7 Best BDSM Spanking Tools and Toys
I have long been on the quest to curate my ultimate collection of BDSM spanking tools so I’ve learned exactly what to look for! I looked through every spanking tool that myself and other Bedbible reviewers have tried out and curated this list of the very best ones! I’ve included tools that create a range of sensations and cater to different levels of experience.
Test Winner5.0  Overall Rating 5.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 User Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 1 user reviews | Runner-Up4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.6/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 11 user reviews | Budget-Friendly4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 4.2/5 Based on 17 user reviews | Best for Beginners4.9 Overall Rating 4.9/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Lady RedUser Ratings: 4.8/5 Based on 1 user reviews | Best Flogger4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 1 user reviews | Best Crop4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 143 user reviews | Best Tawse4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 5 user reviews |
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How We Test spanking tools
We’re a team of 334 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best spanking tools, our testers tried and reviewed 222 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre spanking tools didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1190 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.
Table of contents (13)
Test Winner Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle
Overall Rating
5.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Vegan leather
- Broad loop paddle
- Wrist strap.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Makes a great sound on impact
- ✅ Great for all experience levels
- ✅ Easy to hold
Cons
- ❌ Too big for travelling
- ❌ Fake leather is not as durable as real leather
Why I Chose It
The Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle stood out as a Test Winner to me because it’s a high quality BDSM spanking tool that’s performs great across the board. It’s also suitable for all levels of experience!
Our tester, Cassie, said she found her dream paddle “in terms of aesthetics, functionality, performance, and price!” She was so impressed, she said it’s now her “go-to” for all impact play.
Another great feature of the Loop Paddle is that it can create a range of sensations. Cassie found that the “type of sensations upon impact differs depending on the intensity.” Light impact felt more thuddy and heavier impact had more of a sting.
As well as delivering great sensations, Cassie really loved that “the slapper style design delivers that intense sound effect,” resulting in a truly thrilling experience! I’ve also found that sometimes you want a paddle whose bark is worse than it’s bite!
Runner-Up Tantus Thwack Spanking Paddle
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 11 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Thwack Spanking Paddle was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Tantus Thwack Spanking Paddle was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Thwack Spanking Paddle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Thick spanking paddle made entirely out of silicone
- Designed for heavy impact
- Hole in the handle to add a wrist loop.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Made from ultra-premium silicone
- ✅ Stingy impact
- ✅ Easy to clean/sterilise
- ✅ Great for heavy duty play
Cons
- ❌ Handle gets uncomfortable
- ❌ Can be too intense
- ❌ Doesn't have a wrist loop
Why I Chose It
The Tantus Thwack is spanking paddle I’ve had the pleasure of testing out myself. I really wanted to include this special one in the review as a more advanced level BDSM spanking tool.
Made entirely of silicone, this spanking paddle leaves a serious sting! I was a little surprise by just how thick and heavy it was. Having been on the receiving end, I can say you don’t need a lot of force to deliver quite the thwack!
Every impact made the blood rush to my skin, leaving it hot to the touch and very red! I would only recommend the Tantus Thwack to those looking for a more intense sensation.
While I love the sensation it creates, and the fact that it’s made of top-quality silicone, it lost a few marks because of the handle design. It’s thick and flat and doesn’t have round edges so it can get a bit uncomfortable to hold after a while.
Budget-Friendly Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.2/5
Based on 17 user reviews
Rating: Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Mini riding crop (about half the length of a regular crop)
- Faux leather tip
- Rubber handle.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Very travel-friendly
- ✅ Small and easy to store
- ✅ Great beginners crop
- ✅ Very affordable
Cons
- ❌ Not the highest quality
- ❌ Not for heavy duty play
Why I Chose It
I love that impact play toys are generally quite cheap but this mini crop is about as wallet-friendly as it comes, while still being a decent quality!
Cassie was also our designated tester here and “was pleasantly surprised by the Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop.”
She was impressed that it still “packs quite the punch despite being so small and short.” However, given the smaller size, she found that “you do need to put a little more power into those swings” to get a strong impact.
