Dame Com Review
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
User Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 3 user reviews
Rating: Dame Com was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Dame Com.
Rating: Dame Com was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Dame Com was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
My Verdict
The Dame Com is a great, versatile wand with silky-smooth silicone and easy-to-use accessible features. It's perfect for folks who need travel locks and quieter vibes, for people who like to switch up their positions with their toys for grinding or lounging on their backs or anything in-between. The Com has a beautiful, unique design that's built for truly comfortable pleasure. I couldn't recommend this vibrator enough! I felt like wands weren't for me until I tried the Dame Com, it opened my eyes to what sex toys can offer people in such a multitude of ways. Please, do your body a favor and get yourself one today!
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
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About The Dame Com
The Com in the Dame Com must stand for comfort, because this wand has the coziest vibes. Its unique curved design contours against your body for an easier, more accessible grasp. It also has the strongest motor of all the Dame toys for an intense and relaxing masturbation session. Plus, it can be used as a body massager as well, with deep and rumbly vibrations that are perfect for your muscles! This toy is versatile to your needs and flexible for whatever pose preference you may have with your wands. Prepare to be pampered by the Dame Com!
The vibrations of the Dame Com are fairly quiet, very powerful, and very rumbly
Rating: Dame Com was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Com felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Dame Com was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Com felt to the reviewer.
Pros
- ✅Comfortable grip and shape for masturbation and massaging
- ✅Soft silicone that quickly warms against your skin
- ✅Totally waterproof
Cons
- ❌Long charge time
- ❌Not a lot of run time
- ❌Can be a little on the loud side
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Personal Experience
Ever since I first laid eyes on the Dame Com, I knew I was going to love it. Oh boy did it exceed my expectations! Not only is this wand powerful and doesn’t numb my bits, but it’s comfortable, easy on my wrists, and is even gender affirming. It’s by-far the best wand I’ve ever used, and it’s a toy that definitely won’t be leaving my nightstand any time soon. I love the Dame Com, and I encourage anyone interested in a wand-style vibrator to get one for yourself!
Comfortable & Curvaceous
Consider it love at first sight, but my experience with the Dame Com has been nothing but perfection. Dame products are silky smooth, likely the best body-safe silicone I’ve ever felt, and easy to use! It’s shaped for accessibility. If you’re like me and your wrists ache from the weird angles you sometimes have to do for stiffer wands, then you should definitely try the Dame Com. It’s angled to rest closer to your body, it’s like my hands and arms are getting a break! Plus, the vibrations are deep and rumbly without going overboard. (Looking at you, Lovense Domi 2, your vibrations were so numbing!) The Dame Com is soft and powerful, it makes me feel more in touch with my body.Gender Affirming?!
The Dame Com is perfect for my bottom dysphoria and gender euphoria. At times, I wish that I had something more that I could grab, like a penis, rather than my vulva and clitoris. The Dame Com is long, longer than many wands I’ve seen before. It contours to my curves and is easy to hold in a variety of positions. When my hand grasps onto its shaft it feels like I’m holding and stroking a penis of my own. It’s not just the toy that is gender affirming! The packaging itself is gender-neutral and promotes safe, healthy sex and highlights the Dame Com’s ability to be used by a variety of body types and genitalia. I highly recommend this toy for other trans folks who may want more comfort, ease, and gender euphoria from their sex toy experience!Design
The look of the Dame Com is striking. The entire toy, head and body, is the soft silicone that Dame is known for. You can always point out a Dame product by their gentle pastel colors and silky-smooth feeling! Then, of course, there's that unique curve that hugs my body like nothing else. It's a beautiful design all around!
Ease of Use
There are three buttons, one to turn the vibrator on and off that doubles as a way to change the toy's pattern, and two to change the intensity. There isn't a learning curve necessarily, but the smoothness of the buttons that melt into the rest of the silicone body, it took a few tries to find the right spots for the right change I was looking for. But it's perfect for those who may have mobility issues, as this toy will hug your body and is very easy to hold onto!
