The 7 Best Pegging Kits to Start Your Sexy Journey

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What is a pegging kit?
Pegging is a sex position where one person wears a strap on dildo to penetrate their partner. It is commonly an activity done by women to their male partner, although it is inclusive of all genders and sexualities. A pegging kit is a bundle of toys and a harness, providing everything you need for ultimate penetration pleasure. The kits are often adaptable, meaning that if you buy extra dildos or extra harnesses, they are all completely compatible with each other. Very handy when you're wanting to take your pegging to the next level!
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The 7 Best pegging kits in Test
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit
This kit is ideal if you’re new to pegging and want a full kit to experiment with. This kit includes a bullet vibrator, two silicone dildos in different sizes and textures plus a machine-washable harness. This kit, from sex expert Tracey Cox also comes with an instruction manual to help beginners. Choose between the smooth dildo or the tapered, textured dildo, both made of smooth silicone and curved for G-spot or P-spot pleasure.


This kit is fantastic if you’re new to pegging, but are not sure what exactly you want from the experience. You can use this larger dildo on its own, add the vibrator or use the dildo hands-free. There is also a pocket in the harness to use the vibrator, which some have complained is a little loud. You may find this a little underwhelming if you’re an experienced pegger.
Silicone Phallic Strap On Set
Bring your fantasies to life with this realistic strap-on dildo. It has lifelike veins and a sculpted head that will massage your inner walls. The straps on this harness is adjustable, meaning it fits nearly every wearer.


This realistic dildo is an affordable choice for beginners as it has a manageable dildo and an adjustable hardness. The dildo is small and slim and can be used either vaginally or anally. It’s not the most attractive but it’s a good starting toy.
Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit (6 Piece)
This harness and dildo kit is a good starting point if you are experimenting with pegging. It comes with 2 silicone dildos and 2 interchangeable O-rings. This allows you to play with sizes of dildo, although both are curved for maximum pleasure. The kit also includes a pocket where you can add the removable bullet, for extra vibrating thrills.


The Tantus Beginner’s Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit is a six-piece kit that will let you experiment with different size dildos and O-rings. Although created for beginners, many reviewers believe that the smaller of the two dildos is just too small. The larger dildo has been praised, even if some commentators have complained that the harness is low quality and flimsy.
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo
This intermediate harness and dildo set is also ideal for adventurous beginners. Enjoy fully adjustable straps for a tailored fit and a 7 inch curved dildo for ultimate G-spot or P-spot stimulation. This pegging kit also includes 3 interchangeable O-rings to help you enjoy lots of different sensations. There is even a pocket to add a bullet from your personal collection.


This dildo and harness kit is a good purchase if you’re still experimenting with pegging but aren’t new to using dildos. This adjustable kit has a satisfying curved dildo that hits all the right spots, although be careful as the toy is a little bit firm.
Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Silicone Dildos
Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 silicone dildos and 3 O-rings gives you everything you need to enjoy pegging with your partner. The dildo has textured veins and is tapered for easy insertion. The dildos also come with a flared suction base for hands-free fun with your partner.


This adjustable harness comes with two different sized realistic silicone dildos. There is a big difference between the big and small dildo, a jump some have complained about. Value for money and easy to use, this is a good pegging kit to experiment with.
New Comers Strap-On Kit
This user friendly harness has been specially designed for beginners. Enjoy a snugly fitting harness and a small, manageable silicone dildo. This curved dildo is deliciously rippled with enough contours and flexibility to hit your G-spot or P-spot. The wide, flared base has a slight taper to act as a barrier for the O-ring. This harness has no back, allowing you to enjoy a good view or enjoy penetration as you penetrate.


This harness has a small dildo that is perfect for beginners. Despite being small in size, this silicone dildo is contoured with another slenderness and flexibility to hit your sensitive G-spots or P-spots. This pegging kit is perfectly suited to anal play, particularly for newcomers to backdoor penetration.
Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit
Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit has 4 pieces that will give you everything you need to experiment with pegging and anal penetration. These pants can easily slip in and has two built-in O-rings, one to penetrate the receiver and one nestle in the gusset for the wearer. For fans of vibrations, this pegging kit also comes with a bullet vibrator for maximum satisfaction.


This Lovehoney pegging kit is ideal for beginners with different size dildos. Experiment with penetration with 5 inch, 4 inch and 3 inch dildos. The hole in the base can accommodate a bullet vibrator, so it has everything you need to experiment with satisfaction. Unlike other harnesses, this one slides on easily so there are no straps and zips to struggle with.
Pegging Essentials
We don’t recommend going straight into pegging without buying a few essentials first. Here are two things essentials we believe you should invest in before you try pegging or any type of anal play.
What's In Your Pegging Kit?

