17 Best Remote Control Vibrators and Sex Toys [Tester Reviews]

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What Did Our Tester Think?

Kasia tested the Lovense Lush 3 and basically had a blast! She noted that the vibrations were super rumbly and powerful while still being surprisingly quiet.  She thought the egg was very comfortable to wear, and was great for foreplay, teasing, and even power play with the app controls! Initially, she was excited for some hands-free orgasms with the Lush 3. Although, after discovering that the vibrations didn’t travel very well through the “tail” for some extra clitoral stimulation while the egg was inserted, she had to give up on that dream. But there was ultimately a solution:

“I also finally found a way to enjoy the tail that I thought was cursed! I found it a great addition to delicate fingerplay on my clit, and then the gentle vibrations turned out to be not so useless. And in combination with powerful G-spot stimulation and a long and exciting foreplay beforehand, the orgasms were incredible!”

Sex Expert Verdict

I picked out the Lovense Lush 3 because of it really is a crowd pleaser. It’s surprisingly versatile, since the rumbly vibrations from the egg can be used to caress any part of the body, really! I also appreciate when powerful vibrators are quiet enough to be used even when living with roommates or family members. In this case in particular, it’s ideal for public play. Lovense toys are famous for their good bluetooth connectivity and the long-distance range. Although, keep in mind that bulky clothes or thicker thighs can somethimes interfere with the bluetooth connection when you’re out and about.

The one thing that I feel lets this toy down slightly is the weak clitoral vibration in the tail. If you are someone who relies on very strong clitoral vibrations to orgasm, this toy might not get you all the way but rather aid in some manual stimulation. Instead I would recommend checking out the Lovense Flexer or We-Vibe Moxie+ later in the review as they offer more clitoral stimulation.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Our tester, Isabelle, was super impressed by how powerful and rumbly the vibrations were with this couple’s remote control vibrator. It was a fantastic addition to penetrative PIV sex and was a great help in achieving some awesome hands-free, simulataneous orgasms.

“… the We-Vibe Chorus allowed me to have some of the best PIV sex yet, with some of the most intense blended orgasms I have ever experienced. So on that level, it scores 110%. If you need clitoral stimulation during PIV sex, this thing is magical! As well as being hands-free, staying in place, and having powerful vibrations, the Chorus has an internal stimulator that can be enjoyed by both partners.”

Sex Expert Opinion

For anyone who struggles to orgasm during partnered sex and needs a lot of clitoral stimulation to get there, this remote controlled vibrator is fantastic! It offers deep and rumbly vibrations for both internal and external stimulation, stays in place during use, and can even be enjoyed by your partner as well. I love that it’s also more versatile than you would think. It can definitely be used for solo play by itself or with a dildo. It can also work well as a panty vibrator and for public play. The option of a physical remote may also be a plus for some that can’t be bothered with connecting the device to an app! The squeeze control is also a fun feature but comes with a bit of a learning curve.

I would love to give the We-Vibe Chorus a perfect 5/5, as this really is a revolutionary couples vibrator. However the app connectivity lets it down. It’s not the most reliable and for this price, I would expect full access to all the features it promises.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

“By testing the Top Secret while sitting at my desk, I loved the super strong vibrations, so much so that I couldn’t focus on my work! But, I still felt that something was missing. […] I noticed that the toy didn’t fit on my clitoris, like it’s intended to. That means the Top Secret is to small for me to fit exactly the vibrations. This made it difficult for me to climax at all.”

Ellie Stevens tested the Satisfyer Top Secret for us, and generally had some mixed feedback. She felt like her anatomy didn’t fit well with the design of the toy and therefore couldn’t enjoy the full potential. Lacking sufficient clitoral stimulation, she had a hard time achieving completely hands-free orgasms. She did still enjoy the strong and rumbly vibrations in the shaft. She noted that it would still be nice to use as a spicy little distraction from boring desk work!

