Fleshlight Ice Lady — Test & Review

Jason Bragdon
by Jason BragdonUpdated:

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Jason Bragdon

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Based on 489 user reviews


Rating: Fleshlight Ice Lady was rated 99 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Fleshlight Ice Lady.

Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fleshlight Ice Lady was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).


Rating: Fleshlight Ice Lady was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.


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Rating: Fleshlight Ice Lady was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.


Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.


Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.


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My Verdict

I think it's important to state that this toy will not be for everyone. That being said, if you have a penis and enjoy orgasming either solo or with a partner, the Fleshlight Ice Lady will easily blow your mind. The build quality and materials are premium but so is the price. Take into account the clear, visual stimulation that is associated with it and you will be hard pressed to find another manual masturbator that will beat it. And taken care of, the Fleshlight Ice Lady will be pleasing you for many years to cum.

Buy, if you...

  1. want a realistic masturbator
  2. enjoy the best of the best
  3. like to "watch"

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are on a budget
  2. don't want to spend time cleaning it
  3. don't have a place to dry it properly

About The Fleshlight Ice Lady

The Fleshlight Ice Lady is like the next IPhone, looks and sounds familiar, but with one killer feature. This is the Ice feature which adds more visual sensation to your play. The Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world and I'm going to tell you why the hype is real.


  • The shell makes it easy to store and travel with
  • Variable suction/pressure with end cap
  • Clear shell and sleeve for visual stimulation
  • Incredibly realistic


  • Pricey
  • Cleaning/drying can be cumbersome
  • Slightly heavy

My personal experience with the Fleshlight Ice Lady

My Personal Experiences with Fleshlight Ice Lady

My Experience

This was my first experience with a Fleshlight. I’ve used other masturbators in the past. Manual ones, portable ones, automatic ones, cheap ones, you get the idea.  But there is a reason why Fleshlight is the OG of male masturbators. Right out of the box you know this is different.  There’s a weight to it, not heavy, but substantial.  You can tell its solid and quality built. The look of the see through plastic shell and sleeve are mesmerizing. You move it around and the light catches all the different facets and grooves. It is an engineering marvel. Then you pull off the lid. Initially, it looks like a normal pussy masturbator, but then you touch it. It’s soft, almost sticky texture is a little worrisome at first. Once you add of the included Fleshlube water-based lube (thank you) you start to notice that this isn’t your normal masturbator from one of the random international sellers. This is special and it’s gonna be amazing.  And boy howdy, was it ever.

The Results

The variation in internal texture combined with the soft, squishy TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) sleeve made for one heck of a ride. It didn’t make me numb after awhile like some of my other masturbators. As you’re going, you can adjust end cap to allow more or less pressure which increases the suction sensation due to the vacuum that’s created. Then there is the visual side of things.  You wouldn’t think that being able to watch the action as its happening would be that much of a turn on, but the Fleshlight Ice material just added to my experience. Men are very visual creatures, so being able to see yourself during the action, just puts me over the edge.

My take on the Fleshlight Ice Lady’s design

Fleshlight Ice Lady My take on the Fleshlight Ice Lady’s design

As before, the main draw here is the crystal, ice material used. The shell is completely clear and the sleeve is almost completely transparent. There is the screw on pressure cap at the end as well as the twist on storage cap. There are ridges on the outside of the shell to help with grip during those particularly exciting or messy sessions. It's a similar design to pretty much every fleshlight, except for it being clear. But hey, if it ain't broke!

The Simplicity of Fleshlight Ice Lady: My User Experience Unveiled

Fleshlight Ice Lady The Simplicity of Fleshlight Ice Lady: My User Experience Unveiled

What is there to say here? Get yourself hard, twist off the cap, lube up and enjoy. It doesn't get much better or easier than that. You can warm the sleeve in warm water to make it "more realistic" but I found that it feels great either way.

Review of the Quality

Fleshlight Ice Lady Review of the Quality

The top quality materials definitely differentiate the Fleshlight Ice Lady from its competitors. The thick shell and supple sleeve show the time and care that went in to make this product for me to enjoy. The weight of it also shows that it isn't made of cheap plastic. Also, with this being clear, if there were imperfections in the product, either shell or sleeve, you'd know it and this thing is immaculate.

The Fleshlight Ice Lady: Is it Value for Money?

Fleshlight Ice Lady The Fleshlight Ice Lady: Is it Value for Money?

At around $80, I would consider this on the more expensive side for a manual masturbator. But the old saying, "you get what you pay for", really applies here. The quality of the build materials and the packaging definitely make this worth the price.

Unpacking the Performance of the Fleshlight Ice Lady

Fleshlight Ice Lady Unpacking the Performance of the Fleshlight Ice Lady

Once you add the lube, you are off to the races. This thing feels like the real deal. It's soft, variable contoured interior could easily be mistaken for the real thing and with the quality craftsmanship, you will be using it for years to cum.

