The 10 Best Strap On Kits for All-Inclusive Partner Play
How We Rated and Reviewed Strap On Kits
After combing through the options and weeding out the subpar selections, we’ve then spent over twenty hours rating and reviewing the strap on kits you’ll soon see below! This process uses multiple methods including personal testing (when possible), reading user reviews, and checking the available manufacturer’s information about each product. By using multiple information sources, we can avoid personal or brand bias, instead focusing on the facts at hand. We want our readers to trust our advice when it comes to product recommendations, so we always make sure to include both the positives and the negatives of each product! Our thoughts are shared in the written sections, whereas the “Bedbible Rating” summarized how well the kit did overall. Underneath this rating, you’ll see the “User Ratings” score, which is a calculated average based on all available customer reviews.
Types of Strap-On Kit
- Beginners – Designed to be comfortable and easy to use, these kits generally include a harness and a cheap strap-on dildo. The harness will be designed with comfort and ease of use in mind, while the dildo will likely be on the smaller side (both in terms of width and length).
- Multiple Dildos – These kits include multiple dildos, giving you an excellent bang for your buck (since you won’t have to shop around for dildos that are compatible with your harness!). Having multiple sizes of dildos will allow you to start with the one that’s the “perfect size” for you, and progress to larger dildos if you wish.
- Hollow – These kits include a hollow strap-on dildo. These dildos are hollow in the middle, allowing for a penis to fit inside of them. Although hollow, the dildo itself will be fairly rigid, meaning it can be used with an erection, without an erection, or even by a person without a penis!
- Vibrating – These kits allow you to enjoy vibrations with your strap-on, and often use bullet vibes inside of the dildos to accomplish this.
- Realistic – If you want a strap-on dildo that looks identical to the real thing, there are plenty of realistic options available in different sizes, shapes, and skin tones.
- Large – Some people prefer small strap-ons, but there are plenty of sizable options if that’s what you’re after!
FAQ
What is a strap on kit?
A strap on kit is a harness with space for dildos to be secured to the harness using O-rings. Since these are “kits”, each kit will generally include a dildo in addition to the required harness. If the dildo isn’t up to your standards (or you’ve purchased a harness-only kit) then you can use a different flared-base dildo instead. Strap on kits allow couples to explore penetrative sex, pegging, and power play with a variety of harness styles and dildo sizes available for every taste. Some kits may also offer vibrational functions, but some research should be done beforehand to ensure that the vibrations will be strong enough.
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The 10 Best strap on kits in Test
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Kit
If exploring the use of strap ons is something you have wanted to try with your partner for a while now, this strap on kit from Tracy Cox is the perfect starting point. The strap on dildo kit includes an adjustable harness, 2 different sized and textured silicone dildos and a bullet vibe for added pleasure. The strap on set also comes with instructions to make your first experience a pleasurable one.
The kit provides more than one way to play with your new toys. The larger dildo is slightly curved to hit all the right spots, with a hollow centre, so you can pop the bullet vibe in for toe-curling vibrations. The smaller, thinner dildo is suitable for beginner anal penetration. Both dildos have powerful suction cups for hands-free fun or can be slipped into the strap on harness for experimenting with your partner.
The Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Kit was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is weak.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Want to try pegging for the first timeAre looking for a full strap on kitNeed a strap on kit with a vibrator
Are plus sizePrefer powerful vibrations| Vibration modes | 7 |
| Insertable length | 4,5 inches and 6 inches |
| Diameter | 2,75 inches and 4,75 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Harness Size | Maximum 65 inches |
| Materials | Silicone, ABS Plastic |
| Rechargeable | No, requires batteries |
| Texture | Yes |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
| Flexibility | Firm |
Easy to use for beginnersFull kit including bullet vibeSilicone dildosMachine-washable harness
Bullet vibe is weak when inserted into the dildosHarness can be tricky to get the hang ofHarness isn't very sexyThis strap on kit will provide plenty of fun for couples exploring pegging, strap on sex and role reversal in the bedroom. The textured and curved larger silicone dildo is perfect for vaginal penetration and for hitting the g-spot, while the smaller, smooth dildo is great for first-time anal penetration. While the strap on set has been designed with couples in mind, the dildos and bullet vibe can also be used for solo play. The suction cup base of the dildos also makes for hands-free solo sessions or spicing things up with your partner. The harness itself is adjustable and machine washable, with interchangeable O-rings to switch up what toys you can use.