Sex Expert Opinion

I love that the Satisfyer Top Secret combines both clitoral and internal stimulation and delivers nice and rumbly vibrations. I chose it as the best for beginners option as the shaft is a slim 1.2 inches, making it the slimmest insertable toy in the review. Plus, it’s relatively easy to use! I do recommend examining the dimensions beforehand to make sure that your anatomy will fit with the design of the toy. If this is not taken into account, you may find that the flat base will feel uncomfortable as you move around and won’t stimulate the clitoris properly. With this beginner remote controlled vibrator, a lot of the cooler features are only accessible via the app. Now, the app controls seem to be a bit of a mixed bag with some people, Ellie included, having problems connecting or maintaining connection. While the the Top Secret doesn’t have the best connectivity, it is half the price Lovense Lush 3. Both a more budget-friendly and beginner-friendly option!

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What Did Our Tester Think?

Our tester, Sika, loved using the Satisfyer Little secret! She felt that it was definitely worth every penny in terms of quality, durability, and battery life. The magnet was very strong and kept the vibrator in place while moving around. She was pretty impressed with all the features available with the app controls, and how silent this toy actually was! Even though the vibrations weren’t quite powerful enough to bring her to orgasm alone, she appreciated how well it worked for edging and teasing.

“I have had several app-controlled toys over the years with a wide range of different issues, extended use making them too hot, losing connection, short battery life, but in the 2 weeks I’ve been playing around with this thing I haven’t had any of those issues, and boy did I give this thing a test run! I had it running nonstop for an hour and a half!!”

Sex Expert Opinion

The Satisfyer Little Secret is a fraction of the price of the high-end remote control vibrators in this post but still makes for a very fun little toy! I like that is has the option of using the physical remote or the app control. This is especially handy as the app doesn’t have the best connectivity. If you are looking for a more reliable app-controlled panty vibrator, I would recommend the Lovense Ferri, although this is considerably more expensive. The vibrations are on the weaker side which makes it a good option for those who are very sensitive or want a toy for teasing or edging, but not a great match for those that crave more power. I also think it makes for a good beginner-level toy since it doesn’t have any insertable features but only focuses on external pleasure. For this price though, I’m very impressed by the long battery life and the super quiet vibrations!

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Our tester, Daphne, was pleasantly surprised by just how much fun this little vibrator can be! She found it was better suited to foreplay and she needed a bit more power to orgasm but loved that she could enjoy hands-free stimulation. She did have quite a bit of trouble connecting to the app but got it to work after resetting the toy and their phone.

“The strength and different patterns the We Vibe Moxie+ came with were pleasantly surprising, getting me very ready for something heavier. It never passed foreplay stages, as I need something stronger to send me over the edge. That being said, I like this toy way more than I thought I would. It’s fun to slide into my panties and let it touch me without having to do any work.”

Sex Expert Opinion

I think, as far as panty vibrators go, the We-Vibe Moxie+ is a fantastic option. I like that the design features a pronounced ridge that creates direct contact with the culca when secured to snug underwear. I also think it works really well as a toy for some long drawn out teasing at home or out and about in public! However, the connectivity does seem to be a problem for a lot of users in general. While the We-Vibe app seems to work a lot better these days, I still think the app compatibility can be a bit hit or miss. On the bright side, the physical remote control still allows you to use it for public play, power play, or general hands-free fun while wearing it. While the Moxie+ is more expensive than other remote control panty vibrators on the market, this little device definitely offers a certain sense of quality and some pretty impressive, rumbly vibrations.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Rachel tested the Lovense Nora for us and reported back with slight disappointment with her personal experience but nothing but praise in terms of the quality and design. She liked that it was even possible to sync it up with Lovense products! She also found it had a tendency to rotate more externally than internally unless she had the power turned all the way up (in which case it was pretty loud!).

“I think, in the right hands, the Nora could work some wonders, but it wasn’t everything I want from a vibrator. The vibrations weren’t really rumbly enough, the rotations weren’t really rotate-y enough, and it was just too big! However, we’re all different, and what works for me may not be what works for you. That’s why it’s so great that we have such a huge variety of sex toys out there!”

