The 7 Best Women’s Strap-Ons, Whether You’re Giving or Receiving
| Test Winner | Cheapest | Beginners | Rabbit | Strapless |
|---|---|---|---|---|
 |  |  |  |  |
| Tantus Strap-On | Sportsheets Bikini Harness | Lovehoney Double Up | Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set | Wet for Her Union Double Dildo |
| Check price | Check price | Check price | Check price | Check price |
Why Trust Our Women's Strap-On Review?
Each women’s strap on gets judged on multiple metrics to make sure you get the whole picture before choosing a new strap-on and parting with your hard earned cash! As well as scores for design, quality, and ease of use, each strap-on gets a Bedbible rating from our sex toy expert and a user rating which is an average of all the customer reviews. This helps to keep our scores unbiased and representative! But we don’t stop there! Wherever possible, we get one our sex toy testers to the product through it’s paces and spill the beans about their experience — the good and the bad!
Not to mention, as a company, we’ve written over 500 reviews so we’ve got a pretty good idea of what to look for in a a quality strap-on for women!
What to look for in a women’s strap-on
- Dildo size — The receiver should always choose the dildo to make sure the size is right for them! If your strap-on harness has O-rings, you can use most suction-cup dildos in your harness as long as you have the right size O-ring. This gives you more variety in your strap-on play!
- Dildo material — I recommend always looking for a silicone strap-on dildo, as silicone is non-toxic and non-porous, making it one of the safest materials.
- Harness size — The wearer should measure themselves to make sure they get the right size harness. We also have a whole post with plus-size harnesses.
- Harness care — Some materials can be machine washed, making them much easier to care for, whereas others, like leather harnesses, will need a little more upkeep.
- Harness style — There are two main types of strap-on harness — underwear-style and harness with straps. Harnesses with straps generally offer more support and have more adjustability but underwear harnesses can be a little more comfortable and easy to get on.
- Stimulation for the wearer — Regular strap-ons don’t have a lot of stimulation for the wearer. If that’s something you want, you should consider a strapless strap-on or a strap-on with space for a vibrator.
- Vibrations — Some strap-ons come with a bullet vibrator you can insert, some have built-in vibrations, and some don’t vibrate at all. If vibrations are important, I recommend going for a strap-on with built in vibrations.
Strap-on vs strapless strap-on
Unlike a regular strap-on, a strapless strap-on doesn’t have a harness to hold it in place. Instead the wearer inserts a smaller shaft, known as a bulb or pony, into their vagina. This can feel more intimate and stimulate both partners at the same time, but it can be tricky to hold it in so many people use a harness as well for more support.
FAQ
What is a Women's Strap-On?
A women's strap-on is designed to give those assigned female at birth the experience of being able to penetrate their partner. It consists of two parts — a dildo or vibrator and a harness. Wearing a dildo in this way gives the closest experience to having your very own penis! They can be used for all sorts of play from vaginal or anal penetration to simulating blow jobs. Anyone can use a strap-on but they are a common tool for sex between two vulva owners. They are also popular for pegging, where a female partner penetrates their male partner anally. Strap-ons come in a whole range of styles from BDSM leather to lacy thongs and you can often switch out the dildo for a different style or size.
Table of contents (13)
The 7 Best womens strap ons in Test
Tantus Intermediate Unisex Strap-On Kit
This complete kit from Tantus is the perfect introduction to strap-on play. It comes with everything you could need and more! First of all, you get not one but two top quality dildos in Tantus’ signature top quality silicone. The Tantus Silk medium is more modest 5 inches long and the large is 6.5 inches and both feature a gentle curve and slightly bulbed tip for some seriously good g-spot or p-spot pleasure. You also get a comfortable padded harness, a removable bullet vibrator, and 2 O-rings! Perfect for those looking to size up from beginners dildos, this kit is ready and waiting to play!
The Tantus Intermediate Unisex Strap-On Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Tantus Intermediate Unisex Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Intermediate Unisex Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tantus Intermediate Unisex Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Intermediate Unisex Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
want a complete strap on kitlove smooth dildosprefer non-realistic dildoswant two different size dildos to explore
want a vibrating strap onprefer textured dildos | Length | Medium Dildo: 5.5 inches; Large Dildo: 7 inches |
| Diameter | Large Dildo: 1.25 inches; Large Dildo: 1.5 inches |
| Vibration modes | 1 |
| Rechargeable | No (3 x LR44 batteries) |
| Waterproof | Splashproof |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Harness Size | 24 to 60 inches |
High quality silicone dildosTwo different size dildos Easily adjustable harnessBullet vibe and O-rings includedHarness can be used with other dildos 
Bullet vibrator is a little weakDifficult to find a comfortable position for bullet vibratorSmall dildo might be too small for those looking for an intermediate size dildoThis is amazing value for money. It’s great quality and comes with everything you’d want to enjoy as a strap-on. The two straps mean the harness fits nice and snug and stays in place. This set is almost just worth buying for the dildos alone. They’re great quality, and having two means you can use the medium to warm up before trying the large or even have one for vaginal play and one for anal play. The bullet vibe is a nice addition but it’s not the strongest and the pocket isn’t in quite the right place, so if you are looking specifically for a vibrating strap-on, I would go for something with built in vibrations, but if you aren’t worried about the vibrations, this strap-on kit will serve you well!
