The 8 Most Realistic Strap On Dildos For Sublime Sensation

 By  Julia Packard
Last updated: Dec 28, 2021
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Johnny VixSkin Dildo

Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the Johnny VixSkin if you...

  • Want a supremely lifelike feel
  • Enjoy a curve
  • Love a doable and girthy dildo

You should NOT buy the Johnny VixSkin if you...

  • Need a suction cup
  • Are a beginner or used to smaller sizes

Product description

This dual-density silicone dildo is designed to fill you up while feeling just like the real thing. The Johnny VixSkin promises a screaming g-spot or p-spot orgasm. Measuring up at 7 insertable inches with a 1.83 inch diameter, this realistic strap on dildo is approachable but still quite the stretch. After sliding in the bulging, spongey head riding this dildo is smooth sailing.  That is if smooth sailing means a slightly curved and veiny shaft with ridged foreskin. The girthy dildo boasts textured balls that add to the fantasy while helping to keep Johnny safely attached to the harness of your choice.

Pros

  • Realistic look and dual-density texture
  • Multiple skin tones
  • Suitable for anal use
  • Curved to hit the spot

Cons

  • Not budget friendly
  • No suction cup
Features Johnny VixSkin
Length7.5 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.83 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsSilicone

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Conclusion

The Johnny Vixskin Dildo is our test winner for a reason – with its lifelike dual-density feel, precisely textured design, and filling size it is an amazing toy for some partnered play or to enjoy solo. This realistic strap on dildo may not be for beginners or for anyone needing a suction cup to enjoy a solo ride. However, with its anal-safe and easy-to-clean material, the Johnny Vixskin is perfect for pegging and for whenever you need a toy that feels like the real deal. At the higher end of our price scale compared to other realistic dildos, the Johnny is a worthy investment.

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Au Naturel Sensa Feel Dildo

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Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the Au Naturel if you...

  • Enjoy a realistic feel
  • Love a suction cup
  • Are looking for a less length and some give
  • Want a customized curve

You should NOT buy the Au Naturel if you...

  • Need a non-porous material
  • Want something larger
  • Don't enjoy a squishy toy

Product description

Average-sized, velvet soft, and slightly squishy, the Au Naturel Sensa Feel is our winner for the cheapest realistic strap on dildo. The firm and moldable shaft can be posed to perfectly hit your body’s sweet spot and the anal-safe material opens up limitless opportunities. Whether you want to peg your partner or go on a hands free ride, the cost and quality makes the Au Naturel a great start. Plus, slight veins and a bendy crown make for a real-feeling experience whether strapped on or perfectly posed!

Pros

  • Low cost
  • Posable shaft for customization
  • Suction base for hands-free
  • Looking for something beginner-friendly

Cons

  • Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
  • Smaller size
Features Au Naturel
Length7 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
Width1.75 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsTPE

Conclusion

If you want a flexible and beginner-friendly dildo then the Au Naturel Sensa Feel Dildo is for you. This budget-friendly toy is made from a body-safe, soft plastic and boasts dual-density firmness for a stiff shaft and realistic give on the outside. At 5 inches of insertable length and at the low end of our price range, the Au Naturel is a fantastic start to the world of realistic strap on and suction cup dildos. Some may find the Au Naturel too squishy or small for their taste or may prefer a non-porous material.

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Colours Pleasures 4 inch Dildo

Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the Colours Pleasures if you...

  • Want less length
  • Are a beginner
  • Love bold colors
  • Are looking for a realistic feel

You should NOT buy the Colours Pleasures if you...

  • Want something average-to-large sized
  • Don't enjoy a firm, bendy texture

Product description

Bold and adorable, this small and thick-veined dildo is perfect for beginners. The Colours Pleasures 4 inch is an incredible choice to ease yourself into the world of real feeling dildos without taking the plunge on an uncomfortable size. Compatible with a harness, waterproof, equipped with a suction base, and anal-safe, this bright little toy can go just about anywhere. It’s especially suited for beginners who don’t love the hyper-realistic look of skin tone toys but love a real feel and thick, ridged veins. Single density silicone means that this dainty dildo is firm yet flexible and incredibly easy to care for.

