The 6 Best Pegging Strap-Ons for Power-Play Pleasure

Amanda Nilsen
by Amanda Nilsen
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Let’s get down to business! Pegging is super hot right now, and it can be super hot for you! Read on to discover the best pegging strap ons, for different needs, experience levels, and comfort.

How was the pegging strap on tested?

Behind every review on Bedbible, there is a dedicated team, a team including sex toy experts and testers. And research, a lot of research is done before narrowing it down to this summary, so when we recommend you a sex toy, we do have a strong reason for recommending that certain one.

We always start off with researching the market for the most popular products, after that, we go through them together with our testers. This means looking at all kinds of different features such as the material, texture, packaging, and extra features like vibration/heating. It´s all of these, and some more, we have in mind when adding our “bed bible-rating”. The research also continues with external opinions regarding the chosen sex toys, we want to provide you with an honest and non-subjective review as possible.

All of this takes hours, just on this pegging strap on test we´ve spent over 30 hours.

How was the pegging strap on tested?

There are a lot of different pegging strap-ons on the market, therefore we´ve written down a small guide that hopefully will come in hand.

Pegging Strap on (most common): An harness together with a dildo that is for anal use, normally a bit smaller in size 
Strapless Strap On Pegging: A dildo that is possible to use hands-free without a harness, it´s placed internally on the giver.
Beginner Pegging Strap On: It differs in size compared to the first Strap On Pegging
Vibrating Strap On Pegging:
This is when a vibrator is attachable to the harness or dildo
Double-Sided Strap On Pegging /

Double ended Strap On Pegging: Two different names that could be used for either strapless use or when it´s a double-ended dildo that can be placed into the taker and into the giver at the same time.

Double Strap On Pegging: This is used for double penetration, so it´s not what we recommend for anal use. It´s possible to use a double strap on when a taker is a person with a vagina.

Good to know:

Harness: The thing you have around your waist/butt/genitals to hold that helps you use the dildo hands-free.
O-ring: A ring made most of the time in metal where and is used to keep the dildo in place and avoid it to fall out.
P-SpotWhere the prostate is in men´s anus, an erogenous zone.
G-SpotSimilar to p-spot but for women in the vagina.
Bullet vibratorA small vibrator used for adding extra stimulation.

Do you want to know more about how to prepare for pegging, read our guide here.

FAQ

Is pegging safe?
Totally! As well as being fun, pegging is safe as long as you're taking precautions: not being too rough, and using a dildo size that's comfortable. A dildo that's too big can cause damage and chafing.
Can a man peg a woman?
There's no subversion of gender roles there, so no. It would just be anal sex! In other words, strap on pegging is for women pegging men.
What material should my pegging strap on be?
It depends on what you're after! We generally recommend against PVC and other porous materials, because they're harder to clean and can harbor some nasty bacteria. Silicone is a great non-porous material for beginners, because it's soft and body-safe. Once you're more advanced, materials like glass and metal can be great non-porous materials to experiment with!
How big should my first pegging strap on be?
We recommend around 5-6 inches when you're first starting out! You'll get to experience that full feeling, but it's not too overwhelming.
What type of lube should I use for my pegging strap on?
Depending on your toy, you should be using either water-based lube or silicone-based lube. Silicone lube cannot be used with silicone toys, as it breaks down the material.

What is a pegging strap on?

A pegging strap on is any harness-compatible dildo used for pegging play. Often, these dildos are smaller and less girthy, as the anus doesn't stretch as much as the vagina does. Bigger sizes can be worked up to, of course!

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The 6 Best pegging strap ons in Test

1 Test Winner

Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit

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The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit is an all-in-one kit for beginners and experienced peggers alike, according to our research this is the best strap-on for pegging!

Due to its slim design, the non-intimidating smaller dildo provides gentle stimulation, while the slightly larger dildo provides a more filling experience. These hypoallergenic silicone dildos are also curved to provide targeted p-spot pleasure. The included detachable bullet vibe fits into the small pocket on the front of the harness for added excitement.

