The 9 Best Strap Ons for Men, From Sleeves to Harnesses
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Types of Strap Ons for Men to Wear
- Hollow Strap-Ons – This type of strap-on is the perfect starter strap-on. Held in place by a harness that goes around the waist, the “strap-on” itself is simply a hollow dildo that the user’s penis goes inside of. Although not universally true, many can be used with or without an erection. These toys can be either unrealistic or real feel strap-on toys, and increase both the length & girth of your penis.
- Penis Sleeves – Penis sleeves are similar to hollow strap-ons, but they don’t use a harness. Instead, the user relies on a tight but comfortable fit (as well as their erection) to hold the sleeve in place. Depending on the design, a penis sleeve could increase the length of your penis, the girth of your penis, or both! These toys often feature a textured exterior for added stimulation.
- Double Penetration Harnesses – A DP harness is designed to be worn by a person with a penis who wants to put his penis in his partner’s anus, with the dildo going into their vagina (or vice versa). A built-in cock ring holds his penis in place during use. Depending on the design of your specific DP harness, the harness may be able to be worn by a female user who has fitted two dildos into the harness (the built-in one and an additional one of their choice).
- Double Penetration Cock Rings – Like a traditional cock ring, these toys fit around the penis, trapping blood inside and resulting in longer-lasting, harder erections. However, these toys also incorporate a dildo into the design, which can be used to DP their partner.
- Vibrating – If you’re looking for the perfect “his and hers” strap-on then a vibrating model may be the way to go. Providing superior stimulation to both parties during use, you simply can’t go wrong with the large number of speeds and patterns that most vibrating strap ons provide.
FAQ
What is a strap on for men?
A strap on for men typically comes in the form of a penis extender. A hollow dildo-style toy for inserting the penis inside. Although, other types are available such as double penetration strap ons. These toys are used to enhance the penis and the experience of penetrative sex beyond what is typically anatomically possible. These strap ons are made in many different sizes, allowing men with varying penis sizes many different options to choose from. Another bonus? They can also double as cock rings (and some models even have a cock ring built-in!), helping the user get harder and maintain an erection for longer while delaying orgasm.
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The 9 Best Strap ons for men in Test
Doc Johnson Hollow Strap-On Kit
Our favorite strap on for men set, the Doc Johnson hollow kit has something for everybody. Perfect for extending your length and width. The smallest hollow dildo measures 7 inches insertable and 1.9 inches in diameter, while the meatiest comes in at a huge 8″ insertable and 2.2″ diameter.
Each strap on penis comes in a different shape, from an exaggeratedly bulbous head to slim and tapered, giving you a range of different sensations for every occasion. The included harness can be used by him or her for pegging or vaginal sex.
All three silicone penises are very firm, making them perfect for prostate and g-spot stimulation
Pros
Cons
This kit represents the perfect strap on for men looking to seriously beef up their member. Not one, but three hollow dildos offer a broad range of dimensions and sizes, allowing you and your partner to choose the penis to suit the mood.
The elasticized harness is suitable for waist sizes 28-48 inches and is easier than most to securely attach – no mood-killing straps and buckles to fiddle with here. These are particularly firm dildos that replicate a strong erection, bare that in mind if you typically prefer more forgiven sex toys.
Also be wary, if you’re considering these for your first pegging experience, they are rather large. For more beginner-friendly sizes, check out our favorite starter strap ons.
Adonis Textured Inch Penis Extender
Would anyone pass up the offer to purchase an additional inch of penile length for under $10? Surely not! You can’t afford to ignore the Adonis textured strap on for men. A full 2 inches in length and an extra inch in girth, inundated with external ribs and nodes – turn your boring anatomically correct penis into your partner’s new favorite sex toy.
Soft and stretchy, the adonis slips seamlessly over your penis. The material is thin enough that you’ll still be able to feel what’s going down but provides enough desensitization for you to last longer. Bigger penis + more stamina = win-win!
For a more in-depth look at the Adonis strap on for men – check out our in-depth test & review.
Pros
Cons
The Adonis is a delightfully straightforward hollow strap on for men. No harnesses to mess around with here, just pull the super-stretchy extender over your erect penis and you’re good to go.
