The 11 Best Couples’ Sex Toys for Passionate Partner Playtime
| Couples Vibrator | Low Profile Vibrator | Stroker | Remote Control | Strap-On | Wand Vibrator | Cock Ring | Finger Vibrator | Restraints | Nipple Toy | Sex Swing |
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| We-Vibe Chorus | Dame Eva | Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage | Lovense Lush 3 | Tantus Bend Over Strap-On | Lovense Domi 2 | Fun Factory NOS | Screaming O Charged Positive | Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraints | Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers | Sportsheets Door Jam Sex Sling |
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How I Reviewed the 11 Best Couples' Sex Toys
“But Bedbible!” I hear you cry, “There are so many sex toys for couples out there, how did you narrow it down to just eleven of the best?”
That’s a great question! And I can tell you: in total, over 30 hours of research and writing have gone into this review of the best couples’ sex toys. The expertise of several sex toy specialists helped us trawl through the vast array of couples vibrators, cock rings, masturbators, strap-ons and more available on sex toy stores across the internet, seeking out those with the best attributes, reviews and value-for-money. I’ve tested several of these couples toys out myself, and have read the reviews of Bedbible testers for many of the others, so you’re getting a first-hand experience of what they’re really like to use.
After compiling this shortlist, each toy has been rated on all the features that matter to you, including design, ease of use, quality, price, power, and volume. All of these culminate in my expert overall Bedbible score. Next to that, you’ll see a User Rating — an aggregated score of each toy’s user reviews from several different online sex toy stores.
Why You Should Start Using Sex Toys as a Couple
Attitudes towards sex toys can vary wildly from couple to couple, and person to person. Some think they’re exciting and useful, and some find them intimidating and unnecessary. As I see it, there are a whole host of reasons why it can be a fantastic idea to start using sex toys as a couple. There’s the pleasure aspect, of course, but they can also be great for your relationship as a whole. Couples’ sex toys are fabulous because…
They Inspire Creativity and Exploration
A new sex toy, whether it be a couples vibrator, a stroker or a new piece of bondage gear, brings something fun and new into your bedroom. They allow you to experiment, and get playful with sex, which can be especially nice for couples who find themselves defaulting to the same moves every time. Adult toys for couples offer you new kinds of stimulation that your bodies just can’t produce on their own, and allow you to explore your body and your partner in new ways. They can even be a path to discovering new interests and kinks! Just ask our team of sex toy testers — once you start, you keep finding new things you want to try!
They Can Improve Your Communication
A couples sex toy can actually help improve the sexual communication in your relationship. With so many new sensations on the table, and different ways to use sex toys as a couple, you’ll find yourselves talking to each other about what you like, what you don’t, and what you might like to try. Most sex toys can be used in multiple ways, and it might take a few tries before your partner can make it work for you (and vice versa), so communicating through that process is almost unavoidable!
They Close the Orgasm Gap
Last, but certainly not least, we come to the issue of the orgasm gap. This is a term coined to describe the phenomenon that, in heterosexual and cisgender relationships, women tend to have much fewer orgasms during sex compared to their male partners. The biggest reason for this is that most women find it difficult or impossible to orgasm from penetration alone, and require a good amount of clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Of course, you can use a variety of manual methods to help with this, but a couples’ sex toy is another fantastic way to do it! There are many that are great for some warm-up clitoral stimulation during foreplay, as well as those that you can actually use during penetrative sex.
FAQ
What are Couples' Sex Toys?
A couples' sex toy is, as you might expect, any sex toy that you can use together as a couple! It's a term often used to describe vibrators, or other sex toys, that can be used during penetrative sex, but, in reality, the range is much broader than that. A penis stroker that your partner can use on you? That's a couples' sex toy. A vibrating butt plug that your partner can control with a remote? That's a couples' sex toy, too! A piece of sex furniture that allows you to explore new positions? You guessed it: it's a couples' sex toy.
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The 11 Best couples' sex toys in Test
We-Vibe Chorus
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Discreet shipping & billingShipping rate: $8FREE shipping on orders $99+In the world of couples’ sex toys, C-shaped, wearable vibrators like the We-Vibe Chorus are pretty much the pinnacle of pleasure. The genius thing about them is that they provide hands-free vibrations to both the wearer and the penetrating partner, allowing you both to enjoy enhanced and oh-so enjoyable sex together. The Chorus has two arms, each with a powerful motor inside: an insertable portion that sits snugly against the front wall of the vagina, right next to the g-spot, and an external arm that lays on top of the clitoris for incredible blended sensations. The insertable arm is flat on the back so that it doesn’t get in the way of penetration, and there are two posable joints so you can find your perfect fit.
Plus, with your We-Vibe Chorus, you’ll receive a handy remote control to easily switch between the 10 vibration modes. It even has an innovative squeeze function to allow you to adjust the intensity intuitively. If that’s not enough, you can also connect the Chorus to the We-Vibe app and enjoy custom settings and patterns!
The We-Vibe Chorus was rated 5 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Chorus felt to the reviewer.
