6 Best Sex Toys For Seniors

Why I Chose It

For this review, I wanted to include a strong yet compact vibrator. One that would be easy to wield and versatile to use but wouldn’t compromise on power. Enter, the Femme Funn Bougie Wand!

In her review, our tester Daphne, starts out by claiming that she’s “a gal who needs a toy to vibrate (her)  into the next room and this baddie hits the spot”. She provided me with all the confirmation I needed to say that good things definitely do come in small packages. This thing offers deliciously rumbly and strong vibrations.  So, if you find yourself with limited hand strength but still need intense stimulation, I think this lightweight mini wand is a great option.

The raised silicone buttons offer a textural contrast to the sanded aluminium. It makes it buttons a lot easier to locate when things are dark or slippery. They’re also pretty easy to click down on and won’t require much finger strength.

Why I Chose It

I picked out the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential because it is a great option for senior penis-owners who are struggling with erectile dysfunction. The c-shaped design with flexible “wings” is easy to insert your penis into without an erection.

It’s also a good option for penis owners that struggle to hold a regular stroker as the oscillations can be enjoyed hands-free. However, Jason, our tester did have some trouble with keeping it in place. Although, he noted that “those with girthier appendages won’t have that problem”. He did find that the stroker did need a bit of support to enjoy some hands-free fun. Getting the right position does have a bit of a learning curve.

I always appreciate raised buttons for accessible controls. However, even though they are “large and easily identifiable”, they aren’t the easiest to push down either. This isn’t the best toy for anyone with limited manual dexterity.

Why I Chose It

The Svakom Cici is my top recommendation for vagina-owners looking for some forgiving penetration. Perfect for post-menopausal people or anyone experience painful penetration, this slim design is super easy to insert. This way, you get to enjoy targeted internal stimulation without too much stretching or thrusting. As our tester, Edie, wrote in her review, “Seriously, when you think you’ll never enjoy penetration again, Cici will be the vibrator for you!”.

My favorite part of the Svakom Cici is the curved head. As someone who absolutely loves g-spot stimulation, I know a good ergonomic shape when I see one.

“Plus, because of the length, you can use the Svakom Cici for g-spot and a-spot stimulation. I found the a-spot stimulation much more satisfying, as the flexible head doesn’t allow for enough g-spot pressure.”

A small thing to add is there hidden charging port in the metallic base. I know, it’s a very small feature. But as someone who owns a lot of sex toys, I’m telling you, it’s so nice to use one that doesn’t have long charging cord to keep track of! This just adds to the luxury, in my opinion.

Why I Chose It

For this review of sex toys for seniors, I wanted to include a versatile penis pump. I wanted something of a decent quality that performed well in terms of suction but didn’t require the manual effort to pump it up by hand. This is where the Tracey Cox EDGE Automatic Penis Pump comes in. According to our tester’s review, this pump “is an affordable, simplistic, powerful and effective penis pump worth every penny!”.

With a simple two-button interface, this pump is very intuitive to use. You can choose between 3 different levels of suction and simply press the quick-release valve when you’re at your limit.

It “provides intense penis suction and comes equipped with two interchangeable bases for stamina or pleasure to better tailor to your penis pumping goals”. While penis pumps can be a great way to enhance your erection and prepare for partnered sex, I like that this one in particular offers an additional ‘pleasure sleeve’. This way, you get the most out of your penis pump. The fact that these sleeves are made of non-porous silicone makes it an even better choice!

Why I Chose It

This sex pillow is a fantastic addition to any kind of partnered sex! The Liberator Wedge is large enough to support a wide range on body sizes in lots of different positions. Even though it is significantly larger than a vibrator, it’s not impossible to store discreetly.

The extra support from this pillow allows you to enjoy sex for longer without get tired or achey. It takes the weight and pressure off your knees and wrists during doggy style sex, avoids neck strain during oral, and enhances the penetration angles during missionary position. According to our tester, Rachel, the difference in noticeable!

“I often struggle to feel as much stimulation in missionary when compared to other positions, but with the Wedge the penetration felt deeper and much more satisfying”.

The velvety cover feels lovely and soft against your skin, however it can make you slide off the cushion at times. While it is easy to readjust, “it does feel a little un-sexy to have to shuffle your butt back up so often”.

Why I Chose It

The We-Vibe Touch X is a fantastic choice for anyone looking for a simple, ergonomic, and high-quality vibrator—and I think it’s especially a great vibrator for seniors. What makes it stand out is its user-friendly design and gentle yet powerful vibrations. The compact, curved shape fits perfectly in your hand, making it easy to hold and maneuver, even if you have limited mobility or arthritis. It’s the perfect shape for all over body massages. Plus, its soft, silicone exterior feels luxurious against the skin, adding a touch of comfort perfect for those who might prefer something gentle yet effective.

One of the things I love most about the Touch X is how simple it is. Our reviewer, Elaine, who tested this toy said: “While it may look commonplace and uninteresting, the simplicity makes this toy remarkable!” The intuitive controls are also a win—they’re straightforward and easy to use, so there’s no fussing with complicated settings. Elaine also highlighted the powerful, yet quiet vibrations: “Even on the first setting, this toy packs as much intensity as its larger and noisier counterparts.” Whether you’re new to vibrators or just want something reliable and easy to operate, the Touch X makes it simple to find the right intensity and pattern for you.