The 11 Best BDSM Furniture Pieces for Your Den to Your Dungeon
Testing the best BDSM furniture
We never thought we’d be rating furniture, but here we are! Using our team of expert sex toy testers (plus a whole range of freelancers from around the world), we could start to gather information on the BDSM furniture. We wanted them to look at every aspect: the materials, the ease of use, the price, everything! We don’t just want to hear about the positives, you see. We want to hear about those negatives, too! That’s the only way we could write this balanced and unbiased BDSM furniture review!
Most popular types of BDSM furniture
BDSM furniture is surprisingly popular. Granted, some pieces are more discreet than others (with some being plainly obvious what they’re for), but still, that’s never stopped anyone enjoying BDSM furniture before! So let’s explore some of the naughtily fun things you can get!
- Sex cushions – Easy to place and position, sex cushions and bondage pillows help you prop yourself or your partner in the perfect position. Cheap and easy to move around, they should be a staple for any BDSM lover!
- Sex swings – Strap your sub into an amazing bondage swing and enjoy using them as they’re helplessly hanging there! Strap their legs wide apart and go to town on them as they are all exposed and vulnerable!
- Sex chairs – A great item for easy positioning, sex chairs really do compliment sex tables! Sex chairs are like normal chairs but with holes in the sit part. This allows for cheeky access to all the best and most intimate parts! Delicious!
- Sex benches – Similar in a lot of ways to sex chairs, sex benches just put you in a slightly different lower position. It still offers that same naughty access to whatever you desire! Amazing if you enjoy spanking, too!
- Cages – Treat your sub like an animal and lock them in a cage! Trapped and on all fours, the wide-set steely bars allow you to slide through whatever you want and lets you enjoy them in a brutal and powerful way.
- Bondage straps – Keeping your sub held down or restrained is important, and using bondage straps to tie them up is all part of the BDSM experience. Tie them loose or tie them tight, it’s all sensual and sexy good fun!
- Sex machines – Don’t want manual stimulation? Then a sex machine will do all the hard work for you! Position it where you want, customize the speed and depth of the dildo, and have the best time ever!
Things to consider when buying BDSM furniture
There are definitely things that you need to think about when buying your BDSM furniture. After all, you don’t want a sub-par product – you want something fun and worthwhile! So here are a few things that you need to take into consideration.
- Materials – You’re going to want to think about the materials you buy for a variety of reasons: Firstly the comfort of the material. Secondly how easy to keep clean it is. And thirdly is it likely to remain hygienic down the line as you use it more and more.
- Attachment – Adding things on to your BDSM furniture is one of the most fun things about it. It’s a living, constantly evolving thing, after all! Seeing what attachment possibilities there are can really help you have a fun experience when using!
- Storage – If discreet storage is a concern to you, you’re going to want to check out your options. Is the furniture able to be disassembled or hidden away? Or is it something that fits in with the rest of your home decor?
- Return policies – As with ANY item you buy, sometimes you need to return it! This might be because it’s not fit for purpose or something might be broken. Whatever the case it’s important you check the return policies as some places might not accept returns due to the nature of how these toys are used!
The test winner gets things off to a real ‘swinging’ start!
FAQ
What is BDSM Furniture?
BDSM furniture is furniture designed specifically to aid the pleasurable act of BDSM; this could include ankle restraints to full sex swings. Some of this furniture might be discreet and fit in with any modern home without looking out of place, but then on the other hand some pieces might stick out like a sore thumb! It's all about figuring out what you want from your BDSM furniture, and discovering its discreetness and how it can fit into your home and your sex life.
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The 11 Best bdsm furniture in Test
Fetish Fantasy Bondage Swing
The Fetish Fantasy Bondage Swing is a piece of BDSM furniture that you definitely want to be familiar with!
The sleek white/silver design boasts a luxurious aesthetic while you’re suspended in pleasure; the metal D-rings attached along the swing allow for endless possibilities as you attach the wrist/ankle cuffs where you please.
The adjustable cuffs are perfect for creating a comfortable suspension experience, while the support bar, and spring offer peace of mind.
Suspension has never been so fun!
The Fetish Fantasy Swing is perfect for those who are looking for the next addition to their BDSM dungeon; the nylon material is sturdy and sleek, while the D-rings offer endless play.
Something to consider is that the swing is a single hook mechanism, which is why the weight limit is capped at 350 lbs!
The cuffs and the seat are also not especially padded, which could make the swing uncomfortable when used for long periods.