Sportsheets Bikini Harness
If you’re on a budget and in the market for a women’s strap on, this is a great place to start. It has three adjustable straps and it’ll fit up to 60” hips. A 6.5″ x 1.25″ dildo is also included so that you can get down to the fun straight away. The pretty swirling purple dildo is lightly curved and has a bulbed head, which makes it perfect for massaging your g-spot. Plus, the thong style harness adds a sensual and seductive look to your strap-on play!
The Sportsheets Bikini Harness was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
want a strap-on for occasional useprefer a thong-style harnessenjoy non-representational dildosneed a sturdy harness for thrustingwant a vibrating strap-onwant a harness you can use with different size dildos| Length | Dildo: 6.5 inches |
| Width | Dildo: 1.25 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Harness Size | Up to 60 inches |
Sexy thong style harnessCurved purple dildo for g-spot pleasure Machine washableWaist adjustable up to 60 inches Harness doesn't provide a lot of supportCan't be used with different sized dildosThe straps are quite thin and can dig inThis is a great strap on for beginners as it’s so straightforward to use, whilst its thong-style design is sure to up the kink in the bedroom. The silicone dildo is high quality and best suited to beginners – intermediate players. Although it is great value for money, advanced players may want to invest in a sturdier harness that makes thrusting easier.
Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit
If you’re a newbie to strap-ons, this is the PERFECT set for you. Instead of confusing, annoying straps to fiddle around with, this unique brief style harness makes the set very easy to use. It comes with two dildos, one small (3”) and one larger (5”). This harness set allows both the wearer and receiver to get a slice of the fun! The longer pink dildo attached to the outside of the underwear, pleasing the receiver with it g-spot massaging curved shaft, while the smaller dildo attaches to the inside, letting the wearer enjoy simultaneous penetration! And that’s not all! The kit comes with a bullet vibrator that can be slipped inside the smaller black dildo for some added stimulation!
That’s a whole lot of pleasure for both partners!
The Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Up Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
are new to strap-on play prefer an underwear-style harnesswant to different size dildosenjoy smooth dildoswant an adjustable harnesscrave strong vibrationshave more experience with dildos| Vibration modes | 7 |
| Vibration speeds | 2 |
| Vibration patterns | 5 |
| Rechargeable | No, Batteries included |
| Waterproof | Splashproof |
| Insertable length | inches |
| Diameter | inches |
Easy to use underwear harnessTwo silicone dildosCan be used for simultaneous penetrationBullet vibe can be used with the smaller dildoDildos might be too small for more experienced usersWon't fit larger bodies Bullet vibe isn't very strong Sizes come up a little smallBeginners, you need this strap-on set! It’s super comfortable, it comes with two different sized dildos to please everyone, PLUS a removable bullet vibrator. But the real thing that sets this strap-on kit apart and makes it an amazing strap-on for women is that it has an extra O-ring on the inside, so the wearer can also enjoy penetration while penetrating their partner! A few things to keep in mind is that the vibrator is not rechargeable, but it does come with batteries so you can start the fun straight away. The brief also only comes in two sizes, which are not adjustable, and they sizes are a little on the small size, so some people may find them too tight. Advanced players may also want a set with larger dildos, but they are sure to please beginner and intermediate players!
Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set
This female strap-on is sure to give you a sweet-sweet climax! This set comes with a rabbit that is fully waterproof, rechargeable and has 15 different vibration modes for you to explore, you definitely won’t get bored of this one. The receiver gets to enjoy delicious vibrations inside and out with the addition of rabbit ears to stimulate their clitoris. The harness is also adjustable, so you’re sure to find a comfortable fit. Plus, you can enjoy the rabbit solo, so partner or not, this strap on is going to give you endless fun! It’s also waterproof and rechargeable — what more could you want!
The Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set was rated 20 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
love dual stimulationwant a strap-on with built-in vibrationswant to use the rabbit separately need a waterproof & rechargeable strap-ondon't enjoy clitoral stimulationlove hard thrustingcrave a larger dildowant a strap-on for anal use| Vibration speeds | Internal: 3; Rabbit ears: 3 |
| Vibration patterns | Internal: 9 |
| Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 5.5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.3 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Travel Lock | Yes |
Rabbit style vibrator for dual stimulationComfortable adjustable harnessVibrator can be used with or without harnessWaterproof and rechargeableComes with 3 O-rings for different size dildosRabbit ears make thrusting difficultMight not be big enough for more experienced dildo usersCan't see control buttons when wearingThis harness is a little pricey, but it’s worth it. The tapered rabbit will hit all the right spots internally and the vibrations are nice and strong. Although the rabbit is on the smaller side, it will definitely pleasure beginners and intermediate players. Advanced players may want to swap the rabbit out for a larger dildo, the set comes with three different sized O-Rings so it’s sure to fit any dildo you already have in your collection!
