8 Best Spanking Tools and Toys for the Perfect Thwack
Are you looking for some new spanking tools? No matter if it´s your first paddle or if you´re an experienced flogger we´ve got your back. In this test, you will find the best spanking tools on the market reviewed, so that you can find the best possible one to fulfil your impact play desires!
Best Paddle4.5  | Best Flogger4.3 | Best Crop4.9 | Budget Option4.3 | Beginner4.8 | Leather Flogger4.2 | Loop Paddle5.0 | Short Flogger4.6 | Tickler4.4 |
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How was the spanking tools tested?
After reviewing over 500 + sex toys we do call ourselves sex toy experts. So, when doing our research, such as looking for the best products on the market, reading external reviews and discussing the products with our testers we knew what to look for.
When rating a sex toy we have different criteria in mind and these, of course, differ depending on what products we’re testing. When it comes to spanking tools we’re looking at quality, material, ease of use, design and the feel and sound of the spanks.
Here are some guidelines for you to have in mind when looking for a spanking tool, there are a lot of different kinds out there and depending on what kind of impact play you are looking for your choice might differ.
What to look for when choosing a spanking tool:
- Feeling: Are you looking for a quick stinging pain or one that stays for a while? Some spanking tools are very painful and some hardly feel at all. Do you want to use it for teasing and tickling or just spanking?
- Sound: Should it be soundless or more of a loud smack? Some like the spanking because of the pain, some just want the actual sound.
- Material: Is there any certain type of material you prefer, maybe a spanking tool in leather so you can smell it or a lace one that looks pretty?
- Shape: When choosing the right shape you need to think about which body parts you want to use it on, what kind of prints on the body you want to leave and how you want to use it.
- Budget: As always when buying something you need to think about your wallet, how much money can you spend on spanking material?
Reviews of the 9 best spanking tools
Best Paddle Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.4/5.0
User Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 76 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The best paddle in this spanking tool test goes to Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle. It´s a 12 inches long black paddle with a cut-out that spells out “Slut”, you can also find it with other patterns such as hearts and the word Love. So it depends on what kind of BDSM play you want. With a solid spank, it´s supposed to leave the pattern as a mark on your skin.
The spanking tool has a rigid handle which makes it easy to control and gives it the right flick. It´s a split spanker which means it has two flaps, which means it can create a load spanking sound compared to the sting it creates. The sting is quick, not that sharp and leaves slightly red marks.
Pros
- ✅ Makes a loud sound
- ✅ Easy to flick with the rigid handle
- ✅ Different patterns (slut, love, hearts)
- ✅ Beginner-friendly BDSM spanking tools
- ✅ A lace for the wrist
Cons
- ❌ Difficult to cause painful spanks
- ❌ Some might find the pattern "slut" too harsh
- ❌ Difficult to make the imprint
Verdict
This spanking tool sounds louder than it stings, so if you’re new to BDSM, like the sound of spanks but are not sure about your pain rate yet, it’s perfect!
Some people including Bedbible’s tester (read her review here) have a hard time getting the pattern, slut, to stay on the body. The ones who manage to do it have either got the right flick and done the same flick a couple of times or managed to give a solid spank.
The sting is not that painful and for the one who wants a sore bum, this is probably not the right paddle. But for quick stings and load noise, it’s great.
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Best Flogger Sportsheets Saffron Flogger
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other spanking tools.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Sportsheets Saffron Flogger ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Saffron Flogger by Sportsheets is a versatile BDSM tool made from vegan leather with a metal handle. It features 30 black and red falls and includes a wrist loop for safety.
Pros
- ✅ Simple to use.
- ✅ Wrist handle for secure holding.
- ✅ Made with vegan-friendly materials.
- ✅ Attractive dual-color design
Cons
- ❌ Can't do heavy duty impact play
Verdict
The Sportsheets Saffron Flogger is an excellent entry-level flogger, adding excitement to impact and power play. While it may not satisfy the needs of advanced users, its affordability and quality make it a great option for beginners or those seeking a flogger for occasional use.
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Best Crop Sportsheets BDSM Motivator Crop
Overall Rating
4.9/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amanda NilsenUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 15 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets BDSM Motivator Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sportsheets BDSM Motivator Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets BDSM Motivator Crop was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Sportsheets BDSM Motivator Crop was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Sportsheets BDSM Motivator Crop ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Sportsheets BDSM Motivator Crop is the best BDSM spanking tool for experienced spankers, and it´s also easy to use as a self-spanking tool. With a nice swoosh when swung and the perfect spanking smack when it leaves a sharp sting and red mark.
