The 11 Best Strap-Ons for Lesbians, Whatever Your Style

Gail Hooper
by Gail HooperUpdated:

Strap in for a guide to the very best strap-ons for lesbians! I’ve included all kinds of strap-ons from beginner friendly strap-ons for first timers to ones with added vibrations and some strapless strap-ons too! Today’s winner is …

Test winner

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 173 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 186 user reviews

Strapless

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

3.9/5

Based on 50 user reviews

Harness

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 94 user reviews

Underwear harness

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 103 user reviews

Rabbit

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 11 user reviews

Remote Control

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 10 user reviews

Adjustable

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 155 user reviews

3.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

3.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 68 user reviews

Tracey Cox Pegging Kit Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Tantus Bend Over IntermediateShareVibeSpareParts JoqueLovehoney Harness BriefsHappy Rabbit Strap-On Harness SetDesire Luxury Remote Control Strap-On KitWet For Her Union Doc Johnson Gal PalCalexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set
Tracey Cox Pegging Kit Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Tantus Bend Over IntermediateShareVibeSpareParts JoqueLovehoney Harness BriefsHappy Rabbit Strap-On Harness SetDesire Luxury Remote Control Strap-On KitWet For Her Union Doc Johnson Gal PalCalexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set
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  • Two different size dildos
  • Bullet vibe can be worn in harness or dildo
  • Comfortable, adjustable harness
  • Comes with multiple O rings
  • Vibrator may not that strong
  • Long straps can be awkward on smaller bodies
  • Packaging unnecessarily gendered
  • Bullet vibe takes small batteries that are hard to find
  • A great budget priced strap on kit
  • Fully adjustable and decorative back
  • Silicone dildo with a bulbous head
  • Thong back can be uncomfortable
  • Straps aren't very wide
  • Harness will only take one size dildo
  • A complete strap on harness kit
  • Great quality
  • Dildos shaped for G-spot stimulation
  • Includes bullet vibrator
  • May need to cut the straps to keep it neat
  • Bullet vibrator isn't the best
  • Pleasure for both partners
  • Powerful, rechargeable bullet
  • Flexible design
  • Silky soft silicone
  • Attracts a lot of dust and lint
  • Can slip out easily
  • Very comfortable
  • Holds dildo sturdy in use
  • Quick and easy to put on/take off
  • Easy to adjust
  • Pricey
  • Harness only — no dildo included
  • Stretchy, comfortable design
  • Can be worn under clothes
  • Fits smaller and intermediate size dildos
  • Not adjustable
  • Only goes up to sixe 18
  • Can't switch out the O-ring
  • Versatile harness can be used with other dildos
  • Dildo is fully waterproof with a suction cup
  • Travel lock for safe travels
  • Rechargeable
  • Not so great for thrusting
  • Might not be girthy enough for some
  • Powerful dual motor dildo
  • Easy to use remote control
  • Versatile and adjustable harness
  • Fully waterproof dildo with a suction cup
  • Flexible but not a lot of give in the dildo
  • Remote control isn't waterproof
  • Gives you a close, intimate experience
  • Completely posable
  • Added clitoral stimulation for the wearer
  • Rechargeable bullet vibrator
  • There's a learning curve to using it
  • May be easier to use in a harness for some
  • Slim, non-threatening strapless dildo
  • Can be worn in a harness too
  • Fully waterproof
  • Doesn't stay in well
  • Will be too small for many
  • Not the most stimulating shape
  • Very comfortable and sexy panty harness
  • Can accommodate different sized dildos
  • No scratchy straps to deal with
  • Very easy to pull on and use
  • Might not offer enough support for heavier dildos
  • Dildo may not be large enough for some
  • Only two sizes to choose from

How We Test strap ons for lesbians

We’re a team of 265 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best strap ons for lesbians, our testers tried and reviewed 47 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre strap ons for lesbians didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 801 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
The Testing Process

Test winner Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 173 user reviews

94/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 94 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Tracey Cox Supersex strap on pegging kit a great all-rounder as it comes with two different sized dildos. I think it’s also a nice touch that they have different textures and both come with a suction cup bases.

The harness is fully adjustable – able to fit hips up to 65-inches. Plus, it’s fully washable and can fit a variety of different sized dildos.

