mastered a list of strong bullet vibrators, and this one is no exception!
The Gaia Eco Rechargeable Bullet is made from eco-friendly materials and can be used externally over the entire body. Yay, sustainable orgasms!
The vibrations are buzzy; ideal for surface-level stimuli, and you get to navigate through 5 speeds and 5 patterns.
Teasing Enhancer Vibrating Cock Ring by Calexotics
While it may look harmless, it’s packed with rumbly power in the 7 different vibration modes.
The CalExotics Teasing Enhancer Cockring can be used to please by providing pressure on the shaft, and the little nubs can be used for perineum or clitoral stimuli.
If you’re looking for cock rings suitable for gay sex, check out these 8 gay cock rings and accompanying guides.
njoy Pure Plug Small Stainless Steel Butt Plug
Picture this; you answer sex-related questions whilst enjoying the cold, heavy sensations from this njoy pure plug. Sounds fun, right?
I think so! This is one of the smaller stainless steel sex toys making it ideal for light stimuli. If you’re looking for a medium or large version, just click this njoy link.
We-Vibe Moxie + App and Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Panty Vibrator
We-Vibe Moxie functions on impressive technology which via its app works in both short and long distances.
This hands-free vibrator is a great addition to any partner play. I found it genius in the context of sexual card games as a fun foreplay teaser. Use it as a clitoral or perineum vibrator.
Play with the 10 rumbly, pre-set vibrations and explore countless other variations via the app.
How to Find the Perfect Sexual Card Game for You and Your Partner(s)
If you go to the top section of this review, you’ll find a list of different sex card game categories. I recommend you and your partner(s) go through those and agree on 1 or 2 categories. That gives you a starting point for what to look for!
Align your expectations
Have a cute chat with your partner(s). Why do you want a sexual card game?What’s your objective?
Whether it be for fun or to enhance intimacy, you may better understand what to look for, when you’ve communicated your expectations.
Buy it together
If it’s your first time, and it’s something you haven’t discussed much, I think you should go through the products together! Just from this action, you’ll understand the type of sex cards your partner(s) wants, and don’t want, as well as your own preferences.
If you have discussed it, I’d say a cute little surprise wouldn’t hurt anyone.
Reviewed by:
Rachel Worthington