6 Best VR Masturbators & Sex Toys
As a sex expert, I’ve been amazed to see the advances in VR sex toys! And I’ve been lucky enough to try some of them out with my partner. Along with a couple of our personally tested favorites, I’ve selected the best VR masturbators reviewed by our team of testers.
Test Winner | Test Winner | Budget-Friendly | Most Compatible | Best for Couples | Best Vibrator |
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Autoblow AI Ultra | Kiiroo Keon | Svakom Sam Neo 2 Pro | The Handy | Lovense Max 2 | Pulse Solo Interactive |
Shop Now | $280Shop Now | $77Shop Now | $149Shop Now | $109Shop Now | $130$180 Shop Now |
Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons |
How We Test vr sex toys
We’re a team of 345 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best vr sex toys, our testers tried and reviewed 286 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre vr sex toys didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1275 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.Table of contents (11)
Test Winner Autoblow AI Ultra
- Adjustable speed and stroke length
- Downloadable blowjob patterns
- Free library of videos to sync to or sync to other online content
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Use online or offline
- ✅ Mains powered
- ✅ Stimulates full shaft
- ✅ Open API for more customisations
Cons
- ❌ Tethered to plug during use
- ❌ Limited space to save blowjob patterns
- ❌ Loud
Why I Chose It
I chose the AI Autoblow as the best VR sex toy because it’s a top quality machine, that delivers fully adjustable, full shaft stimulation. It also stands out for the library of syncable videos that come with the toy! Not to mention, the preprogrammed settings were developed using AI to analyse videos of blowjobs, so they are as realistic as possible!
Kevin tested it out for us and wrote “the Autoblow AI Ultra really exceeded my expectations.” While he really enjoyed the manual controls, he thought “the web features are really where this toy shines the most.”
His “favorite feature was definitely the Video Sync Library” as it’s free and already set up to work with the toy! Another unique feature is the ‘Sync’ button you can use to make the video and toy are synced up correctly. However, Kevin notes that, for the most part, the toy synced well by itself and he only had to use it once or twice.
He also enjoyed the Freestyle setting in the app as it allowed for more precision adjustments. It’s also set up for long-distance control and even voice control for more ways to control the toy. As a partner, I could see this being a lot of fun!
Test Winner Kiiroo Keon Interactive Masturbator
- Max speed of 230 strokes per minute
- Interactive with online content and other Kiiroo toys
- Adjustable stroke length up to 2.8 inches
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Can be used with all Keon strokers
- ✅ Good amount of customisation
- ✅ High quality construction
- ✅ RealFeel masturbator feels great
Cons
- ❌ Quite bulky and heavy
- ❌ Can be pretty loud
Why I Chose It
I chose the Kiiroo Keon as the runner up because although it score quite as highly as the Autoblow AI, it packs some impressive stroking power and adjustability and it’s so well equipped for connecting to online content. I also like that it simulates sex with partner, making for a more realistic immersive VR experience.
My partner has a Keon and says it’s his favorite for connecting to online content for this reason. The automatic thrusting syncs well to the onscreen thrusting! He did note that it didn’t work so well with free videos but it was much better with premium content.
Our tester, Josh, liked the amount of customisability in the speed and stroke length and that “The buttons are well positioned, so you can easily mix and match the speed and stroke length mid-session if you need to.”
He also thought that the RealFeel masturbator is “fantastic quality” and “feels life-like.” It’s also great that you can switch out the masturbator for any of the Kiiroo strokers.
Both Josh and my partner have commented that the Keon is big and bulky. That being said, Josh did like that it “sits right in your lap to work” and he sound “something undeniably satisfying about holding the toy by its ‘hips’ as it bounces up and down on you.”
Budget-Friendly Svakom Sam Neo 2 Pro
- Heating, sucking, and vibrating stimulation
- Connects to Svakom app for close range or long distance control
- Can sync with online content
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Powerful suction and vibrations
- ✅ Easy to use app connection
- ✅ Great for edging
Cons
- ❌ A bit large for travel
- ❌ Close-ended sleeve is difficult to dry
Why I Chose It
“The Svakom Sam has quickly become one of my favorite toys and currently gets used the most out of everything in my toy box”
Even though it’s much cheaper than the other VR sex toys in the review, it still won our tester, David, over!
I picked it as the best VR sex toy on a budget as it has all the same features just with a much lower price tag! Plus, as well as being app enabled and being able to interact with video and cams, it has three different types of stimulation.
David, was skeptical of the heating at first, but in the end he “really enjoyed it!” He also appreciated that the suction was “strong but not overstimulating” and the “vibrations are great.” I love toys that have a heating function as they can help make the experience feel more realistic.