Over-the-Door Cuffs
These over-the-door wrist cuffs will add a sense of adventure to your sex-life, as you use them on any door, anywhere you please!
The cuffs are great for any kind of standing sex, and they’re also a brilliant addition to any bondage collection; both the door, and the wrist straps are completely adjustable for the utmost comfort throughout.
The buckled, faux-skin cuffs are detachable for play around the house, and the sturdy barbells sit securely on any closed household door.
Over-the-door cuffs are a great addition to any bondage play, as they allow for ease when engaging in standing sex!
Something to consider is the noise of the barbells against the door as the person wears the cuffs- pulling and moving around in the cuffs tends to move the barbells against the door.
The cuffs do not have any padding, which could be uncomfortable when wearing for long periods, or if resisting!
Liberator Wedge with Wrist Cuffs
For the best sex positions coupled with bondage play, the Liberator Wedge is where you’ll need to be!
The wedge is different from predecessors as it includes two strategically placed cuff connector points, for stress-free attachment of your favourite cuffs.
It’s good too note straight away that the wedge DOES NOT include ankle/wrist cuffs!
Made with high-density foam, the wedge is specifically designed to aid any sexual position, but is particularly perfect for tied up cunnilingus play.
The moisture resistant cover allows for messy sessions, and is super easy to remove for cleaning.
If you’re looking for a wedge which will aid you with positions and allow you to be restrained, then the Liberator Black Label Wedge might just be the right one for you!
Of course, that is if you have $155 to spare!
Something to consider is the price of the wedge, as it is extortionate; the Liberator position aids are usually high in price, and it depends on the individual as to whether they need a $155 pillow.
I think the worst bit (apart from the price) is that this pillow is specifically for bondage of the wrists/ankles, and though it has cuff points, there are no cuffs included… yep!
Mega Bondage Kit
This 8 piece bondage kit is ready to totally enhance your positions, and improve your sex-life!
Trying new positions has never been so easy and fun with this kit in reach; with adjustable straps and cuffs for the utmost comfort, and control, experimenting with your partner just got a lot more interesting.
The cuffs are lined with luxurious faux-fur, and include quick-release clips for peace of mind.
The kit includes a satin blindfold, two wrist cuffs, two ankle cuffs, a 4-way hog tie, an inflatable position aid, a position restraint, over-the-door sex swing and arm straps- there’s more than enough to keep you occupied!
With an 8 piece bondage kit, there are a plethora of possibilites to the pleasure you can create!
Something to consider is that the set doesn’t come with instructions which can be frustrating when setting certain bits up; there is no weight limit specified on the sex swing either, however reviews have stated it is not suitable for those with larger bodies.
Faux Leather Sex Chair
The DOMINIX Faux Leather sex chair boasts comfort along with a sexy aesthetic!
The chair is super sturdy for any position you may want to try, and it offers two seat surfaces for a whole new world of versatility.
With a 9 inch hole in one of the seat options, you’ll feel like royalty as you experience queening; 4 attachment points allow for super sexy bondage play.
The material of the chair is super easy to clean, so you can get as messy as you want; the chair comes pre-assembled for complete ease, and immediate use if you please…
If you’re looking for a chair that will hold up under vigorous play, you’ve found it!
The DOMINIX sex chair is ready to take you in any position, and aid you in your most strenuous sessions…
Something to consider is the weight of the chair, although not stated on LoveHoney’s website, reviews have stated that the chair is quite heavy; the chair also does not fold away, and so it will need a dedicated place for storage!
Obedience Extreme Sex Bench
For perfect submission, and complete ease of access, the Obedience Sex Bench will surpass your expectations and beyond!
The bench is equipped for all kinds of play, with it’s optional straps for bondage play, and padded rests for those long sessions.
The bench is completely adjustable, and offers deliciously exposing positions for all your fantasties to play out; the bench is sturdy and ready to take on all of your deepest fantasies…
Restrain, spank, fuck… whatever your heart desires!
The Obedience Sex Bench is the perfect addition to your dungeon; keep your sub in check with the promise of a spanking on this bench, whilst enjoying the added restraint points for when bondage is desired.
Something to consider is that the bench would need it’s own dedicated space as it does not fold up!
Kennel Cage with Padded Board
Teach your sub some manners with the Master Series Kennel Cage- they’ll be begging for forgiveness!
The cage is completely adjustable for ultimate access to any part of your sub, and the padded base is super comfortable for supporting any desired position.
Control your subs positions with ease, or if they’ve been particularly naughty, remove the padded cushion and get them in position for punishment!
