The 7 Best Pegging Kits to Start Your Sexy Journey

Amelia Harvey
by Amelia Harvey
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FAQ

What types of harness should I buy?
It depends on your preference and budget. High quality harness materials will cost you, but they will last and deliver thrills. Leather is inherently sexy has a sensory appeal. Not just in blacks and browns, leather harnesses come in all colors. Leather is durable and comfortable to wear for long periods of time. Be warned, natural leather is not easy to clean and maintain. Synthetic materials like plastics, PVC and nylon are a less high maintenance alternative. Some imitation leathers look and feel authentic. Synthetic strap-one harnesses may be more uncomfortable and look a little bit less sexy. The benefit is they are usually machine washable and much more affordable. Soft fabrics like natural cotton and natural latex are occasionally used to make strap-style harnesses, but are most commonly found in lingerie-style variations. Avoid non-breathable harnesses as they trap moisture such as sweat against your skin.
Who can enjoy a pegging kit?
Pegging kits are for anyone who wants to enjoy it! Traditionally it is worn by women to penetrate their female partners or to anally stimulate their male partners. These kits can also be worn by men who lack endowment or can no longer enjoy erections. As long as you both enjoy it and feel comfortable!
What dildo should I use?
It depends on preference and experience. We recommend starting small and working up to bigger things. We love pegging kits that come with a range of sizes for you to work up to. Some dildos are lifelike, others bright and colorful. There is a huge range of textures and patterns that can improve the pegging experience. We also recommend a soft dildo with a wide flared base for extra comfort and stability.
Wat is the best lube for pegging?
Lube takes the friction out of pegging, but when it comes to anal sex, lube is absolutely essential. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't self-lubricate which means it could be painful when penetrated Silicone lube is one of the best lubes for anal because it's thicker and offers an extra cushion, as well as lasting longer than water-based lubes. However, remember that you can't use silicone-based lube with silicone toys as it can degrade them.
What is the benefit of a pegging kit with an O-ring?
A harness with interchangeable O-rings of various sizes will allow you to use lots of different sizes and shapes of dildo. This means you can use dildos that come with the kit, other toys from the brand and even some toys from your own collection.
What is pegging?
Pegging is the act where one partner (usually a woman) wears a strap on in order to penetrate her male partner. It's a real role reverser, putting the female in the more dominant position and allowing her to take real control of the penetrative fun!

What is a pegging kit?

Pegging is a sex position where one person wears a strap on dildo to penetrate their partner. It is commonly an activity done by women to their male partner, although it is inclusive of all genders and sexualities. A pegging kit is a bundle of toys and a harness, providing everything you need for ultimate penetration pleasure. The kits are often adaptable, meaning that if you buy extra dildos or extra harnesses, they are all completely compatible with each other. Very handy when you're wanting to take your pegging to the next level!

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The 7 Best pegging kits in Test

1 Test Winner

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

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This kit is ideal if you’re new to pegging and want a full kit to experiment with. This kit includes a bullet vibrator, two silicone dildos in different sizes and textures plus a machine-washable harness. This kit, from sex expert Tracey Cox also comes with an instruction manual to help beginners. Choose between the smooth dildo or the tapered, textured dildo, both made of smooth silicone and curved for G-spot or P-spot pleasure.

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Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit  features
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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Tracey Cox Strap-On Pegging Kit if you...
Are new to pegging
Want an adjustable pegging kit
Want to experiment
Want a harness that accommodates vibrators
You should NOT buy the Tracey Cox Strap-On Pegging Kit if you...
Are experienced in pegging
Want a sexy looking pegging kit
Are very slim
Want a big dildo
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit  features
Features
Vibration modes7 functions 
DiameterSmall O-ring, 1 Medium O-ring, 1.5 Large O-ring, 2 inches
Insertable lengthSmooth dildo: 4.5 Textured dildo: 6  inches
MaterialsRubber, Silicone, ABS Plastic 
RechargeableBatteries Included 
FlexibilityFirm 
WaterproofSubmersible 
Harness SizeFully adjustable harness fits up to 65 inches  inches
Pros
Ideal for newbies to pegging
Easy to adjust
Straps stay in place
Good value for money
Cons
A little solid
Loud vibrator
A little tricky to set up first time
Unattractive harness
Conclusion

This kit is fantastic if you’re new to pegging, but are not sure what exactly you want from the experience. You can use this larger dildo on its own, add the vibrator or use the dildo hands-free. There is also a pocket in the harness to use the vibrator, which some have complained is a little loud. You may find this a little underwhelming if you’re an experienced pegger.