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Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit if you...
Are a beginner to pegging
Enjoy non-looking penis dildos
Are looking for a easy to use harness
Need dildos in different sizes
Enjoy Tantus premium silicone
You should NOT buy the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit if you...
Want a penis shaped dildo
Enjoy textured dildos
Want big sized dildo
Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit features
Features
Length4.5 and 5.5  inches
Insertable length4 and 5 inches
Diameter1,25 and 1,5 inches
FlexibilityFirm 
Vibration modesSingle speed 
MaterialsSilicone, Latex-Free and Phthalate-Free  
AdjustableBetween 17 inches and 60 inches  
WaterproofSplashproof 
Pros
Easy to adjust, take on and off
Machine washable strap
Good price for a lot of products
Made out of premium silicone
Two different sized dildos to choose from
Cons
Difficult to get the bullet vibrator in place
The small dildo is too small
Conclusion

The Tantus Beginner’s Unisex Vibrating Strap-On Kit is a great way to get a basic harness and two dildos for way less than they’d cost separately. The dildos themselves are made of a very nice, medium-firm, glossy, pearlescent silicone, and the harness is made of a comfortable material that looks as stylish as it is practical. The dildos are also ideal for those who are very sensitive and/or dislike bumpy, ridged, or otherwise-textured toys, whether vaginally or anally! The best strap on for pegging on the market even if the small pegging strap on isn´t that popular. 

2 Cheapest

Strap U Pegged

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Made of high-quality silicone, this dildo is sturdy and flexible to adapt to the inner curvature of the body, and that slight curve helps provide targeted prostate pleasure! The included harness is fully adjustable and ideal for beginners, and a small pocket in the front is designed to fit your own bullet or other small vibrator. Look good, feel good, and don’t break the bank with the Strap U Pegging Dildo with Harness. A cheap option to find out if you want a strap on for pegging. 

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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Strap U Pegged if you...
Are looking for a cheap pegging strap on
Need an adjustable harness
Want to be able to use a vibrator with it
Enjoy G and P-spot stimulation
Like discrete coloured toys
You should NOT buy the Strap U Pegged if you...
Want to have a pegging strap on dildo with big girth
Looking for a sturdy pegging strap on for longer plays
Strap U Pegged  features
Features
Length5 inches
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter1 inches
FlexibilityFirm 
MaterialsSilicone 
AdjustableUp to 44 inches around the waist and up to 28 inches around each thigh 
WaterproofUp to 44 inches around 
Pros
Adjustable harness
Pocket for vibrator
Silicone material
The dildo is firm enough for good thrusts
Curved for G spot and P spot stimulation
Cons
No bullet included
Conclusion

For a dildo and harness combo, you can’t beat this price! The dildo is made of body-safe silicone, which can be difficult to find at a cheaper price. The dildo is a small pegging strap on, enough to not be intimidating, but still feels sturdy and filling. If you’re more experienced, you may want to look into a slightly more sturdy harness, as this one doesn’t necessarily hold up to more vigorous or long-term play.

3 Beginners

New Comers Strap-On Kit

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A perfect beginner pegging strap on, this adjustable harness set comes complete with a silicone dildo, so you’re ready to get started right out of the box! It´s a small pegging strap on dildo, that is ideally sized for beginners and has an upward curve that’s perfect for G-spot stimulation for women and p-spot stimulation when pegging. The harness is equipped with 4-way adjustable nylon straps that fit up to 60 inch hips, and comes with a 1.25-inch O-ring.

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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the New Comers Strap-On Kit if you...
Want to buy from a thrustworthy brand with lifetime warranty
Enjoy a good padded harness
Are looking for a beginner pegging strap on
Are into anal play
You should NOT buy the New Comers Strap-On Kit if you...
Enjoy dildos with big girth
Are an experienced user
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Features
Length5 inches
Insertable length4,5 inches
Diameter0,75 inches
FlexibilityFirm 
Vibration modesNone 
MaterialsVelboa fabric, polypropylene webbing, plastic hardware, nitrile O-rings, silicone dildo 
Adjustable18 inches to 60 inches adjustable strap 
WaterproofSubmersible  
Pros
Nice padded harness
Fits bigger sized bodies
Works with other 1,25 inch dildos
Machine washable harness
Cons
Only one dildo included
A bit expensive for not knowing if you like pegging
Conclusion

This non-intimidating dildo and comfortable harness set is perfect for beginners. It’s a great piece of kit at a great price, and great for working up to something bigger. Not to mention, the harness is machine-washable, so you can throw it in with the rest of your clothes once the fun is done. A strap on dildo for pegging the beginner takers. 

4 Double Penetration

Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit

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Get ready to give and receive at the same time with the Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Kit! This kit includes a pair of briefs equipped with two built-in O-rings for double penetration fun, plus two dildos and a mini bullet vibrator. The pink dildo measures 5 inches in insertable length, with a beginner-friendly 3-inch girth. The black mini dildo measures 4 inches in insertable length and 4 inches in girth, with a hole in the base to accommodate the bullet vibrator.