The tightness and softness of the material also allow for far more sensation when compared to other firmer appendages. The downside of that is a firm erection is necessary for the Adonis. If that sounds like a dealbreaker, keep reading for our thoughts on the similarly priced Fetish Fantasy Extender.
The absence of a testicle loop also feels like a missed trick for a harness-less strap on for men. It may come loose if you don’t fill a good portion of the inner sleeve.
Lovehoney Double Fun Strap-On
Is double penetration top of your fantasy bucket list? It’s time to make that fantasy a reality with the Double Fun Strap on for men. Just be warned, this is one addicting experience! Tandem vaginal and anal penetration, complete with twin bullet vibes – one stimulating the anus and another teasing the clitoris. How could anyone say no to that?
The gentle constriction of the penis, coupled with the ball ring keeps the toy securely in place even during the most vigorous thrusting, as well as serving to enhance the real penis’s erection and stamina.
Got you more than a little excited? Explore more of the best double penetration strap-ons.
Pros
Cons
With double penetration being one of the biggest fantasies, it’s no wonder these toys are so immensely popular. All the fun, minus the logistical nightmare of who goes where.
The double fun is the perfect beginner strap on for men. Just hook the loops over the penis and testicles and you’re good to go. The clitoral stimulator is deeply textured and perfectly placed, while the vibrator, as well as the one in the anal dildo, are powerful and adjustable. As if you needed any more stimulation!
What stops the Double Fun from being perfect? The ball loop is too rigid and narrow, making it a challenge in itself to hoop around the testicles. Once you do though, you’re both in for a world of naughty trouble!
Lovehoney Perfect Partner Strap-On
A vibrating strap on for men who want to kick it up a notch. A full 8 inches of firm, veiny pleasure. 7 patterns and 3 intensity levels vibrate from base to tip and can be controlled via a wired controller, which slots into the holster-style harness when not in use. The harness is also generously elasticated to comfortably fit a range of waist sizes.
Designed to be unisex, he or she can effortlessly slip into this massive strap-on for advanced pegging play. Available in purple, flesh pink, and black. If you’re looking for a vibrating strap-on for some introductory pegging fun, the Lovehoney Double Up is more beginner-friendly in terms of size.
Pros
Cons
If you’re looking for an oversized, vibrating strap on for guys, this really is the Perfect Partner. Overload on pleasure with a huge 8 inches length and girthy 2 inches of diameter. Add a further 10 vibration settings to the mix and how could any regular penis ever compete? Unlike lesser vibrating dildos, vibrations can be felt from the base, up the curved shaft, all the way to the realistically bulbous head.
The sheer size of this monster makes it perfect for the intermediate-expert demographic looking to max out on their desire. It’s just a shame the strap-on is made from a porous PVC material making it harder to clean and maintain. A quality toy cleaner is advisable here.
Spareparts Deuce Strap-On Harness
Style and function meet to form the Spareparts Duece. A dual ring design makes this a true strap-on for men with one ring for your own member and another for your new DP buddy. The stretchy cock ring promotes a firmer and longer-lasting erection as well as aiding stamina. The O-ring accommodates a flared dildo (with a base between 1.5-2 inches) for a life-altering double penetrative experience.
The Spareparts Deuce is built from quality, comfortable materials. Even without the added appendages, the sight of this sleek, buckled harness is enough to get us going. Now if double penetration isn’t on your to-do list, the Spareparts Hardwear is one of the best all-round harnesses we’ve ever seen.
Pros
Cons
There’s no denying it, Spareparts know how to make a quality strap on harness for men. The integrated cock ring is a stroke of rock-hard genius. No need to play second fiddle to a silicone playmate when your own erection is so firm and true. With that said, what’s the only thing better than one penis?…
Too many strap on starter kits only include a low-grade harness, almost as an afterthought. If you or a partner already have a preferred dildo, investing in a top-tier harness, instead of a basic set, is going to massively enhance the whole experience.
Just ensure your chosen toy is compatible, the O-ring will stretch to accommodate flared base dildos between 1.5-2 inches.
