8 Best Couples Sex Toys & Vibrators

Why I Chose It

For me, getting my first C-shaped vibrator, the We-Vibe Chorus, was such a game changer for getting clitoral stimulation during sex! I love how these vibrators give you exactly what you want without needing to hold anything!

While I really love the Chorus, I chose to include the We-Vibe Sync 2 instead, as it has the most important features but at a more accessible price.

Our tester, Kasia, described it as “one of the most versatile sex toys,” and she loved that it wasn’t “only for penetrative sex but also for solo action, public play, hands-free shower fun and so much more.”

She was also pleasantly surprised that the Sync 2 was “small enough to quickly slide in, but the shape makes it stay even with more intense thrusting motions.” Although, you might find you need to use your hand to apply extra pressure against the clitoris in some positions.

The app enabled features are also great for close or long-distance control. Kasia said she “never had a problem connecting and using the We-Vibe app” and she “would rate their app at 100/100.” That being said, she also really liked the option of having a physical remote, which makes it easy to change settings during use without having to get your phone out!

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Lush 3 was the toy that really brought public play to the mainstream and in my expert opinion, it’s still one of the best out there! The Lovense app is by far one of the best I’ve used. It’s got a ton of fun features and the connectivity is the most reliable I’ve come across. This is a big part of why I picked it as the best couples sex toy for public play!

Our tester, Kasia, was also impressed by the performance of this pink pleaser! She loved that the egg “provides powerful vibrations, and it’s very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” Another big plus for discreet play is that it’s “powerful, super quiet, and extra discreet.”

Unfortunately, the tail was a bit of a letdown, as she found it that “the vibrating tip is so small and flimsy” that it was nothing of great consequence when it came to clitoral stimulation. With that in mind, I personally just wouldn’t go for this toy if I was mainly looking for clitoral stimulation but as an internal, wearable vibrator, I think it’s fantastic!

The thing that really makes the Lush 3 stand out is the impressive battery life! With up to 5 hours of play time, you can really take this thing on some adventures!

Why I Chose It

In my experience, cock ring have two big flaws — the clit stimulator doesn’t get enough contact with the clitoris and the ring tends to move around during use.

Our tester, Peter, found that this cock ring has found some clever solutions to these problems! The Lovehoney Desire Luxury Vibrating Cock Ring has a wide band that sits snugly around the base of the penis and the vibration pad has a nice texture for clitoral contact and an ergonomic teardrop shape.

As far as the performance goes, “this little devil did not disappoint with its design, feel and strong powerful vibrations”.  Peter and his wife experimented with it at firs:  “We started playing around using it in my hand on my wife to the point that she couldn’t control herself with its 12 different speed settings”. 

As a cock ring, Peter was impressed by the comfortable and snug fit that gave him “a stronger harder erection that enabled [him] to keep going for longer.”

I think this vibrating cock ring is more impressive than it looks, and I think it’s a good quality couples’ sex toy available at a pretty decent price!

Why I Chose It

In my experience, wands are some of the best toys to use with or on a partner. The long handle and broad head make it easier to hit the right spot than with a bullet vibrator. They are also suitable for stimulation all over the body and can be used on a penis or a vulva!

The reason I chose VIM as the overall best wand to use with a partner is the cordless design with a clever grippy texture that means it’s less likely to slip out of your hands!

Even though our tester, Cassie, confessed she’s not usually into wands, she actually enjoyed the “intense vibrations delivered with a broad surface area along with delicious textures.”

She enjoyed the lower setting more as they “felt nice and rumbly” but the “higher settings were more buzzy.”

Overall, this is a “super versatile, great for people with grip or mobility issues, and easy to use,” which in my expert opinion, ticks all the boxes for a great magic wand vibrator for couples!

Why I Chose It

I want to include a finger vibrator, as I feel like they are very intuitive to use and unobtrusive, making them a great couples vibrator! Our tester, Edie, loved that she had found a vibrator that was so versatile in use and in variety of sensation.

“The way it stays in place with zero effort, is fantastic, and it’s incredibly comfortable. It reaches all your sensitive spots, directly and indirectly and even gives you total labia vibrations if you place it upside down.”

While it doesn’t come with a storage bag, I like that the travel lock makes it a practical travel buddy! Something this simple, compact, versatile is perfect for couples’ pleasure on-the-go. I like that the unique design can be used to stimulate all external parts of you or your partner’s body. It’s a great all-rounder!

Edie’s main complaint about this vibrator at first, was that the vibrations traveled up through the fingers and hand quite easily. The vibrations are definitely more buzzy than rumbly. While this is a question of preference, I wouldn’t recommend this to anyone who struggles with numbness when using vibrators.

Why I Chose It

Couples vibrators tend to focus more on vulva pleasure, but I wanted to make sure everyone gets a slice of the action! This penis vibrator is designed to cradle the shaft and I personally would love the fun of using this on a partner!

Our tester, Maxie, put it though it’s paces and “absolutely enjoyed this wand vibrator!”

As well as really enjoying using it as a stroker, he really appreciated that the “penis vibrator is universal” and he could “use the actual head of the wand to simulate other areas of the body too.” In my opinion, this is another big plus when it comes to using it with a partner!

When he first started using the wand, he “preferred the first and lowest vibration” but he found himself “enjoying the different speeds and vibrations with more use of the wand.”

Another thing I really value in a partnered toy is simplicity as there’s nothing like fussing about with controls to dampen the mood! Maxie found that the Power Play wand was “a simple toy in it design and is very intuitive to use.”

Why I Chose It

I chose the Lovense Lapis as the best strap-on for couples as it’s just got so much to offer! As well as providing stimulation for the wearer and the receiver, the app enabled features, like long-distance control or vibe to music add a lot of variation!

Joseph tested it out and really liked that the “motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.”

Another big pro for him was the “gendergood feelings about having a penis” he got while wearing the Lapis!

Unfortunately, he ran into the age old problems of strapless strap-ons — “it really didn’t want to stay in place and kept sliding out.” As a sex toy expert, I have to say that, unfortunately, this issue is just a flaw of this type of toy rather being particular to the Lapis. However, I still think they are great as it means both partners get to enjoy stimulation.  I always tell people that if they want a strapless strap-on, they will probably need to wear it with a harness.

Why I Chose It

Last but certainly not least, I wanted to include a couples’ sex toy that simply enhances your usual sexual routine. Specifically designed for penis-owners to wear during penetration, this penis sleeve adds a bit of girth and texture to your experience for both parties to enjoy.

The Perfect Fit The XPlay Breeder Open Tip Penis Sleeve received an amazing review from our tester, James. The sleeve itself “is super stretchy, and the material is ridiculously soft.”

In terms of performance, James reported that “the interior texture is a bit subtle once you’re wearing it,” but that “the tightness and exposed head still deliver some fantastic sensations.” All in all, it felt amazing for both him and his partner.

This sleeve will fit most average to large penis sizes because of the stretchy material and open tip. For those with a smaller appendage, the Perfect Fit: Fat Boy Thin may be a better alternative.

As an expert, I recognize the drawback of a TPR penis sleeve. While it’s very soft and flexible, it’s definitely not as durable or body-safe as silicone. Still, for couples who are curious about trying it out, the affordability and ease of use is a huge pro. For those who prefer a silicone penis sleeve and don’t mind splurging in a high quality couples sex toy, the Vixen Colossus Penis Extender is one of my best recommendations!