7 Best Sex Toys For Men

Why I Chose It

I chose the Riley Reid Fleshlight as the overall best sex toy for men because not only is a Fleshlight, which has become an iconic male sex toy for a reason. I went for a Fleshlight over one of the more high-tech automatic thrusters because it’s there’s no set up involve — you can just grab and go.

I chose the Riley Reid Fleshlight in particular based on our tester’s experience. Out of the 50+ Fleshlights that Ben’s tested, Riley Reid’s came out on top! It’s also one of the top-rated male sex toys on the whole site!

Ben loved that “the orifice looks beautiful and is highly realistic with small details included in the molding.” It’s a real treat for the eyes and even better if you are fan of Riley Reid’s work!

He also found the Utopia Sleeve felt “pretty intense with pronounced nubs, twisty coils and pleasure pockets” and he gave it an intensity score of 100/100. He really liked that “the deeper you go, the more exciting the ribbing and bumps!”

He did note that it’s not quite the tightest sleeve out of the ones he tried but “the sleeve varied in tightness in certain areas, making it feel much like a real vagina.”

Why I Chose It

The Arcwave Ghost is my best recommendation for those who are on a tight budget but don’t want to compromise on quality. I used to recommend TENGA eggs to anyone looking for a cheap and beginner-friendly male sex toy. However, they are single-use only, whereas the Ghost is made of silicone, making it reusable and it’s only a few dollars more!

Our tester, Nicolae, was impressed by it’s capabilities writing “It really did its job in pleasuring me as it has a strong sensation on both of it’s surfaces”. He found that “the smooth part with grooves has a nice calm experience for longer sessions” while the bumpy side was more intense and gave “faster relief.”

Nicolae wrote that “the elasticity left [him] amazed!” He even tried to tear (I don’t recommend this) and was unsuccessful. I feel confident that this sleeve will fit most, in not all, penis sizes!

Nicolae also liked that “the Arcwave Ghost stroker comes in a small case which is also ventilated”.  I think that’s pretty impressive for such a small and affordable toy! He also like that it’s “so small you can hide it anywhere or even carry it in your pocket.”

Why I Chose It

“Although simple, everything was done well and I feel that this masturbator is a welcome addition to anyone’s toy collection whether just starting out as a beginner or for someone more experienced”.

Our tester, James, had a great experience with this male sex toy and had mostly good things to say about the quality and design. I picked it out as the best beginner-friendly option because it’s intuitive to use, easy to clean,  and affordable!

James actually found that the quality exceeded his expectations based on the price, writing that it “was of great quality and was molded from a porn actress–something I’ve only seen in more expensive toys” He found the realism “was impressive and definitely added to the experience”.

The cleaning and maintenance process is also very beginner-friendly. As James points out that the open ended design means “that it is quite simple to run water through it,” and he found it “dried extremely quickly after washing”. This is really helpful for minimising the chance of mold growing on the inside!

Why I Chose It

I chose the Kiiroo Keon as the overall best automatic stroker as it’s very impressive in terms of it’s automatic thrusting and interactive features.

Our tester, Josh, was impressed by the range of features and functions it offers, writing “I’ve tried other masturbators, and none match up to the experience of this one!”

I think the amount of customisation in terms of stroke length and speed is fantastic, and Josh liked that“the buttons are well positioned, so you can easily mix and match the speed and stroke length mid-session if you need to”.

He thought the included masturbator was “fantastic quality,” with a “life-like” feel. It’s also great that you can use this as a manual stroker by itself!

Josh’s “main issue is the bulkiness of the Keon. It’s fairly large and unwieldy, and not the most discreet of sex toys ever.” Having held it, I can vouch for this — it’s a heavy machine, which is understandable considering the power it’s packing.

While I haven’t tried one myself, my penis owning partner has one that he’s enjoys using occasionally. He found that the sync function doesn’t work that well with free content, but it’s much better with premium content, and makes for some pretty realistic thrusting in time with the on-screen action.

My overall impression is that the Keon is a great bit of kit but a bit too involved for every-day use. That being said, it’s the best sex toy for men who love tech and are looking for a more immersive experience!

Why I Chose It

“Holy Vibration Batman! The verdict is in and, if I smoked, I’d be having one right now from the aftermath. The Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator is a winner.”

That’s how our tester, John, summed up his experience with this toy!

One thing that makes this device stand out from all the other male sex toys in this review is the design as it focusses primarily on the head of the penis, which tends to be the most sensitive part. He really enjoyed the lower settings, writing it was “almost like edging to the tip of my shaft.”  

That being said, he was also impressed by it’s power, writing that Satisfyer “couldn’t have put a better vibrating mechanism in this toy — wow!” This also matches my experience with Satisfyer — they make solid, well-performing sex toys at very reasonable prices.

It’s also not the most silent and discreet male sex toy out there. It gets loud on higher settings, so this isn’t the best choice for those who live with family or roommates.

Why I Chose It

“My new secret weapon to tantalizing, teasing, and torturing my prostate with bliss! The Psy is a real game changer for me.”

Even though he’s “very used to big toys,” our tester Devon was taken aback by how much he loved the Psy, writing that “the stimulation was unbelievable and had me quaking and giddy within seconds.”

He found the shape perfectly “targets the prostate very directly with a multi-contoured head providing constant stimulation.”

He also really appreciated the adjustable outer legs that mean “the Psy is customizable for specific targeting of internal and external pressure points of pleasure.” This feature also makes it great for beginners, as you can control how deep it goes.

As a sex toy expert, I really appreciate Aneros’ innovative design and the fact that it works with the natural pelvic floor contractions, but that does mean it can take a little while to figure this toy. Having used one with a partner and seen his ‘aha’ moment, I can say with full confidence, the slight learning curve is worth it for the pleasure it unlocks! It’s now one of his favorites!

Why I Chose It

I chose the We-Vibe Verge as the best vibrating cock ring for men as it’s one of the few that are actually designed to be used solo as well as with a partner! You can choose to share the vibes with a vulva owning partner or swivel the Verge around to enjoy some perineum stimulation.

Kasia tested it out with her partner, and they both enjoyed the extra stimulation! Their favorite way of using it was with the vibrator against his perineum, commenting that “it gave my partner a longer and more intense orgasm.” He also found that it was “really comfortable to put on and wear.” 

When facing the other way, Kasia found that the “pointy head reaches the clitoris perfectly” but she found herself craving a little more power but appreciated the added the stimulation.

I also love that it it’s app-enabled because I’ve always found it awkward changing the settings on a cock ring while in use! It’s also great for when you’re in different places as it can be controlled long distance. Kasia and her partner “loved that it can adjust vibration strength and rhythm on the app” and they found it nice and easy to get set up!