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Want the taker to be internally stimulated
Are used to strap on play since before
Are looking for a wear-all-day harness
Enjoy anal stimulation
Enjoy a harness shaped as a partner
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Need bigger size than 14
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Features
Length5,5 and 4,5 inches
Insertable length5 and 4 inches
Diameter3 and 4 inches
FlexibilityFirm  
Vibration modes2 speeds and 5 patterns 
MaterialsCotton and Silicone  
AdjustableS/M and L/XL 
WaterproofSubmersible  
Pros
100% Waterproof
Two different dildos included
All dildos with 1,25 inch base fit
Silk feeling silicone
Comfortable and unusal harness
Cons
Slips out easily
Can be uncomfortable with the vibrator inside
The harness doesn´t fit people with a size 14 or above
Quickly becomes to small
Conclusion

This kit has it all, if you are an experienced pegger this is the best pegging strap on! For the price, you get two dildos, a bullet vibe, and a comfortable pair of harness briefs. The bullet vibrator that comes with this set definitely packs a punch too! Going through the speeds and patterns is super easy, at the push of the button on the bottom of the vibrator. It could only improve by including a few more O-ring sizes, so you could really personalize it with bigger toys. Another note: this could also be great for trans guys, as the added internal space inside the briefs is optionable.

5 P-spot

Sport Kit Strap-On Set

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The Sport Kit Strap-On Harness Set By Tantus features a smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone Sport dildo with medium density, designed for the G-Spot or prostate stimulation. The kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits hips up to 60″ / 152 cm), and machine washable. It also comes with a 1.5″ / 3.81 cm O-ring that can be changed for play with larger dildos, as well as a built-in pocket that fits a bullet vibrator (included).

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You should buy the Sport Kit Strap-On Set if you...
Are an experienced user of strapon for pegging
Enjoy p-spot or g-spot stimulation
Like a bulbous head
Want a nice dildo for self-play
You should NOT buy the Sport Kit Strap-On Set if you...
Are a beginner to anal play
Enjoy textured dildos
Features
Length6,2 inches
Insertable length5,5 inches
DiameterHead 1,3 Shaft 1 inches
WaterproofYes  
AdjustableFits up to 56-inch hips & 30-inch thighs 
FlexibilityFirm 
Vibration speeds3 
Pros
Easy p-spotting
Bulbous head
Easy to clean (boilable)
Fits larger dildos
Easy to adjust the straps while using
Cons
Not so robust harness
Too big head for the inexperienced
Conclusion

The unique bulbed head of this dildo sure sets it apart from the rest! This set comes with a great introductory harness that can adjust to fit many sizes and fit all kinds of dildos. The included dildo is made of body-safe, luxury silicone, and is designed for targeted P-spot and G-spot pleasure, thanks to the Tantus design. While you may want to move on to a more robust harness, this is an excellent way to introduce pegging play to the bedroom.

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Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit (4 Piece)

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This fabulous kit is one of the best pegging strap ons thanks to how easy it is to use. It´s got everything you need, two dildos – one smooth petit and one larger textured dildo. The harness is adjustable for a range of different sizes and has got easily adjustable sliders. The bullet vibrator that is included is possible to use both in a secret pocket in the harness or directly inside the larger dildo

 

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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit (4 Piece) if you...
Want a high-quality set
Like the idea of using your own dildo
Will have different people using the harness
Enjoy textured dildos
Enjoy vibrating dildos
You should NOT buy the Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit (4 Piece) if you...
Are looking for a waterproof dildo
Looking for o-rings in metal
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit (4 Piece)  features
Features
Length7, 5,5 inches
Insertable length6 and 4,5 inches
Diameter1,5 and 0,9 inches
MaterialsSilicone  
Vibration modes7 speeds and patterns  
WaterproofSubmersible 
AdjustableFits up to 65 inches (suggested US dress size 6-28) 
FlexibilityFirm  
Vibration modes7 
Pros
Nice silver details
Possible to use vibrator inside of dildo
Three o-rings included
Easy to use
7 settings on the vibrator
Cons
Not the strongest vibrations
Small dildo can seem too small even for beginners
Conclusion

This is the best strap on for pegging for you who might want to switch around the harness between different body sizes. The adjustable sliders make it easy to adjust for different body types.

There are three different o-rings which means that you can easily add another dildo that you´ve got at home too.