The cage is a great addition to any dungeon…
With the Master Series Kennel Cage, your sub will be sure to keep in check!
Adjust the bars for easy access to any part of their body, and watch them submit…
Something to consider is the weight of the cage as the materials and construction mean it is quite heavy; if you do not have a dedicated place for the cage to go, it may not be ideal to invest!
Large Inflatable Wedge
The DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable Sex Wedge offers bondage play, sensory play, and position enhancement- it’s triple the fun!
The wedge is perfect for aiding those difficult to achieve positions, and the included wrist/ankle cuffs are padded for optimum comfort during use; for extra fun, equip the velvet blindfold and try some sensual sensory play.
This wedge allows for the big three: amazing oral, restraint, and sensory play!
The super soft velvety feel of the wedge, cuffs, and blindfold gives a luxury feel during play, and allows for ultimate comfort.
With a wedge, cuffs, and a mask included all for $59.99, there’s no doubt this set is value for money!
Something to consider is that the wedge is quite large and therefore it is recommended that you will need to use a pump to inflate.
Over-The-Door Cross Position Restraint
Achieve perfect restraint with the DOMINIX Over-the-door restraint!
Not only is this restraint ideal for teaching your sub a lesson, but it also looks incredibly sexy due to the cross positioning!
The restraint is completely adjustable for ease of use, and fits most internal household doors; the leather wrist/ankle cuffs are completely detachable for play elsewhere, and also adjustable for comfort.
Perfectly position your sub with these over-the-door cross restraints, and adjust as you please, for the ultimate bondage session!
Something to consider is that the restraint can be difficult to set up, especially when you’re in the moment!
ALWAYS REMEMBER: when unfastening your sub from these restrains, unfasten the feet restraints first for safety!
Stockade Set
Add a touch of medieval/viking roleplay to your dungeon, with this beautifully made Stockade set!
The set includes: wooden stockade, leather paddle, leather flogger, leather blindfold, wrist and neck inlays, and all the extras you need to set it up.
Have your sub give you complete access to their body while their neck and wrists are restrained in the stockade, and their eyes are covered with the leather blindfold; if your sub had smaller wrists, use the included leather inlays for precise restraint and comfort.
Once set up, you’ll never want to be away from this beautiful piece of BDSM furniture!
If you’re looking to get your sexy viking on, then this stockade set is right up your alley!
With it’s beautifully crafted wooden pillory, and leather accessories, the set doesn’t disappoint- reviews also state that the smell is invigorating!
Something to consider is that this particular piece of BDSM furniture is definitely an investment, as well as a commitment due to the assembly nature of it- if you have a room where it can be drilled into the ceiling and stay there, then there shouldn’t be a problem.
Inflatable Play Sheet
Have you ever dreamt of having a pool of lube in your living room?
Sure, it’s an incredibly subjective question, but if you’re someone who can’t get enough lube when having sex, then you’ll understand the question perfectly!
The ‘Fist It’ inflatable play sheet is ready to give you the slipperiest sessions, and the strongest orgasms; the sheet is inflated, and the lubricant provided is mixed with water to provide a whopping 5 litres of lube to pour in- all you need to do is get in and play!
If you’ve ever tried fisting, you’ll know that there can never be enough lube; this sheet allows for an endless supply of lube for the wettest, most pleasurable sessions.
Let yourself go and get wetter than ever with this inflatable play sheet; it’s perfect for hardcore fuck sessions, fisting, and everything in between!
Something to consider is the size of the sheet, as it is quite large, so ensure you have the space for it before you buy; you will also need an inflator to inflate this.
Take Your Dungeon on the Road
Keep your sub in check, on the go!
For the Bedroom Bondage Connoisseur
For long nights (and days), tying your partner up on a comfortable bed, you’ll need something reliable with lots of possibilities!
Discreet vs Extravagant
From light bondage, and silky sex pillows, to sensual swings, and cages- there’s a whole world of sex furniture to choose from!
As there is so much choice out there, it can be overwhelming and leave you wondering which type of BDSM furniture is right for you?
Here are a few examples, from the deliciously discreet, to the excitingly extravagant!
Deliciously Discreet
If you’re looking to ease into the world of BDSM furniture, there are lots of options to choose from that are a bit more beginner friendly!
Of course, these options aren’t just for beginners- they’re the go to for lots of experienced BDSM engagers.
- Bondage
Bondage is a great way to explore BDSM, especially for beginners; try bondage tape if you’re a beginner, as it’s super easy to remove and it doesn’t leave any awkward stickiness on your skin.