Union Double Dildo Vibrating Black
Love the penetration but hate the harness? Well, we’ve got just the strap-on for you… it’s strapless! This women’s strap-on comes without a harness, one end, the ‘bulb’, sits comfortably in the giver’s vagina, whilst the dildo end perfectly penetrates the receiver. This double-ended dildo is made from super soft silicone and comes in three different sizes. Did I mention it also comes with a rechargeable bullet? It has 5 different vibration speeds, so you can both climax together.
The Union Double Dildo Vibrating Black was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
want simultaneous stimulation for both partnerswant a choice of different sizes are looking for an adjustable strapless strap-onlove smooth, non-representational dildoswant built in vibrations need stability for harder thrusting prefer a softer, squishy dildo| Vibration speeds | 5 |
| Length | Dildo: 5.9 inches; Bulb: 2.75 inches |
| Diameter | Dildo: (S) 1.06, (M) 1.38 (L) 1.61; Bulb: 1.45 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Medical grade silicone |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Flexibility | Posable |
Three sizes to choose fromStimulation for both partnersCan feel more intimate than a harnessRemovable, rechargeable bullet vibratorCan be difficult to keep in placeVibrations don't travel that well through the toyMight still need to use a harnessStrapless strap-ons offer a little more intimacy than harness strap-ons as there is nothing in between you and your partner, and they stimulate both partners at the same time, so can both get caught up in the moment. As well as having a longer shaft and insertable bulb, the union has a rechargeable vibrating bullet for both partners to enjoy! This does provide some extra stimulation, although the vibrations lose a bit of power as they travel through the toy so they aren’t the most powerful. I love that you get three different sizes and three different colors to choose from, making it easier to find your perfect match. On top of that, the longer shaft has a posable core, so you can adjust the angle to suit your bodies and whichever position you want to use it in. Strapless strap-ons can be tricky to use, as they have a tendency to slip out, so you might want to pair this with a harness for extra support, especially if you enjoy more vigorous thrusting.
Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set
Do you find harnesses uncomfortable and too restrictive? This female strap-on replaces a harness with some sexy crotchless panties. Made from red and black lace, they look gorgeous on. The fact that they’re crotchless means that the receiver can be pleasured without having to take them off. The set also comes with a soft silicone dildo with a slim shaft and gentle curve, perfect for those that are new to penetrative play or just prefer a smaller toy!
The Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
want crotchless underwear for easy accessprefer sexy underwear style harnessesenjoy smaller, smooth dildosenjoy a larger dildowant a vibrating strap-onprefer the security of a harness| Length | 5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.25 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Dildo: Silicone; Underwear: Nylon, spandex, polyester |
| Harness Size | Up to 26 inches |
Dildo is great for beginnersCan be used with other dildosSexy designMachine washableWon't fit larger bodiesSizes come up a little smallMight not suit more experienced strap-on/dildo usersThis strap-on kit is super easy to slip on and you don’t have to mess around with straps — you can just get to the good stuff! I love that it has an open crotch so it’s super easy to stimulate the wearer. It’s also great if you don’t like the look of regular harnesses. The dildo is definitely on the small size so won’t suit bigger appetites but it’s great for anyone new to penetrative play. Plus, with the underwear being machine washable and the dildo being made of silicone, it’s super easy to keep this strap-on kit clean! This is a great piece of kit for anyone who is just getting into strap-on play and it’s very affordable!
Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On
Sharing is caring and this double dildo lets you do that and more! With insertable parts for both the wearer and the receiver, both partners can enjoy being stimulated at the same time. Plus, this strap-on has a single speed bullet vibrator that can be used inside the dildo for even more pleasure! It’s also easier to get just the right angle as you can adjust the angle of the dildo, and it locks securely into place, so you won’t have to stop the fun to readjust!
The Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Rating: Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Double Delight Strapless Strap-On felt to the reviewer.
prefer a strapless designwant added vibrations are looking for an adjustable strapless strap-onprefer a rechargeable strap-oncrave strong vibrations want a range of vibration settingsare new to penetrative play| Vibration modes | 1 |
| Insertable length | Bulb: 4.5 inches; Shaft: 6 inches |
| Diameter | 1.4 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Rechargeable | No (3 x LR44 batteries - included) |
| Adjustable | Yes |
Stimulation for both partnersRemovable bullet vibratorAdjustable angles lock into placeVibrations aren't that strongDifficult to keep in placeCan be too rigid for some tastesBattery operatedThis strapless strap-on is best suited to people who enjoy more rigid dildos as both the bulb and shaft are pretty solid. I really like that you can lock the angle into place as there’s no change of it losing it’s shape during use. Unfortunately, like pretty much all strapless strap-ons, it can be hard for the wearer to keep the bulb in place during use, so you might need to add in a harness or underwear harness for extra support. The removable bullet is a nice touch but doesn’t provide the strongest vibrations, so bear that in mind if you are the type of person who needs a lot of power.