The 11 Best Strap-Ons for Lesbians, Whatever Your Style
Strap in for a guide to the very best strap-ons for lesbians! I’ve included all kinds of strap-ons from beginner friendly strap-ons for first timers to ones with added vibrations and some strapless strap-ons too! Today’s winner is …
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Tracey Cox Pegging Kit | Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo | Tantus Bend Over Intermediate | ShareVibe | SpareParts Joque | Lovehoney Harness Briefs | Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set | Desire Luxury Remote Control Strap-On Kit | Wet For Her Union | Doc Johnson Gal Pal | Calexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set |
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How We Test strap ons for lesbians
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To find the very best strap ons for lesbians, our testers tried and reviewed 56 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre strap ons for lesbians didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 913 toys over the past 6 years.
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Test winner Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit
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The Tracey Cox Supersex strap on pegging kit a great all-rounder as it comes with two different sized dildos. I think it’s also a nice touch that they have different textures and both come with a suction cup bases.
The harness is fully adjustable – able to fit hips up to 65-inches. Plus, it’s fully washable and can fit a variety of different sized dildos.
I also love that it comes with a bullet vibrator that slips inside the harness for some added stimulation for the wearer or inside the bigger of the two dildos.
Finally, the kit contains 3 different sized O rings so that you can use any different sized dildos that you have, or would like to buy.
Pros
- ✅ Two different size dildos
- ✅ Bullet vibe can be worn in harness or dildo
- ✅ Comfortable, adjustable harness
- ✅ Comes with multiple O rings
Cons
- ❌ Vibrator may not that strong
- ❌ Long straps can be awkward on smaller bodies
- ❌ Packaging unnecessarily gendered
- ❌ Bullet vibe takes small batteries that are hard to find
Why I Chose It
The Tracey Cox Supersex strap on pegging kit is an almost perfect beginner strap on for lesbians in my opinion! I can also see this being a kit that can grow with your experience and your exploration, as the O-rings allow you to use.
There are a couple of things that I would love to see improved, though. The first being the unnecessary gendering of the product. Calling it a pegging dildo is very heteronormative, as it only refers to a female partner using the strap-on on a male partner, when in reality this set can be used by anyone! Also, it would be much better if the bullet was rechargeable or took batteries that are easier to find.
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Budget-Friendly Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit
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The Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit is a great budget priced set. I would say it makes a great set for first timers or those that only use a strap-on occasionally.
It consists of an adjustable harness – fits up to 60-inch hips, that has a decorative thong back, a silicone dildo that is 6.5-inches in length and 1.25-inches diameter.
The harness is machine washable and you can use any dildo of the same diameter with it. The dildo is a fabulous colour and is the Sportsheets “Skyn” range. It has a luscious bulbous head that’s perfect for G-spot stimulation.
Pros
- ✅ A great budget priced strap on kit
- ✅ Fully adjustable and decorative back
- ✅ Silicone dildo with a bulbous head
Cons
- ❌ Thong back can be uncomfortable
- ❌ Straps aren't very wide
- ❌ Harness will only take one size dildo
Why I Chose It
If you’re looking for a harness and dildo kit and don’t want to break the budget then the Sportsheets Bikini harness and strap on dildo kit is worth a look.
While I think this is pretty good value for money, I can see some drawbacks. Firstly, the harness will only accommodate 1.25-inch diameter dildos if you want to try a different dildo, so it does limit what you can use.
Secondly, the straps are pretty thin so don’t offer a huge amount of support.
I would say this is great for occasional use but you would be better off investing a little more for a studier harness if you are going to use it more regularly.
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Best for Beginners Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit
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Although this is the intermediate kit, I think this is actually a fantastic beginners option, as the smallest dildo is just 1.25 inches in diameter!
The kit contains a washable durable harness with a soft pad at the front, 2 high-quality silicone dildos, 2 different sized O rings and a waterproof bullet vibrator. The single-speed bullet vibrator fits into a pocket in the harness itself to give the wearer some gorgeous tingly vibes.
The harness itself is comfortable and is adjustable between 15-inches and 60-inches (approximately US dress sizes 4-30). It has poppers at the front and is suitable for other strap on toys.
The dildos themselves are 5-inches and 6.5 inches in length and they are both curved with bulbous heads for the ultimate in sweet spot stimulation.
Pros
- ✅ A complete strap on harness kit
- ✅ Great quality
- ✅ Dildos shaped for G-spot stimulation
- ✅ Includes bullet vibrator
Cons
Reviewed by:
Emiel Vizzi