Bondage tape can bind arms, legs, ankles, wrists, and anywhere else you could imagine- it also makes super sexy clothes if you feel like putting on a show for your partner!
Of course, bondage can also be performed with ropes; the act of rope bondage is sometimes called ‘Shibari’- this is because it is an artistic form of bondage. Shibari is also a skill that can be perfected, and performed for ultimate pleasure.
Though the name is intimidating, this type of fuck machine is definitely not!
A handheld fuck machine is discreet for storage, and not as commitment based as a full on floor standing fuck robot!
Easy to assemble, discreet, and just as sexy as a full fledged ceiling mounted swing!
It’s not permanently attached to anything, and you can simply fold it up and store it away when you’re done- you can’t go wrong!
Bang the night away, assisted by a position enhancing pillow, and when the morning comes, it’s just as inconspicuous as a normal body pillow…
Gags are something that are super fun for roleplay; they come in different styles such as ball gags, O-ring gags, dildo gags, and spider gags.
To find out more about gags, check out our guide on the uses of gags.
Excitingly Extravagant
For those who want a little more extravagance in their BDSM play, these pieces of furniture could be exactly what you need:
A sex table is specifically designed for the act of BDSM; there are many different designs, but the most common ones are designed and equipped for bondage play.
Tying your naked partner up on a table, brings a whole new meaning to ‘fine dining’!
Were talking about the full on set up! The swing that hangs from your ceiling, or the swing on a stand in the middle of your living room- or dungeon!
These kind of sex swings mean business, and they’re ready to furnish your dungeon, or become a part of your every day living!
There are BDSM fuck machines, thrusting fuck machines, cheap fuck machines, and quiet fuck machines… need we go on?
Whatever suits your desires, a fuck machine is the finishing touch for your ultimate pleasure dungeon!
- BDSM Cage
For when your submissive just won’t behave! A sex cage is perfect for those puppy play fantasies, or for simply teaching your sub a lesson.
DIY Bondage Furniture
If you’re looking to engage in the world of fun that is BDSM furniture, but you don’t want to break the bank, then get out your tools and get ready for the ultimate craft session!
If you’re looking to kit out your dungeon, check out our full guide on how to DIY your own BDSM Furniture.
(We do not recommend making your own sex toys and always recommend that you purchase purpose-made sex toys from a reputable shop. We are in no way responsible for any harm caused due to the use or sharing of these DIYs. You are 100% responsible for the outcome should you choose to make your own sex toys.)
DIY Sex Wedge
Comfort and pleasure always go together!
For this piece of BDSM furniture, you will need:
Quality foam (one that will support you lying on it)
Sharp knife to cut through foam
Measuring tape
Fabric Glue
Velcro or a zip mechanism
Fabric to cover (optional)
Pencil
Now you have your materials, it’s time to get to work!
- With your piece of foam, mark out the shape you want to cut from the foam. Be sure to measure the foam and the markings, to ensure the wedge will be a good fit.
- CAREFULLY, cut along the lines you have made with your pencil, until you have the foam shape. The off cuts of the foam can be discarded. (Once cut, you may wish to neaten the edges of the shape if they’re a little rough).
- Measure the amount of fabric you will need to cover your wedge; marking the fabric with a pencil is a good idea. (Include extra fabric into your measurements, as it’s always better to have too much than too little- you can always trim it later!)
- Cut along the lines you’ve made with the pencil. When you have your fabric cut, you can wrap it around the wedge.
- Take your Velcro strips and glue them on to the fabric where you want the opening to be (Ensure the opening is big enough for the wedge to fit through when removing for cleaning).
- Use the fabric glue to glue the Velcro to the fabric, and to join the edges of the fabric together neatly. If there is extra fabric left loose after gluing, use scissors to snip this off.
You’re done- Enjoy your new sex wedge!
DIY Sex Chair
Upcycling- *Gone Sexual*
This one is probably my personal favorite, but that’s probably because I love the idea of upcycling- oh, and the dildo part too!
For this piece of BDSM furniture, you’ll need:
A wooden chair (without a cushioned or fabric seat and that will support riding motions!)
A thin layer of foam (enough to cover the seat of the chair)
A suction cup dildo (you choose the size!)
A knife to cut the foam
A pencil
Fabric
Fabric glue
Velcro (4 long strips)
Ok, let’s go!
- Take your piece of foam and your fabric; cut the fabric to the amount that you will need to cover the foam completely (remember to leave excess fabric to ensure you can glue the Velcro on though!)