Pros

  • Our top pick for beginners
  • Flexible and firm
  • Thick veins for a realistic sensation
  • Average sized girth

Cons

  • May be too small for some
Features Colours Pleasures
Length5.8 inches
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofWaterproof
FlexibilityExtremely Flexible

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Conclusion

The Colours Pleasure 4-inch Dildo is versatile and easy to handle. With a myriad of fun colors to choose from while still achieving a realistic feel, it’s no wonder that it has been voted best for beginners. This dildo is a fantastic choice for a first toy no matter how you plan to use it. Its size is perfect for easing into any kind of penetration, whether suctioned or strapped on, while not sacrificing a pleasurable ridged sensation.

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King Cock Ultra Realistic Girthy Dildo

Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the King Cock if you...

  • Are looking for something long and girthy
  • love a hyper-realistic look
  • Need something safe for anal use

You should NOT buy the King Cock if you...

  • Are a beginner
  • Want a dildo with balls
  • Prefer silicone

Product description

Looking to level up? Almost as thick as a soda can, the hyper-realistic King Cock is not for the faint of heart. This giant, veined shaft measures up at 8.5 insertable inches and is designed to deliver the fullest sensations. Take King Cock with you in the shower, for a solo ride or for some intense partnered play. At over 2 inches wide it comes in at the top of our list for the best thick and realistic strap on dildo. Its extra-girthy and textured yet flexible feel makes for comfortable penetration both vaginally and anally. Once you work up to its size, of course.

Pros

  • Extra-Girthy
  • Incredibly realistic
  • Suction cup

Cons

  • No balls
  • Not guaranteed fragrance-free
  • Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
Features King Cock
Length9 inches
Insertable length8.5 inches
Diameter2.2 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsPVC

Conclusion

This incredibly thick and super-realistic toy is definitely not for beginners, but perfect for anyone who wants that extra girth. Level up your strap on game, anal play, or suctioned self-pleasure with the King Cock Ultra Realistic Girthy Dildo. The PVC material is firm and flexible. Though some may prefer non-porous silicone or dual-density for their real-feeling fantasies.

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King Cock Strap-On Harness Kit

Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the King Cock Harness Kit if you...

  • Want a strap on with all the bells and whistles
  • Are a beginner
  • Love a lifelike feel

You should NOT buy the King Cock Harness Kit if you...

  • Are looking for something larger
  • Prefer silicone

Product description

Jump into your ultimate pegging fantasy with the King Cock Strap On Harness Kit. This all-inclusive package comes with a vinyl harness, three separate O rings, lube, toy cleaner, and of course the 6 inch, incredibly lifelike cock. Most compatible to strap onto someone with a vulva, the harness is comfortable and adjustable with a faux leather look and thong to cater to your kinkiest desires. The King Cock itself is no slouch either, at 6 inches of insertable length and 1.6 inches of girth this dildo is meant to imitate the real thing and provide a satisfying but not strenuous fill.

Pros

  • Incredibly realistic look
  • Everything you need in one kit
  • Changeable O ring means you can use other dildos

Cons

  • Advertised as 6.5 inch, but is 6 inches insertable
  • Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
Features King Cock Harness Kit
Insertable length6 inches
Diameter1.6 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsPVC
MaterialsVinyl
Harness Size23-52 inches

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Conclusion

The King Cock Harness Kit is fantastic for anyone who wants to start playing with pegging. It comes with absolutely everything you need to start and while the dildo itself might be a tough fit for absolute anal beginners, it is still easily in the beginner range of dildos overall. Best yet, if you’ve outgrown the King Cock itself the adjustable harness is still able to switch out the O rings to fit whatever strap on dildo you would like to level up to. Some reviews do mention a persistent rubber smell as well as some harnesses with easily torn stitching. It is always a good idea to try on the harness on top of underwear or other clothes first to get an idea of its fit and quality.

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Vixen Mustang Vixskin Dildo

Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the Mustang Vixskin if you...

  • Want a supremely realistic feel
  • Love a curve
  • Are looking for a thinner dildo
  • Anyone who wants a real look or a bold color

You should NOT buy the Mustang Vixskin if you...

