The 12 Best Sex Toys For Seniors
In this review, we’ve got all the very best sex toys for seniors, including sex toys for older couples, vulva owners and penis owners. So whether you are looking for a rumbly vibrator, sex position aids and furniture for more support, or sexual enhancers to maximise pleasure, we’ve got them all here in one place! On top of that, we’ve got lots of tips for navigating sexual changes as you age and plenty of advice on how to choose a sex toy as you get older, because pleasure should be a priority no matter how old you are!
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Testing and Rating Sex Toys for Seniors
When considering which toys would be ideal for seniors, we decided to focus on ease of use and performance. Having a sex toy that requires a lot of effort to use is annoying if you’re young, but it can prove to be a wasted investment if you’re older. After all, we assume some of you reading this are about to try your first sex toy, and we certainly don’t want it to be a negative experience!
We’ve rated each product on its design, ease of use, and quality (summarized as the “Bedbible Rating”). Alongside the Bedbible Rating you’ll also find a “User Ratings” summary, which will give you the general consumer’s assessment of the product.
Once you find a product you’re interested in, simply read what we’ve written about it or click on the “Read full review” link (where applicable) to hear about our personal experience using the toy!
Reviews of the 12 best sex toys for seniors
Test Winner We-Vibe Chorus Couple's Vibrator
The We-Vibe Chorus is a wearable couple’s vibrator that’s designed to enhance penetrative sex. It’s made of silky smooth silicone which feels amazing when you’ve added lube for easy insertion and for sensational smooth play.
When worn, the internal arm of the Chorus vibrates against the g-spot and the penis. The external arm provides clitoral stimulation. It has a delicious 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns.
The harder you squeeze the remote control the more intense the vibrations. It is also app-controlled and you can create your own patterns and share the controls with your partner. The Chorus is adjustable in 2 places ensuring a good fit and it’s fully waterproof.
- ✅ Great internal and external stimulation
- ✅ Rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Great couple's toy
- ✅ Can be worn during penetration
- ❌ App not always reliable
- ❌ Vibrations could be stronger for some
Vibrations: The vibrations of the We-Vibe Chorus Couple's Vibrator are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
The We-Vibe Chorus is a great sex toy for older couples as it provides hands-free stimulation for both partners. The c-shaped vibrator fits snugly inside and vibrates wonderfully against all the sweet spots. It’s small enough not to interfere with penetration and its deep, rumbly vibrations are so stimulating. Make sure that you use plenty of lube for a smooth, sensational experience.
Both the remote and the app make it easier to change the vibration intensities and patterns although there are also buttons on the outer arm of the Chorus. It is an expensive toy, and it’s incredible quality.
Some reviewers have had issues with the app, but the Chorus can be controlled without it, so it’s not a problem if technology isn’t your thing.
You should buy the We-Vibe Chorus Couple's Vibrator if you...
- Love clitoral, g-spot and penis stimulation
- Want a couples toy
- Enjoy deep, rumbly vibes
- Desire something that can be worn internally
- Want an app controlled toy
You should not buy the We-Vibe Chorus Couple's Vibrator if you...
- Prefer separate toys
- Don't want app controls
- Are on a budget
Cheapest Lovehoney Excite Silicone Pleasure Balls 74g
Lovehoney’s Excite Pleasure Balls are made from silky smooth silicone which makes them super-safe and easy to clean and easy to insert. They weigh 2.6oz and have an insertable length of 3-inches.
The balls have a silicone retrieval string that is left outside the body. Some reviewers have found it difficult to remove the balls as the silicone string stretches.
The balls sit comfortably in your body and may help to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles which helps to maintain, and regain bladder control and improve orgasms. You may also feel some stimulation from the balls if you walk around with them.
- ✅ Gentle internal stimulation
- ✅ Helps strengthen pelvic floor
- ✅ Improves orgasms
- ❌ Can be difficult to remove
- ❌ Don't feel very 'jiggly' while wearing
Lovehoney Excite Pleasure Balls are a great introduction to gentle internal stimulation and an improved pelvic floor. These yoni eggs are perfect for beginners and can help to improve the intensity of your orgasms by helping you locate and train your pelvic floor muscles. The stimulation might not be enough for some people, but knowing that you’re wearing them internally can certainly add to the excitement.
