When looking for advice on which vibrator to add to your sex toy collection, lots of blogs and articles will tell you the same thing: “Decide which size vibrator you want to buy!”.
But what if you’re not sure? It’s all very well to tell you to decide between a big vibrator or a small one, but coming to that decision isn’t always straightforward. Plus, there are a lot more options than just big or small!
That’s where this quick guide comes in…
Keep reading to find out the perfect size vibrator for you, based on the exact kind of stimulation you want, how much experience you have, and more!
Are You Looking for Internal or External Stimulation?
The first thing to decide when shopping for a vibrator? Whether you want to be able to insert it or not.
Insertable vibrators, like g-spot vibes, rabbit vibrators and anal vibrators, can provide deep and satisfying vibrations and come in a huge variety of shapes and sizes. External vibrators are usually (though not always) focused on supreme clitoral pleasure. They can include bullet vibrators, magic wand vibrators, palm-sized vibrators, finger vibrators and more.
There are different things to consider about both when deciding which size vibrator to buy. So, let’s first focus on internal vibrators.
If You Chose Internal…
If you’d like an insertable vibrator, it’s time to think about where you want to use it.
By that, I don’t mean whether you’re a bedroom- or shower-type sex toy. More like, do you want to use your vibrator vaginally or anally?
Which Size Vaginal Vibrator Should I Buy?
There are many vibrators out there designed for g-spot stimulation.
Some of these are pretty small, since the g-spot is generally located close to the entrance to the vagina. However, they can also get much bigger and girthier, if that’s what you’re into.
If you want deeper stimulation of the a-spot in the vagina, then you’ll need to buy a vibrator that’s longer (though not necessarily wider) in order to reach all the way in there.
The girth of your vibrator is a bit more of a subjective decision. It will depend a lot on how big of a person you are, and which kinds of sensations you enjoy.
A thick vibrator will feel much more filling inside of you, but may be overwhelming for some.
A thinner vibrator will be more maneuverable, but may leave some people wanting more.
Here are our top recommendations for vaginal vibrators of all sizes:
Small
Je Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator
Get two experiences for the price of one with this mini vibrator from Je Joue. It’s just as at home giving your clitoris some love as it is massaging your g-spot with its curved, bulbous head. Small, portable, yet still powerful.
Medium
If your g-spot craves some serious loving, the Mona 2 from Lelo an un-intimidating option. Long enough to reach the right spot, but with a diameter of less than 1.5 inches, this vibrator is a perfect toy for those who love length without the girth.
Large
Rocks Off Regala A-Spot Rabbit
Rocks Off designed this rabbit vibrator specifically with the A-spot in mind. The A-spot, or anterior fornix, is an area right below the cervix that is part of the same internal clitoral structure as the G-spot. Since it’s further in, this vibrator is extra long with a tapered tip for easy insertion, plus a large rabbit arm for simultaneous clit pleasure.
Extra Large
If girth is what you desire, then girth you shall receive, from Fun Factory’s Big Boss dildo vibrator. This realistically-shaped vibrator is guaranteed to leave you feeling full and satisfied. We would recommend this thick dildo vibrator who those who have some previous experience with insertables and know they’re up to the challenge.
Which Size Anal Vibrator Should I Buy?
Choosing the right size anal vibrator might seem a little less straightforward to many, especially those who don’t have a ton of anal experience.
Never before had the pleasure of feeling some buzz in your bum? Then, it’s best to stick to something smaller. Anywhere in the range of <1 inch to 1.25 inches in diameter is considered a small anal toy, and is a great starting point. However, even if you’ve never tried an anal vibrator before, you might be ready for something a little bigger if you’ve had a couple of fingers up there already.
Anal toys with narrow diameters are usually also shorter in length, though this isn’t always the case. Anal beads and dildos can often start off narrow and then get wider the further they go in. This allows you to control the depth according to your comfort level.
If you’re more anally experienced, then you can go for something bigger! Just remember, it’s easy to be too ambitious and end up hurting yourself, so try to opt for something not too much larger than your previous toy.
Here’s our top picks for anal vibrators of every size:
Extra Small
At a teeny tiny 0.72 inches in diameter at its widest point, this toy is ideal for anyone’s first ever foray into butt play. It can function as a plug, if you prefer to insert and leave it, or a probe, if you want to move it around and explore the sensations. The bullet vibrator is also removable, so you can play without or without vibrations.
Small
Power Gem Small Vibrating Butt Plug
If you want a butt plug with more girth, then try the Power Gem small pussy plug. The soft, smooth silicone makes it extra easy to insert, and the 3 inches of length provide a comfortable filling feeling. There are also 10 vibration modes to explore!
Medium
The Rimming Plug is a butt plug with a twist — literally. Alongside vibrations, B-Vibe have placed rows of beads inside the plug’s neck that twist around as you play, simulating the feeling of a tongue swirling delightfully around your anus! The rimming plug comes in 3 sizes — the 2 is 1.6 inches in diameter and has 5 inches of insertable length.
Large
Nexus Revo IntenseProstate Massager
Make way for the big boy — this prostate massager from Nexus’ popular Revo range is large and in charge. The thick shaft is 2 inches in diameter and rotates for perfect prostate pleasure, while the t-shaped base delivers rumbly vibrations to the perineum.
If You Chose External…
When thinking about external vibrators, there’s a lot more room for experimentation!
The main things you should ask yourself when thinking about which size external vibrator to buy are:
- Do you like more direct or pinpoint stimulation? Smaller vibrators will be able to give your clit some really direct stimulation, while larger ones will give more broad stimulation.
- Do you want to focus on the clit, or a wider area? Some vibrators are designed to give your whole vulva pleasure, something a bullet vibrator will probably struggle with.
- How heavy can you handle? Smaller vibrators are super portable and easy for anyone to hold. Large vibrators, like wands, may be more powerful but not so great for those with grip- or mobility-issues.
Here are some options to get you started:
Small
The Tango X is proof that great things come in small packages. This bullet vibrator harnesses the rumbly vibrations of a toy twice its size, and transmits them directly to all your sweet spots with its hard plastic tip. The lipstick shape allows lots of precision in how you play, but what it does best is supreme clitoral pleasure.
Medium
The Pom is a powerful vibrator that can nestle right into the palm of your hand. It’s made of soft, medical-grade silicone, and has no internal body, meaning it’s super squeezable and flexible! There’s a ridge at one end for precise clit stimulation, but it can also be used for vibrations all over your vulva, or anywhere else.
Large
The Magic Wand vibrator is truly infamous in the sex toy world. This version is cordless, but still harnesses the same intense vibration power that Magic Wands are known for. It’s a hefty 12.5 inches long (and fairly heavy), and has a large silicone head that transmit its vibes over a broad area.
Are Big Vibrators More Expensive Than Small Ones?
Yes, and no…
Oftentimes, the bigger you go the more you’ll have to pay for your vibrator. That’s simply because larger vibrators require more materials, making them more expensive to make. Most of the time, if you sort the ‘vibrators’ page on a sex toy website by price, you’ll find bullet vibrators as the cheapest option.
You also have to take quality into account. There are plenty of bigger vibrators out there, like rabbits and dildo vibrators, that are made out of sub-par materials and are easily breakable. Sure, they’re cheap, but what you save in initial cost is likely to be cancelled out by the second-rate experience you get.
Here at Bedbible, we’ll only ever recommend high quality sex toys that will be kind to your body and, hopefully, give you many years of pleasure!