7 Best Sex Toys For Men
In my years as a sex toy reviewer, I’ve loved seeing the developments in male sex toys — they’ve really come a long way! We have an amazing team of male sex toy tester here at Bedbible, and I’ve been through every toy they’ve reviewed to find the very best sex toys for men! I’ve included options for complete newbies as well as a high-tech automatic masturbator!
Test Winner | Runner Up | Best for Beginners | Budget-Friendly | Best Penis Vibrator | Best Prostate Massager | Best Cock Ring |
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Kiiroo Keon | Riley Reid Utopia Fleshlight | Doc Johnson Jessie Andrews | Arcwave Ghost | Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator | Aneros Psy | We-Vibe Verge |
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How We Test male sex toys
We’re a team of 345 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best male sex toys, our testers tried and reviewed 286 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre male sex toys didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1275 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.Table of contents (14)
Test Winner Kiiroo Keon Automatic Masturbator
- Up to 230 strokes per minute with adjustable stroke length
- Can connect to interactive content and other Kiiroo sex toys
- Includes a standard Kiiroo Feel Stroker
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ A lot of customisation
- ✅ Can be used with any Kiiroo stroker
- ✅ Can be used hands-free
- ✅ Syncs well with online content
Cons
- ❌ Casing is quite bulky
- ❌ Can be a bit on the loud side
Why I Chose It
I chose the Kiiroo Keon as the overall best automatic stroker as it’s very impressive in terms of it’s automatic thrusting and interactive features.
Our tester, Josh, was impressed by the range of features and functions it offers, writing “I’ve tried other masturbators, and none match up to the experience of this one!”
I think the amount of customisation in terms of stroke length and speed is fantastic, and Josh liked that“the buttons are well positioned, so you can easily mix and match the speed and stroke length mid-session if you need to”.
He thought the included masturbator was “fantastic quality,” with a “life-like” feel. It’s also great that you can use this as a manual stroker by itself!
Josh’s “main issue is the bulkiness of the Keon. It’s fairly large and unwieldy, and not the most discreet of sex toys ever.” Having held it, I can vouch for this — it’s a heavy machine, which is understandable considering the power it’s packing.
While I haven’t tried one myself, my penis owning partner has one that he’s enjoys using occasionally. He found that the sync function doesn’t work that well with free content, but it’s much better with premium content, and makes for some pretty realistic thrusting in time with the on-screen action.
My overall impression is that the Keon is a great bit of kit but a bit too involved for every-day use. That being said, it’s the best sex toy for men who love tech and are looking for a more immersive experience!
Runner Up Riley Reid Utopia Fleshlight
- Molded from Riley Reid
- 4 internal chambers with different textures
- Solid case with adjustable suction
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Case is great for discrete storage
- ✅ Tight opening for more stimulation
- ✅ TPE feels very realistic
- ✅ Case can be used with other Fleshlight sleeves
Cons
- ❌ Sleeve can harbor mold and mildew if not maintained properly
- ❌ Can feel cold if not warmed before use
- ❌ Maintenance is a bit involved
Why I Chose It
I chose the Riley Reid Fleshlight as the overall best sex toy for men because not only is a Fleshlight, which has become an iconic male sex toy for a reason. I went for a Fleshlight over one of the more high-tech automatic thrusters because it’s there’s no set up involve — you can just grab and go.
I chose the Riley Reid Fleshlight in particular based on our tester’s experience. Out of the 50+ Fleshlights that Ben’s tested, Riley Reid’s came out on top! It’s also one of the top-rated male sex toys on the whole site!
Ben loved that “the orifice looks beautiful and is highly realistic with small details included in the molding.” It’s a real treat for the eyes and even better if you are fan of Riley Reid’s work!
He also found the Utopia Sleeve felt “pretty intense with pronounced nubs, twisty coils and pleasure pockets” and he gave it an intensity score of 100/100. He really liked that “the deeper you go, the more exciting the ribbing and bumps!”
He did note that it’s not quite the tightest sleeve out of the ones he tried but “the sleeve varied in tightness in certain areas, making it feel much like a real vagina.”