Harness

The harness is what connects your fun toys to your body. Harnesses come in all shapes and sizes, depending on your tastes. #
Think about the atmosphere you want to create and how easy it needs to be to take on and off. Some designs are harnesses with buckles and chains, others slide on easily like boxer shorts.

O-Ring

An O-Ring is the part of a harness where you attachh your dildo. It should be sturdy and be able to handle the action.
To choose an O-ring that will fit your favorite dildo you’d like to use in a strap-on, measure the circumference of your dildo at the part just above the flared base.

Vibrator

Some pegging kits will include a vibrator. Some harness kits will have a little pocket to hide a bullet. This will pleasure the female wearer as she thrusts into her partner.

Dildo

Most harnesses will have an O-ring where you can insert your favorite dildo.
To choose a dildo that will fit in your new harness, start by measuring the internal diameter of your O-ring. Only measure the space the dildo will go through, not the full width of the O-ring.

Butt Plug

The butt plug is an anal toy designed to be inserted anally for sexual pleasure. Plugs can also be used to stretch the anus, ideal for beginners.
A butt plug is a T-shaped, small dildo with a flared base. We recommend starting small.

Prostate Massager

A prostate massager looks very similar to a buttplug. It has been designed to stimulate the prostate.
Perfect Pegging Positions
Any position you have penetrative sex in will also work during pegging. The most important thing about choosing the right pegging position is to find something comfortable and pleasurable.

Doggy

Probably the best position for newbies, the doggy is a classic for a reason.
Have your partner lie with their face and arms on the bed. This position allows you to enter slowly and guide how deep you enter.

Seated

A seated position is another beginner-friendly position because your partner can control length and angle.
It’s also one of the more romantic pegging positions because you can easily kiss and make eye contact.

Lying Doggy

This is a slightly advanced version of doggy style as it allows you to explore a dom/sub dynamic.
This is a fantastic position for prostate stimulation. Experiment with angles and speeds.
Lie down on the bed facing down but keep your legs apart. The pegger can then squat or kneel over you. Put a pillow under their pelvis for added access.

Missionary

Another popular position, missionary is good a starting point as it’s safe and comfortable.
Missionary is a classic because it encourages slow penetration and allows you to spot any signs of discomfort on your partner’s face.
Additionally, you can enjoy easier access to more body parts and the testicles.

Spooning

Spooning encourages a softer, more intimate form of pegging. It enables more skin-to-skin contact and cuddling.
Additionally, spooning gives the pegger excellent access to their partner’s penis.

Standing

Height may become an issue with this advanced position, but it is still very achievable.
Have the person being penetrated lean against a wall or a table, this will help assert dominance.
This is also a fantastic option if you enjoy shower sex (just check if your dildo is waterproof!).

Cowboy

The cowboy or cowgirl is where the partner being penetrated sits on top of the partner wearing the harness.
It’s a romantic position where you can look each other in the eye and enjoy role reversal.
It’s also a good position for beginners as you can stabilize your partner by holding on to their hips. Also, both people control the movement and speed.
How to use a pegging kit

Talk

Pegging is not something that should be brought into a relationship by surprise. It’s important to gave an open conversation about what you and your partner want and expect from the experience. You also need to bring up any concerns. Honestly is the key to pleasure.
Start Small

Choose a pegging kit that has a small dildo if you are new. Then you can work your way up. Kits usually come with different sizes and the ability to add your own attachments.
If you’re a newbie, choose a firm but not too solid dildo made from non-porous silicone.


Lube Up

Lubes like the [af_link id=”28047″]Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant [/af_link] are crucial to the pegging process. Lube is the difference between an enjoyable and a painful experience.
Warm Up

Foreplay is key to getting ready for pegging. No matter your experience, it will be improved by warming up.
Whether it’s kissing, hand jobs or oral, you should be in the mood before the dildos and vibrators appear.


Use Your Fingers

Pegging isn’t the time to go from 0 to 100. Start with a butt plug or a finger. This will get you used to the sensation of pegging and help you relax more.
Safe Word

We recommend having a safe word, especially if pegging is new to you and your partner. And if your partner changes their mind during the experience, that is totally okay!

How to clean a pegging kit
It is essential you clean the items in your pegging kit. Hygiene is very important to protect yourself and your partner, always keep your toys, hands and genitals clean!
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.