5 Best Vibrating Strap Ons

Why I Chose It

The Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro is one of the best vibrating strapless strap-ons we’ve ever tested. Its ergonomic design will be perfect for pegging and all kinds of shared pleasure. The vibrations are designed to stimulate both the wearer and the receiver, enhancing the experience for both partners. Our tester, Jess, had a wonderful time with the Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro, particularly enjoying its deep, rumbly vibrations and the added clitoral stimulation. She also praised its flexibility, saying, “The hinge makes it a lot easier to adjust once you put it inside, which prevents the toy from falling out during penetration.”

However, like all strapless strap-ons, it does require some practice. Jess noted that the size can be a bit challenging, and while she was able to use it without a harness, she did “occasionally have to reach down and hold it in for additional support.” Because of this, you might find it easier to use a strap-on harness with the ShareVibe, as it helps keep everything in place during those more active moments.

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is the most popular beginner strap-on kit! It has everything you need to start your pegging journey, including a bullet vibrator, an easy-to-use, and an adjustable harness that works on many different body types. Yet, the key feature of this strap-on kit are the popular Tantus Silk Dildos! I own the Tantus Silk Medium, and I am pretty impressed with its quality and overall performance. Usually beginner toys feature cheap, stiff dilods, but these feel totally different! Both are made with flexible, silky-smooth silicone and come in two beginner-friendly sizes. Based on our tester’s review of the product, “The dildos feel luxurious compared with most beginner butt products.” 

Performance-wise, Christina said that “the harness did not loosen at all while thrusting, and the dildo stayed securely in place,” but she and her partner wished that the straps were made from softer material. When it comes to the vibrations, our tester said that the bullet has a “decently strong buzz and has proven durable,” but it felt a bit “cheap” and didn’t offer a ton of stimulation once inserted in the pocket.

All in all, I think that the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is a good, reliable product, perfect for total beginners that want to have a smooth and comfortable first experiment with pegging but don’t want to invest in a high-end vibrating strap on. I agree that the design and quality of the harness and the bullet could be better, but given the attractive price and the addition of 2 really well-made dildos, I think it’s worth a try.

Why I Chose It

This is a very inclusive toy—anyone who enjoys anal or vaginal penetration will enjoy these smooth silicone dildos. This vibrating strap-on set is perfect for pegging, and the size is great for beginners and more advanced users alike. I really like that the sizes and styles of these dildos are very different; it adds so much more versatility to your play!

While the harness is best used with a partner, the dildos and bullet vibe are also great for solo pleasure. The versatility doesn’t end there! The harness, complete with three o-rings, can be paired with your favorite toys to switch things up. Our tester, Emiel, who reviewed this product with his partner, was impressed with the quality and adjustability of the harness, saying: “The harness fit me comfortably and positioned really well with my own anatomy… Even with faster-paced thrusting, everything stayed really secure”.

While you get some high-quality kit for the price, there are a couple of things that could be improved. Firstly, the vibrations from the bullet tend to lose strength when inserted into the pocket. Emiel said, “While it wasn’t enough for me to orgasm, it felt really good the whole time,” so if you’re looking for super strong vibrations, maybe this isn’t for you. On a side note, the bullet is great for some pinpoint stimulation.

Why I Chose It

The Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit is a unique vibrating strap-on on my list! Usually, strap-on kits just add a bullet vibrator for that extra buzz, but with this set, you get a vibrating dildo with remote-controlled settings! In my opinion, this vibrating strap-on will be perfect for more advanced users who want up their experience with deep and powerful vibrations! The wireless remote makes switching up the intensity way easier and can be used to tease your partner. The dual-motor vibrations are also a step up and pack some real vibrating power.

Based on our tester, Peter’s review, this toy looks and feels “luxurious”, and its performance is top-quality. Peter even said, “It definitely made me squirm around in extreme pleasure.” He said that the vibrations were powerful and surprisingly quiet, and there were many different patterns and speeds to choose from. Additionally, the remote allows you to enjoy your experience hands-free and can also be used for power-play!

There was no negative feedback from Peter and his wife, and even I struggled to find any flaws. I like the sleek design of this strap-on, its power, and the fact that the dildo is remote-controlled, which is a rare find! The only issue might be the size and weight of the dildo, but luckily, there are additional o-rings included, so you can switch things up whenever you please.

Why I Chose It

The Lovense sex toys belong to my favorite sex toy brand, and I was excited when they finally released an app-controlled vibrating strapless strap-on! I expected the deep and rumbly vibrations and a premium-quality design, and lucky for us, that’s exactly what we got.

Our Bedbible tester, Joseph, really enjoyed their experience with the Lapis! They were impressed by the strong vibrations so much, they said, “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.” Therefore, I am proud to say that this is definitely the most powerful vibrating strapless strap on the market, and I can highly recommend it to any advanced user looking for a premium pegging toy. Design-wise, Joseph pointed out that the added texture on the shaft and at the base adds extra stimulation, especially for the wearer, which I think is a great plus.

The key feature of this toy is the app control, and as I expected, it works flawlessly. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tested many app-controlled sex toys, and Lovense Remote has never disappointed me.

The only reason why I didn’t choose the Lovense Lapis as the test winner is the price and the fact that, sadly, it didn’t pass the strapless test. You can still use it with a harness, and I don’t think it’s that big of a deal since many strapless strap-ons have the same issue, but given the price, I was expecting a more innovative solution to solve the universal strapless issue.