Best for Beginners Doc Johnson Jessie Andrews All American Girl Masturbator
- Molded directly from adult performer, Jessie Andrews
- Detailed, ribbed interior texture
- Open-ended
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Very affordable compared to other realistically molded strokers
- ✅ Very easy to clean and dry
- ✅ Great for anyone with an average sized penis
- ✅ Can be squeezed for more pressure
Cons
- ❌ A hard outer case would make it easier to store
- ❌ Packaging is a bit lacking
- ❌ Too small for above average penis size
Why I Chose It
“Although simple, everything was done well and I feel that this masturbator is a welcome addition to anyone’s toy collection whether just starting out as a beginner or for someone more experienced”.
Our tester, James, had a great experience with this male sex toy and had mostly good things to say about the quality and design. I picked it out as the best beginner-friendly option because it’s intuitive to use, easy to clean, and affordable!
James actually found that the quality exceeded his expectations based on the price, writing that it “was of great quality and was molded from a porn actress–something I’ve only seen in more expensive toys” He found the realism “was impressive and definitely added to the experience”.
The cleaning and maintenance process is also very beginner-friendly. As James points out that the open ended design means “that it is quite simple to run water through it,” and he found it “dried extremely quickly after washing”. This is really helpful for minimising the chance of mold growing on the inside!
Budget-Friendly Arcwave Ghost Silicone Reusable Reversible Stroker
- Super stretchy reusable stroker made of silicone
- Reversible design with different textures on each side
- Small ventilated storage case
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Very compact and travel-friendly
- ✅ Can accommodate most sizes
- ✅ Super easy to clean and sterilize
- ✅ Great for solo or partnered play
Cons
- ❌ No additional features like suction or vibrations
- ❌ Requires manual stimulation
Why I Chose It
The Arcwave Ghost is my best recommendation for those who are on a tight budget but don’t want to compromise on quality. I used to recommend TENGA eggs to anyone looking for a cheap and beginner-friendly male sex toy. However, they are single-use only, whereas the Ghost is made of silicone, making it reusable and it’s only a few dollars more!
Our tester, Nicolae, was impressed by it’s capabilities writing “It really did its job in pleasuring me as it has a strong sensation on both of it’s surfaces”. He found that “the smooth part with grooves has a nice calm experience for longer sessions” while the bumpy side was more intense and gave “faster relief.”
Nicolae wrote that “the elasticity left [him] amazed!” He even tried to tear (I don’t recommend this) and was unsuccessful. I feel confident that this sleeve will fit most, in not all, penis sizes!
Nicolae also liked that “the Arcwave Ghost stroker comes in a small case which is also ventilated”. I think that’s pretty impressive for such a small and affordable toy! He also like that it’s “so small you can hide it anywhere or even carry it in your pocket.”
Best Penis Vibrator Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator
- Surrounds head of the penis with vibrations
- Tunnel narrows for pleasurably tight fit
- Dual motor design delivers strong vibrations
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ A lot of different vibration settings to explore
- ✅ Clean-up is super easy
- ✅ Extensive warranty of 15 years!
- ✅ Great for fun in the shower or bath
Cons
- ❌ Quite loud
- ❌ Not suitable for much larger than average penises
- ❌ Not fully hands-free
Why I Chose It
“Holy Vibration Batman! The verdict is in and, if I smoked, I’d be having one right now from the aftermath. The Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator is a winner.”
That’s how our tester, John, summed up his experience with this toy!
One thing that makes this device stand out from all the other male sex toys in this review is the design as it focusses primarily on the head of the penis, which tends to be the most sensitive part. He really enjoyed the lower settings, writing it was “almost like edging to the tip of my shaft.”
That being said, he was also impressed by it’s power, writing that Satisfyer “couldn’t have put a better vibrating mechanism in this toy — wow!” This also matches my experience with Satisfyer — they make solid, well-performing sex toys at very reasonable prices.
It’s also not the most silent and discreet male sex toy out there. It gets loud on higher settings, so this isn’t the best choice for those who live with family or roommates.