Sex Expert Opinion

Depsite Rachel’s experience with the Nora, I was definitely intrigued by the Lovense Nora’s rotations as I’m a big lover of unique sensations. Although, I do think it would be better suited for anyone who prefers thicker insertable shaft for a super fulfilling sensation. I like that the clitoral stem is super flexible! I do wish the shaft also offered some vibrations in addition to the rotations, since this could easily add some more pleasure to the mix. As a remote controlled rabbit vibrator, I’d say the app connectivity is pretty good, and, once again, opens doors to a whole other level of stimulation with the customizable features. It is beyond cool that it can be synched up to certain other Lovense toys! While that feature isn’t desirable for everyone, I really like the option of engaging in some high-tech mutual masturbation for long-distance lovers.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

“Overall, the We-Vibe Jive as a product alone is amazing!! I like the shape, feel, and charger connection way better with the Jive than my Lush 3 for Lovense. If you are only wanting this toy for solo play then I would fully recommend choosing this one for that. If the app would have been easier to navigate and didn’t have so many connectivity issues, this easily would have outranked my Lush 3.”

As you can see, our tester, Jess, really enjoyed the We-Vibe Jive by itself. Although, the biggest con for her was definitely the poor app connectivity. In her review, she decribes that she and her husband experimented with the long-distance play but had a lot of trouble staying connected to the device.

Sex Expert Opinion

In terms of quality and performance, I think the overall build of the We-Vibe Jive is much better than many other vibrating eggs on the market. I like that the slimmer shape makes it a bit more accessible to beginners and more comfortable to wear for extended periods. The tail is also very flexible, which makes it easier to position against the clitoris for a bit of added stimulation.

While I appreciate the luxurious look and feel of the We-Vibe Jive, I had to mark it down due to the unreliable app connectivity. Considering the price of this high quality toy, I think one should be able to rely on app compatibility. On the bright side, I do think that We-Vibe has made some improvements to fix this issue since this review was made. Again, for a more relibale connection, the Lovense Lush 3 is a great alternative.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Our tester, Mariah, was beyond impressed with this remote control g-spot vibrator. She even unlocked the secret to squirting using this little device!

“I can say this with complete confidence, if you are interested in squirting, or aren’t sure if you can or even if you can but only if you physically try, purchase the Rave 2, and your waterfall will come… and likely involuntarily. The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer. […] Buy it, use it. Come back and thank me later, after you’ve mopped up.”

Sex Expert Opinion

I love the new improvements that We-Vibe made to this toy! The dual motor vibrations just add more rumbles to more sensitive areas (this time including the vaginal opening), and the adjustable shaft offers a lot more customization to hit those sweet spots. Cassie tested original We-Vibe Rave and wasn’t too impressed with the rigid shaft and slightly spiralled, off-center shape. It’s safe to say that this upgrade is so much better! I also think that We-Vibe have done a great job of improving the app and connectivity, which definitely was a problem with some of their older models.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Kaelie tested the Lovense Hush 2 for us and had only good things to say about it. While she was a bit surprised by the sheer size of the 4 inch model she got, the sensations alone were enough to make the overall experience pretty positive!

“I can’t praise this product enough. The modern features and app compatibility merge everyday pleasure with physical ecstasy. These vibrations enhanced self-pleasure for a truly transcendent experience. With an inclusive design and size for every experience level, anybody can enjoy the Lovense Hush 2.”

Sex Expert Opinion

I think the Hush 2 is easily one of the best remote control butt plugs on the market, especially if you are looking for app and long distance capabilities. It’s a premium quality product and I’m very impressed with the improvements they’ve made after the original version. I love the smooth and slim design as it makes the plug both filling and comfortable to wear for longer periods of time. I’m happy to see that the Hush 2 comes in 4 different sizes so more people can enjoy it at their own level of comfort! It’s surprisingly quiet which makes it great for some spicy public play.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Kasia, who tested the We-Vibe Verge for us, was intially hoping that this cock ring would help provide constant clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex. However, she and her partner soon learned that the shape of the product worked better for perineum stimulation. The tip is very rigid and doesn’t exactly feel comfortable on the clit during thrusting. Thye also found that the cock ring itself was nice and stretchy and definitely helped maintain a strong erection during their session.

“Once, I stopped focusing on the clitoris and instead, I played with all the vibration modes and deeper penetration, it felt really goooood! Overall, I am very happy with this toy. Yes, there are some things I wished worked for me better (the vibrations or the shape of the head), but I had so much fun during foreplay and teasing my partner’s sensitive areas that I would recommend this cock ring for any couple!”