  • Enjoy a girthier dildo
  • Need an extremely strong suction cup

Product description

The Vixen Mustang Vixskin Dildo is here to bring your real-feel fantasies to life. Streamlined for insertion at 1.5 inches of diameter with a soft, dual-density outside and convincingly textured shaft this dildo is a dream for anyone who wants an accurate feel and size. The Vixen Mustang even comes in a variety of skin tones or some bright and tie-diecolors for any preferred look. Especially suitable for anal play, the squishy Vixen Mustang is curved for a fantastic g-spot or p-spot orgasm either by yourself using its suction cup or as a realistic strap on with a partner. Made with Vixen’s featured Vixskin dual-density silicone, this dildo is as convincing as they get and even able to be heated to room temperature using water.

Pros

  • Extremely Realistic feel
  • Thinner with an average length
  • Suction cup and harness compatible
  • Textured with thick veins

Cons

  • Not for those who need more girth
  • Lacking balls
  • Some reviews state weak suction
Features Mustang Vixskin
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter1.6 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofSubmersible

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Conclusion

Squishy with a firm shaft and a variety of either skin tone or boldly fun colors, the Vixen Mustang Vixskin Dildo is a fantastic choice. The textured shaft, as well as the length and diameter, lends to that realistic sensation while the body-safe, non-porous material and suction cup mean that this toy can be used anywhere, anyhow you’d like. This toy is a tad pricey and some reviews state that the suction cup is not very strong, but overall is a fantastic choice for any type of use.

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King Cock Uncut Dildo

Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the King Cock Uncut if you...

  • Want a uncircumcised dildo
  • Love an ultra realistic look
  • Are looking for an incredibly real feel

You should NOT buy the King Cock Uncut if you...

  • Don't feel confident with a few extra cleaning steps
  • Prefer balls

Product description

Always fantasized about an uncut cock but never able to find one in the wild? King Cock has you covered. Tease back the foreskin to reveal an ultra-realistic head on this incredibly unique uncut dildo. The sliding foreskin requires a little extra lubrication and cleaning, but if you want an experience like never before then there’s nothing better than this suction-cup equipped, uncircumcised, realistic strap on dildo. Complete with thick veins and an average but satisfying size, the King Cock uncut is an unforgettable experience.  

Pros

  • Unique uncircumcised sliding foreskin
  • Incredibly real looking
  • Powerful suction cup
  • Thick veins for a real feel

Cons

  • Takes extra cleaning steps
  • Requires extra lubrication for sliding foreskin
  • Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
Features King Cock Uncut
Insertable length6 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
MaterialsPVC
WaterproofSubmersible

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Conclusion

Though it takes a few steps, being able to tease back the King Cock’s foreskin and feeling a slight slide during insertion is an amazingly unique experience. Added veins complete the fantasy, though some may prefer a toy with added testicles. While the size and width are beginner-friendly, the extra cleaning and lubrication steps put this toy at the intermediate level.

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King Cock Dildo With Swinging Balls

Recommended for

Beginner
Intermediate
Advanced

You should buy the King Cock Swinging Balls if you...

  • Adore thick balls
  • Love a real life feel and look
  • Need a powerful suction cup

You should NOT buy the King Cock Swinging Balls if you...

  • Don't want a hyper-realistic look
  • Find testicles on a dildo unsatisfying
  • Prefer silicone

Product description

The King Cock Swinging Balls Dildo is for anyone who doesn’t just want the token balls at the end of a dildo. The ones that are only there for gripping or to hold your dildo into a harness. Oh no. This 1.7-inch diameter shaft ends with two large, heavy, flexible balls that are designed to slap against whomever it is being used on. Complete with veins and a triple-density material, the attached testicles are designed to drive home the realistic strap on fantasy. Or, of course, go for a solo ride with its intense suction cup.  

Pros

  • Extremely realistic
  • Flexible, swinging balls
  • Triple-density material
  • Lifelike head and veins

Cons

  • Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
  • Balls may be too firm for some
Features King Cock Swinging Balls
Insertable length6 inches
Diameter1.7 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsPVC

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Conclusion

The King Cock Swinging Balls Dildo is designed for those who feel that most hyper-real dildos are missing one very important aspect. Realistic balls. Hanging low, reviews state that even when firmly strapped to a harness the testicles are still able to do the trick. The triple-density and vein-covered shaft promise a convincing ride or pegging session for intermediate levels that have experimented with girthier dildos.