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Chorus felt to the reviewer.
Enjoy clitoral stimulation during penetrative sexStruggle to orgasm through penetrative sex aloneLove internal and external stimulation at the same timeWant a couples' sex toy that provides you both with pleasure!
Are looking for a reliable long-distance sex toyKnow that you have a very slim or tight vaginaAre on a budget| Vibration speeds | 4 |
| Vibration patterns | 6 |
| Length | 3.5 inches |
| Insertable length | 3 inches |
| Diameter | (Insertable Portion) 1 inches |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Battery Life | 90 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes, Comes With a Charging Dock |
| Charging Time | 120 minutes |
| Travel Lock | Yes |
| Remote Controls | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Purple, Pink, Blue, Coral |
Strong, rumbly vibrations for both of youDual stimulation for blended orgasmsWearable during sexRemote control with squeeze functionTwo adjustable joints
May not fit all bodiesApp can be unreliableOnly designed for PIV (penis in vagina) sexThe We-Vibe Chorus is a perennial favorite here at Bedbible HQ — Isabelle, our tester, is always willing to sing its praises, and I will, too! For couples looking for a sex toy that feels intuitive and natural to use, whilst providing them both with sensational rumbly vibrations, you can’t get much better than this partner sex toy.
Of course, if there aren’t any vagina-owners in your partnership, then this might not be the toy for you. However, if you or your partner craves some extra clitoral stimulation during PIV (penis in vagina) or DIV (dildo in vagina) sex, ditch that cheap bullet and invest in something truly mind-blowing!
Dame Eva
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Discreet shipping & billing$5 off with email sign-up FREE shipping on orders $69+The Dame Eva is a result of two women’s quest to create a sex toy that closes the orgasm gap, and gives vulva-owners the pleasure they deserve during sex. In fact, it ended up being the most crowdfunded sex toy in history! And what came out of it was this tiny, strange-looking vibrator that can be worn without needing to hold it in place.
The Eva has two flexible arms that you place inside your outer labia, anchoring it in place on top of your clitoris. The ridge on the back provides some precise, direct stimulation to your clit, all without the need to hold it. The best part, however, is how compact it is. If you find yourself lacking clitoral stimulation in positions like missionary, the Dame Eva solves that problem immediately, without getting in the way of your partner. It’s like a little pocket rocket!
The Dame Eva was rated 10 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Dame Eva was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Eva felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Dame Eva was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Eva felt to the reviewer.
Find it difficult to orgasm from penetration aloneWant a sex toy you can use during sex that won't get in the wayLike the idea of a using a vibrator hands-freeAre interested in trying something different!Prefer rumbly vibrations over buzzyAre looking for a quiet couples' sex toyAre on a budgetAren't prepared for some learning and adjustment| Vibration speeds | 3 |
| Length | 1.7 inches |
| Width | (Without Wings) 1.3 inches, (With Wings) 2.4 inches |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Materials | Medical-grade silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Battery Life | At least 60 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes, Comes With a Charging Dock |
| Charging Time | 240 minutes |
| Travel Lock | No |
| Remote Controls | No |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Pink, Blue, Orange |
Designed to not get in the way during sexHands-free designAdjustable armsVery buzzy vibrationsCan be loudMay not stay in place (especially with lube)Less practical for some positionsThere are a lot of mixed opinions out there about the Dame Eva, but, having tested it myself with my partner, I can say that it’s fantastic at what it does. The three vibration modes are certainly buzzy, but, surprisingly, that wasn’t off-putting. The vibes are amazingly intense, and this little couples’ sex toy was a total game-changer when it came to what sex felt like for me.
In the beginning, it can be difficult to get it to stay in place, but there are two tricks to it. 1: Be sparing with the lube — you can add a small amount to your clit, but wipe off your labia before placing it. 2: Turn on the vibrations before you place it, to avoid pushing it out of position later. These should help you enjoy the Eva hands-free, though, if you’re in doggy-style, or some more adventurous sex positions, you might need a finger to hold it in place.
Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage
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Discreet shipping & billingLoyalty program & Free cams FREE shipping on orders $99+Time for a little penis-focused pleasure! The Quickshot Vantage is a Fleshlight as you may not have seen it before, with a double-ended design and a compact size that makes it perfect for partner play. Just lube it up and enjoy the textured, squishy sleeve as you partner strokes it up and down. Since it’s open-ended, it can also make an incredible accompaniment to a blowjob, providing an almost overwhelming amount of stimulation all the way along your shaft. Thanks to the clear ‘ice’ material, you and your partner can also see everything and enjoy the visual stimulation as well as the physical.
The Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage was rated 10 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Are looking for a cheaper Fleshlight modelWant a stroker that's easy to cleanLike the idea of using a stroker during oral sexWant to be able to see the action!Want a very realistic-feeling strokerWould prefer a masturbator with a closed endAre on a budgetAre looking for a couples toy that pleasures you both| Length | 4.4 inches |
| Insertable length | 3.5 inches |
| Diameter | 2.5 inches |
| Diameter (internal) | 0.75 inches |
| Adjustable | No |
| Materials | TPE/TPR 'Superskin', ABS Plastic |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | Comes with end caps |
| Colors Available | Clear |
Compact sizeGreat for use during blowjobsEasy to cleanAffordable Fleshlight modelDoesn't cover the whole penisPorous Superskin TPE materialStill fairly expensiveThe Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage is perfect for foreplay, or anytime when you don’t want to engage in penetrative sex. With it’s clear material and non-anatomical openings, it’s much more discreet and natural to use, making it a very appealing sex toy for couples!
Having an open end also makes clean up a whole lot easier, though you should still take care to clean the Quickshot sleeve thoroughly. Also, since it’s made of porous TPE, it will be harder to clean that a silicone masturbator.
Lovense Lush 3
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Discreet shipping & billing1-year warrantyAward-winning brand Discreet shipping & billingTheir website ROCKS!FREE shipping on orders $68+Discreet shipping & billing15% off with email sign-up FREE shipping on orders $79+The Lovense Lush 3 is one of the most popular sex toys around today, and for good reason! If you’re looking for a sex toy that allows you to interact as a couple, wherever you are, this is it.
The Lush 3 is a remote-control egg vibrator that you insert into the vagina, providing a satisfying feeling of fullness and plenty of rumbly vibrations. The flexible silicone tail helps you to retrieve it, but also acts as a clitoral vibrator, bringing you to stunning blended orgasms. It’s great for the bedroom, of course, but is just at home out in public, if that’s your jam. Simply connect it up to the Lovense Remote app, slip it in and have your partner control the intensity and pattern of the vibes. With WiFi controls, they can take charge from anywhere in the world!
The Lovense Lush 3 was rated 20 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 felt to the reviewer.
Are in a long-distance relationshipAre for a discreet sex toy for public playEnjoy powerful vibrations on your g-spotLove customizing your vibrator functionsNeed strong clitoral stimulation to orgasmWant a couples sex toy for anal playAre looking for a toy to pleasure both partners| Vibration speeds | 3 (+ more in-app) |
| Vibration patterns | 10 (+ more in-app) |
| Length | 4.76 inches |
| Insertable length | 3 inches |
| Diameter | 1.5 inches |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Battery Life | 300 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Charging Time | 85 minutes |
| Travel Lock | Yes |
| Remote Controls | Yes, app-enabled |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Pink |
Comfortable to wearGreat for discreet public playPowerful vibrationsLots of features in the Lovense appLong-battery lifeMay not fit all bodiesWeaker clitoral vibrationsNot totally silentThe Lovense Remote app is one of the most powerful of all sex toy apps, allowing you to access tons of customization and syncing options for your couples sex toy. If you’re up for some experimentation, I highly recommend giving the Lovense Lush 3 a go and seeing where it can take you.
Since this love egg is meant to be inserted vaginally, it’s only suitable for vulva-owners to try. You should not try to use it anally, as it doesn’t have a flared base and could easily go too far up the anal canal, necessitating an unpleasant trip to the ER.
Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit
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The smaller dildo is perfect for first-timers, especially if you’re going anally, while the larger dildo is the ideal next step for the more confident users. Both dildos also have a pleasing curve to them, which is exactly what you need to give your partner the most g-spot or p-spot pleasure!
The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 35 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Are curious about pegging!Are looking for a strap-on kit for newbiesDon't already own a strap-on harnessWant a strap-on kit you can grow withAlready have a preferred strap-on harnessPrefer realistic, textured dildosHave hips larger than 60 inches| Vibration speeds | 1 |
| Length | Small Dildo: 4.5 inches, Large Dildo: 5.5 inches |
| Insertable length | Small Dildo: 4 inches, Large Dildo: 5.3 inches |
| Diameter | Small Dildo: 0.8 inches, Large Dildo: 1 inches |
| Harness Size | Fits Hips From 24 to 60 inches |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Materials | Dildos: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Nylon |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Rechargeable | No, Vibrator Uses 3 LR44 Batteries |
| Travel Lock | No |
| Remote Controls | No |
| Storage Bag Included | No |
| Colors Available | Purple, Black |
Comes with everything you need to get startedBody-safe silicone dildosTwo different dildo sizes to tryComes with a removable bullet vibratorOnly one vibration settingDildos have no textureMay not fit all bodiesThe Tantus Bend Over set is a fantastic starter strap-on set for the curious couples among us. Whether you’re a lesbian couple looking to experience some intimate penetration, or a heterosexual couple interested in the potential power-play dynamics of pegging, this is a couples’ sex toy that can help you explore with ease and enjoyment. The non-phallic design is also unintimidating enough for anyone to use.
My only caution would be to those who know they enjoy bigger dildos, or have a fair amount of strap-on experience under their belt. This strap-on kit is on the basic side, and you may be disappointed at the length or girth of the dildos. However, there are plenty more couples strap-ons to explore!
Lovense Domi 2