Best Prostate Massager Aneros Psy Prostate Massager
- Ribbed shaft
- Massages the prostate with pelvic floor movements
- Flexible arms to control depth
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Stays in place well
- ✅ Comfortable to wear for longer periods
- ✅ Good adjustability
- ✅ Great for beginners and more advanced
Cons
- ❌ Can't be worn while sitting
- ❌ Can be a bit of a learning curve
Why I Chose It
“My new secret weapon to tantalizing, teasing, and torturing my prostate with bliss! The Psy is a real game changer for me.”
Even though he’s “very used to big toys,” our tester Devon was taken aback by how much he loved the Psy, writing that “the stimulation was unbelievable and had me quaking and giddy within seconds.”
He found the shape perfectly “targets the prostate very directly with a multi-contoured head providing constant stimulation.”
He also really appreciated the adjustable outer legs that mean “the Psy is customizable for specific targeting of internal and external pressure points of pleasure.” This feature also makes it great for beginners, as you can control how deep it goes.
As a sex toy expert, I really appreciate Aneros’ innovative design and the fact that it works with the natural pelvic floor contractions, but that does mean it can take a little while to figure this toy. Having used one with a partner and seen his ‘aha’ moment, I can say with full confidence, the slight learning curve is worth it for the pleasure it unlocks! It’s now one of his favorites!
Best Cock Ring We-Vibe Verge
- Can be used to pleasure your perineum or a partner
- Provides light constriction
- App enabled with long-distance capabilities
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Very quiet and discreet
- ✅ Stretchy and comfortable
- ✅ Great for solo or partnered play
Cons
- ❌ Vibrator is not flexible/posable
- ❌ Vibrations not super strong
Why I Chose It
I chose the We-Vibe Verge as the best vibrating cock ring for men as it’s one of the few that are actually designed to be used solo as well as with a partner! You can choose to share the vibes with a vulva owning partner or swivel the Verge around to enjoy some perineum stimulation.
Kasia tested it out with her partner, and they both enjoyed the extra stimulation! Their favorite way of using it was with the vibrator against his perineum, commenting that “it gave my partner a longer and more intense orgasm.” He also found that it was “really comfortable to put on and wear.”
When facing the other way, Kasia found that the “pointy head reaches the clitoris perfectly” but she found herself craving a little more power but appreciated the added the stimulation.
I also love that it it’s app-enabled because I’ve always found it awkward changing the settings on a cock ring while in use! It’s also great for when you’re in different places as it can be controlled long distance. Kasia and her partner “loved that it can adjust vibration strength and rhythm on the app” and they found it nice and easy to get set up!
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner Up | Best for Beginners | Budget-Friendly | Best Penis Vibrator | Best Prostate Massager | Best Cock Ring |
Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.5 / 5.0 from 102 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 2187 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 120 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 288 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 186 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 16 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 278 users |
Price | Affordable | Moderate | Cheap | Cheap | Moderate | Moderate | Moderate |
Design | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Ease of use | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Quality | 95 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | 80 / 100 | - | 20 / 100 |
Power | - | - | - | - | 100 / 100 | - | 60 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | very rumbly | - | neither really buzzy nor rumbly |
Length | 8.66 inches | 10 inches | 5.75 inches | 5.6 inches | 6 inches | - | 2.79 inches |
Insertable length | 7 inches | 9 inches | 5 inches | 5.5 inches | 3 inches | 3.25 inches | - |
Width | 3.5 inches | - | 3 inches | 3 inches | 2.8 inches | - | 1.22 inches |
Diameter (internal) | 0.5 inches | - | 0.25 inches | 1.3 inches | - | - | - |
Thrust Modes | Up to 230/min | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Weight | 6.80 lbs | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Waterproof | No | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Submersible |
Materials | Keon: ABS, PC, Silicone; Stroker: TPE, ABS, PC | Plastic, TPE, Fleshskin | Ultraskyn (TPE) | Silicone | ABS Plastic, Silicone | Silicone | Silicone |
Rechargeable | Yes | - | - | - | Yes | - | USB |
Battery Life | 60 minutes | - | - | - | 60 minutes | - | 120 minutes |
Charging Time | 240 minutes | - | - | - | 150 minutes | - | 90 minutes |
App Controls | Yes | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
Colors Available | Black | - | Light skin tone | Black, Blue, Teal | Black | - | Grey |
Diameter | - | Canal: 0.5 inches | - | - | - | 0.98 inches | 2.4 inches |
Openings | - | Vagina | - | - | - | - | - |
Vibration speeds | - | - | - | - | 3 | - | - |
Vibration patterns | - | - | - | - | 8 | - | - |
Adjustable | - | - | - | - | - | Yes | - |
Storage Bag Included | - | - | - | - | - | No | No |
Vibration modes | - | - | - | - | - | - | 10 |
If You’re Looking For…
- The most realistic experience – The Riley Reid Fleshlight offers the most realistic sensation with its intricate internal texture and vulva molded from Riley herself!