This strap on dildo kit does provide great value for money, however the harness design could use a bit of work. Some couples find the harness a little unsexy and complicated to use at first, however with a bit of practice it becomes much easier to use. The bullet vibe is also a little weak for some tastes, especially when inserted into the dildo so keep that in mind if you prefer strong vibrations. With so many ways to use your strap on kit, there is endless pleasure coming your way!
Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
Been wanting to give pegging or strap-ons a try? Look no further than the Lovehoney Beginner’s Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit! The easy-to-use kit provides novices with the perfect introduction to pegging and power play. The strap on kit includes a beginner-friendly curved 5-inch dildo that’s designed to pleasure the g-spot and p-spot for an explosive adventure between the sheets. Once you’re ready to experiment with larger dildos, there are 3 interchangeable O-rings included in the kit so you can switch things up without buying a whole new strap on set. Ramp up the intensity by inserting a bullet vibe into the harness pocket (not included) and indulge in the role-reversal fantasy of your dreams.
The Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Want to try pegging for the first timeAre intimidated by large dildosAre new to strap on sexWant a long dildo with a wide girthAre an experienced strap-on user| Length | 5 inches |
| Insertable length | 4.5 inches |
| Harness Size | Max. 68 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Allergies | Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
Beginner-friendly dildo 3 o-rings to switch up dildosEasy to slip on and offPocket for bullet vibratorDildo may be too small for experienced couplesNo vibrator includedOnly one dildo includedCouples experimenting with strap on kits and role reversal for the first time will love the ease-of-use and comfort of the harness. The silky-smooth dildo is a perfect introduction to pegging and won’t overwhelm or intimidate novices. The strap on kit offers great value for money and is an affordable option if you’re still flirting with the idea of using strap on dildos. If you’re a strap on pro, this kit will be too entry level for you as it does not include a vibrator or interchangeable dildos. Check out some of our other recommendations below for a more suitable strap on dildo set.
Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit
Sure, giving is great but it’s even better when you’re also receiving! Strap on sex just got a whole lot more enjoyable with these easy-to-use briefs. No fussing and fiddling with straps and O-rings, just slip into these and get ready to play. Pleasure your partner with the beginner-friendly pink dildo while you also climb the stairway to heaven. How? The briefs have a built-in O-ring to hold the mini black dildo and bullet vibe inside of you to take your strap on experience to new heights! Enjoy the sensations of 2 vibration speeds and 5 different vibration patterns with no waiting time for the vibe to charge. Your strap on kit comes ready to play with 6 LR44 batteries to get you revved up fast. As an added bonus the strap on set is waterproof so don’t be afraid of getting a little wet and wild…
The Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
are a beginnerneed a strap on kit that includes a vibratorlove the idea of dual penetrationare plus-sizeprefer large dildoshave a penis| Vibration speeds | 2 |
| Vibration patterns | 5 |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Briefs: Cotton, Dildos: Silicone |
| Allergies | Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free |
| Insertable length | 5 inches |
Beginner-friendly Easy to slip onSmall but powerful vibeLesbian-friendlyCompatible with larger dildosBriefs can feel tightPink dildo a bit small for vaginal penetrationSuitable for women onlyNot suitable for wearers over size 14These strap on briefs are easy-to-use and comfortable, perfect for lesbian couples looking to spice things up in the bedroom. Without the complication of multiple straps and O-rings, you can just slip right in and start playing. The pink dildo may be a little slim for experienced users and for vaginal penetration but the O-ring can accommodate larger dildos. However the length and girth is perfect for beginner anal play. The bullet vibe is small but mighty, providing powerful vibrations to heighten the wearers pleasure.