While this isn’t going to be the BDSM spanking tool for heavy impact play, it is a beginner-friendly and “a travel-friendly impact tool!” If you are interested in trying a crop, I would say this is a great one to start with!
Best for Beginners Sportsheets Saffron Ping Pong Paddle
Overall Rating
4.9/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Lady RedUser Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ping Pong Paddle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ping Pong Paddle was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ping Pong Paddle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Large surface area
- Wrist loop for security
- Made of vegan leather.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Sturdy and well-made
- ✅ More thuddy sensations
- ✅ Vegan PU leather feels great
Cons
- ❌ Handle is not so ergonomic
- ❌ Vegan leather not as durable
Why I Chose It
“I love this product so much that I bought one for my partner so he would have his own paddle to play with.”
Since our tester, Sarah, was so impressed that she had to get another one, I simply had to include this devious little spanking tool in this review!
I chose it as the best spanking tool for beginners because of the bigger surface area that’s a little easier to direct. It also doesn’t create the strongest sensation but still gives a satisfying thwack!
Sarah, agreed that the Ping Pong Paddle is great for a more “sensual” impact but it can also leave a good “tingly sting” and satisfying marks on the body with the right amount of power behind the strokes.
As well as enjoying the feel of the paddle, she also really appreciated how “sturdy” it is and that the “bold color gives it an elegant and stylish” look.
Best Flogger Sportsheets Saffron Flogger
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Faux leather falls
- Metal handle
- Wrist loop.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Comfortable to hold
- ✅ Beginner-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Not great for heavy duty play
- ❌ Falls are a little stiff
Why I Chose It
I have to say, I was a little torn about which flogger to include as the overall best as there are so many factors to consider.
The other contender was the Dominix Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger, which is higher quality, but also more expensive and requires more advanced level experience.
In the end, I chose the Sportsheets Saffron Flogger because I feel it’s a great quality flogger, that will suit both beginners and intermediate users and it has an accessible price. I also think this an extremely user-friendly so it would be a good first flogger.
I also tested this one personally, and I think this flogger has a pleasant weight to it without being too heavy. The falls are quite thick and give a good impact but also feel great when trailed over the body. I also really like the sleek metal handle that’s comfortable to hold and the added security of the wrist loop.
Best Crop Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 143 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Heart shaped tip
- Silicone tip
- Long handle.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Small and stingy
- ✅ Great for breast/nipple spanking
- ✅ Can be used on the clit
- ✅ Hygienic and easy to clean
Cons
- ❌ Quite intense
- ❌ Plastic handle could be stronger
Why I Chose It
I had the absolute pleasure of testing the Skip a Beat Crop and I LOVE it! I’ve tried my fair share of BDSM spanking tools but this one really allowed me and my partner to explore a totally new kind of spanking play!
The small silicone tip is just perfect for deliciously stingy nipple spanking. It made my skin feel warm and left everything extra sensitive. I was surprised by just how much I enjoyed the sensation and not only the power play! If you enjoy a little pinching and biting, I think you will also enjoy this!
I’ve found this BDSM crop is also really great for light clit and labia spanking — the more rhythmic tapping feels fantastic and makes for a great tease! It’s safe to say, this is a new favorite in my collection!
Plus, being made of silicone, it’s non-porous, meaning it’s super easy to clean with soap and water and won’t retain any bodily fluids it comes into contact with!
Best Tawse Tantus Tawse Small
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 5 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Tawse Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Tantus Tawse Small was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Tawse Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Tawse-style whip
- Made entirely of silicone
- Handle can be used as a dildo.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Sharp and stingy sensation
- ✅ Hygienic and easy to clean
- ✅ Can be used in different ways
- ✅ Comfortable to hold
Cons
- ❌ Comes with a learning curve
- ❌ Will be too intense for many
Why I Chose It
It’s safe to say that our tester, Cassie, was thrilled with the Tantus Tawse when she tested it out for Bedbible: “The two-pronged design looks deliciously scary and it wields like a dream!”
She found that the split tawse design “definitely feels more like a whip than a paddle” with an “intense stinging” sensation. However, you can also explore more thuddy sensations using the handle for impact. Cassie was pleasantly surprised that it was “just as impressive as the tawse side.”