- The most powerful male sex toy – The Kiiroo Keon offers up to 230 strokes per minute!
- A male sex toy to use with a partner — The We-Vibe Verge vibrating cock ring is designed for solo or couples use.
The Best Male Sex Toy For Stamina Training
If you want to enjoy great masturbation and work on your sexual stamina training at the same time, MyHixel have got you covered! This app-enabled stroker comes with a complete training program to help you last longer in bed!
MYHIXEL Control
The MYHIXEL Control stroker features a self-heating device to mimic the warmth of a partner’s body and therapeutic vibrations for added stimulation. Once hooked up to the app, you work your way through a gamified experience, helping you gain better control over your climaxes!
While anyone can use the MyHixel for stamina training, there’s also a specific training program for those who struggle with premature ejaculation.
Arcwave Ion: The "Womanizer" for Men
If you’ve been hearing vulva owners get insanely excited about air pulse stimulation and felt a little left out, I’ve got the male equivalent right here! Now you can experience the pure pleasure of air pulse technology in a sex toy for men!
Arcwave Ion
The Arcwave Ion is the first sex toy for penis owners to harness pleasure air technology. This innovative masturbator delivers pulsing stimulation to your frenulum (a.k.a banjo string), targeting your most sensitive spot!
Not only is this great for going all the way, the Arcwave Ion makes for some seriously good edging!
Different Types of Male Sex Toys
There are many different types of male sex toys, and each one provides stimulation or benefits unique to that product.
Here’s a quick overview of the main types of toys!
- Male Strokers — Designed to enhance masturbation, these toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and internal textures, making them a great option for sex toy beginners.
- Male Vibrators — They’re not just for people with a clitoris! Male vibrators are also very varied in design, but generally target the frenulum or the prostate.
- Anal toys for men — There are many different types of anal toys, but people generally purchase these either to enhance their orgasms, enjoy the “full” feeling that they provide, train for anal sex, or target their prostate.
- Prostate Massagers — These toys are specifically for prostate (p-spot) targeting. When fully utilized, they can help you achieve a prostate orgasm, which can be more intense than regular orgasms!
- Penis Pumps — Penis pumps are generally used to help the wearer achieve and maintain an erection. While some also can provide sexual stimulation, this isn’t standard across the board.
- Sex Doll Torsos — Essentially mini-sex dolls without full limbs or a head, this compact design saves the user both money and storage space.
- Sex Dolls — Available at varied price ranges, these full-sized dolls can be unrealistic, blow up models, mid-level rubber sex dolls, or $5k+ for the most realistic sex dolls. When it comes to sex dolls, your experience is up to you (as many manufacturers allow you to design your own doll!).
- Cock and Ball Torture Toys — These BDSM toys are designed to squeeze, pinch, tug and squash either your penis or scrotum (or both) for those who love more extreme sensations.
The Safest Materials to Use
The materials used in any male sex toy can broadly be divided into two categories; porous and non-porous. Let’s see where each material belongs and which is ultimately better.
Usually when we talk about sex toy materials, we recommend avoiding porous materials, as there are microscopic holes in the surface that provide a place for bacteria and mold to grow. However, there is a little more nuance when it comes to male toys.
If you are using a toy that goes inside you, such as a butt plug, prostate massager, or anal dildo, it should be made of non-porous material, like silicone, glass or stainless steel.
With external toys, like male strokers, it’s more acceptable to use TPE/TPR even though it is porous, as it’s very difficult to find silicone options, and TPE/TPR tends to feel more realistic. However, I still recommend avoiding rubber, jelly, or PVC as these can also have harmful substances in them.
Reviewed by:
Josh Gill