It has got a split-tipped top and is a crop tool for intermediate spanking. It´s shorter than other crops which makes it easy to handle and carry around. What also makes it easy to handle is the good grip, the grip is a textured and rubber handle which makes it good for even the sweatiest hands.
Pros
- ✅ Steady textured rubber grip
- ✅ Makes a loud sound both while swinging and when actually whipping
- ✅ High-quality spanking toy for a good price
- ✅ Leaves a sharp red mark
- ✅ Easy to create sharp stings
Cons
- ❌ Not for beginners
- ❌ Can be too intense for some
Verdict
This is the perfect crop for experienced spankers, use a heavy hand and you will create a heavy sharp sting, use a light hand and it will be a quick rap sting. It has got a nice leather smell which a lot of BDSM users are into.
It creates a big audible impact both while swinging it and when spanking so it´s not for the quiet spankers. The grip makes it easy to hold onto, even in the wildest BDSM plays.
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Budget Option Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.2/5.0
Based on 17 user reviews
Rating: Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other spanking tools.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop is a playful introduction to the world of BDSM for anyone who isn’t quite ready to splurge on a high-quality spanking tool but are still curious about adding a little *spice* to their intimate moments. This mini crop may be small and cheap, but it definitely still packs a punch! It’s easy to use and takes up basically no space. Compact and travel-friendly, this mini crop offers a gentle foray into impact play, making it perfect for beginners or as a portable option for adventurous couples.
Pros
- ✅ Very affordable
- ✅ Lightweight & travel-friendly
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Discreet (and space-saving) storage
Cons
- ❌ Not a premium quality spanking tool
- ❌ Not suitable for heavy duty impact play
Verdict
After exploring the features of the Sex & Mischief Mini Riding Crop, I’m convinced it’s a must-have for those dipping their toes into BDSM. Its size and simplicity are perfect for beginners, offering just the right balance of thrill without intimidation.
Because of its size, I don’t think it will fully satisfy the cravings of more experienced enthusiasts looking for something more suitable for heavy duty play. However, its affordability and effectiveness make it an excellent choice for playful (and budget-friendly) exploration in the world of spanking tools. Don’t get me wrong, this little fella will deliver an intense thwack if you learn how to handle it! Also, who doesn’t want a riding crop that they can fit in their purse?
Beginner Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amanda NilsenUser Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 114 user reviews
Rating: Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle was rated 88 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other spanking tools.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
We´ve talked about spanking tools that are beginner-friendly before, but this is the most perfect spanking introductory toy. One side is made out of leather and one out of satin, the white version has lace instead of leather.
It´s offered in three different colours, black, white and red. It´s pretty firm and the satin side is good for gently tickling and caressing the skin, and the leather side is good for small sensational stings.
Pros
- ✅ Two different sides to choose from
- ✅ Doesn´t leave long-lasting marks
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Wriststrap
Cons
- ❌ Firmer than expected
- ❌ Not easy to hold if you got big hands
- ❌ No extra padding for the grip
Verdict
This is one of the best spanking implements for the beginner that doesn´t want a spanking tool that leaves long-lasting marks. The red and especially the white have a non-intimidating design which makes it good for beginners.
It´s made out of satin and leather, so it´s perfect for exploring which material you prefer. Just turn it around and you´ve got a completely new sensation. It´s firmer than most people expect it to be from the images, so you don´t get too surprised.
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Leather Flogger Dominix Deluxe Leather Flogger
Overall Rating
4.2/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Melissa ArnoldUser Ratings:
4.4/5.0
Based on 15 user reviews
Rating: Dominix Deluxe Leather Flogger was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Dominix Deluxe Leather Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Dominix Deluxe Leather Flogger was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Dominix Deluxe Leather Flogger was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other spanking tools.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Dominix Deluxe Leather Flogger ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Flogger is a robust and well-crafted BDSM toy, offering both sensual, light caresses and more intense experiences with its 40 soft leather tails.
Pros
- ✅ Easy to grip
- ✅ Affordable price.
- ✅ Made from quality materials.
- ✅ Convenient for storage and travel.
- ✅ Satisfying sound on impact
Cons
- ❌ Loud in use.
- ❌ Lacks a 'thuddy' sensation.
- ❌ Smaller in size.
- ❌ Difficult to clean properly
Verdict
The DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Flogger is an accessible and standard flogger, ideal for those new to BDSM or on a budget. It’s compact enough for travel but still effective for use. This flogger is a practical choice for beginners, offering good value for its price.