Be aware of the silver poppers, they are a nice detail but some customers have had problems with them falling off. Lovehoney has been quick with their replacements though.

Harnesses Perfect for Pegging

Grab something to secure that strap!

Anal Essentials

Make sure you’re prepared before you dive straight in!

What is pegging?

Pegging, basically, is when a woman anally penetrates a man. This is typically done with by cis women with strap-on dildos like the one above, but can also be done by trans women to the same effect. It’s about subverting traditional power dynamics and, in particular, challenging the prevailing heteronormative notion that a man is a penetrator and a woman is penetrated.

Pegging positions to try

Not sure where to start? Start here!

On all fours

On all fours

On all fours

This is a great position for beginners! Get on your hands and knees and have your partner enter you from behind. This is a sturdy position—if it’s your first time experiencing anal penetration, you might appreciate not having to balance in some complicated configuration.

On your stomach

On your stomach

On your stomach

This position is also great for beginners! With the penetrated partner laying on their stomach, all they have to do is relax and enjoy the ride. This is also great for dominance play, as you’ll be unable to make eye contact and the penetrator will have full control. Be sure to practice good communication!

Cowboy

Cowboy

Cowboy

In this position, the penetrator lies on their back with the dildo sticking up in the air, and the penetrated partner kneels or squats over them, riding in a sort of cowboy-style. You and your partner will be able to make eye contact in cowboy, and they’ll have a great view if you’re doing it reverse.

Spooning

Spooning

Spooning

This position is great for slow, sensual sex. The partner being penetrated lays in front of the penetrator, allowing for easy access that’s gentle on the muscles and allows for incredible intimacy. Turn cuddling into sex, and back into cuddling!

How to use a pegging dildo

Keep these tips in mind when you start out!

How to use a pegging dildo

Lube up!

Lube up!

We give this advice every time, and it’s true every time! Especially since the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. Coating your pegging strap-on top to bottom with lube is the best way to ensure a pleasurable and easy experience. If your toy is silicone, only use water-based lube, because silicone lube can really damage the integrity of your toy. If it’s not silicone, you might want to look at silicone-based lube! It’s great for anal, because it typically lasts longer.

Take it slow

How to use a pegging dildo

Don’t feel pressured into going beyond what you’re comfortable with. A good partner will understand your limits, and encourage you to discuss both of your boundaries beforehand. It’s also a physical thing, too. If you’ve never experienced anal penetration, going in with something big can lead to tearing, chafing, and more general discomfort that shouldn’t be part of any sexual experience. Use a small pegging strap on, one that is ment to be a beginner pegging strap on. 

How to use a pegging dildo
How to use a pegging dildo

Aftercare

Aftercare

Aftercare is a key component to any sexual experience. Take the time afterwards to care for each other, communicate about the experience, discuss what went well, what didn’t, and get snuggled up!

How to clean a pegging strap on

Because dildos come in all shapes, sizes, and materials, it's important to check the details for your specific toy before you clean it. Below is a summary of how to clean the most common dildo materials! It is critical to clean your dildo before and after use, to avoid bacteria infiltrating your vagina, anus, or mouth. To clean, you'll need: warm water, sex toy cleaner/antibacterial soap, and a clean, dry towel. If your double dildo is made from a non-porous material (which is most common), it won't absorb bacteria easily, however you still need to clean it thoroughly to ensure you avoid any nasty bacteria entering your system! Non-porous materials include: silicone, borosilicate glass, Lucite, stainless steel etc. Porous materials include: jelly, PVC, vinyl, rubber etc. Cleaning different types of dildos: Vibrator/motorized toys: Never submerge your motorized toys in water! (If battery powered, take the batteries out before cleaning). The easiest way to clean them is to wipe them down using a warm, damp cloth with antibacterial soap. Be sure to either air dry thoroughly, or dry with a towel until bone dry. Non-porous materials/porous materials: If not motorized, feel free to submerge your toy in warm soapy water, and thoroughly dry it before storing. For porous materials, bacteria can build up over time in the pores of the toy, which means you should take extra care when cleaning, and ensure the toy is bone dry before storing. Glass/Stainless Steel: You can safely boil your borosilicate glass, and stainless steel toy to sterilize them; borosilicate glass is highly resistant to thermal shock, meaning it is safe to boil (and this is why it's great for temperature play!). When your toys are clean and thoroughly dry, you should store them safely; find a place where you can store your toy(s) with plenty of room for others, and where they will be kept away from anything like dust or wetness – these will only cause bacteria to develop!

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.