The Unboxing Experience: A Review

Fleshlight Ice Lady The Unboxing Experience: A Review

The actual packaging definitely wasn't discreet but when you are getting a Fleshlight, who cares? The box was labeled well with all the specifications and need to know information. Inside, you find the Fleshlight securely in the packaging with the included instructions, a sample pack of water-based lube, a V.I.P. Card for free access to free videos and other information and the unit itself.

How to care for the Fleshlight Ice Lady

Fleshlight Ice Lady How to care for the Fleshlight Ice Lady

The super, soft TPE feels great to the touch, at room temp or warmed up. Once finished just remove the sleeve and wash it with warm water and mild, unscented soap. The opening at both ends of the sleeve make cleaning out any water based lube and bodily fluids a breeze. Just make sure you got all the nooks and crannies. Once clean try to set it up right to let all the water drain out and it dry completely. After its dry, place it back in the shell, replace the caps and store it in a cool dry place until your next adventure.

Special feature

Fleshlight Ice Lady Special feature

The most obvious thing about this masturbator is easily its best and most special feature. Most fleshlights are the typical peach, pink, tan or brown color but this one is a clear Fleshlight. Now, you say “Jason, what difference does that make?” — most people think of sex just based on touch, but sex is a whole body experience using all 5 of the senses. Your vision is one of those and in combination with the touch, sound and even smell, it just puts it over the top. It adds a certain, je ne sais quoi that you can’t get with most other toys.  Consider all of that with the fact that its the #1 selling male sex toy with a slew of other options and accessories, and this becomes one of the best purchases you can make.

Specifications and features

Length10 inches
Insertable length9 inches
Width3 inches
Diameter (internal)0.75 inches
Weight1 lbs
MaterialsCase: Plastic, Sleeve: TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomers) 
Colors AvailableClear 

Comparing Fleshlight Ice Lady with alternatives

Compare Fleshlight Ice LadyFleshlight Ice Lady
Overall score4.9 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 3.5 / 5.0
User rating4.8 / 5.0
from 489 users
4.1 / 5.0
from 42 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 1249 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 359 users
4.3 / 5.0
from 721 users
4.3 / 5.0
from 765 users
PricePricey Moderate Pricey Affordable Premium Moderate
Design99 / 100 85 / 100 99 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100
Ease of use100 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100
Quality100 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100
Sound-80 / 100 ----
Power-100 / 100 ----
Buzzy/Rumbly-very rumbly ----
Length10 inches9.5 inches10 inches9.75 inches4.4 inches8 inches
Insertable length9 inches6.25 inches9 inches8.5 inches3.5 inches6 inches
Width3 inches-----
Diameter (internal)0.75 inches2 inches---0.5 inches
Weight1 lbs-----
MaterialsCase: Plastic, Sleeve: TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomers) Sleeve: TPE, Case: ABS Plastic Plastic, TPE, Fleshskin SuperSkin (TPE/TPR) SuperSkin™ ABS Plastic, TPE
WaterproofYes Splashproof Yes Yes Yes -
OpeningsVagina 1 Neutral Opening Vagina Vagina Neutral One Neutral Orifice
Colors AvailableClear ----Black outer casing, clear inner sleeve
Vibration speeds-3 ----
Vibration patterns-4 ----
Thrust Modes-3 Contraction Levels ----
Diameter-3.4 inchesCanal: 0.5 inches-Canal: 0.75 inches-
Battery Life-300 minutes----
Rechargeable-Yes ----
Charging Time-100 minutes----
Travel Lock-No ----
Texture----Winding, and screw-like -
Storage Bag Included-----No
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What type of lube is recommended to use with the Fleshlight Ice Lady?
Water-based lube is recommended as silicone lubricants can degrade the TPE.
How do you clean the Fleshlight Ice Lady?
Remove the sleeve from the shell and run it through/under some warm water. Use a mild, unscented soap to clean it and make sure any bodily fluids have been removed. Then let the sleeve air dry before inserting it back into the shell.
I have a long penis, can I still use the Fleshlight Ice Lady?
The shaft of the Fleshlight Ice Lady can handle up to a 9 inch long penis. Most humans will be able to enjoy with product without any problems.
What makes the Fleshlight Ice Lady so special?
Fleshlight is synonymous with male masturbators. Add in the visual aspect to the Ice Lady and you have a formula that can't be beat.

Instructions - Manual

There isn’t a manual available online for the Fleshlight Ice Lady, but you can check my how-to guide above for tips.

Jason Bragdon
Jason Bragdon

I’m a scientist both professionally and at heart, so I love experimenting. Trying new things in the bedroom has become an exciting part of our love life. Sometimes it’s both exciting and terrifying but the end result is learning more about ourselves, personally and sexually.

Age: 40
Gender: Male
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Moderate
All-time favorite sex toy: Fleshligh Ice Lady
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