 

2 Cheapest

Silicone Phallic Strap On Set

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Bring your fantasies to life with this realistic strap-on dildo. It has lifelike veins and a sculpted head that will massage your inner walls. The straps on this harness is adjustable, meaning it fits nearly every wearer.

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You should buy the Silicone Phallic Strap On Set if you...
Want a realistic dildo
Enjoy pegging
Are on a budget
Are new to pegging
You should NOT buy the Silicone Phallic Strap On Set if you...
Want a big dildo
Are an experienced user of pegging kits
Avoid pegging
Have a very small or big waist
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Features
Length4.38 inches
Insertable length4.25 inches
Diameter1.25 inches
MaterialsSilicone Dildo with Faux-Leather Harness 
Pros
Easy to clean
Feels smooth
Adjustable harness
Discreet packaging
Cons
Dildo a little too smooth
Not very attractive harness
Lack of variation in skin tone colors
No testicles
Conclusion

This realistic dildo is an affordable choice for beginners as it has a manageable dildo and an adjustable hardness. The dildo is small and slim and can be used either vaginally or anally. It’s not the most attractive but it’s a good starting toy.

3 Beginner

Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit (6 Piece)

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This harness and dildo kit is a good starting point if you are experimenting with pegging. It comes with 2 silicone dildos and 2 interchangeable O-rings. This allows you to play with sizes of dildo, although both are curved for maximum pleasure. The kit also includes a pocket where you can add the removable bullet, for extra vibrating thrills.

 

Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit (6 Piece) test
Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit (6 Piece) features
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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Tantus Beginner's Kit if you...
Are looking for your first pegging kit
Want to experiment with pegging
Are looking for a small dildo
Want value for money
You should NOT buy the Tantus Beginner's Kit if you...
Are experienced in pegging
Enjoy big dildos
Want strong vibrations
Have a curvy body
Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit (6 Piece) features
Features
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
WaterproofSplashproof 
Rechargeable3 x LR44 batteries 
Vibration speedsSingle speed 
Length4.5, 5.5 inches
Insertable length5 inches
FlexibilityFirm 
MaterialsSilicone 
Diameter1.25, 1.5 inches
AdjustableBetween 17 inches and 60 inches 
Pros
Versatile
High quality dildo
Easy to adjust
Good for beginners
Cons
Lacks vibration
Not rigid enough
Flimsy harness
Odd bullet placement
Conclusion

The Tantus Beginner’s Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit is a six-piece kit that will let you experiment with different size dildos and O-rings. Although created for beginners, many reviewers believe that the smaller of the two dildos is just too small. The larger dildo has been praised, even if some commentators have complained that the harness is low quality and flimsy.

4 Intermediate

Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo

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This intermediate harness and dildo set is also ideal for adventurous beginners. Enjoy fully adjustable straps for a tailored fit and a 7 inch curved dildo for ultimate G-spot or P-spot stimulation. This pegging kit also includes 3 interchangeable O-rings to help you enjoy lots of different sensations. There is even a pocket to add a bullet from your personal collection.

 

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Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo features
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Are an intermediate to strap on
Are looking to upgrade your pegging activities
Want value for money
Customisable
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Are a total beginner or are a pegging expert
Want a huge dildo
Don't enjoy penetration
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Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo features
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AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
WaterproofSubmersible 
Insertable length6 inches
Length7 inches
FlexibilityYes 
Harness SizeMachine-washable harness is adjustable between 28-65 inches inches
MaterialsSilicone 
Pros
Satisfying dildo
Easy to use
Comfortable to wear
Good for beginners
Cons
Point and sharp dildo
Doesn't look sexy
Harness straps flaps about
Dildo a little firm
Conclusion

This dildo and harness kit is a good purchase if you’re still experimenting with pegging but aren’t new to using dildos. This adjustable kit has a satisfying curved dildo that hits all the right spots, although be careful as the toy is a little bit firm.

5 Advanced

Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Silicone Dildos

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Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 silicone dildos and 3 O-rings gives you everything you need to enjoy pegging with your partner. The dildo has textured veins and is tapered for easy insertion. The dildos also come with a flared suction base for hands-free fun with your partner.