While this strap on kit is a little pricier, it is well worth the price for how user friendly and flexible it is.
Tantus Intermediate Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit
Is it time to graduate from strap on beginner to an intermediate level? Then the Tantus Bend Over Strap On Kit is the perfect level up. The 6-piece kit features an adjustable harness with 2 dildos and 2 corresponding O-rings to get down to business right away. The premium silicone dildos are smooth and curved with bulbous tips, perfect for stimulating all your sweet spots. Slipping in to the adjustable harness is easy. It adjusts up to 60 inches with convenient popper-fastening straps and soft padding in the front for added comfort. As an added bonus, the harness has pocket for you to slip in the bullet vibrator for extra tingly playtime.
The Tantus Intermediate Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Rating: Tantus Intermediate Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Intermediate Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tantus Intermediate Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Intermediate Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.
Want to level up your strap-on kitEnjoy larger dildosPrefer a bulbous dildo that hits the g-spotWant a vibrating strap-on kitAre over US size 30Enjoy strong vibrations| Vibration speeds | 1 |
| Insertable length | Medium: 5.25 inches, Large: 7 inches |
| Texture | Silky |
| Waterproof | Yes, Dishwasher-Safe, Boilable |
| Materials | Dildo: Silicone, Harness: Nylon and Plastic |
| Fastening | Poppers on straps |
Premium silicone dildosComfortable and easy harnessInterchangeable O-ringsEasy to cleanBullet vibe is weakLarge dildo can be intimidatingAs the name suggests, this strap on kit is perfect for couples looking to level up power play. The silky, smooth dildos are perfect for anal and vaginal penetration, providing excellent g-spot and prostate stimulation. The cheeky bullet vibe is designed to add some extra tingles to the experience however most couples found the vibrations to be weak and disappointing. You may enjoy some of these vibrating strap-ons if strong vibrations are top of your priority list. Other than that, this high-quality kit is well-worth the price. From the body-safe materials used to the ease-of-use of the harness and how easy the whole kit is to clean, we’re finding it hard to come up with a reason not to try this one.
Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit
The Lovehoney Deluxe Strap On Kit is certainly not for newbies dipping their toes into pegging and role reversal. The strap on dildo set includes an adjustable harness, 3 O-rings and a choice of 2 dildos to get you started. This kit is suited to more advanced users who are not intimidated by larger toys. While the narrower 5.6 inch dildo could be suitable for newbies, the large dildo is 8 inches long with a veiny textured surface and some serious girth. Experienced receivers will love the full feeling the large dildo provides. Lesbian couples looking for a fulfilling strap on dildo set will also appreciate the girth of these dildos during vaginal penetration.
The Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 100 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with considerable experience
Are looking for an advanced strap on dildo setLike a realistic-looking dildoWant a strap on set with multiple dildosWant a bullet vibratorAre a strap on novice| Harness Size | Max 67 inches |
| Insertable length | Narrow: 5.6 inches, Advanced: 8 inches |
| Flexibility | Firm |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
Large, fulfilling dildoChoice of 2 dildosSuction cup base for hands-free funAdjustable harnessLarge dildo too big for novicesNo vibrator includedNo intermediate size dildoLovehoney’s Deluxe Strap On Kit comes with everything you need to take things up a notch between the sheets. The slim beginner dildo is great for warming up, while the girthy advanced dildo will provide tantalising feeling of fullness and pleasure. Your comfort level is entirely in your hands. Despite the strap on dildo kit including a smaller dildo, it may still be too big for first-time users so this kit is best left to the pros. If the strap on set came with a bullet vibe like some of its counterparts it could have added to the overall experience, however its still a great kit even without a vibe.