Quality
The Dame Com is so close to getting a perfect quality rating, but those buttons keep me from going all the way. They're a little tricky to figure out at first, and sometimes seem to get a little stuck as if it didn't read my pressure at first. But it is one of the quietest wands I've used, is sturdy and built to last, and feels like a great quality toy.
Price
The price of this toy is NOT going to break the bank! When debating getting a Dame Com of your own, remember that you're getting a great quality toy for a fair price. It's not cheap, per say, at just under $90, but it's a price that shows its top-notch quality while being accessible to folks with varying budgets!
Performance
I wish the Dame Com had a slightly better battery life. At only an hour or so of run time I can get a couple of sessions in with it before it dies mid-use. Otherwise, it has a great vibration strength that is stronger than other Dame products while not being overpowering to the point of numbing my vulva and clitoris. It's not too loud, doesn't get too hot, and all around performs better than many of the toys I have in my arsenal!
Packaging
I love Dame's gender-neutral packaging, but I have seen a slight downgrade in their packaging over time. While I love that their plastic is recyclable, my Com arrived with the plastic holding it being folded over, so my grand reveal was a bit of a bummer and made me worry about the quality of the toy. Still, after unfolding the plastic (with few blemishes, as seen in the image) and looking at the rest of the products in the box, I found it to be wonderfully well-done. I love the sticker and the pamphlet on demystifying sexual wellness and pleasure, as well as on how to get the most out of your Dame Com!
Materials and care
The Dame Com is lightweight for its size and made of body-safe silicone that's soft to the touch. It's totally waterproof, so you can easily clean it in warm water and soap, or just your choice of toy cleaner. It even comes with a cute storage bag for you to the toy into for safe keeping once it's been cleaned!
Specifications and features
| Vibration speeds | 5 |
| Vibration patterns | 5 |
| Length | 10.5 inches |
| Materials | Medical grade silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Battery Life | 60 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Charging Time | 150 minutes |
| Travel Lock | Yes |
| Weight | 0.6 lbs |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Periwinkle, Quartz |
Comparing Dame Com with alternatives
 Dame Com | ||||||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 3.2 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.3 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 273 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 51 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 230 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 69 users |
| Price | Affordable | Pricey | Affordable | Pricey | Premium | Pricey |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 65 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 78 / 100 |
| Sound | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Power | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | very rumbly | very rumbly | very rumbly |
| Vibration speeds | 5 | 5 | 3 | 10 | 10 | 3 Preset |
| Vibration patterns | 5 | 5 | - | 20 | 10 | 4 Preset |
| Length | 10.5 inches | 8 inches | 9.6 inches | 13 inches | 11.97 inches | 9.21 inches |
| Materials | Medical grade silicone | Silicone | ABS Plastic, Silicone | ABS Plastic, Silicone | Silicone, PC, ABS | Medical Grade Silicone and ABS Plastic |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | No | No | - | Splashproof |
| Battery Life | 60 minutes | 240 minutes | 150 minutes | Up to 180 minutes | 240 minutes | 300-360 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Charging Time | 150 minutes | 300 minutes | 150 minutes | 180 minutes | 150 minutes | 150 minutes |
| Travel Lock | Yes | No | - | Yes | Yes | - |
| Weight | 0.6 lbs | - | .60 lbs | 1.49 lbs | - | 0.6 lbs |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | Yes | No | Yes | Yes | Yes! |
| Colors Available | Periwinkle, Quartz | - | - | White, Gray, Blue, Pink, Matte Black | - | - |
| Diameter | - | Approx. 1.9 inches | 1.9 inches | (Head) 2.45 inches | (Head) 2.28 inches | 1.74 inches |
| Flexibility | - | Slight | - | - | - | - |
| Remote Controls | - | App Capabilities | - | - | - | App |
| Vibration modes | - | - | 1 | - | - | - |
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Reviewed by:
Vern Holland