Johnny VixSkin Dildo

Choose Your Harness

For sublime strap on sensations, you’ll need a harness. These three from LoveHoney are fantastic, sturdy choices that take your comfort level into account. Important to consider when choosing is whether you would like to be fully clothed, scantily clad, or completely naked during use. Don’t forget to account for the measurements of your dildo when choosing a harness.

Love Honey Full-Back Harness

Love Honey Full-Back Harness - Choose Your Harness
This classic black-and-metal harness is versatile for both you and your chosen toy. With straps that can adjust anywhere from 23 to 68 inches and 3 separate O rings as well as a full back for added support, this harness can see you through just about anything.

Spareparts Unisex Joque Strap Harness

Spareparts Unisex Joque Strap Harness - Choose Your Harness
This comfortable, unisex harness is designed to lay smoothly against the skin. Its built-in O ring can stretch to contain 1.25 to 2-inch dildos and the waist strap can adjust from 20 inches to 50 inches. Made for comfort, this harness is on the pricey end of the scale but is comfortable, flexible, easy to wear, and worth every extra penny.

Love Honey Unisex Harness Briefs

Love Honey Unisex Harness Briefs - Choose Your Harness
These briefs are made for comfort and convenience, with no obvious harness lines these unisex briefs can be worn all day for endless fun. Whether you are looking for spur-of-the-moment fun, packing, or an easy setup this harness is comfy and on the low end of our price range. The built-in O ring is only compatible with dildos that have a 1.5-inch diameter.

What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo

Searching for a realistic strap on dildo is not quite as straightforward as it may seem. Look below for a checklist of which aspects you’re really looking for.

Balls or No Balls

Balls or No Balls - What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
While some need attached balls to complete the fantasy, others may only care about the shaft. If balls are a must, do they just need to be there to complete the look or do they need to move like the real thing?

The Look to Match the Feel

The Look to Match the Feel - What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
While inside you may want a convincing texture and thick veins, but do you want your toy to look real as well? Most realistic strap on dildos come in a couple different skin tones, but not everyone is a fan of a too-convincing toy. Bold colors can help to separate the look from the feel.

Sizing

Whether a beginner or an expert, sizing can be tricky. One toy may be absolutely perfect for a solo suction-cup ride but when strapped onto another person it could be too much or not enough. Even if you find yourself with a toy a little girthier than expected, go slow, use lube, and don’t be afraid to shelve the toy to use after a little bit of practice.

Materials

Materials  - What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
Silicone? PVC? TPE? Dual Density? Triple Density? These can all be extremely confusing to sort through. Non-porous and non-toxic materials are what we recommend as the best and safest material. Porous toys are less easy to sterilize and can very quickly harbor bacteria, germs, or even grow mold. It’s important to replace your porous toys at the first signs of damage. For feel, it can be difficult to truly know what you prefer unless you have tried it. Find what is in your price range and which type of material you feel most comfortable caring for, then give it a whirl!

Positions for a Realistic Strap On

Okay, you’ve found your perfect realistic strap on and the best harness. Now what? Here are a few positions to really play around with your new toy. Whether to make it feel the most real, try some role play, or dip your toe into some power play.

Spiced-Up Missionary

Spiced-Up Missionary  - Positions for a Realistic Strap On
Don’t discount missionary. Despite its vanilla stereotype, it’s incredibly helpful when using a strap on to be able to see your partner’s face and gauge their reaction. Place a pillow under the hips to tilt the pelvis up for a deeper thrust. For receivers with a clitoris, try the CAT method. The strapped on partner puts their chest on level with their partner’s shoulders and penetrates no more than halfway. Then, grind vertically for clitoral stimulation and penetration.

Blowjob

Blowjob - Positions for a Realistic Strap On
Sure, it may seem a little silly at first. But, it is an extremely potent power play to have one partner on their knees and the other with a hand on their head or in their hair. Especially with a hyper-realistic dildo. For the partner with the strap on, while physical sensation won’t occur, the tension will be electric.

Doggy Style

Doggy Style - Positions for a Realistic Strap On
A classic, and usually the first recommended for anal pegging and power play. For that extra umph, have the strapped on partner place one leg up for increased thrusting ability. Or, change the location to standing with the receiver bent over, hands against the wall.