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Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Silicone Dildos features
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You should buy the Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit if you...
Are experienced in pegging
Want a value for money pegging kit
Want an adjustable harness
Ae looking for a user friendly harness
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit if you...
Are new to the world of pegging
Don't enjoy penetration
Avoid pegging
Prefer smaller, softer dildos
Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Silicone Dildos features
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MaterialsSilicone 
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
WaterproofSubmersible 
Diameter1.9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Insertable length8 inches
FlexibilityFirm 
Pros
Good value for money
Versatile
Secure harness
Easy to use
Cons
A big jump between dildo sizes
Straps can be confusing to use
Lack of interesting harness colours
Larger dildo too pointy
Conclusion

This adjustable harness comes with two different sized realistic silicone dildos. There is a big difference between the big and small dildo, a jump some have complained about. Value for money and easy to use, this is a good pegging kit to experiment with.

6 Tiny

New Comers Strap-On Kit

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This user friendly harness has been specially designed for beginners. Enjoy a snugly fitting harness and a small, manageable silicone dildo. This curved dildo is deliciously rippled with enough contours and flexibility to hit your G-spot or P-spot. The wide, flared base has a slight taper to act as a barrier for the O-ring. This harness has no back, allowing you to enjoy a good view or enjoy penetration as you penetrate.

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Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the New Comers Strap-On Kit if you...
Are a beginner to the world of pegging
Like small dildos
Need to stretch a begginer
Are on a budget
You should NOT buy the New Comers Strap-On Kit if you...
Want a big, girthy dildo
Are experienced with penetration
Avoid penetration
Prefer vibrating toys
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Features
MaterialsVelboa fabric, polypropylene webbing, plastic hardware, nitrile O-rings, silicone dildo 
Harness Size18 inches to 60 inches adjustable strap inches
Length5.75 inches
Insertable length4.75 inches
Width2 inches
MaterialsSilicone 
Pros
Soft yet firm dildo
Comfortable harness
Displays butt
Easy to clean
Cons
Very small in size
Basic look
Complicated to put on
Lacks visual details
Conclusion

This harness has a small dildo that is perfect for beginners. Despite being small in size, this silicone dildo is contoured with another slenderness and flexibility to hit your sensitive G-spots or P-spots. This pegging kit is perfectly suited to anal play, particularly for newcomers to backdoor penetration.

7 Double Penetration

Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit

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Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit has 4 pieces that will give you everything you need to experiment with pegging and anal penetration. These pants can easily slip in and has two built-in O-rings, one to penetrate the receiver and one nestle in the gusset for the wearer. For fans of vibrations, this pegging kit also comes with a bullet vibrator for maximum satisfaction.

Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit test
Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit features
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit if you...
Are a beginner to dildos
Want a harness without lots of straps
Want to experiment with a small dildo
Are looking for a versatile harness
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit if you...
Are experienced using dildos
Want something sexy and S&M inspired
Want a comfortable harness for long sessions
Avoid vibrators
Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit features
Features
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
MaterialsCotton 
Rechargeable6 x LR44 batteries 
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
Insertable length3, 4, 5 inches
Width3, 4 inches
Vibration speeds2 
Vibration modes5 
Pros
Dildo has a skin like texture
Discreet packaging
Easy to use
Can use other toys in the O-ring
Cons
Uncomfortable for larger waist sizes
Dildo small for vaginal penetration
O-ring could be bigger
Quiet vibrations
Conclusion

This Lovehoney pegging kit is ideal for beginners with different size dildos. Experiment with penetration with 5 inch, 4 inch and 3 inch dildos. The hole in the base can accommodate a bullet vibrator, so it has everything you need to experiment with satisfaction. Unlike other harnesses, this one slides on easily so there are no straps and zips to struggle with.

 

Pegging Essentials

We don’t recommend going straight into pegging without buying a few essentials first. Here are two things essentials we believe you should invest in before you try pegging or any type of anal play.

What's In Your Pegging Kit?

Harness

Harness

Harness

The harness is what connects your fun toys to your body. Harnesses come in all shapes and sizes, depending on your tastes. #

Think about the atmosphere you want to create and how easy it needs to be to take on and off. Some designs are harnesses with buckles and chains, others slide on easily like boxer shorts.

O-Ring

O-Ring

O-Ring

An O-Ring is the part of a harness where you attachh your dildo. It should be sturdy and be able to handle the action.

To choose an O-ring that will fit your favorite dildo you’d like to use in a strap-on, measure the circumference of your dildo at the part just above the flared base.