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Loop Paddle Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle is a spanking paddle with a loop design, made of vegan PU leather in a deep red color. It’s designed for delivering impactful spanks to larger body areas and suitable for varying experience levels in impact play.
Pros
- ✅ Loop design enhances sound impact.
- ✅ Sleek, elegant appearance.
- ✅ Wrist loop for improved grip.
- ✅ Constructed with vegan leather.
- ✅ Affordable price.
Cons
- ❌ Its size makes it less portable
Verdict
I found the Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle impressive in both aesthetics and functionality. It’s a great choice for anyone venturing into impact play, offering a balance between quality and affordability. The loop design not only adds a unique touch but also enhances the spanking experience. It’s a great fit for beginners and advanced users alike, thanks to its user-friendly design and the variety of sensations it offers.
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Short Flogger Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger
Overall Rating
4.6/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amanda NilsenUser Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 54 user reviews
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger was rated 73 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other spanking tools.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The next spanking tool is from Fifty Shades of Grey, the best flogger on the market. The size makes it perfect to carry around in a handbag, and it’s easy to take with you on your travels.
It’s made out of soft PU and has got beautiful metallic silver soft fronds. With this flogger, you can give hard whips or teasing strokes. It’s up to you and your partner’s mood. It’s perfect for teasing and possible to use for all body parts.
The rigid handle makes it easy for you to be aware of what kind of whips you’re giving, you will feel the difference between when using a heavy and a light hand with this spanking tool. It creates strong quick pain and the erotic spanking leaves red striped marks.
Pros
- ✅ Possible to use different impact techniques
- ✅ Easy to stroke and whip with
- ✅ Good size for traveling with
- ✅ Unique colour
Cons
- ❌ Doesn´t make a loud sound unless you use a heavy hand
Verdict
The Please Sir flogger is one of the best spanking implements, it’s perfect for sensual teasing and tickling, and of course, stingy whips.
The metallic silver fronds are soft and perfect for teasing all body parts and the handle makes it easy to vary the intensities of the tickling or whipping.
It’s one of fantastic first spanking tool for BDSM beginners to get a feel for flogging before moving onto a more serious flogger. That also means that this isn’t going to the best option for more advanced players. t
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Tickler Calexotics Scandal Feather Crop
Overall Rating
4.4/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amanda NilsenUser Ratings:
4.3/5.0
Based on 8 user reviews
Rating: Calexotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spanking tool.
Rating: Calexotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Calexotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Calexotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Calexotics Scandal Feather Crop for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Are you interested in a crop that can both tickle and sting? The Scandal Feather Crop can transform your playtime from gentle to mischievous in no time! It features ultra-soft feathers on one side for teasing and a hand-stitched crop on the other for a more intense spanking experience. This toy is perfect for beginners and those who like to experiment with different types of pleasure. So get ready for some naughty tickles and sweet sings and enjoy this 2-in-1 spanking toy!
Pros
- ✅ Versatile use
- ✅ Double-sided design
- ✅ Great for beginners
Cons
- ❌ Not very durable
- ❌ Feathers are fragile and might fall off
Verdict
If you’re looking to add some excitement and playfulness to your bedroom, the Feather Crop is an excellent toy to consider. Its simple design makes it user-friendly, and you can blend tickling with gentle spanks for added fun. Thanks to its broader tip, the crop delivers a milder sting, making it ideal for playful and flirty activities.
The only issue I’ve noticed is that the feathers are delicate and can come loose during more vigorous play.
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Comparison of the 9 best spanking tools
| Best | Best Paddle | Best Flogger | Best Crop | Budget Option | Beginner | Leather Flogger | Loop Paddle | Short Flogger | Tickler |
| Overall score | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.6 / 5.0 from 76 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users | 5 / 5.0 from 15 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 17 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 114 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 15 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 54 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 8 users |
| Price | Affordable | Cheap | Affordable | Cheap | Cheap | Cheap | Affordable | Cheap | Affordable |
| Design | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 88 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 73 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Length | 12 inches | Falls: 17 inches, Handle: 6 inches | 20 inches | 12.5 inches | 12,5 inches | 20 inches | 17 inches | 15 inches | 21 inches |
| Materials | Nylon cord, nickel free metal hardware, RBSE glass batten, cowhide leather | Polyurethane, nickel free metal, nylon | Leather | ABS plastic, vinyl fabric, rubber cap | - | Leather | Vegan PU leather | Wood, metal, soft PU | PVC Plastic, Leather, Feathers |
| Width | - | - | - | 1 inches | - | - | 3 inches | - | - |
| Waterproof | - | - | - | Splashproof | - | - | - | - | - |
| Storage Bag Included | - | - | - | No | - | No | - | - | - |
| Flexibility | - | - | - | - | Satin, Leather | - | - | - | - |
| Diameter | - | - | - | - | - | (Handle) 1.27 inches | - | - | - |
| Colors Available | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Black, Red |
Prefer Something a Little Lighter?