I also love that it comes with a bullet vibrator that slips inside the harness for some added stimulation for the wearer or inside the bigger of the two dildos.

Finally, the kit contains 3 different sized O rings so that you can use any different sized dildos that you have, or would like to buy.

Pros

  • Two different size dildos
  • Bullet vibe can be worn in harness or dildo
  • Comfortable, adjustable harness
  • Comes with multiple O rings

Cons

  • Vibrator may not that strong
  • Long straps can be awkward on smaller bodies
  • Packaging unnecessarily gendered
  • Bullet vibe takes small batteries that are hard to find

Why I Chose It

The Tracey Cox Supersex strap on pegging kit is an almost perfect beginner strap on for lesbians in my opinion! I can also see this being a kit that can grow with your experience and your exploration, as the O-rings allow you to use.

There are a couple of things that I would love to see improved, though. The first being the unnecessary gendering of the product. Calling it a pegging dildo is very heteronormative, as it only refers to a female partner using the strap-on on a male partner, when in reality this set can be used by anyone! Also, it would be much better if the bullet was rechargeable or took batteries that are easier to find.

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Budget-Friendly Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other strap ons for lesbians.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit is a great budget priced set. I would say it makes a great set for first timers or those that only use a strap-on occasionally.

It consists of an adjustable harness – fits up to 60-inch hips, that has a decorative thong back, a silicone dildo that is 6.5-inches in length and 1.25-inches diameter.

The harness is machine washable and you can use any dildo of the same diameter with it. The dildo is a fabulous colour and is the Sportsheets “Skyn” range. It has a luscious bulbous head that’s perfect for G-spot stimulation.

Pros

  • A great budget priced strap on kit
  • Fully adjustable and decorative back
  • Silicone dildo with a bulbous head

Cons

  • Thong back can be uncomfortable
  • Straps aren't very wide
  • Harness will only take one size dildo

Why I Chose It

If you’re looking for a harness and dildo kit and don’t want to break the budget then the Sportsheets Bikini harness and strap on dildo kit is worth a look.

While I think this is pretty good value for money, I can see some drawbacks. Firstly, the harness will only accommodate 1.25-inch diameter dildos if you want to try a different dildo, so it does limit what you can use.

Secondly, the straps are pretty thin so don’t offer a huge amount of support.

I would say this is great for occasional use but you would be better off investing a little more for a studier harness if you are going to use it more regularly.

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Best for Beginners Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit

4.6/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 186 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Although this is the intermediate kit, I think this is actually a fantastic beginners option, as the smallest dildo is just 1.25 inches in diameter!

The kit contains a washable durable harness with a soft pad at the front, 2 high-quality silicone dildos, 2 different sized O rings and a waterproof bullet vibrator. The single-speed bullet vibrator fits into a pocket in the harness itself to give the wearer some gorgeous tingly vibes.

The harness itself is comfortable and is adjustable between 15-inches and 60-inches (approximately US dress sizes 4-30). It has poppers at the front and is suitable for other strap on toys.

The dildos themselves are 5-inches and 6.5 inches in length and they are both curved with bulbous heads for the ultimate in sweet spot stimulation.

Pros

  • A complete strap on harness kit
  • Great quality
  • Dildos shaped for G-spot stimulation
  • Includes bullet vibrator

Cons

  • May need to cut the straps to keep it neat
  • Bullet vibrator isn't the best

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I think the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate strap on harness kit is a fabulous combination of great quality at a great price. Compared to the other strap-ons for lesbians we are looking at today, this falls in the mid-price range, which makes this pretty good value for money when you consider everything you get in the kit!

Some reviewers say that the bullet vibrator can’t be felt that well, so if you already have a favourite bullet vibrator then you could use that instead. If you have other dildos, or want to buy other dildos then this harness will accommodate them too.

As a strap on harness for lesbians, this Tantus product has the comfort, quality and versatility that you’re looking for alongside some incredible toe-curling penetration from the superb quality dildos.

Strapless Fun Factory ShareVibe

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

3.9/5

Based on 50 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

I love the idea of being able to explore strap-on sex without a harness getting in the way, and the ShareVibe does exactly that! This strapless strap-on has a bulb or pony that’s worn inside the wearer’s vagina while the longer dildo is used to penetrate their partner.

