The 16 Best Pieces of Bondage Gear for Banging BDSM
| Test Winner | Gag | Cheapest | Beginner | Restraint | Nipple Clamps | Spanking Paddle | Cock Ring | Bed Restraints | Bondage Kit | Clit Clamp | Rope | Cuffs | Cock cage | Position aid | Sex Swing |
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| Seduce Me Lover's Bed Bondage Kit | Ball Gag Training System | Satin Blindfold | Tease Feather Tickler | Neck and Wrist Restraints | Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Clamps | Slut Slapper | Oxballs Cocksling 2 | Bed Restraint System | All You Need Bondage Kit | Beaded Clitoral Clamp | Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit | Quickie Cuffs | Man Cage Chastity Cage | Liberator Wedge | Screamer Sex Swing |
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How did we choose and test this bondage gear?
We want to make sure we’ve left no stone uncovered when it comes to bringing you high-quality bondage gear, which is why we put in hours of research, expert opinions, customer reviews and in depth personal reviews from our sex toy testers in every review!
But, we also know that a score doesn’t tell the whole story as everyone is different, so as well as these scores, we make sure to think about who the product would work best for and what types of play it’s best suited to. For example, when it comes to getting the right bondage gear, a bondage beginner and a more advanced player are going to need very different products, so we make sure to give you ALL the information you need to select your perfect toy!
Different Types of bondage Gear
Bondage gear refers mainly to the different types of restraints you can use to lock up your partner but we’ve also included some other BDSM classics to use once you’ve got them securely in place!
- Restraints — Restraints can be used for all kinds of bondage play. Handcuffs are the most common type of restraint and a great starting point for beginners. Rope bondage gear gives you more freedom to make your own restraints, but pre-made restraints, such as hog ties or thigh – cuff restraints.
- Impact Play Tools — Impact play tools create a sense of anticipation and excitement as well as increasing blood flow and sensitivity. It can be a thrilling addition to dom/sub play and also makes for a good BDSM punishment. Floggers and spanking paddles are a good place to start as you can use them for more gentle impact play. Canes are better suited to more experienced users.
- Sensation Play Tools — Toys such as pinwheels or feather ticklers are great for creating a range of sensations that put the body into a state of high alert.
- Sensory deprivation/submission — Taking away one of the senses is a great way to create a feeling of submission and heighten the other senses. Blindfolds are perfect for beginners, while ball gags and masks are great for taking things to the next level.
FAQ
What is bondage gear?
Bondage makes up the B in BDSM. It includes all forms of sexual restraint from hand cuffs right up to full body restraint and suspension. Bondage creates a feeling of submission that can be extremely freeing for some people. Bondage is commonly accompanied by the other members of the BDSM gang — Dominance/Discipline Submission/Sadism and Masochism, which is why we've also included some of out favorite BDSM tools! It doesn't have to be though, bondage can be enjoyed as a form of stimulation itself or with more vanilla sexual activities, so anyone who wants to can enjoy a bit of bondage!
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The 16 Best pieces of bondage gear in Test
Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover's Bed Bondage Kit
This bondage kit combines sexy with spicy and is the perfect way to stock up your bondage supplies!
Tie your partner down using the mattress restraint kit, slip the soft, fur-lined blindfold over their eyes, and use the gag to muffle their groans as you tease and tickle with the flogger!
Plus, all of the restraints are velcro fastening for quick and easy restraint and lined with faux-fur for a truly luxurious experience!
Here’s what you get:
Blindfold: adjustable from 19.5 – 23.5 inches
Wrist cuffs: adjustable up to 10.5 inches
Ankle cuffs: adjustable up to 12.5 inches
Ball gag: adjustable 16 – 22 inches
Bed Straps: Fits any mattress up to King Size
The Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover's Bed Bondage Kit was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Want a full kitLove cute bondage gear Want to explore restraint and sensation play
Prefer a more industrial BDSM lookNeed very heavy duty restraints| Diameter | Ball gag: 1.75 inches |
| Materials | Ball gag: silicone, Restraints: Velcro, webbing, faux fur, faux leather |
| Adjustable | Yes (Restraints) |
Complete kitMatching metallic pink designFaux fur lined restraints Silicone ball gagAdjustable bed restraints
Pink won't suit all tastesFlogger is a little small I chose this bondage kit as today’s test winner because not only does it look incredible, but it’s also great quality and really versatile for exploring restraint and sensation play!
And the other users agree! This kit has received overwhelmingly positive reviews with people loving how soft and comfortable the restraints are and how easy the kit makes it to get into bondage play!
This really is the perfect recipe for a spicy weekend at home or away!
Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag Training System
This clever kit is perfect if you want to up your gag game! Feel the submission as your partner fastens the buckle behind your head, leaving you gagged and at their mercy, the ball muffling your groans!
With three interchangeable balls to choose from, you can start out with the smallest ball work your way up the biggest for more extreme submission. The balls simply snap onto the adjustable, faux leather strap, making it quick and easy to switch out the balls.