Not only that, she enjoyed using the handle internally, and while it wasn’t super stimulating, it was a fun addition to power play and it even provided “some pleasant g-spot massage during insertion.”
The one thing I’d keep in mind about this whip is that it is an intense toy. Cassie and her partner also found that it “takes a little bit of practice to master the movements.”
Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Budget-Friendly | Best for Beginners | Best Flogger | Best Crop | Best Tawse |
| Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 11 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 17 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 143 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 5 users |
| Price | Affordable | Moderate | Cheap | Affordable | Affordable | Cheap | Moderate |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 97 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Length | 17 inches | 6.5 inches | 12.5 inches | 15.25 inches | Falls: 17 inches, Handle: 6 inches | 18 inches | Tongue: 9 inches, Total length: 15.75 inches inches |
| Width | 3 inches | 3 inches | 1 inches | 6 inches | - | - | Tongue: 1.75 inches, Handle: 0.53 inches |
| Materials | Vegan PU leather | Ultra Premium silicone | ABS plastic, vinyl fabric, rubber cap | PU (Faux Leather) | Polyurethane, nickel free metal, nylon | Silicone, hard plastic | Ultra Premium silicone |
| Waterproof | Splashproof | Yes | Splashproof | Splashproof | Splashproof | Yes | Yes |
If You’re Looking For…
- The best spanking tool that feels ‘thuddy’ upon impact – The Sportsheets Saffron Ping Pong Paddle and the Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle both offer relatively ‘thuddy’ sensations with light impact.
- The best spanking tool that feels ‘stingy’ upon impact – The Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop offers a nice, sharp sting, thanks to the small silicone tip and the long handle!
- The best spanking tool for heavy-duty impact play – The Tantus Thwack or the Tantus Tawse are both super durable and suitable for intense spanking sessions.
Types of BDSM Spanking Tools and How They Feel
Spanking tools come in different forms and can be used to create a range of different sensations from light taps to thwacks and even teasing tickles. Some create a thuddy impact, which is more dull and some create a stingy impact, which is more sharp and some can do both depending on the force and material. Here’s a quick run down to help you find what you are looking for.
- Paddles can create both stingy and thuddy sensations depending on how hard you swing them and what they are made of. Hard materials like plastic or silicone are more stingy while faux leather or fur lined ones tend to be more thuddy.
- Floggers come in a range of sizes and shapes. Generally, thicker, heavier floggers will be more thuddy and ones with fewer falls will be stingy, but this also depends on the material.
- Crops have a smaller tip and are therefore more stingy when used with force. They are also great for more targeted spanking or tapping on the nipples or genitals or using to direct your sub’s movements.
- Whips are some of the most intense spanking tools, providing a biting sting. They also require more practice and experience to use safely.
What to Look For in a BDSM Spanking Tool
- Feeling: Are you looking for a quick stinging pain or one that stays for a while? Some spanking tools are very painful and some hardly feel at all. Do you want to use it for teasing and tickling or just spanking?
- Sound: Should it be soundless or more of a loud smack? Some like the spanking because of the pain, some just want the actual sound.
- Material: Is there any certain type of material you prefer, maybe a spanking tool in leather so you can smell it or a lace one that looks pretty?
- Shape: When choosing the right shape you need to think about which body parts you want to use it on, what kind of prints on the body you want to leave and how you want to use it.
- Budget: As always when buying something you need to think about your wallet, how much money can you spend on spanking material?
Why Does Spanking Feel Good?
There are a lot of reasons why spanking can feel good and it depends on who you ask. Some say that sexual pleasure and pain are very close, just think of how you react to your partner nibbling on your body parts or how the perfect amount of twisting on your nipple can feel so good.
- Spanking stimulates the blood flow in the same way sexual arousal does which makes the sensation of pleasure and pain very close.
- It can be some kind of stress relief, giving up or taking control, or pushing limits.
- Some like spanking because of the feeling they get afterwards, it can be the warm tingling feeling or the stinging behind.
- Some just find the look sexually attractive, the look of reed bum cheeks and red printed strips on their thighs.
Reviewed by:
Cassie Mørch