Seated Ride

Seated Ride - Positions for a Realistic Strap On
With the strapped on partner sitting , have the receiver straddle and sink down. This is fantastic for both vaginal and anal play, and allows the receiver to control the pace. Make sure the the receiver is able to have either their feet or knees on a surface for riding leverage. To spice this up, sit on a bed with both partners leaning back, allowing the realistic strap on to be seen sinking in.

How to Use a Realistic Strap On Dildo

It may seem obvious how to use a strap on at first. But, once all rigged up and ready to go, there can be some confusion on how much you should treat strap on sex like play with a real penis. There are several differences to keep in mind.

The Harness

The Harness

The first time using the strap on with a partner isn’t the first time you should try out the harness. Give it a whirl the second it arrives! Figure out how to clip it on, adjust it to your size, make sure the dildo fits securely, and check how you would like to wear it; with clothes, without clothes, or maybe over some lingerie. Even fit the dildo in and try some thrusting, see how it all moves. That way, when it’s time to play, you’ll be prepared and comfortable.

Forplay

Forplay

Just having the strap on with the lifelike dildo can create power and tension in the room, but don’t skip out on the warmup. Oral, fingering, stretching, whatever you and your partner likes. But, make sure to include it.

Lubrication

Lubrication

Use a little more. Even with vaginal penetration or if using a condom on a toy, start with lube. Even the most high-quality, hyper realistic strap on dildo in existence can benefit from lube.

Anal

Anal

While both previous how-to’s also cover anal, there are often a few extra steps to take. Firstly, an average sized dildo should not be the very first toy for anal beginners. Preemptive stretching is required. Plus, more research than normal on lube is needed. The most commonly recommended lube for dildos is water-based, but when researching anal sex, silicone lubricants will often appear which can damage silicone toys. Make sure to choose a lube that is safe for your toy as well as optimal for anal play.

Penetration

Penetration

Going very slowly or letting the receiver control the pace of penetration can make or break whether the use of a strap on will be enjoyable. Once the receiver is comfortable, experiment with shallow thrusts that slowly increase in depth and force.

Grinding, Thrusting, and Riding. Oh My!

Grinding, Thrusting, and Riding. Oh My!

Now, have fun! Often vaginal penetration is not enough for people with a clitoris, so experiment with grinding or sawing back and forth. Try modifying poses (legs up, on your side, from behind, etc)  to see if anything hits that g-spot. The same goes with anal penetration, especially if there is a P-spot to hit!

How to Clean a Realistic Strap On Dildo

In this roundup, the three different materials included are silicone, PVC (polyvinyl chloride), and TPE (thermoplastic elastomer). All are able to be cleaned with soap and water, or with whatever toy cleaner is recommended on each specific product website. However, there are more thorough ways to sterilize all of these toys that should be done regularly. Silicone is not porous and can be boiled in water for 3-5 minutes, or some toys can even be placed in the dishwasher. PVC and TPE are both porous, which means they pick up more bacteria than silicone. They are best cleaned with gentle soap and water, but as they are porous it can be hard to really get into all nooks and crannies. It is recommended to use a condom with these toys, and still wash after every use.

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FAQ

Realistic dildos nail that soft, slightly squishy outside with a firm, penetrative shaft and are veined for pleasurable texture. Especially if you are new to using dildos, this attention to detail can go a long way in ensuring comfort.

For beginners, girth is the best thing to pay attention to. The entire toy does not need to be inserted lengthwise, but choosing something too girthy is hard to workaround. Choosing something less than 1.5 inches in diameter to start is usually best. For intermediates, you'll know when you start feeling a little bored of your current toy! Try sizing up girth .25 inches at a time.

The first thing to look for is that the dildo has a suction cup or balls at the end, ensuring a wide base. As far as material, using a non-porous dildo is recommended as there is less ability for bacteria to stick around even If a condom is being used.

What is a Realistic Strap On Dildo

A realistic strap on dildo is a toy that is harness-compatible and mimics a real penis. A dildo needs a flared base, like a suction cup, to be harness compatible. The details that make a realistic sex toy are mostly about how the toy feels. Whether it has a soft, squishy head and shaft that feels firm inside when squeezed. If it is firm and insertable with textured details such as veins or foreskin. Some realistic strap on dildos also closely imitate the look of a real cock, with various skin-tone colors and blue coloration on the raised veins.

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