Sex Expert Opinion

I love the tear drop shape of this cock ring as it stimulates a larger surface area, whether that’s a partner’s vulva and clitoris or the wearer’s perineum and scrotum. It’s pretty versatile and you can use it however it makes sense for you. You can also use it as a finger vibrator and explore any part of the body that would enjoy these rumbly vibrations. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone who needs super powerful vibrations to orgasm, but I think it offers the perfect level of stimulation to take partnered play to a whole new level. It’s also surprisingly quiet and discreet to use. It also seems to work relatively well with the app connection and long-distance feature!

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Rachel (and her boyfriend) tested out the Lovense Max 2, and had a pretty good experience overall! They both liked that it was pretty discreet and had a neutral look. This powerhouse of a masturbator also offers a lot of different stimulation modes. These were almost a bit too overwhelming! Although when the need for something a little extra comes up every now and again, these features are great!

“If you’re interested in upgrading your current setup, whether that be your hand or another masturbator like a Fleshlight or pocket pussy, the Lovense Max 2 could be exactly what you’re looking for. It’s fun, versatile, and feels pretty amazing! It can take your experience to new heights, and help you really pamper yourself (and your dick).”

Sex Expert Opinion

I really like that this masturbator has so much to offer. One feature that really impresses me is the expanding inner lining that provides some nice contraction and suction to your play! The automatic features also make it pretty versatile. Whether you let it take the reins for a hands-free experience or choose to guide it as a stroker, every moment feels tailored. That said, a device like this is powerful, and sometimes powerful means loud! Apart from the inconspicuous design, it really isn’t the most subtle thing to use.

But the pièce de résistance? Syncing it with the Lovense Nora or another Max 2 for that immersive two-way interaction. Feeling your partner’s movements and sharing your own in real-time brings intimacy to a whole new level. In essence, the Max 2 isn’t just a toy; it’s an experience, amplified when synced with another device.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Cassie tested this remote control clit sucker and discovered a new fascination with app controlled sex toys. She did have some points of critique about the suction nozzle being on the smaller size and the button placement being a bit awkward. Other than that, she was taken by surprise by the intense sensations.

“Guys, we might have a new go-to toy on our hands here! One huge pro in the Curvy 2+, though, is definitely the vast adult playground that is the Satisfyer Connect App. A sublime source of endless (and toe-curling) entertainment, if you ask me. On multiple occasions, I found myself wanting to explore every inch of that app that hours would fly by.”

Sex Expert Opinion

If you’re a fan of clit suckers, vibrators, and long-distance sex toys then I think this the remote-control vibrator for you! One thing I really appreciate about this sex toy is that you can control the suction and the vibrations separately for complete control over the sensations. I would advise others to consider the size of the suction nozzle beforehand. Anyone with a larger clitoris (or anyone who prefers are larger area of stimulation) may want to opt for a toy with a larger opening to fully envelope the clit. I’m also pleasantly surprised by just how well the app works as the Curvy 2+ is significantly cheaper than many of the other app controlled vibrators in this post.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

I was also very impressed with how easy it was to connect to the app and how well it maintained connection.
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Sex Expert Opinion

In my humble opinion, this is one of the best bullet vibes on the market today. It’s perfect for many different levels of sex toy experience, delivers intense rumbly vibrations despite its practical size. For manual control, there’s only one button to use, which is quite limited since you have to scroll through all the settings to find the one you want. Of course, this is where the app control comes in to offer so much more customization. However, I will say, compared to the wearable vibrators in the post, a lipstick vibrator might not be the most intuitive to use long-distance and it doesn’t work for public play. All things considered though, I think the Lovense Exomoon is one of the best bullet vibrators on the market, along with the We-Vibe Tango X.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Cassie also tested the Lovense Dolce and was really excited about the adjustable shaft! This toy helped her achieve blended orgasms after many non-adjustable rabbit vibrator had been let-downs. She found that the size of the internal bulb and the firm clitoral arm worked beautifully for her stimulation needs. Trying out the remote control function with the app was also a blast!

“I have been succesfully convinced that I am not beyond reach of the iconic blended orgasms from dual vibration toys. Even though I felt the need to use my hands to slightly rock the device back and forth when reaching climax, I still feel like design of the bulbs and the sheer force in the vibrations was enough to get me there.”