Sometimes a stingy pain is too much, but the painful teasing can be just perfect. When we´re talking about painful tease, we don´t mean the pain itself, we´re talking about the frustration of the tease – sensory play.
Sensory play is used to open up for more intense BDSM, for power play and to intensify sexual pleasure.
The products below are the perfect preparation for more intense painful pleasure, the pre-tools for spanking one could call them.
Fifty Shades of Grey Tease Feather Tickler
If a sensual stroke with this tickling feather won´t make you squirm, I don´t know what will.
This is the perfect sex toy for power play and tease. It will intensify all the erogenous zones and can make even the slightest touch feel overwhelming.
Lovehoney Oh! Vanilla Massage Candle
Not that many have explored a sensual massage candle. Enjoy the anticipation of the warm wax dripping onto your skin or follow it up with an ice cube for a thrilling contrast.
Light the candle, let the 6 different essential oils and the vanilla scent fill the room, and then when the wax is melted you can drizzle it on your partner’s skin.
High On Love Dark Chocolate Body Paint
If you like being creative this is the perfect sensory play, body paint.
You and your partner decides, should just one of you paint, should you both paint at the same time or maybe take turns.
It´s made out of hemp seed oil for making it even more relaxing.
For True Spanking Lovers
Spanking sex toys can be more than just whips and paddles. Sometimes everyone needs a bit more kinky, restrained impact play, and that’s what this spanking bench is for!
Obedience Extreme Sex Bench
This sex bench is designed to expose your partner to some spanking and penetration action. You can customize the experience by adjusting the height of the arms and legs or removing the U-shaped head support. Plus, you can get optional straps to restrain your partner for some kinky bondage play.
Types of Spanking Sex Toys:
- Paddles: These flat, broad spanking sex toys are designed to deliver a sharp impact and are a popular choice for beginners due to their short length and easy-to-use design. Paddles are available in different sizes, shapes, and materials, such as leather, wood, and silicone.
- Floggers: With several tails or strands of leather or other materials attached to a handle, floggers are a type of whipping sex toy that can provide a wide range of sensations, from gentle teasing to sharp and stinging impacts.
- Canes: Made of materials like bamboo, rattan, or plastic, canes are long, thin spanking sex toys that deliver a sharp, stinging sensation. Using them safely requires skill and precision.
- Whips: Long and flexible, whips are made of materials like leather, rubber, or nylon and deliver a sharp, stinging sensation. Their use requires significant skill and experience to ensure safety.
- Crops: Typically made of leather, rubber, or plastic, riding crops have a long, thin, flexible shaft and a small rectangular or oval-shaped flap, known as the “paddle,” at the end. They can deliver light taps, teasing flicks, or more intense slaps or strikes during BDSM activities.
Different Types of Spanking Tools
In this test, we´ve been talking about tools for spanking in different terms, floggers, paddles, whips and crops. For some, this is known and for some, this is completely new, therefore, you will find a short Spanking implements guide below. What the best spanking implements will be depends on you and your partner.
If you need some inspiration you can have a look at this article – BDSM Punishment Ideas. Remember that there are different things to spank with, it´s just about using your imagination.
Bare hand
This is the most common way to be introduced to spanking, a very handy spanking instrument (sorry, not sorry for the joke). With a hand-spank it’s easy to control the spank and the amount of sting will depend on how you slap your hand, perfect for beginners and experienced spank-lovers. Use the whole hand, fingers o the palm.
Paddle
A paddle is a beginner-friendly tool for spanking. It´s got a wide and long flap, easy to control. Don´t have the budget now or feeling creative, have a look at our guide how to Make a Spanking Paddle. Depending on how much power you use it can be a bit more stingy but due the wide flap it’s mostly a thuddy feeling.
Whip
This is a bit more hardcore spanking material – a whip, it´s difficult to control how much power the whip produces into the spanks. The shape also makes it great for stingy whips.
Crop
This is the spanking tool that looks most similar to the horse-riders whip. In one end the crop has a handle and in one end it has a flat keeper. With this is easy to give a sting to a smaller more sensitive area. This works for both beginners and more experienced users.
Flogger
A flogger is famous for it soft fronds and most often with a rigid handle. It´s a good spanking tool for teasing tickles and stinging spanks. As you can vary however you want it’s prefered by beginners but also good for experienced spankers.