- Once cut, cover the foam with your fabric; glue the Velcro onto the edge of the fabric where it will close around the foam. Be sure to check that the Velcro will allow for the foam to be pulled out of the space for cleaning.
- When the foam is covered with the fabric, and the glue is dried, take your suction cup dildo and place it in the centre of the fabric covered foam; trace the suction cup on the fabric with the pencil.
- Once traced, put your dildo to one side; use the knife to cut the tracing of the suction cup from the fabric covered foam (it should be a hole in the middle of the foam to fit the suction cup).
- Now you have your pillow ready, put it to one side for a moment; take 2 strips of Velcro and glue them to the wooden chair seat- one each side. Glue the corresponding pieces of the Velcro to the underside of the pillow (the Velcro on the chair should match up with the pillow).
- Put the pillow on the chair, making sure to secure it to the Velcro attachment. Once it’s on there, put your dildo in the middle of the pillow and allow the suction cup to attach to the wooden seat.
Enjoy your new sex chair!
DIY Sub Cage
Teach your naughty sub a lesson!
If you’re interested in purchasing a sub cage, you’ve probably shopped around and seen the extortionate prices!
We say that giving your misbehaving sub the treatment they deserve doesn’t have to be expensive- it just has to be effective!
There aren’t any DIY steps to take with this one, just a realisation…
A dog crate!
Yep, you read that right. All you need is a large dog crate; you might want to find one with bars that are a little wider than most, however this won’t be difficult.
Large dog crates are a lot less expensive than BDSM sub cages- it all comes down to which you prefer.
Add a pillow to the bottom of the crate for your sub’s comfort, or leave it bare; just be sure to never leave anyone unattended in the cage!
REMINDER
Always remember, when crafting your own furniture, never skimp on materials; you should use reliable materials, which are good quality and therefore safe- not only for safety, but for quality, as if you use cheap materials your furniture will surely break, and you may aswell have bought new!
How to Use BDSM Furniture
The correct way to use BDSM furniture relies on the specific product itself; always follow the instructions and be sure that the furniture piece is correctly assembled before use.
From spanking benches and sex tables, to BDSM fuck machines and sex swings, each product is beautifully unique in it’s purpose and use.
Just incase you’re looking for a bit of information on the general use of BDSM furniture, here’s a few pointers we’ve put together for you:
Safety first
When it comes to any kind of furniture, the first thing you want to know is that it’s safe! If you are assembling the BDSM furniture on your own, ensure you follow the instructions provided.
For example, when assembling an ‘over the door’ sex swing, you’ll need to make sure the hooks which hold the swing onto the closed door, are correctly positioned, and that the door is able to hold the weight of the person who will be using the swing.
Choosing the right one
There is so much choice when it comes to BDSM furniture, that it can feel overwhelming when trying to choose what is right for you.
The best thing to do is think about what turns you on, and what you would like to venture out and try. Maybe you’re into being submissive, or maybe you’re more of a dominant- whatever you are, there’s a piece of BDSM furniture for you.
You might be into suspension, and so a sex swing might get you off; if you’re more into lighter play, some bondage tape could really get you going.
Whatever you’re in to, BDSM furniture can elevate your fantasies, and unlock your sexual confidence; don’t be afraid to shop around, and do some research to see what you like- it’s the only way we get to know ourselves!
Sizing
You wouldn’t buy a piece of clothing without knowing the size, so don’t do it with BDSM furniture!
With any piece of BDSM furniture, you’ll need to know if the size is compatible with you; this is for both safety and comfort.
With any piece of BDSM furniture which is designed to hold a person, there will be a weight limit listed; always check this to ensure it is suitable for you, or the person using it.
How to Clean BDSM Furniture
It's super important to clean your BDSM furniture before and after use, and it's good practice to get into the routine of it; you need to ensure your furniture is clean to avoid bacteria infiltrating in, or around your body. To clean, you'll need: warm water (or sex toy cleaner/antibacterial soap) and a clean, dry towel. If your BDSM furniture is not motorized or made of cushioned, porous material, give it a good, deep clean with a damp, clean cloth and antibacterial soap. You can always leave it to air dry until bone dry. If the BDSM furniture is motorized or porous, you will need to gently wipe it down with a clean damp cloth, and some antibacterial soap. DO NOT get it soaking wet as this will destroy the mechanisms, and could ruin the furniture completely. When clean, use a clean, dry towel to thoroughly dry your furniture, or leave it to air dry- leave no part damp as bacteria will develop! Always find a place where you can store your furniture with plenty of room for others, and where it will be kept away from anything like dust or wetness- these will only cause bacteria to develop!
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.