It also comes with a removable bullet vibrator that adds powerful vibrations that travel into both the shaft and the bulb giving both partners an added boost of pleasure! Plus, I love that it’s rechargeable — something you don’t often see in strapless strap-ons!

Pros

  • Pleasure for both partners
  • Powerful, rechargeable bullet
  • Flexible design
  • Silky soft silicone

Cons

  • Attracts a lot of dust and lint
  • Can slip out easily

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I’ll start with the things that impressed me: the bullet vibrator is rechargeable and powerful — no weak, buzzy, battery-powered bullet vibe here! Also, the flexible design makes it more comfortable and easier to wear than other strapless strap-ons.

Now, what didn’t I like about it? Well, like most strapless strap-ons, it has a tendency to slip out, so you will most likely need to hold it in place or use a harness. And, while the silicone is great quality, this thing is a lint magnet!

This is also the most expensive strap-on for lesbians I’ve included, so I would say this is best suited to those with a bit more experience, who use a strap-on fairly regularly and are aware of the fact it’s unlikely to stay put without added support.

Harness SpareParts Joque

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 94 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: SpareParts Joque was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: SpareParts Joque was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: SpareParts Joque was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: SpareParts Joque was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

I had to include the Joque Harness from SpareParts as it’s widely known as one of the best, most comfortable strap-on harnesses out there!

The thick adjustable straps make it super study in use, so you don’t have to worry about your dildo flopping around!

It comes with a stretchy O-ring that can accommodate dildos of most sizes and it can even be used with strap-less strap-ons for more support.

Plus, it has not one but two bullet vibrator pockets so you can get some added stimulation!

Pros

  • Very comfortable
  • Holds dildo sturdy in use
  • Quick and easy to put on/take off
  • Easy to adjust

Cons

  • Pricey
  • Harness only — no dildo included

Why I Chose It

I’m a massive fan of the Joque Harness and think it’s definitely one of the best strap-on harnesses for lesbians or anyone for that matter!

I love just how supportive the straps are while also being incredibly comfortable! It also looks great on and doesn’t look or feel overly bulky. Plus, the waistband has a velcro release on each side so it’s super quick to take on and off!

The only real downside to the Joque is that it’s pricey and doesn’t come with a dildo. However, if strap-on sex is one of the main ways you have sex and you already have a flared base dildo to use it with, this is worth every cent in my opinion!

Underwear harness Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 103 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

75/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

If you love the ease and comfort of underwear harness, I have just the thing for you! These soft, stretchy panties have an stretchy O-ring at the front, which can accommodate a dildo of your choice up to 1.5 inches in diameter!

What I love most about these is that you can wear them comfortably under your clothes, so you are ready to go whenever!

They come in five different sizes from a US size 4 up to a size 18.

Pros

  • Stretchy, comfortable design
  • Can be worn under clothes
  • Fits smaller and intermediate size dildos

Cons

  • Not adjustable
  • Only goes up to sixe 18
  • Can't switch out the O-ring

Why I Chose It

I think this underwear-style harness is great value for money and would make a great harness for occasional use or for beginners who find strap-style harnesses intimidating.

That being said it’s not the most sturdy option, so if you are looking for a harness with better control that would last a long time, I would instead recommend the SpareParts Joque.

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Rabbit Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 11 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Lovehoney’s Happy Rabbit rechargeable vibrating strap-on harness set incorporates your love of rabbit vibrators with a versatile and very comfortable harness. I would say this is a great option for anyone who needs added clitoral stimulation to climax!

The rabbit vibrator itself is made of velvety smooth silicone and has a beautifully shaped head that’s perfect for G-spot stimulation and I love that it has a suction cup base for solo play too!

This kit comes with a washable adjustable harness that fits up to a waist size of 57-inches. It also comes with 3 different sized O rings so you can use other sized dildos with it.

Pros

  • Versatile harness can be used with other dildos
  • Dildo is fully waterproof with a suction cup
  • Travel lock for safe travels
  • Rechargeable

Cons

  • Not so great for thrusting
  • Might not be girthy enough for some

Vibrations:

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Rating: Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set felt to the reviewer.