The Sam Neo Pro 2 can connect to different apps for different purposes. The Svakom App can be used for close and long-distance control. David found that “connecting it was significantly easier than app-controlled toys from other brands.” It also connects to the FeelConnect 3 App for syncing to online content and the FeelPerformer app for camming.
Another thing I really like about the Sam Pro 2 is that it’s much smaller than the Keon or Autoblow AI, making it a little easier to hold and store!
Most Compatible The Handy Automatic Stroker
- Up to 600 strokes/min and up to 4.3 inch stroke length
- Compatible with any sleeve
- App control and content sync
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Compact size
- ✅ Open API
- ✅ Anonymous connectivity
Cons
- ❌ Noisy
- ❌ Easy to press the wrong button
Why I Chose It
The Handy is the only automatic, VR masturbator that can be used with pretty much any sleeve you like! I like that it comes with a basic sleeve so you are good to go but it’s also nice that you aren’t constrained to only using sleeves from one brand. The velcro strap makes it super easy to change the sleeve out so you don’t have to mess around with a lot of set up!
Our tester, Josh, wrote, “It’s pleasing, it’s adaptable, it’s customizable, and it’s generally a good time!” He liked that it “has simple and intuitive controls” and that “you really can customize the stroke and speed until you’re locked into something that’s just right for you.” However, he did note that the stroke length buttons were a little too close to the power button, so it could be easy to accidentally turn it off.
I like that it has a range of intereactive features and the stroke length and speed can synchronize to a range of different contents. It’s also really nice that Handy have a ‘handy’ list of compatible porn sites – some with free trial periods and some with discounts for Handy customers!
Best for Couples Lovense Max 2
- Vibration and contraction
- Compatible with the Lovense app or the VibeMate app for connecting to video content
- Can interact with the Lovense Nora, Calor or another Max 2
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Great range of interactive features
- ✅ App is reliable
- ✅ Soft, textured sleeve feels great
Cons
- ❌ Tricky to reinsert sleeve after cleaning
- ❌ Has a bit of a learning curve
Why I Chose It
I picked the Lovense Max 2 as the best VR sex toy for couples because on top of the VR compatibility, it can also connect to and interact with the movements of other compatible toys from Lovense (the Nora, Calor, or another Max 2). This is ideal for more immersive long-distance sex!
Rachel’s boyfriend tested the Max 2 out for Bedbible, thought it was “perfect for those times that you want some extra sensations, pleasure and pampering.”
He found the “vibrations are incredibly rumbly and really powerful — so powerful, in fact, that he stuck to the lower speeds to avoid getting overwhelmed.” He also like that you can “feel them all along your penis.”
The suction stimulation was also a hit, with him writing “when it comes to realism, the suction does a lot of the work.”
Rachel and her boyfriend also tested out the interactive features as Rachel owns the Lovense Nora and found the Max 2 synced really well to the movements in the Nora, so when Rachel picked up the pace, the vibrations in the Max matched the pace.
Best Vibrator Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Interactive
- Pulse plate provides focussed vibrations up to 4,450 rpm
- Flexible silicone wings
- Can sync to online content or connect to partner’s toys
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Very rumbly stimulation
- ✅ Choose between targeted stimulation or stroking
- ✅ Easy clean up
- ✅ Can be used with or without erection
Cons
- ❌ Couldn't interact with partner's toy
- ❌ A bit loud
- ❌ Short battery life
Why I Chose It
It was actually my boyfriend who reviewed the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Interactive and it’s still one of his go to toys! He loves the rumbly stimulation and appreciates how the pulse plate has been specifically designed for penis stimulation. He enjoys using it for frenulum stimulation and says it feels so much better than simply using my Doxy Die Cast Wand Vibrator.
He also really loves just how easy it is to clean up! He also has the Keon, which he enjoys using, but the set-up and clean-up process is more involved. He loves just being able to grab the Hot Octopuss whenever he’s in the mood, and it’s super easy to clean and dry when he’s done!
We had mixed results when trying to connect the Hot Octopuss to my Kiiroo Pearl 3. It was easy enough to get connected to the app, and I was able to control his toy long distance using the FeelConnect app but we couldn’t get the two toys to interact with each other.
He has, however, had more luck in syncing this VR sex toy to online content. The only thing to consider is that it won’t be as realistic as a thrusting toy.