You should buy the Lovehoney Excite Silicone Pleasure Balls 74g if you...
- Want some beginners kegel balls
- Would like to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles
- Would love some descreet stimulation
You should not buy the Lovehoney Excite Silicone Pleasure Balls 74g if you...
- Need heavier kegel balls
- Want stronger stimulation
- Need something that's very easy to remove
Beginner Dame Kip Lipstick Vibrator
Dame’s Kip vibrator is a fabulous toy that oozes quality. It’s made from velvet-smooth silicone and has 5 vibration intensities and 5 patterns to play with. It has an unusual shape, it’s more like a prism.
The front face is gently cupped, giving you broad stimulation that envelops the vulva and clitoris in deep, rumbly vibrations. The tip of the Kip is softer and can be used to gently flutter around and over your clitoris for more precise stimulation.
It has beautifully smooth edges and easy to use controls. The Kip is fully waterproof, has a travel lock and is ergonomically designed to be held, and used, with ease.
- ✅ Broad and precise stimulation
- ✅ Deep, rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Ergonomic design
- ❌ Doesn't lie flat against the body
- ❌ Small size might be tricky for some
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Dame Kip Lipstick Vibrator are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
Kip by Dame is a wonderfully designed lipstick vibrator that’s an ideal beginners sex toy for seniors. Its ergonomic design makes it a pleasure to hold and the controls are intuitive to use and easy to find. The soft silicone with lashings of lube will glide along your skin with ease and will also enhance sensation.
It’s a great toy to use if you are solo as it has plenty of settings and different types of stimulation – both broad and precise, for you to discover. As it’s not a large toy, it would also be ideal to use as a couples toy, adding in some great clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex. On the other hand, the small size might make it difficult for those with reduced mobility. It’s a high-quality vibrator that reviewers love.
You should buy the Dame Kip Lipstick Vibrator if you...
- Love rumbly vibrations
- Want an easy to hold and use vibrator
- Enjoy broad and precise stimulation
You should not buy the Dame Kip Lipstick Vibrator if you...
- Don't enjoy direct clitoral stimulation
- Want something for internal use
Wand The Magic Wand Original
The Magic Wand Original is a true sex toy classic! Championed by female pleasure educator Betty Dodson for it’s pleasure capabilities, this is one powerful wand vibrator!
It’s extremely versatile and can be used for all kinds of external stimulation for both vulva owners and penis owners. Plus it can be used to massage achey muscles after a long day!
This wand is rechargeable, so you don’t need to worry about wires getting in the way!
- ✅ Long handle and flexible neck
- ✅ Easy to use buttons
- ✅ Suitable for penis and vulva owners
- ✅ Can be used for massage
- ✅ Intense power
- ❌ Might be too heavy for those with reduced strength
- ❌ Power can be too intense for some
- ❌ Not waterproof
This wand vibrator is sure to satisfy anyone who has a taste for powerful vibrations! Just be warned, if power isn’t your thing, this isn’t the toy for you! The long handle and flexible neck are great for anyone with reduced mobility, although it might be a little on the heavy side if you struggle with strength.
It’s also a big plus that this toy is so versatile and can be used as a body massager!
You should buy the The Magic Wand Original if you...
- love intense power
- prefer broad stimulation
- need a sex toy with a long handle
You should not buy the The Magic Wand Original if you...
- struggle to hold heavier toys
- have a very sensitive clitoris
Powerful Lovense Domi 2 App Controlled Rechargeable Mini Wand Vibrator
The Lovense Domi 2 is a powerful mini wand vibrator. It’s suitable for external use only and delivers strong, rumbly vibrations exactly where you need them. It’s rechargeable and cordless giving you 5-6 hours of playtime.
The Domi 2 is also app-controlled so you can set patterns, synch vibes to your favourite music and let your partner take control of your pleasure.
It has a firm, flexible head and is made of body-safe silicone. The Domi 2 is for external use only, but it does have 2 attachments – sold separately, that can be used for internal stimulation for women and men. Reviewers love this powerful mini-wand. Plus the smaller size makes it easier to hold compared to bigger, heavier wands.