With breathable balls, this kit is ideal for beginners or anyone who prefers the safety of a breathable gag. And as if that wasn’t enough, the set also comes with a free blindfold to take you deeper into sensory deprivation.
The Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag Training System was rated 20 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Have some experience with gagsWant to work up to bigger gagsWant to share the gag with a partner Enjoy drool play Prefer silicone gagsDon't want a breathable gagNeed a very strong gag for more extreme play| Diameter | (S) 1.5 inches, (M) 1.75 inches, (L) 2 inches |
| Length | 28 inches inches |
| Materials | Faux leather |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Fastening | Buckle |
Three interchangeable ball sizes BreathableBeginner friendlyBuckle fasteningFree blindfoldBalls are not solidTricky to clean the strap through the ballThis versatile kit is really great value for money for anyone looking take submission to the next level with gag play. Having three sized balls to choose from is ideal if you are not sure which size will suit you best or you want to train yourself to wear a larger size.
It’s also great if you and your partner both want to use the gag. I also love that the balls are breathable, making it more comfortable to wear and giving you peace of mind.
The balls are hollow and not made from the thickest plastic, so they can cave in if you bite down on them, so be a little careful when wearing them. If you do prefer something you can be a bit rougher with, I would suggest a ball gag with a silicone ball.
Lovehoney Oh! Satin Blindfold
Dip your toes into sensory deprivation and see how your other senses heighten! Feel the anticipation waiting for your partner’s next touch!
Blindfolds are perfect for bondage beginners and more advanced tastes alike and make the perfect addition to all kinds of fun!
This soft satin blindfold slips on easily and the furry lining keeps you comfortable, so you can focus purely on your pleasure.
The Lovehoney Oh! Satin Blindfold was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
want to explore sensory deprivationlove the feel of soft satinare on a budgetprefer leather want a shaped/fitted blindfoldwant complete coverage| Materials | Satin |
| Adjustable | No |
| Fastening | Elastic |
Silky satin and soft furEasy to get on and offGreat value for moneyCan let in a little light Might be a little tight on bigger headsThis blindfold makes for a very affordable addition to your bondage toolkit. It’s soft and comfortable to wear and will fit most size heads. If you have a larger head, the straps might be a little tight or become over-stretched, so keep that in mind. While it’s one of the more basic bondage supplies, it can add a lot of fun to all your BDSM adventures.
Combining bondage restraints with a blindfold creates a strong sense of submission that can be really exciting!
The basic shape does a pretty good job of limiting your sight but some light does get in the bottom so you can peek out if you want to! Other than that, it’s super comfy!
Fifty Shades of Grey Tease Feather Tickler
Tease your partner into a frenzy with this feather tickler from Fifty Shades of Grey.
The long thin handle is topped with elegant grey ostrich feathers is perfect for hunting out those sweetly sensitive spots and making your partner squirm.
The soft feathers brushing over your skin heightens your senses leaving your body tingling and ready for more! I love combining a feather tickler with an impact toy like a spanking paddle.
The Fifty Shades of Grey Tease Feather Tickler was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
love tickling torturewant to explore sensory play are a Fifty Shades fanprefer a sold or stronger handledon't like the branding | Length | 14 inches |
| Materials | Ostrich feathers |
Elegant designSoft ostrich feathersLong handle for easy reachCan lose feathersSmall head of feathersThe feathers on this tickler are super soft but it would be nice if there were a few more of them. The long handle makes it really easy to trace the feathers lightly over your partner’s whole body, especially if they are lying down on the bed.
I like the classic grey and black design as it will go with pretty much any style, and if you don’t like the Fifty Shades franchise, you can easily remove the label.
The only downside is that the tickler can lose a few feathers during use.
Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraints
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Discreet shipping & billing15% off with email sign-up FREE shipping on orders $99+Secure your partner’s hands tightly behind their back while you take control of their pleasure with this collar to wrist restraint set from Sportsheets. You can also flip it around to have your partner’s arms restrained at the front, giving you more ways to enjoy this restraint set!
The adjustable restraint set is padded with Neoprene to keep the wearer comfortable while they their partner makes them squirm.
The cuffs fasten with velcro, meaning you can have your partner locked into place and ready to play in a matter of seconds. The additional D-rings can also be attached to other restraints for more intense play.
The Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraints was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
want to explore upper body restraintlove feeling submissiveprefer velcro fasteningenjoy leash playwant restraints with bucklesprefer leather| Length | 20 inches |
| Materials | Velcro, neoprene, webbing, nickel-free metal |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Fastening | Velcro |
Soft, padded cuffs and collarAdjustableCan be worn 2 waysCompatible with other restraintsVelcro might not suit more extreme bondageThis restraint sets is the perfect combination of comfort and excitement. The cuffs and collar keep you comfortable so you aren’t distracted from the real fun.
The velcro fastenings are great for bondage beginners or anyone who likes the speed and ease of velcro. This won’t suit those looking for more intense bondage or lockable cuffs, but you can always use your own cuffs with the collar restraint.
The set is well made, and I love that you can use it both ways for more variety or even add other restraints, such as bondage rope.
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