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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I think overall, The Happy Rabbit Strap-On Kit is a quality strap-on but whether it works for depends on what type of stimulation you enjoy! If you enjoy more vigorous thrusting, I don’t think this would work so well as you lose contact with the clitoral stimulation. However, if you love vibrations and grinding, I can see this being a  great little strap-on for lesbians!

In terms of size, I would say this is a relatively beginner-friendly design, but those who crave a bit more in the size department might be disappointed.

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Remote Control Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit

4.7/5

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Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 10 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Desire Luxury remote control vibrating strap-on kit is a great quality product that’s going to give you a fantastic level of stimulation.

I’m impressed that this strap-on comes with built in, powerful vibrations from not one but two motors! I also really appreciate the addition of a remote control, so you don’t have to stop the action to change the settings! The dildo also has a suction cup base so you can have hands-free fun with or without the harness.

The fully adjustable harness is machine washable and once adjusted to fit, holds everything in place perfectly, and it comes with an extra 3 O rings of different sizes. The cherry on the top of this kit is its handy storage case that lets you discreetly store this rather special kit.

Pros

  • Powerful dual motor dildo
  • Easy to use remote control
  • Versatile and adjustable harness
  • Fully waterproof dildo with a suction cup

Cons

  • Flexible but not a lot of give in the dildo
  • Remote control isn't waterproof

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I think this is a fantastic quality dildo that goes the extra mile with the addition of a remote and discreet storage case. So while this is more expensive than most of the other strap-ons in the post, I think it’s well worth the investment, especially if strap-on sex is a regular in your sex life.

The only thing I would keep in mind is that at 1.59 inches in diameter, the dildo is one of the thicker options in the review and it’s not very flexible, so I would recommend this to those with a bit more experience.

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Adjustable Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo

4.7/5

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Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 155 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Wet For Her Union is strap on for lesbians made by a lesbian-owned business!

One feature that sets this strap-on apart for me is the flexible, posable shaft that makes it easier for both partners to find a comfortable and stimulating position!

I also love that it comes in three sizes, making this a strapless strap-on that anyone can enjoy!

The Union also comes with a USB rechargeable bullet vibrator that sends vibrations cascading through an ergonomic stimulator that is located above the vibrator, increasing sensations for the wearer.

Pros

  • Gives you a close, intimate experience
  • Completely posable
  • Added clitoral stimulation for the wearer
  • Rechargeable bullet vibrator

Cons

  • There's a learning curve to using it
  • May be easier to use in a harness for some

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I think the Wet For Her Union is a beautifully designed strap on for lesbians and you can tell it’s been designed by people who actually use these types of toys!

There may well be a learning curve with this dildo as some may find it difficult to keep firm control of it while thrusting into their partner. Some reviewers have said that it’s easier for the wearer to be lying on their back with their legs together while their partner rides the dildo. It is also harness compatible though.

It’s not the cheapest but I think it’s a worthwhile investment if you often have strap-on sex!

Doc Johnson Gal Pal Strapless Strap On

3.8/5

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Overall Rating

3.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

3.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Gail Hooper

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Doc Johnson Gal Pal Strapless Strap On was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on for lesbians.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Doc Johnson Gal Pal Strapless Strap On was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Doc Johnson Gal Pal Strapless Strap On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Doc Johnson Gal Pal Strapless Strap On was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Doc Johnson’s Gal Pal is a strapless strap on dildo made from body-safe silicone. This strapless strap-on features and extra slim shaft and a curved bulb that’s designed to hit the G-spot of the wearer.

I would say this would suit beginners or those who prefer very slim toys.

The slimmer head makes for easy insertion for both vaginal and anal use and the rounded beads give you that bit more stimulation.

Pros

  • Slim, non-threatening strapless dildo
  • Can be worn in a harness too
  • Fully waterproof

Cons

  • Doesn't stay in well
  • Will be too small for many
  • Not the most stimulating shape

Why I Chose It

While the Gal Pal might suit those looking for a very slim strapless strap-on, I would say this is going to be too small and underwhelming for many. The short shaft means it is also unlikely to work for those in bigger bodies or for doggy style sex.

 

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