Fetish Fantasy Ejaculating Strap-On
An ejaculating strap on for men without the bulbs and syringes. Stay immersed in the fantasy with an in-built liquid reservoir, just give the tip a firm squeeze and revel as a sea of cum spurts forths.
At a sensibly challenging 7.5 inches, complete with realistic testicles, pronounced veins, and tapered head, this is reality at its finest. The minimalist harness comfortably fits waist sizes 30-52 inches and is effortlessly simple to attach thanks to the elasticated straps.
Perfect for those who struggle with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. No partner is going to be disappointed once you pull this meaty, squirty monster from the drawer.
Pros
Cons
This is the ideal strap on for men looking for a truly immersive experience. Everything from the testicles, the veiny shaft, up to the lightly tapered and wrinkled head has been designed with realism in mind. The ejaculation system shuns fantasy-detracting syringes for a fully contained internal chamber. At first glance, nothing about this strap on suggests its bursting with cum. That is until the drenching climax. Even the minimal harness has been designed so as not to detract from the main star.
The inner canal is pretty short (only 4 inches) so this is not suitable for larger penises. It is also made from a lower quality material (PVC) making it harder to clean. For more of our favorite squirting dildos, check out our latest round-up.
Sportsheets Menage A Trois
The Menage-A-Trois is a unique strap on for men. Elegantly refined, though don’t be fooled by the minimalist design, the orgasmic potential is huge. Two stylish metal O-rings; one for you, one for a dildo, perfectly spaced for double penetration. The harness is simple and sleek, in a thong style for maximum visual appeal.
The included dildo is lightly curved and exaggeratedly bulbous at the tip, perfect for g-spot or prostate stimulation. The base is also suction-cupped for some hands-free foreplay.
The metal O-ring is also perfect for strengthening the user’s erection and off-setting climax. One of the sleekest double penetration strap-ons available.
Pros
Cons
The Menage-A-Trois set is a tale of two halves. The better half? The harness. This is truly an evocative design. Thong-like straps detailed with polished metal fasteners and two sturdy cock rings, sexy and sensual, particularly if your partner is a lover of that booty. The O-rings are also perfectly spaced for double penetration – it doesn’t get easier than this. That firm metal ring is going to restrict blood flow from the penis and do wonders for its firmness.
The other half? The included anal dildo. The design is about as basic as it gets. It’s simple, useable, but ultimately does that sleek harness a disservice. Such a harness deserves a premium dildo worthy of both it and your partner. Something like this.
Fetish Fantasy Hollow Extender
Packing a little below average in the trouser department? It’s time to get the penis you and your partner have always dreamed of with a keenly designed strap on for men. With a reasonable insertable 6 inches and satisfyingly girthy 1.75″, this is ideal if you want a realistically sized extender.
This is a hard sleeve with textured veins for a realistic erection feeling. The shaft is nicely curved for g-spot stimulation. It is also fully waterproof for aquatic fun. The extender is secured with a straightforward, no-nonsense elastic harness.
if you’re still left wanting more, try the Fetish Fantasy 7″ vibrating model.
Pros
Cons
Many strap on for men extenders prioritize insertable length above all else, sometimes to scary degrees. If you are inexperienced with penetrative sex or are just looking for a moderate increase in size and girth, this is a great place to start. The size and girth are sensibly realistic, while still adding more than enough for a seriously pleasurable experience.
The shaft is firm and curved, ideal for g-spot stimulation, though it may still feel like too much if you’re used to more forgiving insertables. Unfortunately, the strap on is also made from PVC, a lower quality material than silicone.
We would recommend this as a first-time strap on experience for those who have other priorities beyond sheer size.
Doc Johnson The Double Dip
The Doc Johnson Double Dip offers something a little different from your standard strap on for men. The cock ring is designed to keep him harder for longer, while the anal probe is there to satiate her double-dipping desires. This attachment could not be more intuitive to use, simply pull the stretchy ring to the base of the penis, apply lubricant to the probe, and thrust away as you normally would.
Designed to be beginner-friendly, the non-threatening dual beads are subtly contoured and silicone-based for smooth insertion. Simultaneous vaginal and anal stimulation awaits. Though, if you’re more experienced with anal play you may prefer something a little more prominent.