- ✅ Easy to hold and use
- ✅ Suitable for all genders
- ✅ Powerful, rumbly vibrations
- ✅ App-controls make it more versatile
- ❌ Quite loud
- ❌ Not for internal use
- ❌ May be too powerful for some
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Lovense Domi 2 App Controlled Rechargeable Mini Wand Vibrator are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
The Lovense Domi 2 is a fabulous mini wand massager. Its powerful vibrations can be used externally on different parts of the body. It’s a versatile toy, perfect for clitoral and vulva stimulation, you can use it on the scrotum or penis, stroke it over your, or your partner’s nipples and thighs.
The flexible head of the Domi 2 lets you apply pressure when you need to and the deep, rumbly vibrations are going to be felt in your muscles perfectly, giving you more stimulation, and more relaxation. The app is great for more precise changes in vibration, so if you find jumping from one intensity to another is too much, the app enables the transition to be smoother.
It’s a perfect sex toy for seniors as it’s easy to hold and use, is powerful and can be used on any gender. However, it’s not a quiet toy, especially at the higher settings. The Domi 2 has a long battery life, so relaxing afternoon solo or shared sessions are definitely possible, making relaxation and pleasurable sensations something to look forward to.
You should buy the Lovense Domi 2 App Controlled Rechargeable Mini Wand Vibrator if you...
- Want something easy to hold
- Prefer app-controlled toys
- Enjoy broad stimulation
- Want a wand that has attachments
You should not buy the Lovense Domi 2 App Controlled Rechargeable Mini Wand Vibrator if you...
- Want a very quiet toy
- Need more precise stimulation
Couples Hot Octupuss Pulse Duo Lux
The Pulse Duo Lux from Hot Octopuss sleeves slips around your penis and delivers intensely pleasurable oscillating stimulation that can be enjoyed whether you have an erection or not!
The outside of the sheath, there is a vibrating plate to provide clitoral stimulation to your partner, so you both get to enjoy the fun!
Plus, the settings can all be controlled via the watch style remotes meaning you won’t be fumbling around looking for the remote between the bedsheets!
- ✅ Enjoy stimulation with or without an erection
- ✅ Oscillating technology
- ✅ Pleasure for both partners
- ✅ Can be used hands-free
- ✅ Watch-style remotes
- ❌ Comes with a bit of a learning curve
- ❌ Not wide enough for thicker penises
This is a great option for anyone with erectile dysfunction as it allows both you and your partner to enjoy stimulation without needing an erection! It’s also a good option for penis owners that struggle to hold a regular stroker as the oscillations can be enjoyed hands-free. Getting the right position and learning to use the watch-style remote controls does have a bit of a learning curve so it’s important to bear that in mind before purchasing this product.
You should buy the Hot Octupuss Pulse Duo Lux if you...
- have erectile dysfunction
- want to enjoy hands-free stimulation
- want a toy for solo or partner play
You should not buy the Hot Octupuss Pulse Duo Lux if you...
- have a very girthy shaft
- are not comfortable with technology
Clit Womanizer Classic 2
The Womanizer Classic 2 provides intensely pleasurable clitoral stimulation, using air pulse technology to stimulate your clitoris without actually touching it! This is perfect if you find that direct stimulation is irritating or vibrations numb you out.
The oval mouth surrounds your clitoris and makes a comfortable seal between your body and the toy, creating a pleasant suction.
With 10 different stimulation intensity levels to choose from, you can explore low and slow stimulation or intense power.
Pretty and practical, the Womanizer Classic is easy to hold, rechargeable, and waterproof!
- ✅ Great range of intensities
- ✅ Indirect clitoral stimulation
- ✅ Long battery life
- ✅ Easy to hold
- ✅ Two different stimulator heads included
- ❌ Can be loud
- ❌ On/off button is a little stiff
The Womanizer Classic 2 is one of the best clitoral suction stimulators on the market! It has a great range of intensities, meaning you can find exactly the right power level for you! The indirect stimulation might also suit some vulva owners more if they don’t enjoy traditional vibrators.
I also really like that you get two different stimulator heads to choose from, so you can find a better fit for your clitoris.
This toy can be a little on the loud side, like all clit suckers, so isn’t the best option if you need to be discreet, but aside from that, this is a fantastic sex toy for vulva owners!
You should buy the Womanizer Classic 2 if you...
- enjoy clitoral stimulation
- are looking for a sex toy for solo use
- find direct stimulation overwhelming
You should not buy the Womanizer Classic 2 if you...