Belt
Using a belt as spanking material is similar to using a whip, it´s not the easiest to control but it´s something that we always have around at home, so whenever needed this can be your saviour. This can also give you some great stingy spanks, we do recommend to try this only if you are an experienced spanker.
Birch twigs
If you´re not at home, but outside then it might be easier to use birch twigs. They have just the perfect firmness to create short stingy spanks. Go easy and then work yourself up if you’re not use to spanking, if so, then you can use it both as a beginner and pro.
Canes
You can find natural canes and synthetic ones (like the one on the image). Great for the more experienced spanker. They create a sharp sting and leave clean red striped marks after use,.
Flyswat
You can also use a fly swat as spanking material, if you want to take the spanking another level, then you can use an electric flyswat. It’s not easy to go hard with the spanking and the spanks are more of the thuddy ones. If you want to try spanking for the first time, this is a great option.
Duster
Why not combinate some role play and use a duster, it´s one of the really good spanking instruments for teas and tickle. Great for the ones who love soft spanking.
Towel
Do you remember in school when people used to flick with a towel? The towel-flick can be used for sexual pleasure too. It will leave a sting and a red mark for good memories. You might need some practice to be able to get the right flick.
Kitchen supplies
Why not use what you ´ve got in the kitchen, here you can fin different tools for spanking by being a bit creative. Use different kitchen supplies for different sensations. Depending on what you use it can be used for stingy or thuddy sensations, and of course that also decides if it’s good for the beginner of experienced.
Sandals/Shoes/Slippers
This is a spanking instrument you´ll always have around. The best spanking material will be a slipper of some kind and provide a more thuddy spank. Ease in to it and it will be great for both beginners and hard core spankers.
DIY Spanking tools
There are many ways to make your own paddle and it’s up to you how much time you want to spend. As you can see above, you can use anything as a spanking tool. But if you want to make it from scratch it will take some more effort. Below you will find a short guide but if you want to know more, you can read more about how to make a spanking paddle here.
Usually, we don’t recommend making your own sex toys, but every rule has its exception! Here are a few DIY spanking sex toys ideas that are 100% safe to use and so they are super easy to make. Plus, making your own sex toys can be a great date idea for sexy quality time!
From scratch...
You could do one from the very beginning by cutting out the shape in wood, make sure to use a sturdy material. The best way would probably be to use a jigsaw and then sand it down properly to make sure it’s free from small wood chips and big of course. This will be a bit more hardcore paddle and therefore not for beginners.
After that you can design it just as you like, paint, draw a pattern, or whatever you prefer.
DIY Paddles
If you want to explore the world of spanking fun on a budget, try out objects similar to regular spanking paddles. Test out:
- Ping-pong paddles,
- Spatulas,
- Flyswatters,
- Paint stirrers
They have a perfect size and shape to give your sub a nice smack, and if you want them to look more heavy-duty, we have plenty of kinky design inspirations.
Our blog post on DIY Spanking Paddles also includes a few ideas to incorporate leather into your BDSM play!
DIY Floggers
In our blog post on DIY Floggers, there are two very simple guides on how to create stunning floggers from paracord and leather/ faux leather.
Both of these guides will unleash your kinky, creative side with cheap and easily accessible materials! So grab some glue and scissors and get crafty!
Why does Spanking Feel Good?
There are a lot of reasons why spanking can feel good and it depends on who you ask. Some say that sexual pleasure and pain are very close, just think of how you react to your partner nibbling on your body parts or how the perfect amount of twisting on your nipple can feel so good.
Spanking stimulates the blood flow in the same way sexual arousal does which makes the sensation of pleasure and pain very close.
It can be some kind of stress relief, giving up or taking control, or pushing limits.
Some like spanking because of the feeling they get afterwards, it can be the warm tingling feeling or the stinging behind.
Some just find the look sexually attractive, the look of reed bum cheeks and red printed strips on their thighs.
There are many different reasons that spanking can feel good!
Where Is the Best Place to Buy Spanking Tools?
We have a few webshops we recommend when it comes to buying spanking implements, they all provide discrete packaging, quick delivery and, spanking tools that are tested and safe to use.
Shevibe – Probably one of the best webshops to buy spanking tools at, you can choose between different colours, shapes and types.
Lovehoney – A great place to find spanking implements for pocket-friendly prices.
Tootimid – With a wide price range you can find classic and more unique spanking tools.
If you feel like being creative and are looking for spanking material, then we recommend taking a visit to your closest brick-and-mortar shop.
Reviewed by:
Katie Elizabeth