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Test Winner | Budget-Friendly | Most Compatible | Best for Couples | Best Vibrator |
Overall score | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.7 / 5.0 from 41 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 175 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 27 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 652 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 153 users | 3.5 / 5.0 from 45 users |
Price | Affordable | Moderate | Pricey | Pricey | Moderate | Pricey |
Design | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
Quality | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | 60 / 100 | - | 80 / 100 | 40 / 100 |
Power | - | - | 80 / 100 | - | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | somewhat rumbly | - | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly |
Materials | ABS plastic, silicone | Keon: ABS, PC, Silicone; Feel Stroker: ABS, PC, TPE | TPE, ABS Plastic | Sleeve: TPE | Silicone | Silicone, ABS |
Rechargeable | No (mains powered) | Yes: via USB cable | Yes | No, mains powered | Yes: USB cable | Yes |
Thrust Modes | 10 by default (access more via wifi) | 4 lengths, 8 speeds | - | - | - | - |
Adjustable | No (sleeves can be switched out) | - | - | - | - | - |
App Controls | Yes (via web interface) | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Waterproof | No | No | Case: No, Sleeve: Yes | - | Yes | Yes |
Weight | - | 2.42 lbs | - | - | - | - |
Width | - | 5.11 inches | 3 inches | 2.75 inches | - | 2.63 inches |
Length | - | 8.66 inches | 9 inches | 10.5 inches | 9.5 inches | 4.17 inches |
Battery Life | - | Up to 60 minutes | Toy: 60 minutes, Heating Rod: 25 minutes | - | 210 minutes | 45 minutes |
Charging Time | - | Up to 240 minutes | Toy: 120 minutes, Heating Rod: 90 minutes | - | - | 180 minutes |
Vibration speeds | - | - | 1 (+ More In-App) | - | 3 | 9 |
Vibration patterns | - | - | 5 (+ More In-App) | - | - | 6 |
Suction Modes | - | - | 5 Patterns, 1 Intensity Level (+ More In-App) | - | - | - |
Insertable length | - | - | 5.5 inches | - | 6 inches | - |
Diameter (internal) | - | - | Stretches up to 1.8 inches | - | - | - |
Remote Controls | - | - | No | - | - | - |
Travel Lock | - | - | Yes | - | - | - |
Colors Available | - | - | Black | - | - | - |
Openings | - | - | - | Neutral | Neutral | - |
Vibration modes | - | - | - | - | 4 | - |
Storage Bag Included | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
What to Look For in An Interactive Sex Toy
When choosing an VR masturbator, there are a few key factors to consider before you take the plunge and make your purchase. Depending on what you’re looking for, there are several things to ask yourself, including…
Does it Sync to VR Videos?
While many toys offer automated stimulation, not all of them offer VR porn syncing compatibility. Even the ones that do won’t work with all VR porn sites, so you’ll want to determine which site has your favorite videos & make sure any new VR sex toy will sync with these sites before purchasing.
What Kind of Stimulation Do You Want?
You’ll also need to decide which type of stimulation you want, as this will affect your toy options.
Are you looking for a toy that simulates a blowjob, or do you want a vibrating masturbator to really knock your socks off?
What Settings Are There?
Ideally, your new toy should offer a wide variety of settings beyond VR sync, which will allow you to enjoy the toy even without porn!
Some are very customizable, allowing you to change the speed, tightness, suction, stroke length and more.
How Big Is it?
The stimulation offered will often affect the design, in turn affecting the size of your new toy. Some toys can be quite large, so check the measurements to ensure you’ll be able to operate it comfortably. You should also take a look at the size of the inner canal of your masturbator, to make sure you’ll fit okay!
Is it Discreet?
Size is a big factor when it comes to how discreet your VR sex toy will be, but another big one is noise. While many toys don’t necessarily look like sex toys at a quick glance, they can be loud once they get going! If that’s an issue for you, try to look for a quieter option.
Where's the Best Place to Watch VR Porn?
With the rise in popularity of VR sex toys so comes the rise of VR porn! That is, porn that can be interacted with, whether thats via a device or even a VR headset. But where can you watch VR porn? Here are some of the most popular (and trustworthy) places to enjoy your interactive sex toys…
VR Bangers
VR Bangers has plenty of categories to choose from including straight, gay, and everything inbetween. It has a great range of POVs so you can choose the view for you!
Naughty America VR
Naughty America VR has an amazing selection of porn videos, many of them in 5K! There are some of the biggest names in porn also featurd in some videos.
Pornhub VR
Ah, the old classic! Pornhub now has a section dedicated to VR videos. There are plenty to choose from and all are completly free.
MILF VR
MILF VR is a place where you can go check out more mature women! The site is filled with high quality videos including almost 200 original videos.
SexLikeReal
SexLikeReal is a VR porn sharing site that has made partnership deals with several high-profile VR sex toy companies, including Lovense and Handy. It’s a bit like Netflix for VR porn, and includes traditional videos as well as live cam streaming.
Reviewed by:
Kevin Foley