Bedbible Tester Team

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Introducing toys into our bedroom was a game-changer in my marriage. They helped us break through the awkwardness of asking for what we truly desired, revealing that we were both eager to explore and please each other. While I’m passionate about spreading the gospel of how transformative sex toys can be, it’s not exactly the easiest conversation to start face to face. That’s why, in my reviews, I aim to connect with those who might be curious but hesitant, hoping my insights give them the confidence to take the plunge and enhance their own intimate connections.

I began using Toys as part of a holistic approach to treating physical dysfunctions. Urethral stretching and sounds,  Anal stretching, and now into colon training. My experimentation is a result of finding treatments for things that doctors only wanted to give me prescriptions for or to cut me open. Of course along the way I also realized the orgasmic benefits of Toys, and to this end I’m delving into the pleasure aspects and toy types. I am a life long DIYer and I enjoy hours of research when trying anything new. I was forced to overcome shame to truly begin healing my body and mind. Now I want nothing more than to shout from the rooftops my discoveries and continue to explore. I like teaching others that are of a mind to learn. Likewise it’s so much fun to try and learn new things. Perhaps I’m a bit a masochistic at times, but it’s about feeling physically and emotionally, things that bring relief and pleasure.