Vibrator

Vibrator

Vibrator

Some pegging kits will include a vibrator. Some harness kits will have a little pocket to hide a bullet. This will pleasure the female wearer as she thrusts into her partner.

Dildo

Dildo

Dildo

Most harnesses will have an O-ring where you can insert your favorite dildo.

To choose a dildo that will fit in your new harness, start by measuring the internal diameter of your O-ring. Only measure the space the dildo will go through, not the full width of the O-ring.

Butt Plug

Butt Plug

Butt Plug

The butt plug is an anal toy designed to be inserted anally for sexual pleasure. Plugs can also be used to stretch the anus, ideal for beginners.

A butt plug is a T-shaped, small dildo with a flared base. We recommend starting small.

Prostate Massager

Prostate Massager

Prostate Massager

A prostate massager looks very similar to a buttplug. It has been designed to stimulate the prostate.

Perfect Pegging Positions

Any position you have penetrative sex in will also work during pegging. The most important thing about choosing the right pegging position is to find something comfortable and pleasurable.

 

 

Doggy

Doggy

Doggy

Probably the best position for newbies, the doggy is a classic for a reason.

Have your partner lie with their face and arms on the bed. This position allows you to enter slowly and guide how deep you enter.

Seated

Seated

Seated

A seated position is another beginner-friendly position because your partner can control length and angle.

It’s also one of the more romantic pegging positions because you can easily kiss and make eye contact.

Lying Doggy

Lying Doggy

Lying Doggy

This is a slightly advanced version of doggy style as it allows you to explore a dom/sub dynamic.

This is a fantastic position for prostate stimulation. Experiment with angles and speeds.

Lie down on the bed facing down but keep your legs apart. The pegger can then squat or kneel over you. Put a pillow under their pelvis for added access.

Missionary

Missionary

Missionary

Another popular position, missionary is good a starting point as it’s safe and comfortable.

Missionary is a classic because it encourages slow penetration and allows you to spot any signs of discomfort on your partner’s face.

Additionally, you can enjoy easier access to more body parts and the testicles.

 

 

Spooning

Spooning

Spooning

Spooning encourages a softer, more intimate form of pegging. It enables more skin-to-skin contact and cuddling.

Additionally, spooning gives the pegger excellent access to their partner’s penis.

Standing

Standing

Standing

Height may become an issue with this advanced position, but it is still very achievable.

Have the person being penetrated lean against a wall or a table, this will help assert dominance.

This is also a fantastic option if you enjoy shower sex (just check if your dildo is waterproof!).

Cowboy

Cowboy

Cowboy

The cowboy or cowgirl is where the partner being penetrated sits on top of the partner wearing the harness.

It’s a romantic position where you can look each other in the eye and enjoy role reversal.

It’s also a good position for beginners as you can stabilize your partner by holding on to their hips. Also, both people control the movement and speed.

 

How to use a pegging kit

How to use a pegging kit

Talk

Talk

Pegging is not something that should be brought into a relationship by surprise. It’s important to gave an open conversation about what you and your partner want and expect from the experience. You also need to bring up any concerns. Honestly is the key to pleasure.

 

Start Small

How to use a pegging kit

Choose a pegging kit that has a small dildo if you are new. Then you can work your way up. Kits usually come with different sizes and the ability to add your own attachments.

If you’re a newbie, choose a firm but not too solid dildo made from non-porous silicone.

How to use a pegging kit
How to use a pegging kit

Lube Up

Lube Up

Lubes like the [af_link id=”28047″]Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant [/af_link] are crucial to the pegging process. Lube is the difference between an enjoyable and a painful experience.

 

Warm Up

How to use a pegging kit

Foreplay is key to getting ready for pegging. No matter your experience, it will be improved by warming up.

Whether it’s kissing, hand jobs or oral, you should be in the mood before the dildos and vibrators appear.

How to use a pegging kit
How to use a pegging kit

Use Your Fingers

Use Your Fingers

Pegging isn’t the time to go from 0 to 100. Start with a butt plug or a finger. This will get you used to the sensation of pegging and help you relax more.

Safe Word

How to use a pegging kit

We recommend having a safe word, especially if pegging is new to you and your partner. And if your partner changes their mind during the experience, that is totally okay!

How to use a pegging kit

How to clean a pegging kit

It is essential you clean the items in your pegging kit. Hygiene is very important to protect yourself and your partner, always keep your toys, hands and genitals clean!

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

Author
Amelia Harvey
Amelia Harvey
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Pan
Sex toy experience: Intermediate
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