Pros
Cons
If you’re already a fan of anal beads, this deceptively simple strap on for men has to be the next step in your anal adventure. Two beginner-friendly, flexible beads adorn a slim silicone shaft. Experience continual stimulation as your partner’s regular thrusting inserts and removes the beads at a pace that suits you both.
The cock ring and anal beads are two sex toys staples every couple needs to experience. Why not experience them both at the same time? The cock ring is pretty tight on this toy, which can make it a little difficult to get on. However, once it is, that tightness is going to make for one seriously firm erection.
Finally, these beads are particularly small as they are designed for a first-time experience. Anybody more experienced will likely benefit from a larger model.
Just Add Your Favorite Harness
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Anal-Safe Strap-On Dildos for Men
Looking for a high-quality, anal-friendly dildo to use alongside your new strap on for men? Here are some of the industry’s finest.
Positions to Try with Your Strap-On
With great power comes great responsibility. A new and improved penis opens the door to whole new experiences, as well as reinvigorating old ones. Here are some of the first positions you need to try once your new strap on for men arrives.
Missionary
Breathe a whole new lease of life into a trusty ol’ favorite.
Missionary is one of the most intimate positions and a great way to get started. See your partner’s eyes light up and mouth widen as they savor this new experience.
It is also ideal for gauging their enjoyment level, whether the size is just right or a little too much.
Doggy Style
Doggy is a classic and a favorite of many. This is a great experience for full length thrusts and really getting the most out of your new strap on for men.
If you are trying pegging for the first time this is also a recommended position to start with, as it gives you partner plenty of control over pacing and length of insertion.
Cowgirl
Cowgirl is one position that can really benefit from a larger penis. A longer penis makes it less likely that you will slip out mid-way through.
Hand the reigns to your partner and let them ride themselves delirious on your new ample manhood. They control the pace as well as the length of each stroke. At the end of the day, this new strap-on is really for your partner.
How to use a strap on for men
We recommend following a few simple pointers in order to get the most out of your new strap-on. Familiarize, communicate, and experiment. If you are going to be using your strap-on for pegging, we have a full rundown on how to prepare here.
Get to know your harness
If your strap on for men comes with a harness, it’s a good idea to familiarize yourself with how it works prior to getting frisky. There are few things less sexy than spending an hour fiddling with straps, buckles and buttons.
How straightforward this process is will depend on the harness you have opted for. Whether it is single/dual strap, one/two O-rings and so on. One things is for sure though, practice makes perfect!
Insert your penis
The beauty of most hollow strap-ons is that they can be used erect or flaccid. Though if you do not have a rigid extension you may find it easier to attach while at least semi-erect.
While your new strap on for men is likely to reduce the amount of sensation you will feel it is still perfectly possible to feel pleasure and climax, even while using the largest of strap-ons. we recommend lubricating your penis and the inner chamber for the most pleasurable experience.
Communicate expectations
Communication really is the most important thing when trying anything new. As your new strap on for men is likely to increase your penis length and girth quite significantly, it is important to to be receptive to your partner and ensure they are comfortable throughout.
Male strap ons can provide an effective solution for a whole range of kinks, as well as concerns. Whether you struggle with erectile dysfunction, want to practice some power play, or just want to strut around with a larger dong, make sure you and your partner are on the same page.
Experiment with new positions
Penis size and shape has a huge impact on the efficacy of different positions. What feels pleasurable with a smaller penis may be less so with a larger one and vice-versa.
Now is the time to try new positions you haven’t tried before, or to revisit old positions that didn’t quite work in the past.
If you have a double-penetrative strap on for men you may also want to experiment with what goes where – if you catch my drift (provided your toy is suitable to do so).
How to clean a strap on for men
Make sure to clean your new strap on promptly after usage to prevent bacteria build-up. If your new toy is hollow, ensure you clean both the inside and outside of the toy. Allow extra drying time for hollow toys and make sure it is stood upright to allow all the water to drain. We recommend using warm water and either non-perfumed soap or toy cleaner for the best results. Always refer to the manufacturer's specific instructions to be safe.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.