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Realistic Feel Advanced Strap-On Dildo Set
The Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Realistic Advanced Strap On Kit has everything you’ll need to fulfil all your strap on desires. Experience varied internal sensations with 3 different sized lifelike dildos, complete with realistic veins, pronounced heads and a real feel texture for added pleasure. The strap on dildo set includes a harness that adjusts to accommodate up to 69 inch hips along with various O-rings and 2 attachment plugs to switch tempo as needed. As an added bonus the strap on set comes with premium toy-safe lubricant, toy cleaner and refresher powder to keep your strap on dildo kit in pristine, play-ready condition.
The Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Realistic Feel Advanced Strap-On Dildo Set was rated 100 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with considerable experience
Prefer realistic dildosWant to experiment with larger dildosAre looking for a kit that has it allAre an intermediate or advanced userAre new to strap on kits| Insertable length | Dildo 1: 10 inches, Dildo 2: 8 inches, Dildo 3: 8 inches |
| Width | 2 inches |
| Diameter | 6.25 inches |
| Materials | Ultraskyn Real-Feel Silicone |
| Harness Size | Max 69 inches |
| Waterproof | Splashproof |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
Real-feel, realistic dildosAll-inclusive strap on kitIncludes toy cleaner and lubeSoft and comfortable harnessDildos can be too large for beginnersWhile this strap on kit is in no way suited to beginners, it will provide intermediate and advanced strap on users with hours of pleasure and thrills. There is little to critique about this high-quality strap on dildo kit…it comes with everything you’ll need for sensational power play. One of its best features is the patented ULTRASKYN silicone which really does feel like the real deal. This strap on set will be a hit with couples who prefer to play with realistic dildos and who want a strap on dildo set that really does have it all.
Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit
This 10-piece bondage strap on kit will leave you pleasantly surprised (and satisfied!)…no nasty, cheap sex toys to see here, folks! This high-quality kit includes everything you need for the perfect introduction to bondage and power play. From restraints and ball gags to the beginner-friendly strap on dildo set, Lovehoney’s Bondage Kit has it all. Use the toys individually or as part of a steamy session exploring light BDSM. Couples who enjoy making use of a vibrator during pegging adventures will be satisfied with the small but mighty bullet vibe. The curved dildo is perfect for g-spot and prostate stimulation and with it’s hollow centre, pop in the bullet vibe and you’ve got yourself a g-spot vibrator.
The Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Rating: Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit felt to the reviewer.
Want to try bondageAre new to strap on sexAre looking for a kit that has everythingAre not into bondageAre an advanced strap on user| Vibration speeds | 10 |
| Insertable length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | 1.5 inches |
| Harness Size | 65 inches |
| Waterproof | Splashproof |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Flexibility | Firm |
10-piece kitGreat variety of toysVegan-friendly Beginner-friendlySome not a fan of the nipple suckersRestraints only fit up to a King size bedDildo may be too large for beginner anal playBullet vibe batteries not includedLovehoney’s Bondage Kit will take even the kinkiest bondage pros by surprise with the high quality toys included in the kit. If you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom with bondage and pegging, this is the perfect kit for you. You’ll very rarely come across a bondage kit that also includes a strapon dildo set, which adds to this kit’s value for money. While the dildo may be a little ambitious for those new to anal penetration, it’s the perfect size for pleasurable vaginal penetration with the added bonus of the impressive bullet vibe. The price is not bad for the quality and variety of toys included, and as you discover what you like bondage-wise, you can drop more cash on specialty items.
Doc Johnson Body Extensions Hollow Strap-On Kit
Extend your length and girth and fill your partner up with Doc Johnson’s Hollow Strap On Kit. The comfortable harness is easy to slip on thanks to the snaps and elasticated waistband. Men with erectile dysfunction or smaller penises will enjoy being able to pleasure their partners with a choice of 3 premium hollow dildos. From lengthy and thick to bulbous, provide your partner with a variety of tantalising sensations by switching up which dildo you use. The hollow dildos could also house a vibrator if you enjoy an extra buzz while playing with your partner.
The Doc Johnson Body Extensions Hollow Strap-On Kit was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
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