- want a sex toy for partnered play
- prefer internal stimulation
- need a very discreet sex toy
Penis Ring Lelo Tor 2 Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring
The Lelo Tor 2 is a rechargeable, vibrating penis ring that can provide vibrating stimulation for solos or couples. The stretchy silicone gently enhances your erection by trapping more blood your penis.
The strong, rumbly vibrations allow your partner to enjoy some hands-free clitoral stimulation or you can swivel it around to enjoy the vibrations against your scrotum. from the Lelo Tor 2 are very strong and rumbly and it has 6 vibration intensities with 5 different patterns. It can also be taken off and used as a separate vibrator to stimulate the head of the penis – hands-free orgasms have been mentioned!
- ✅ Strong, rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Stimulates both partners
- ✅ Fits most men
- ✅ A good, solid luxury item
- ❌ Wont suit all body types
- ❌ Very expensive
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Lelo Tor 2 Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Lux is an incredible male masturbator. Its oscillating pulse plate will stimulate you to orgasm even if your penis isn’t erect. The vibrations and ridges on the reverse are perfect for clitoral stimulation. If you suffer from erectile dysfunction it’s an amazing way of bringing intimacy back to your bedroom. As a sex toy for seniors, this one covers so many bases. It can be used hands-free, so if you have issues with your mobility or grip then look no further. Some reviewers have found that the vibrations aren’t strong enough for clitoral orgasms but it makes for great foreplay and edging play. The concept and delivery of the Pulse Duo Lux is fabulous for those suffering from erectile dysfunction, or if you have a partner with vaginismus. For greater intimacy without the need for penetration the Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Lux ticks all the right boxes.
You should buy the Lelo Tor 2 Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring if you...
- Want to stay harder for longer
- Enjoy vibrations
- Want a couple's toy
You should not buy the Lelo Tor 2 Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring if you...
- Have a larger than average girth
- Are on a budget
Versatile Fun Factory Volta Extra Powerful Flickering Tongue
The Fun Factory Volta is an extra powerful flickering tongue vibrator. Its unusual shape and design are not just a gimmick though. Fun Factory is known for its high quality, powerful and very effective toys. The Volta has 2 flexible tips which give you precise stimulation, just where you want it. Its curves enable you to feel broad stimulation. It’s versatile, meaning that you can use it to stimulate your clitoris, vulva, nipples, penis, scrotum, anus. You can use one of the tongues on your clitoris while the other laps at your labia. You can also insert one of the tongues vaginally while the other flickers over your anus. It’s going to take you a while to find your preferred method that’s for sure! It’s fully waterproof and the looped handle lets you have a firm grip on the Volta when things are getting slippery. It has powerful, rumbly vibrations and when you add lube, many reviewers say that it mimics fast oral sex. The controls are super-easy to use and give you 6 different intensities with 6 different patterns. It also has a travel lock. Reviewers also say that it’s a bit of a lint magnet. So give it a wash before and definitely after use and either store it in its box, or in a lint-free bag.
- ✅ Incredibly versatile
- ✅ Ideal for solo or partnered play
- ✅ Strong, rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Lots of different sensations
- ❌ Attracts lint
- ❌ Could have a learning curve
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Fun Factory Volta Extra Powerful Flickering Tongue are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
As far as sex toys for seniors go, the Fun Factory Volta has got to be one of the best. It’s a beautifully versatile toy that is designed to stimulate all of your sweet spots. It’s perfect for solos or couples. The looped handle makes it easier to hold if you have wrist problems or have slippery lube hands or if you’re using it in the shower or bath. It’s light too, weighing in at 193g. Silicone toys always feel better with lube and this is no different. Whether you’re stimulating your clitoris, nipples, labia, anus or your partner’s penis, scrotum, nipples or anus or anywhere else, you’re going to enjoy finding the different sensations from the Volta’s flickering tips and curved sides. Some reviewers do say that it has a learning curve, so be prepared to take your time and explore this toy thoroughly.
You should buy the Fun Factory Volta Extra Powerful Flickering Tongue if you...
- Love different sensations
- Want a versatile sex toy
- Enjoy intense stimulation
You should not buy the Fun Factory Volta Extra Powerful Flickering Tongue if you...
- Want something for g or p-spot stimulation