Sex Expert Opinion

I’m a big fan of dual stimulators that are adjustable because it can be so hit or miss as to whether it actually sits in the right spot or not. So I was pretty impressed by the Dolce and its fully adjustable body! I think the large bulbed shape is perfect for providing more intense g-spot stimulation, but it may be a tad too girthy for complete beginners. I also love that it’s both powerful and rumbly — compared to the remote control vibrators in the post, it scored the highest on the rumbly score! Compared to the Lush 3 or the We-Vibe Jive, the Dolce actually has a pretty sturdy “tail” for clitoral stimulation. This one will definitely provide you powerful vibes in that area if that’s your thing!

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

Our tester, Vern, had a very overwhelming experience with the Domi 2. They found that the vibrations were super strong… but almost too strong! After mastering the learning curve that comes with getting acquainted with this chunky wand vibrator, they decided that it wasn’t really their cup of tea in terms of sensation. Although, the app controls were fun to use and made controlling the toy a lot easier. It also wasn’t the most discreet toy!

“The first time I turned the Domi 2 on, it literally jumped out of my hand, the vibration was so strong! It made me giddy to try something with such an intense power — finally I was ready to see the hype of a wand vibrator. Once I caught the toy (it had been rolling across my bedsheets like a Beyblade), I noticed that it also lit up. […] There is no hiding this toy, it could be seen and heard from outside of my bedroom!”

Sex Expert Opinion

I really like the design of the simple Lovense Domi 2. The smaller size and flexible head make it nice and easy to use in a range of positions. Although, the vibrations can travel into the hand a little so that’s something to keep in mind if you are sensitive to that. It’s a pretty powerful wand vibrator, so I would recommend it to those who crave stronger stimulation and don’t get overstimulated easily. All that power can get pretty loud though! This probably isn’t the best choice if you need something quiet and discreet. However, if you don’t mind a little noise, this is definitely one of the best remote control wand vibrators out there! Both the vibrations and the app features and connectivity are great.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

“The Lelo Tiani 3 was a mixed bag for me, but the more I used it, the more I liked it! Of course, the main reason I wanted it was to use during sex, but the shape of the vibrator was just not compatible with mine and my partner’s bodies. However, I think it works pretty amazingly as a clit vibrator when you use it by yourself! For those who like the idea of not having to grip a bullet, wand or any other kind of handheld vibrator, the Tiani 3 could be a great experience.”

Even though Rachel had a mixed experience with the Tiani 3, she really did enjoy the unique SenseMotion feature on the remote. Once she figured out how to use it, she added that using this to operate the controls completely “hands-free” was an amazing addition when grinding against something!

Sex Expert Opinion

I included this product in the review because of the unique SenseMotion remote control. You can operate the controls by simply moving the remote itself. Yes, it’s that cool! Once activated, you can increase or decrease the vibration strength based on the angle you’re holding the remote at, or how fast you move it around. I think this is a great alternative to anyone who wants fun and customizable remote control features but doesn’t want an app controlled toy.

I think it makes a great remote control vibrator for both solo and couples play. Although, the thickness of the stimulation arms means that this couples vibrator will work better for some more than others during penetrative sex. If you know you are particularly tight, I would instead recommend the We-Vibe Chorus, as the internal arm is flatter.

Verdict

What Did Our Tester Think?

When Isabelle tested the Flexer, she was surprised at how rigid the toy actually was. She was expecting a bit more flexibility or give in the smooth silicone. However, once it was on, this rigidity helped create a more intense feeling. She was also curious to see how that unique “come hither”-motion would while wearing it.

“The come hither fingering motion alone is ok but not particularly stimulating. However, combined with the vibrations, things started to get more exciting. While I’ve definitely had some enjoyable orgasms using the Flexer, my favorite way to use it for a slow, teasing build up and edging.”

Sex Expert Opinion

I feel like the Lovense Flexer overcomes some real design flaws in other wearable vibrators. Compared to the panty vibrators in this review, the Lovense Flexer maintains better clitoral contact as the internal arm anchors it in place, even when moving around. Also, compared to egg vibrators, it has the added benefit of providing clitoral stimulation! In terms of price, it’s at the higher end compared to some products in the review, but I think the dual stimulation, unique flexing sensation and reliable app justify the price. I wouldn’t reommend it is a beginner vibrator, since the bulb is quite large and the movements are more intense regular vibrations would be.

The only area it really let me down on is the noise! The vibrations are too loud for it to be used for discreet public play. But the app connection works beautifully!